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Woman Leaves Her BF After He Puts Her Through Series Of “Tests” To See If She’s Not With Him Only For His Money, Sister Thinks He Got What He Deserved
There are a lot of factors that help people to understand whether they are in a good and healthy relationship. Of course, it’s normal to live through some ups and downs, experience some differences and work on them in order to have a deeper and more meaningful connection with another person. But sometimes there are things that are just too hard to ignore and thus this becomes the reason why people decide to go their separate ways. One Reddit user @shwnwneneb2929 decided to share the situation she partially got involved in after finding out that her brother and his girlfriend of six months had broken up.
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The woman started her story by revealing that she has a 27-year-old brother whose hard work has made him a successful and wealthy man. The brother dated a woman with whom the narrator became friends since they shared a lot of similar interests. One time, while the women were texting, the girlfriend revealed that it would be weird for her to keep in touch with the narrator since the couple broke up. The sister didn’t know about this and was curious to know what happened because she never saw the two fighting or having any disagreements.
One Reddit user decided to share how shocked she was to find out how her brother treated his girlfriend
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The girlfriend explained that she’d had enough of being tested by her boyfriend who couldn’t let go of the idea that she was with him only for his money and wealth. The woman opened up about the situations her boyfriend would put her through in order to see how she would handle it. She told his sister about a time when he left some bank statements on their bed and then waited to see if she would take a look at those papers, and then immediately concluding that her actions meant that she was only seeking financial gain.
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Her brother’s girlfriend revealed that he has been testing her to see if she’s with him only for financial gain
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The narrator asked her brother if it was true that he didn’t trust his girlfriend and thought that she was a “gold digger”
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After this, another situation followed where the boyfriend suggested that they go to an expensive restaurant where they spent $500 on dinner, after which the man declared that he forgot his wallet at home, so she ended up paying the bill. He also pushed to the point where his girlfriend bought him expensive gifts such as a gaming console and new car rims but didn’t get anything from him. When she asked him about this, he broke down, stating that she was only with him for his money and gifts.
The man didn’t hide the fact that he tried to “catch” his girlfriend, stating that it’s hard to live in a world where women are trying to take advantage of him
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This behavior caused the woman to end the relationship. After hearing the situation, the narrator contacted her brother to find out if this all was really true. The man agreed that he “tested” his girlfriend as it was the only way for him to know that she wasn’t using him. He also was sure that she didn’t like him for who he is as she was quite upset after having to spend $500 for a dinner. The sister then asked if he doesn’t think that the girlfriend was upset because she is a school teacher and she doesn’t earn enough money to be able to spend it on lavish dinner parties.
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After the brother was left by his girlfriend, he was upset that he had to deal with a “gold digger” and that his sister thought that he was in the wrong here
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Despite the fact that the sister was quite appalled by her brother’s behavior, the man didn’t see any of this being his fault. The two ended up having an argument as the woman felt that her brother brought all of this upon himself, thinking that women are interested in him because of his wealth. The narrator thought that he won’t gain anything from conducting these “tests”, and that he, for the sake of his own well-being, should then date women that are as rich as he is.
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People online supported the Reddit user, stating that her brother’s behavior isn’t acceptable and that his girlfriend did the right thing by leaving him. For many, it was clear that he was using her more than she did as the woman would buy him expensive gifts without getting anything in return. People agreed that the user’s brother showed his true colors and seems to be more of a “gold digger” himself.
What do you think about this situation? Don’t forget to leave your thoughts in the comments down below!
People online agreed with the narrator saying that her brother thinks too highly of himself
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ForgotMyPWSendHelp 4 years ago (edited)
Um, does he think he's Jeff Bezos? There are plenty of women as wealthy as him. I get the feeling the only reason he harasses lower income women is because he has an inferiority complex that prevents him from wanting to be with a woman who is on a level playing field with him financially, and it gives him a sense of power and boosts his ego to "test" his lower income girlfriends.
Pat Lenzo 4 years ago
He's a lost cause, but I'm still trying to figure out how one person could possibly eat $250 worth of food!
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Karis Ravenhill 4 years ago
This guy is only 27 right now, give him 10 years and we'll see his poor suffering SAHM/wife/GF on here complaining about how he won't give her any money to run the house on, won't give her an allowance or access to any financials, that he has her working as a slave at the home, disrespects her, won't let her see friends he doesn't approve of, and abuses her in front of others. This dude is a self absorbed, narcissistic A-hole looking for a woman to completely control and have under heel. He can keep his money, it can dry his tears of loneliness while his ex-gf finds herself a real man and not a petty little boy. Be a good sister and punch your idiot of a brother, he fuc*ing needs it.
