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Woman Takes Daughter To Therapy, Gets Upset She Actually Talks About Family Issues
If there’s one person in the world that you should feel comfortable sharing everything with, it’s your therapist. Their job is to listen without judgment and help you work through whatever issues you’re struggling with. Plus, there’s very little you could tell them that would shock them. I’m sure they’ve heard it all before.
But there are a few things patients can say that require the mental health professional to file a report. When one teen was honest with her therapist about her mom’s behavior, she ended up getting a visit from child protective services. Now, she’s wondering if she should have kept her mouth shut. Below, you’ll find the full story that the teen shared on Reddit, as well as some of the replies invested readers left her.
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Patients should feel comfortable sharing anything with their therapist
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But this teen began to wonder if she had said too much after opening up about her mom’s behavior
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Later, the teen revealed that she got a visit from child protective services
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Finally, the teen shared another update on her situation
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Therapy can be extremely beneficial for teenagers
Being a teenager isn’t easy. You’re pumped full of hormones as your body goes through puberty, and you’re starting to feel like an adult, while everyone insists on treating you like a child. You might feel angsty and frustrated, but talking about your feelings may seem like an impossible task. You want to be accepted by your peers, but you’re trying to figure out exactly who you are.
Adolescence is an overwhelming and confusing time, which is why many teens can benefit from going to therapy. Peace Behavior Health notes on their site that speaking with a therapist can help teenagers regulate their emotions, reduce their stress, improve their social skills, and regulate their behavior.
Considering the fact that 20% of adolescents experience a mental health problem in any given year, having someone to talk to can be extremely beneficial for teens.
It’s not always easy to open up to their parents, and even talking to friends can be scary if they have a history of being judgmental or spreading secrets with others. Therapy is a safe space for teens to discuss what’s going on inside their heads.
However, it’s not always guaranteed that everything discussed in therapy will stay a secret. Opening up about the bizarre dream you had or the crush you have on your neighbor will definitely remain confidential. But Stop It Now notes that there are a few situations where a therapist may need to report something for their patient’s safety.
What exactly requires a report depends on the local laws where you live, but it’s often anything a patient says that leads the therapist to believe they are in danger or that they pose a threat to themself or others. It also must be reported if the therapist believes a child is in danger while with their parents.
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It’s important for CPS to get involved any time a child may be in danger
Now, it’s clear why child protective services were contacted in this situation, given what the author shared about her mother. But as far as whether or not CPS can interview a child at their school, Minella Law Group says it depends.
Apparently, it is possible if the parent has given CPS consent, CPS has obtained a court order, exigent circumstances exist, or if there is reasonable suspicion that the child has been harmed by their parents or guardians.
It’s also important that the interview is conducted in a neutral setting, and the child must have the opportunity to have a teacher or school administrator present in their interview. The interviewers must also assure the child that they don’t have to answer any questions they don’t want to, and they can leave the interview at any time.
It can be scary for children to be in this situation, so it’s understandable for them to worry about sharing what it’s like in their home. But unfortunately, not all kids are safe around their parents. So it’s important for CPS to remove minors from any situation where they’re experiencing harm.
The National Children’s Alliance reports that U.S. authorities know of over 558,000 children who have been harmed or neglected by their guardians. That’s a devastating statistic, but it’s crucial for authorities to know what’s going on so they can work to stop it.
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Later, the teen responded to several readers and revealed more details
Readers assured the author that she had done absolutely nothing wrong, and many urged her to speak up about her mom’s behavior
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Lyone Fein 14 hours ago
I don’t believe that her therapist revealed the details of what she said to her mother figure. I think what happened was that the therapist simply told the mother that a report to CPS had to be submitted, because therapists are mandatory reporters just like doctors, teachers, clergy.
Sally Moen 19 hours ago
Her mom ab uses her then gets mad that she tells her therapist what happened and blames her for talking. Is that why she and her mom are in therapy? And when her mom picks her up she takes her away for an hour to berate her and blame her for what the mom did. To top it all off, she blames herself for the whole situation. Grrrl. I am so glad you have a responsible caring therapist! Without them, the slapping, name-calling, blaming, transference, all of the rest, that was still happening, and she had nobody all the way in her corner, nobody fully paying attention and looking. Now she does. Of COURSE her mom is mad! She's being held accountable. This teenager is growing up and trying to heal from being hurt and the mom is upset she is rocking the boat that is running towards the rocks. It's normal to be angry and sad. It really hurts on Mother's Day when you don't get to have a loving mom. Best wishes to OP for her continued therapy and life.
Kristin 11 hours ago
Good god this bright back some memories. I had a extremely a*****e mother. If anyone has read the book a child called it, that was legit my life. She tried to off me 3 different times as a baby as well. Sadly, situations like that were different back then and a***e was a secret or nobody wanted to get involved. The last straw was when I went to school with hand marks around my neck, all for falling asleep and not putting food away when my egg donor got home (she worked 3pm to 1am) finally was taken and spent time in 36 foster homes until I was 18 and kicked to the curb with nobody and nothing.
Lyone Fein 14 hours ago
I don’t believe that her therapist revealed the details of what she said to her mother figure. I think what happened was that the therapist simply told the mother that a report to CPS had to be submitted, because therapists are mandatory reporters just like doctors, teachers, clergy.
Sally Moen 19 hours ago
Her mom ab uses her then gets mad that she tells her therapist what happened and blames her for talking. Is that why she and her mom are in therapy? And when her mom picks her up she takes her away for an hour to berate her and blame her for what the mom did. To top it all off, she blames herself for the whole situation. Grrrl. I am so glad you have a responsible caring therapist! Without them, the slapping, name-calling, blaming, transference, all of the rest, that was still happening, and she had nobody all the way in her corner, nobody fully paying attention and looking. Now she does. Of COURSE her mom is mad! She's being held accountable. This teenager is growing up and trying to heal from being hurt and the mom is upset she is rocking the boat that is running towards the rocks. It's normal to be angry and sad. It really hurts on Mother's Day when you don't get to have a loving mom. Best wishes to OP for her continued therapy and life.
Kristin 11 hours ago
Good god this bright back some memories. I had a extremely a*****e mother. If anyone has read the book a child called it, that was legit my life. She tried to off me 3 different times as a baby as well. Sadly, situations like that were different back then and a***e was a secret or nobody wanted to get involved. The last straw was when I went to school with hand marks around my neck, all for falling asleep and not putting food away when my egg donor got home (she worked 3pm to 1am) finally was taken and spent time in 36 foster homes until I was 18 and kicked to the curb with nobody and nothing.
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