Man Cheats On Sick Wife And Marries Affair Partner, Calls Teen Bitter For Telling People The Truth

Every stepparent hopes they’ll be able to build meaningful relationships with their stepkids, and that’s why they might work hard to connect with them. Despite these hopes, not every blended family functions so smoothly, and some might even be rife with conflict.

That’s what happened in one family because the teen couldn’t get over her grudge against her dad, who cheated on her mom while she had cancer, and then married his affair partner. That’s why she decided to expose them when a neighbor asked how she felt about having a stepmom.

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Kids in blended families might struggle with feelings of betrayal, especially if their parent seems to be moving on too quickly

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The poster shared that she had been invited to celebrate her birthday with her dad and stepmom, but that she was reluctant to go as she wasn’t on good terms with them

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The poster’s dislike of her stepmother was because she had been her dad’s affair partner when he had been married to his first wife, all while she had cancer

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Due to the bad blood between her and her dad’s affair partner, the teen revealed how she truly felt when a neighbor asked for her thoughts on being in a blended family

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The teen’s honesty caused her stepmom a lot of embarrassment and angered her dad, who said she was hard to love and that he didn’t want her to come over anymore

The poster clearly had a fractured relationship with her dad and stepmom, especially since he had moved on so easily from his first marriage and seemed to “love his new family more.” She also didn’t like to spend time with her stepmother, who only cared about maintaining her lifestyle and bragging about everything she did.

In blended families like this, where children and parents can’t seem to connect, experts suggest slowly building honesty and transparency so that the relationship can heal. This means that parents should make an effort to include their kids in their new lives, and also respect how much time it might take for the children to adjust to it.

It seems like the dad in this story did the exact opposite because he very easily moved on with his affair partner without thinking of his ex and children. That’s probably why the OP was angry with him, as she couldn’t believe that he had cheated on her biological mom when she had cancer and married his mistress.

It definitely seems shocking that the man had committed infidelity when his wife was sick, but studies have found that 20.8% of female survivors of cancer end up divorced or separated, while this happens to only 2.9% of male survivors. That’s exactly what the poster’s mom went through, and she suddenly found herself cheated on and left with no support.

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The OP tried her best to stay away from her dad and stepmom because of how their relationship had come to be, but she often had to visit them because of the custody arrangements. That’s why when a neighbor asked her how she felt about having a stepmother or being in a blended family, she told the other woman the truth.

She revealed that she didn’t even consider them to be her family because of their affair and how it had affected her mother. This obviously shocked the other lady, who did not know what to say after that, and it left the dad and stepmom feeling enraged and embarrassed.

Although it might have seemed rude of the teen to have blurted out her family secrets, professionals explain that kids whose parents have had an affair might struggle with feelings of resentment and anger. They might not know how to deal with such emotions, especially if their parent tries to brush the whole situation under the rug.

That’s exactly what happened to the poster, who had to face her dad’s wrath and her stepmom’s denial after telling the truth. She was also shocked when her father said that she was hard to love and that he had decided to stop having her over because of his wife’s angry ultimatum.

What do you think of the teen’s truth-telling, and do you feel she should have kept her dad’s affair a secret? Do share your honest thoughts on this story in the comments below.

Most people took the teen’s side and felt that her father was a failure for betraying her biological mother and then being so willing to cut her off, too

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