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24YO Ignores Grieving Mom After Dad’s Death, Attacks Her When She Refuses To Hand Over Inheritance
24YO Ignores Grieving Mom After Dad’s Death, Attacks Her When She Refuses To Hand Over Inheritance

24YO Ignores Grieving Mom After Dad’s Death, Attacks Her When She Refuses To Hand Over Inheritance

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They say money can’t buy happiness, but boy, it sure can cause some drama. When there’s a fat inheritance on the table, all bets are off. You’ve got siblings side-eyeing each other, long-lost cousins suddenly reappearing, and legal papers that magically appear out of nowhere. But one thing’s for sure – it can get really messy, really fast.

The sparkly temptation of a little extra cash makes people forget that maybe, just maybe, relationships matter more than the fancy heirlooms. Just ask our Redditor, she’ll tell you all about it. But you’ll need some popcorn for this one.

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    One mom found herself in an inheritance dispute with her daughter over her late husband’s assets, and it sure wasn’t pretty

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    When her husband passed away, he didn’t leave a will, so the mom inherited all his assets, but the daughter was less than thrilled about it

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    The daughter showed up at mom’s house with a lawyer, demanding she sign all her assets over to her, but mom refused, and the daughter attacked her

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    After the fight, the mom cashed in on all the assets, bought a home far away and moved there, living her best life, not giving anything to her daughter

    This Redditor shared how her family’s situation spiraled so fast, you’ll need to pause and read the story again, just to be sure. After losing both her husband and son, you’d expect the daughter to be by her mom’s side, right? Nope. The daughter took a hard left into Shadyville, and things just went downhill from there.

    Now, this daughter wasn’t always the villain in this story. Back in the day, she was the kind of kid parents brag about – sweet, caring, and always down for Sunday brunch. But once she got married, it was like she vanished into thin air. No more calls, no more visits. The switch-up was real, folks. If you ask me, that’s the first red flag right there.

    Six months after the dad passed away, the daughter rolled up at her mom’s house with said new husband and a very shady lawyer. I don’t know about you, but that doesn’t sound like your usual family visit to me. And it really wasn’t just a casual “Hey, how are you doing?” It was more like “Sign this now or else!”

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    The daughter brought with her a bunch of mysterious documents and even had the nerve to pull out a blank sheet of paper for her mom to sign. Apparently, she wanted mom to transfer all the assets she inherited from dad to her and her husband’s names. Seriously, who does that? Apparently, this lady.

    But our mom knew better. She wasn’t about to sign her life away just because her daughter brought backup. You can imagine things got heated fast, and the daughter became violent with her mom for refusing to sign the shady documents. Yup, she literally attacked her own mom like it was some MMA tryout.

    Luckily, her neighbor was there to step in and save the day. He kicked the daughter and her little posse right out. Good work, dude!

    After all the drama, mom wasn’t about to sit around and wait for round two. No way. She decided to sell the house, her late husband’s assets, and basically everything, cashing out with 7 figures. And let me tell you, she’s living her best life now. She’s off the grid, probably sipping cocktails somewhere, while her daughter is left scrambling, regretting that failed takeover. And you know what? No inheritance for you!

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    But why do inheritances always seem to turn dinners into episodes of real Housewives? Seriously, the second money’s involved, it’s like everyone forgets they’re supposed to be family and not contestants on some reality show. So, why does a fat stack of cash bring out the worst in some people? Well, in some cases, that inheritance drama isn’t even about the cash. It’s about what each asset symbolizes.

    However, it’s pretty clear that the daughter in our story was only after the cash. She didn’t even attend her dad’s funeral, or check in on her mom for 6 months, but somehow thought she could show up with a shady lawyer and a blank sheet of paper to muscle her way into the fortune.

    It might be good to know that, if you’re trying to pull some sneaky stunt like forcing mom to sign away her assets under pressure, you could easily find yourself in hot water.

    As the law states, “Being pressured to sign a contract under duress, also called coercion, means you’re signing it against your will. In extreme cases, a party may threaten physical violence or even death unless you sign. Psychological pressure or lies about what could happen if you don’t sign may also be considered duress.”

    If the mom didn’t want to sign those papers, she was well withing her rights to say no. And as far as trying to force a thumbprint out of her? That’s a whole other level of shady that could’ve landed the daughter in serious legal trouble, and her lawyer for that matter.

    So, what’s the final verdict here? Is mom the villain for cutting off her daughter, or is she just finally putting herself first? Share your thoughts below.

    Netizens side with the woman, saying she has every right to do whatever she wants with her money

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    Monica Selvi

    Monica Selvi

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    Hi! I'm Moni. I’m a globetrotting creative with a camera in one hand and a notebook in the other. I’ve lived in 4 different countries, an visited 17, soaking up inspiration wherever I go. A marketer by trade but a writer at heart, I’ve been crafting stories, poems, and songs, and creating quirky characters since I was 7.

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    Monica Selvi

    Monica Selvi

    Writer, BoredPanda staff

    Hi! I'm Moni. I’m a globetrotting creative with a camera in one hand and a notebook in the other. I’ve lived in 4 different countries, an visited 17, soaking up inspiration wherever I go. A marketer by trade but a writer at heart, I’ve been crafting stories, poems, and songs, and creating quirky characters since I was 7.