Seabeast 4 years ago
Or he'll drive every woman away with his ugly behaviour and then whine about how "Women don't want to date Nice Guys like meeeee".
Load More Replies... Otter 4 years ago
A rich man who financially screws an elementary school teacher? Who's cost her thousands she can't possibly afford? HE is the asshole, and no woman will ever put up with him except a gold-digger! He's going to end up with an unusually patient gold-digger someday, because no woman with any pride of dignity will put up with this level of insecurity and cruelty.
Auntriarch 4 years ago
Exactly, he's going to end up with a really boss level gold digger. One almost feels sorry for him. But not quite.
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BusyLizzy 4 years ago
Wow, she's dodged a bullet there. He's a paranoid, emotionally manipulative control freak who thinks his money is the most special thing about him. And his reaction at being called out on his behaviour - "you'll never understand how hard it is to be rich" Well boo f*in hoo. Are his diamond shoes too tight too? Good God man, get a grip. She deserved way better.
Stephanie 4 years ago
The mature thing would be to have a financial discussion early on. I had a financial discussion with my boyfriend before we committed to being exclusive, we both know where we stand financially. He makes double what I make but I still offer to pay for things on occasion and buy small gifts for him when I can afford to. Why is open communication so hard for some people?
. a 4 years ago
It is "early on". They've only been going out for 6 months!!
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Helen Haley 4 years ago
I would be seriously pssed if I had to spontaneously spend $500 on anything, let alone a dinner I didn't pick. If there is paper on my bed, i'm going to look at it to see what it is, if I see it is his, I'll see if it is junkmail or something he might need. As for gifts, he thought it'd be out of line for him to buy her favorite candy or a flower, or some other simple Thing? What a self-centered ahole. Yes, there are a few people out there who are shallow enough to want you for your money, but it isn't like it is super prevalent. Women have a higher chance of being assaulted on a date than this guy does of dating someone who wants him exclusively for his money.
George Pagliarulo PAGLIARULO 4 years ago
Someone here is clearly an asshole and it isn't you. I picture him sitting with his checkbook balance clutched in his hands mumbling "My Precious...it's my Precious, no one gets my Precious, it's MINE...filthy golddiggersers". Your brother is an insecure jerk. If he is so concerned about "gold diggers" then there is a simple solution. DON'T SHARE WHAT YOUR INCOME IS. Then again, perhaps if he did that he thinks no one would be interested in him. Sounds like he has a bunch of other faults so his former GF is better off finding out sooner than later that he is emotionally challenged. .I don't think you should lose a friend because your brother's avarice. You like each other, hang out. It's none of your brother's business
Suzi Q 4 years ago
He failed the girlfriend's test of proving he's an asshole! What a delusional idiot!
Viviane 4 years ago
It's ironic that he's convinced that women can only love him for his money... and guess what, he's right!! He has nothing else to offer them!
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Imogene Cargeaux 4 years ago
She dodged a bullet. I've been with men like this. Funny thing is.... I was actually making more money than them and never said anything because men usually get upset when they know a woman makes more than them. ESPECIALLY at the time because I was a manager of an international shoe store and was making $70k a year before taxes. He was a custodian for a school district and making $50k a year. I worked 4 days a week and one day from home. He worked 6 days a week... so he "tested" me after I literally bought him this custom jersey he wanted that was $400 and for some reason this made him think I was a gold digger? Lol. And then I produced my pay stubs and he dumped me for making more money than him and "lying" about it and "dressing poor" to make ppl think I was poor.... I wasn't I just like thrift stores and vintage clothing... lol. Men are dumb sometimes.
Imogene Cargeaux 4 years ago
Not all men are like this. Btw. I shouldn't have said "men get mad when women make more than them" because most men dont! Only insecure men with tiny d***s do! My husband now doesn't and a few other men I dated didn't do this. So I'm sorry. I didn't mean so insinuate that all or most men are like this. Most men are gentlemen and aren't little babies about this s**t.
Load More Replies... ForgotMyPWSendHelp 4 years ago (edited)
Um, does he think he's Jeff Bezos? There are plenty of women as wealthy as him. I get the feeling the only reason he harasses lower income women is because he has an inferiority complex that prevents him from wanting to be with a woman who is on a level playing field with him financially, and it gives him a sense of power and boosts his ego to "test" his lower income girlfriends.
Pat Lenzo 4 years ago
He's a lost cause, but I'm still trying to figure out how one person could possibly eat $250 worth of food!
