Weddings don’t come cheap. According to a recent report, the average cost of one in the U.S. has climbed to $36,000 in 2025. And that doesn’t include the honeymoon. It’s no surprise, then, that many couples choose to cut costs when it comes to some aspects of their big day. While there’s nothing wrong, and everything right, with having a wedding within your means, there is fine line between affordable and cheap.
People have been sharing the most cringeworthy "budget wedding" disasters they’ve had the discomfort of witnessing. From toilet rolls being used as drapes, to a couple who took “trashy” quite literally and got married next to a dumpster... Bored Panda has gathered our personal top picks. We also found some tips on how to keep wedding costs down without making your guests feel like they're in Tacky Town.
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Wasn't Expecting To See A Wedding When I Stopped At Walmart This Weekend
Decoration Of The Wedding Hall
Gas Station Wedding
Just because the average cost of a wedding has sky-rocketed to $36,000 in 2025, it doesn’t mean you have to spend that on yours. But for the love of all things holy matrimony, whatever you do, don’t use toilet paper as drapes or give your guests food poisoning by storing your pasta salad in an inflatable pool. There are plenty of ways to keep costs down without going to Tacky Town.
Aren't They Supposed To Refrigerate That?
Bride Thinks Returning Wedding Decorations After Using Them Is A Great Way To “Save Money”
I don’t know, but I feel like this is illegal and just a bad thing to even think about doing.
I See You're A Professional. Do It For Free
The first step is to figure out how much you can spend and then decide, as a couple, what your priorities are.
"Whether you have $1,000, $10,000, $100,000, or $1,000,000, it is all a lot of money,” wedding expert Megan Grose told The Knot. “Sit down together and figure out what is most important to you as a couple, then prioritize your budget accordingly."
According to Zola’s 2025 Wedding Trends Report, "couples are most willing to splurge on key elements including an incredible photographer to capture every memory, a stunning venue, and food and drinks that keep everyone celebrating all night long."
The Knot meanwhile reports that couples typically allocate 8% of their wedding budget toward alcohol, and points out that hosting a "dry wedding" can really help to keep costs down. That might not appeal to everyone, but again, it's about deciding on your priorities as a couple.
“Budget” Grazing Table - You Get What You Paid For
Are those...strawberries just sitting there like that with the juice staining the cloth? Hard pass
Wedding Venue Serves Tuna Tartar In A Pvc Pipe
At A Wedding Reception Pot Luck Tonight. Served Cold
An obvious (but not always easy) way to keep costs down is to invite fewer people. The larger your guest list, the more expensive your wedding will be, notes The Knot.
"While a photographer will cost the same amount whether you have 50 guests or 500, there are other costs, like catering, that are dependent on how many folks attend. And by shrinking your guest list with a small wedding you can also lower some of those variable expenses," reads the wedding site.
Trashy Wedding
Bride Tries To Force Friend To Do Photography For Her Wedding, Insists That He Pays Her For The Privilege
There is waaay more to this, click on the link on the bottom left, the rest of the story is in the comments
This Gluten Free Pizza They Gave My Mom At A Wedding
Another option is to have a shorter reception as opposed to the traditional all-night affair. "While most wedding receptions include dinner and dancing, there's nothing set in stone saying you have to follow that pattern," reads the site. "Especially if you're looking for wedding food ideas on a budget, opting for an abbreviated cocktail reception instead of a full-length dinner reception will save you money."
Swapping out the cocktails for mocktails might help you shave even more off your expenses. Zola's survey of 6,000 couples found that 54% of them will have these on the menu, meaning a booze-free or "dry" wedding won't leave guests with limited options.
A Home Depot Wedding
This Was Served At A Wedding Reception
Dirty rock with congealed sauce, alien fish/vegetable hybrid wrapped in plastic skin, and bread (no butter)?
Hot Tip - Save Money On Your Wedding By Defrauding Your Employer
Saw this posted on another sub and thought everyone here would enjoy it.
If the budget is EXPANDING wouldn't they have MORE money to waste?
Being creative when it comes to your venue can help save thousands. Finance platform NerdWallet suggests looking into options like restaurants, breweries, or vacation houses. "All these options are potential affordable wedding venues," reads the site. "Picking a spot that doesn’t usually cater to weddings can help you save money — and give your nuptials a unique feel."