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    JB
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It does seem like an unlikely tale involving a lawyer but then I think of Rudy Giuliani and the Supreme Court in the USA. Who would have thought that a lawyer would support an attempted coup to overturn American democracy? Who would have predicted that women and doctors would face jail time for choosing a heartbreaking option to not go ahead with pregnancy? The conservatives suggest termination is a common form of birth control. It isn’t and never has been. There’s a chance they may have a woman in charge for the first time. I hope the USA grabs on to this chance with all the votes. Not saying the guys haven’t done the best they could but it’s long overdue for the land of the free.

    Tom De Paul
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What in this entire post has anything to do with abortion? Reading comprehension is a thing.

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    TribbleThinking
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would strongly advise taking all necessary legal steps to document your mental competence, the neighbour's testimony regarding her behaviour, and completely writing her out of your will. The last bit is not so much vindictiveness as self protection, as you have seen how much she values your interests; just imagine how much she would guard your physical wellbeing when it's what stands between her and ownership of all that lovely lucre. I'm sorry it's come to this. Do consider a charity for elder abuse as your new beneficiary to drive your point home, and good luck with your new adventures!

    Giraffy Window
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah that was no lawyer, it was just some schmo in a suit.

    Tabitha
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If the grandkids are decent little people, put some of the money in trusts for them that they cannot access until they’re like 30 years old or something. Just be sure your lawyer is the trustee and that daughter cannot access any of the money ever, and is never to benefit from it either.

    BlackestDawn
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And if it can be done don't inform the daughter of the grandkids trusts since daughter will most likely do what she can to manipulate the kids to give her all that trust-money.

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    Papa
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If others disagree, I won't argue, but this sounds fishy. Assuming the whole thing isn't a work of fiction, I'd like to know why the daughter had a complete personality change after getting married, and why the daughter and daughter-in-law both teamed up against her. I know we always get just one viewpoint on these things, but this is a time I'd really like to get another one.

    Tom De Paul
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There does seem to be a "it must be the son in law's fault" vibe (the only living man in the story).

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    Janelle Collard
    Community Member
    Premium
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    FAFO - OP's smart to go NC with those people.

    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And then everybody clapped. Particularly the lawyer who gave a standing ovation after not stopping a physical attack.

    TribbleThinking
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Less than a month after the first MrTribble died, my mother arrived, threw holy water at my house, and told me that unless I sold it, I'd be the next to die. And that of course, she would help me, as I needed her help. Funny how I didn't need her help when struggling to *save* for the house deposit and she was living for free in my flat. And the value she named was 40% below market value. Oh, and btw she's a solicitor.

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    Amanduh
    Community Member
    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You raised it, just sayin’.

    Kate Johnson
    Community Member
    Premium
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd leave my money to charity after I died.

    René Sauer
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Trying to get her to sign a blank sheet? Yeah, fat chance. Who knows what they were planning to do with that.

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    JB
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It does seem like an unlikely tale involving a lawyer but then I think of Rudy Giuliani and the Supreme Court in the USA. Who would have thought that a lawyer would support an attempted coup to overturn American democracy? Who would have predicted that women and doctors would face jail time for choosing a heartbreaking option to not go ahead with pregnancy? The conservatives suggest termination is a common form of birth control. It isn’t and never has been. There’s a chance they may have a woman in charge for the first time. I hope the USA grabs on to this chance with all the votes. Not saying the guys haven’t done the best they could but it’s long overdue for the land of the free.

    Tom De Paul
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What in this entire post has anything to do with abortion? Reading comprehension is a thing.

    Load More Replies...
    TribbleThinking
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would strongly advise taking all necessary legal steps to document your mental competence, the neighbour's testimony regarding her behaviour, and completely writing her out of your will. The last bit is not so much vindictiveness as self protection, as you have seen how much she values your interests; just imagine how much she would guard your physical wellbeing when it's what stands between her and ownership of all that lovely lucre. I'm sorry it's come to this. Do consider a charity for elder abuse as your new beneficiary to drive your point home, and good luck with your new adventures!

    Giraffy Window
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah that was no lawyer, it was just some schmo in a suit.

    Tabitha
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If the grandkids are decent little people, put some of the money in trusts for them that they cannot access until they’re like 30 years old or something. Just be sure your lawyer is the trustee and that daughter cannot access any of the money ever, and is never to benefit from it either.

    BlackestDawn
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And if it can be done don't inform the daughter of the grandkids trusts since daughter will most likely do what she can to manipulate the kids to give her all that trust-money.

    Load More Replies...
    Papa
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If others disagree, I won't argue, but this sounds fishy. Assuming the whole thing isn't a work of fiction, I'd like to know why the daughter had a complete personality change after getting married, and why the daughter and daughter-in-law both teamed up against her. I know we always get just one viewpoint on these things, but this is a time I'd really like to get another one.

    Tom De Paul
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There does seem to be a "it must be the son in law's fault" vibe (the only living man in the story).

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    Janelle Collard
    Community Member
    Premium
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    FAFO - OP's smart to go NC with those people.

    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And then everybody clapped. Particularly the lawyer who gave a standing ovation after not stopping a physical attack.

    TribbleThinking
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Less than a month after the first MrTribble died, my mother arrived, threw holy water at my house, and told me that unless I sold it, I'd be the next to die. And that of course, she would help me, as I needed her help. Funny how I didn't need her help when struggling to *save* for the house deposit and she was living for free in my flat. And the value she named was 40% below market value. Oh, and btw she's a solicitor.

    Load More Replies...
    Amanduh
    Community Member
    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You raised it, just sayin’.

    Kate Johnson
    Community Member
    Premium
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd leave my money to charity after I died.

    René Sauer
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Trying to get her to sign a blank sheet? Yeah, fat chance. Who knows what they were planning to do with that.

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