Load More Replies... Karis Ravenhill 4 years ago
This guy is only 27 right now, give him 10 years and we'll see his poor suffering SAHM/wife/GF on here complaining about how he won't give her any money to run the house on, won't give her an allowance or access to any financials, that he has her working as a slave at the home, disrespects her, won't let her see friends he doesn't approve of, and abuses her in front of others. This dude is a self absorbed, narcissistic A-hole looking for a woman to completely control and have under heel. He can keep his money, it can dry his tears of loneliness while his ex-gf finds herself a real man and not a petty little boy. Be a good sister and punch your idiot of a brother, he fuc*ing needs it.
Seabeast 4 years ago
Or he'll drive every woman away with his ugly behaviour and then whine about how "Women don't want to date Nice Guys like meeeee".
Load More Replies... Otter 4 years ago
A rich man who financially screws an elementary school teacher? Who's cost her thousands she can't possibly afford? HE is the asshole, and no woman will ever put up with him except a gold-digger! He's going to end up with an unusually patient gold-digger someday, because no woman with any pride of dignity will put up with this level of insecurity and cruelty.
Auntriarch 4 years ago
Exactly, he's going to end up with a really boss level gold digger. One almost feels sorry for him. But not quite.
Load More Replies... BusyLizzy 4 years ago
Wow, she's dodged a bullet there. He's a paranoid, emotionally manipulative control freak who thinks his money is the most special thing about him. And his reaction at being called out on his behaviour - "you'll never understand how hard it is to be rich" Well boo f*in hoo. Are his diamond shoes too tight too? Good God man, get a grip. She deserved way better.
Stephanie 4 years ago
The mature thing would be to have a financial discussion early on. I had a financial discussion with my boyfriend before we committed to being exclusive, we both know where we stand financially. He makes double what I make but I still offer to pay for things on occasion and buy small gifts for him when I can afford to. Why is open communication so hard for some people?
. a 4 years ago
It is "early on". They've only been going out for 6 months!!
Load More Replies... Helen Haley 4 years ago
I would be seriously pssed if I had to spontaneously spend $500 on anything, let alone a dinner I didn't pick. If there is paper on my bed, i'm going to look at it to see what it is, if I see it is his, I'll see if it is junkmail or something he might need. As for gifts, he thought it'd be out of line for him to buy her favorite candy or a flower, or some other simple Thing? What a self-centered ahole. Yes, there are a few people out there who are shallow enough to want you for your money, but it isn't like it is super prevalent. Women have a higher chance of being assaulted on a date than this guy does of dating someone who wants him exclusively for his money.
George Pagliarulo PAGLIARULO 4 years ago
Someone here is clearly an asshole and it isn't you. I picture him sitting with his checkbook balance clutched in his hands mumbling "My Precious...it's my Precious, no one gets my Precious, it's MINE...filthy golddiggersers". Your brother is an insecure jerk. If he is so concerned about "gold diggers" then there is a simple solution. DON'T SHARE WHAT YOUR INCOME IS. Then again, perhaps if he did that he thinks no one would be interested in him. Sounds like he has a bunch of other faults so his former GF is better off finding out sooner than later that he is emotionally challenged. .I don't think you should lose a friend because your brother's avarice. You like each other, hang out. It's none of your brother's business
Suzi Q 4 years ago
He failed the girlfriend's test of proving he's an asshole! What a delusional idiot!
Viviane 4 years ago
It's ironic that he's convinced that women can only love him for his money... and guess what, he's right!! He has nothing else to offer them!
Load More Replies... Imogene Cargeaux 4 years ago
She dodged a bullet. I've been with men like this. Funny thing is.... I was actually making more money than them and never said anything because men usually get upset when they know a woman makes more than them. ESPECIALLY at the time because I was a manager of an international shoe store and was making $70k a year before taxes. He was a custodian for a school district and making $50k a year. I worked 4 days a week and one day from home. He worked 6 days a week... so he "tested" me after I literally bought him this custom jersey he wanted that was $400 and for some reason this made him think I was a gold digger? Lol. And then I produced my pay stubs and he dumped me for making more money than him and "lying" about it and "dressing poor" to make ppl think I was poor.... I wasn't I just like thrift stores and vintage clothing... lol. Men are dumb sometimes.
Imogene Cargeaux 4 years ago
Not all men are like this. Btw. I shouldn't have said "men get mad when women make more than them" because most men dont! Only insecure men with tiny d***s do! My husband now doesn't and a few other men I dated didn't do this. So I'm sorry. I didn't mean so insinuate that all or most men are like this. Most men are gentlemen and aren't little babies about this s**t.
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