Other money-saving wedding hacks include picking an off-peak date or month and not having your event on a Saturday. Remember, the more popular the day, the more expensive the venue is likely to be.
Begging For Money From Strangers Cuz You’re Getting Married
I Went To A Wedding At A Mansion, And Discovered That They Had Painted The Grass Green. This Is My Feet After Walking Through It In Closed-Toed Shoes
Bud Light Wedding
The devil is in the details when it comes to your wedding budget. That bouquet or flower arrangement you saw on Pinterest might look perfect, but did you consider whether those particular petals are in season? Being clever about your centerpieces, bouquets, and floral decor will pay off in the end.
“Botanicals and fruit can be added to tabletop decor, along with candles, to add ambiance, and often at a lower cost than fresh blooms,” advises Stephanie Cain, a wedding industry journalist.
I Ate Mashed Potato Wedding Cake With Gravy Icing And Fried Chicken Topper
Actual Quote From An Influencer Who Wanted Me To Address 250 Wedding Invites And Save The Date Cards. If It's "Just Writing" Surely You Can Do It Yourself
As some who does this I wouldn't even reply. Also, polish that nib.
Can I Leave My Family?
Another tip is to mix up real and artificial flowers on the day. "Use silk flowers for big arrangements such as a floral chandelier above a dance floor or a ceremony arch behind the couple — and save the real ones for the tabletop, bouquet, boutonniere, and other moments when a fake flower would be noticeable to a guest," suggests Cain.
The Way They Served Ice Cream At A Wedding
He Wore His Best Hat For The Wedding
And he looks so chill, confident that this will be his only time he's getting married.
When I see things like this I wonder if the woman is just glad she got a man AT ALL. Didn't really matter the quality of the man. Just that he's breathing.
Same here. She looks like a real bride while he looks like he just walked in from a construction site.
Load More Replies...Does it never cross y'alls mind that different people might have different view points, and that different people might prefer different things? They might love a very casual feel and might hate suits and fancy nonsense. Maybe he's dressed the way she likes to see him and she's dressed the way he likes to see her. It's ridiculous that they should wear what YOU prefer instead of what THEY prefer.
Looks like he stopped off at the wedding on his lunch hour from the construction site.
My Meal At A Wedding Recently
Last year, Zola reported that the average cost of a wedding was around $33,000. However, 74% of couples who married in 2024 said they ended up going over their original expected budget. Almost a quarter of them exceeded it by a staggering $10,000. But almost all felt it was "absolutely worth it.”
For A Wedding
Wedding Picture Level: Aisle 7
Sister-In-Law Wanted To Make Her Own Wedding Cake
The thought was nice and it is a practical idea. The execution missed the mark though.
Not Even Offering Exposure
Facebook Friend Of Mine Posted Pictures From A Taco Bell Las Vegas Wedding
1st Attempt At The Cake For My Brother-In-Law's Wedding. I Sent A Photo And Asked If It Was "Too Rustic?"
I made a wedding cake once. Very glad to see it could have gone worse.
How My Work Likes To Store Soup For A Wedding
The Bride Is Trying To Sell This Decor
Woman Wanted Cartier Destinée Wedding Ring For Less Than Half Price And Called Me A Racial Slur For Not Agreeing
Guests Will Have To Pay For Their Seat Because Bride And Groom Aren't Rich
He She Asked Said 10-4
Theyre Asking For Free Weddings Now
I Have No Words, Maybe Some Of You Might
It's Patented So Don't Even Try
I've seen really cute plexi/plastic versions of this that were well executed. This plywood monstrosity is not.
Plate I Was Served At A Wedding
BS, this is a buffet and this is what you chose. Why would there be macaroni salad on your neighbor's plate? Total lie.
Bride Cancels Her Wedding Because Her Guests Didn't "Donate" A $1,500 Each To Fund The Event
Pretty Trashy For A Wedding
Asking For Money On The Save The Date
What Could Go Wrong If I Order My Dress On Aliexpress?
