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“It Cost Him $1800”: Guy Has To Pay For His Unreasonable Rage And Impatience In The Parking Lot
Man being arrested in parking lot after psycho attack with shopping cart near his car by police officers outdoors.

“It Cost Him $1800”: Guy Has To Pay For His Unreasonable Rage And Impatience In The Parking Lot

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From a bird’s-eye view, parking lots near large stores and malls look like the most peaceful places in the world. Hundreds of cars peacefully await their owners, and nothing terrible seems to be happening… But let’s come closer to ground level, and the parking lot almost inevitably becomes an arena for numerous dramas.

For example, the user u/Internal_Researcher8, the narrator of the story we’re about to tell you today, simply didn’t expect that while letting an elderly lady’s car pass so he could then move out, he would suddenly be attacked by an aggressive stranger. But well, let’s just take the story one step at a time.

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    Cars parked in a multi-level parking lot where a parking lot psycho attacks a man’s car with a shopping cart.

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    The author of the post was once sitting in his car, waiting for an elderly lady to back out from her parking space near a big store

    Text excerpt describing a parking lot psycho attacking a man's car with a shopping cart over waiting.

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    Man in parking lot angrily bangs on car window after impatient parking lot psycho attack with shopping cart.

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    Elderly woman wearing glasses inside a car, seen through the window, suggesting a parking lot incident with a shopping cart.

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    Some random young dude started shouting at the author to move too so that he could drive out

    Man attacks car with shopping cart in parking lot after waiting for 30 seconds causes damage and confrontation.

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    Man attacks car with a shopping cart in parking lot, causing damage while waiting for police intervention.

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    Man in parking lot aggressively pushing shopping cart near parked cars during psycho attack incident.

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    The author kept calm, so the guy grabbed a shopping cart and started ramming the author’s car door with it

    Man attacked in parking lot with shopping cart after waiting less than 30 seconds near his car.

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    Text describing witnesses giving statements to police with shopping cart and parking lot video evidence.

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    Parking lot psycho aggressively attacks man’s car with a shopping cart over a brief waiting dispute.

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    Man handcuffed by police in parking lot after altercation involving a shopping cart and car damage incident.

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    Police arrived soon after and detained the violator, especially since there were many witnesses around

    Witness describes parking lot psycho attacking man's car with shopping cart after waiting too long in space.

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    Felony vandalism case after parking lot psycho attacks man’s car with shopping cart over waiting briefly.

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    So the impatient guy ended up getting fined $1.8K and spending a night in a county jail

    The original poster (OP) recalls how he was once sitting in his car in a store parking lot, waiting for an elderly lady to back out so he could move too. His car was parked next to another car, belonging to some young man who was clearly angry that he couldn’t get out right then and there. He started honking at the author, but he just indicated he was waiting for the exit to clear.

    What would almost any driver probably do in this situation? Maybe calmly wait for the elderly lady and the other man to clear the way and then go about their business. What did this guy do? He jumped out of his car and started banging on the window of the OP’s vehicle, clearly trying to force him to move. Well, to no avail.

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    Then the enraged driver grabbed a free shopping cart and started ramming it into the author’s car door. The OP took this quite calmly – he had a dashcam in his car, and several folks around were already filming the incident on their phones. So our hero simply called the police and decided to wait for them to arrive.

    When the cops arrived, they immediately handcuffed the offender. He tried to dismiss the whole incident as some kind of “racist thing,” but with so many witnesses, it looked like a lost cause. And so it happened – the guy was charged with felony vandalism but then pleaded down to criminal mischief. As a result, this emotional outburst cost him $1.8K and a night in a county jail, the author recalls.

    Shopping cart abandoned in empty parking lot, symbolizing parking lot psycho attacking man's car incident.

    Image credits: Erik Mclean / Unsplash (not the actual photo)

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    In fact, parking lots are actually among the most unsafe places in the entire country, according to statistical data. For example, ECAM claims that more than 600 violent acts are committed in parking lots every week, and FBI data shows that they are the third-largest crime location, with around 25% of all illegal actions committed there.

    The U.S. Bureau of Justice Statistics cites even more alarming data: nationwide, more than 2 million crimes occur in parking lots annually – in other words, every 15 seconds, something bad is committed there. Well, these are only the recorded cases – there are also situations with no witnesses to the incident, or they prefer just to distance themselves.

    But why do people sometimes become so aggressive behind the wheel and around the car? Many experts believe the issue is actually a change in the level of social distance between drivers. In fact, when you’re separated from other people by a wall of metal and glass, you may simply perceive social interactions quite differently.

    “There’s a level of social distance that exists while you’re driving that makes it easier for people to react that way,” CBC quotes Ryan Martin, a professor of psychology at the University of Wisconsin-Green Bay. “It becomes much easier for you to react with aggression.” It’s quite possible that something similar happened in the case we described.

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    People in the comments simply expressed joy that everything ended well for the OP and that elderly lady, and that the offender finally received his punishment. “That guy was clearly unhinged. Good on you for proceeding with prosecution,” one of the respondents added wisely. So now we’d like to know your own opinion about this story too, so please feel free to leave your comments here.

    Parking lots are, in fact, quite dangerous places, so the many commenters just praised the author for keeping calm and staying safe here

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    Oleg Tarasenko

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    Oleg Tarasenko

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    After many years of working as sports journalist and trivia game author and host in Ukraine I joined Bored Panda as a content creator. I do love writing stories and I sincerely believe - there's no dull plots at all. Like a great Italian composer Joaquino Rossini once told: "Give me a police protocol - and I'll make an opera out of it!"

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    Monika Pašukonytė

    Monika Pašukonytė

    Author, BoredPanda staff

    I am a visual editor here. In my free time I enjoy the vibrant worlds of art galleries, exhibitions, and soulful concerts. Yet, amidst life's hustle and bustle, I find solace in nature's embrace, cherishing tranquil moments with beloved friends. Deep within, I hold a dream close - to embark on a global journey in an RV, accompanied by my faithful canine companion. Together, we'll wander through diverse cultures, weaving precious memories under the starry night sky, fulfilling the wanderlust that stirs my soul.

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    Mike F
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The guy who did the ramming sounds like an entitled idiot who is absolutely in need of some anger-management and self control courses as part of the sentence.

    Lee Gilliland
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    1 month ago

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    He's on welfare. That is not a fun life.

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    Margaret Shannon
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree with the response that said he or his insurance company should pay the full amount. It doesn’t seem fair otherwise.

    Kid Murray
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    1 month ago

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    UnclePanda
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    1 month ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My elderly dad began backing up very slowly and I realized it was because he had no idea what was behind him or where the back bumper was. He was trying to minimize potential damage and listening for a scream. He quit driving on his own shortly after that and before I had to take the keys.

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    Mike F
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The guy who did the ramming sounds like an entitled idiot who is absolutely in need of some anger-management and self control courses as part of the sentence.

    Lee Gilliland
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    1 month ago

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    He's on welfare. That is not a fun life.

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    Margaret Shannon
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree with the response that said he or his insurance company should pay the full amount. It doesn’t seem fair otherwise.

    Kid Murray
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    1 month ago

    This comment has been deleted.

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    UnclePanda
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    1 month ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My elderly dad began backing up very slowly and I realized it was because he had no idea what was behind him or where the back bumper was. He was trying to minimize potential damage and listening for a scream. He quit driving on his own shortly after that and before I had to take the keys.

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