A Groom Tried To Serve Old Fish To A Wedding Of 300 Today
My Wife Found This In A "Budget Wedding Planning" Book While Thrifting
Jen donated the book with this note tucked inside, I'm guessing they didn't want to hear it.
"From our retirement accounts"? NO f*****g way. Not a penny. For some kind of emergency, maybe. But not for your (immature) kid's wedding.
I'm Selling A 100% Silk Wedding Dress For £75. She Offered £30 To Drop It Off
Turns out she meant £30 AND I drop it off in the next 6 hours because she's getting married in 9 weeks and can't afford the fuel.
What Better Place To Go After A Getting Married Than Walmart?
If They Are Asking For Money For A Dinner Than That Is Their Gift
Bridal Party Only Allowed One Slice Of Pizza After A Whole Day Of Working
A cheapskate and a big spender get married. How much will the divorce cost?
Say It Louder So The People In The Back Can Hear: Don't Skimp On Food
Shirtless Wedding, Bride 4 Months Pregnant
Bridezilla Is Upset Her Friends Wouldn't Spend $3k For A Destination Wedding, Follows Up With A Registry Complaint. A True Knee Slapper
All Jokes Aside, Please Don't Do This To Your Daughter
Put On Your Best Black Tie Ensemble… And Bring A Pan Of Rice Krispy Treats To Share
Using a throwaway for privacy.
This was sent to me by one of my friends (posting with her permission, since she’s not a Redditor.) She was invited to this wedding, and she’s seriously considering RSVP-ing NO. First of all, they call it an “afternoon wedding,” but it’s from 3-8 so…no. They’re holding it outside, in the middle of October, in a northern state (aka, has definitely seen snowfall in the past around the time of the wedding) and only serving “heavy h’ors doeuvres” when most people have to drive in and get a hotel. We’re both foreseeing a lot of McDonald’s runs after the reception. Also, I totally get wanting to save money (currently planning a wedding myself,) but not even mocktails? Or at the very least, some soda? Their families aren’t hurting for cash, but per my friend, the bride and groom are both known for being kind of stingy and greedy, so she’s not terribly surprised.
The icing on the cake (lol) is that, apparently, this is BYOD. This “between semi-formal and black tie” wedding is asking people to bring their own desserts to share. The best part? These two clowns have a $1200 TV on their gift registry.
Come to our wedding! We won’t feed you, you have to bring your own dessert, and we hope you’re okay sucking down fruit-infused water…but can you pretty please buy a TV worth four figures for us??
They don't say you have to bring your own dessert! They say "feel free" which means "if you want to, we'd be happy". And if the wedding starts at 3, you can easily have supper before you go there. Even if the people are well-off with funds, maybe they don't want to pay it all for a wedding? It's okay to not go, I think, but this sounds okay to me (except for the weather, that's not ideal)
Found In A Book Of Faces Group. Far Too Many Commenters Are Saying, Though Tacky, The Brother Isn’t Out Of Line
I've Officially Dropped Out Of The Bridal Party. I'm A Size 12 With No Plans On Dropping To A Size 8 By December
Nothing Says Classy Like Shotgun Shells
So We Were Just Served This Quail Dish That Had Pringles On It During A Wedding
For The Love Of Music Not Money
I rented a sound system and played music off Spotify on a playlist I made, and people could also pick songs they wanted. Super cheap. And my mom sang our wedding dance song for us, well, tried to till she started crying to much then just let the music play. We didn't mind that at all though.
It Can’t Be Just Me Thinking This Is Tacky
What’s More Trashy? The Wedding Or The Caption?
Supporting Local Business By Asking For Free Stuff
"I want to support local businesses by getting free stuff from them!"
Only In West Virginia
I live in WV, and I gotta say, this would happen. 😆 But, for the record, my 3 daughters all had very tasteful weddings at our church and lots of food, music and drinks at a nice venue after the ceremony. And we didn't charge anyone to be there like some of these ill-mannered morons. 😆
Why Has This Not Been Posted Here Yet? It’s Gold
I'd rather see these than a bunch of drunk rednecks peeing wherever they want and where people can see them.
Or Just Don’t Have A Cake At All???
There Should Be Zero Expectations For Attendance With Destination Weddings
I Don’t Even Know Where To Begin
I Only Serve The Finest Meals On My Mother's Wedding China
This made me laugh so hard. My son does that with his hash browns all the time, but not such a nice dish. 😂😂
This Wedding Sign
Invite Shaming - Bride Asked A Friend Of Hers Who Was Studying Graphic Design, To Design Her Invites. This Looks Like Times New Roman On A Snowflake Background! Bride's Mom (Who Is Not Good With Computers) Ended Up Designing Much Better Invites On Some Wedding Website Herself
This is ok, you get all the detail for the day and your not throwing away a glossy, expensive, non recyclable invite after
For all the ones in Walmart or gas stations or outside, whatever, I don't like to mock those. Maybe it's truly what they wanted. Also, just because I think it's "tacky" doesn't mean it is to them. Now the crazy entitled people wanting to pay nothing and have a giant wedding at the cost of literally everyone else, yeah I'll mock you all day long.
Yes, this is how I feel. Especially the ones that are super low budget. They were smart and saved a ton on a wedding, doesn't mean they are broke a*s rednecks or just poor people in general. Who cares if we think it looks tacky, if they are happy so what.
Load More Replies...I got married in Reno. We didn't do anything for it. We had onion rings after. We had 3 guests as we needed witnesses. I wouldn't change that for any other wedding in the world. We've been married nearly 20 years. I don't like dealing with people or paying for something like that.
One thing about it, if they are getting married in a gas station or Walmart, they are probably actually in love and not in it for the money. A lot of people are looking for a bailout for them and the kids in tow from prior relationships, but these folks just want married as fast and cheap as possible just to have each other.
If they're ok with it, what's the problem? You want them to spend thousands of dollars on a wedding they can't afford? My wife and I spent maybe $1000 for our wedding, mostly on catering so our guests could have a memorable and enjoyable meal. I once attended an amazingly lavish and expensive wedding; the marriage lasted a few months. My wife managed to survive a cheap wedding and we've been married for twelve years.
Im sorry. I think the dress and tux should be the couples choice. Everything else should be for the guests. Pay the piper for them to enjoy themselves at no cost to them. Keep the dress and tux on budget and if you can’t afford to host alot of people, stick with family. There are way too many Bridezillas today.
You are aware America is A WHOLE CONTINENT RIGHT? FROM CANADA TO TIERRA DE FUEGO!!! so what TF if all of them are American?????
Load More Replies...For all the ones in Walmart or gas stations or outside, whatever, I don't like to mock those. Maybe it's truly what they wanted. Also, just because I think it's "tacky" doesn't mean it is to them. Now the crazy entitled people wanting to pay nothing and have a giant wedding at the cost of literally everyone else, yeah I'll mock you all day long.
Yes, this is how I feel. Especially the ones that are super low budget. They were smart and saved a ton on a wedding, doesn't mean they are broke a*s rednecks or just poor people in general. Who cares if we think it looks tacky, if they are happy so what.
Load More Replies...I got married in Reno. We didn't do anything for it. We had onion rings after. We had 3 guests as we needed witnesses. I wouldn't change that for any other wedding in the world. We've been married nearly 20 years. I don't like dealing with people or paying for something like that.
One thing about it, if they are getting married in a gas station or Walmart, they are probably actually in love and not in it for the money. A lot of people are looking for a bailout for them and the kids in tow from prior relationships, but these folks just want married as fast and cheap as possible just to have each other.
If they're ok with it, what's the problem? You want them to spend thousands of dollars on a wedding they can't afford? My wife and I spent maybe $1000 for our wedding, mostly on catering so our guests could have a memorable and enjoyable meal. I once attended an amazingly lavish and expensive wedding; the marriage lasted a few months. My wife managed to survive a cheap wedding and we've been married for twelve years.
Im sorry. I think the dress and tux should be the couples choice. Everything else should be for the guests. Pay the piper for them to enjoy themselves at no cost to them. Keep the dress and tux on budget and if you can’t afford to host alot of people, stick with family. There are way too many Bridezillas today.
You are aware America is A WHOLE CONTINENT RIGHT? FROM CANADA TO TIERRA DE FUEGO!!! so what TF if all of them are American?????
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