Guy Fails To Get Pregnant Girlfriend A Burger Despite Sitting At Home All Day While She Worked, She Kicks Him Out
Pregnancy cravings are like a ticking time bomb, in a way. Once they get going, there’s only so much time to take care of the matter before you end up in trouble.
Redditor u/Ready-Significance13 told the ‘AITA’ community about the time she got into a fight with her boyfriend over a burger. The guy didn’t get the one thing his girlfriend was craving, which led to him sleeping in the car. However, fellow redditors pointed out that not getting the burger was not the only problem in the story. Scroll down to find it as shared by the OP.
Pregnancy cravings are no joke and that’s why it’s important to attend to the pregnant woman’s needs
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This woman opened up about a fight with her boyfriend over a burger that led to him sleeping in the car
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Pregnancy cravings are the reason moms-to-be come up with the craziest food combos ever
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No two pregnancies are the same, yet both are very likely to evoke food cravings. 50-90% of women in the US experience them, and they’re usually something wild—apples and ketchup, for instance, or peanut butter and hot sauce (both combos tried out by this brave TikToker sampling women’s weird pregnancy cravings).
As with most pregnancy-related things, cravings differ from person to person. However, they usually start during the first trimester and reach a peak during the second one. The third trimester is often craving-free, yet again, each pregnancy can surprise the expectant mother. So can her taste buds.
Why women might seek something as “appetizing” as a pickle juice float is unclear. But the craving itself can be related to hormonal and sensory changes and an increase in nutritional needs, among other things.
Hormones affect not only the expectant mother’s eating habits but her emotions as well
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Hormonal changes affect way more than the eating habits of the expectant mother. They’re also responsible for sudden mood swings, which often occur in the first trimester. During the pregnancy, the woman might feel more irritable or tearful than usual, mostly because of the increased levels of estrogen and progesterone.
That might be the reason the OP’s boyfriend blamed the fight on the pregnancy. And even though he believed she didn’t care for his feelings, people in the comments might have argued it was the other way around. Some of them shamed the young man and doubted that his partner was actually crying over a burger.
Covering food cravings is important, but social support is crucial during pregnancy. Researchers believe that it reduces stressors and improves the emotional and physical well-being of the mom-to-be. In addition to that, according to Apollo Cradle, emotional support has a positive effect on the pregnancy itself and can help deliver healthier babies.
Redditors had questions for the young woman, she gave them honest answers and more information on their relationship
Most of the commentators shamed the boyfriend, they agreed the OP was not a jerk
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Kick that loser out of your place and life, guarantee you'll be much happier and better off
Yeah he sees her hormones are racing and going through mood swings that she can’t help, baring with her and showing her the care and support she needs is what he should be doing but he showed he’s incapable of doing that. He’s not fit for this, not yet. Well he better learn quick before he loses a good thing.
Load More Replies...As a single mother, l welcome her to the club. If she doesn't ditch him (as she should), he'll eventually leave because he's "overwhelmed", as she said. It's a shame that she can't see it as clearly as we all do, but we never learn from other's mistakes and we need to make ours.
And what kind of an adult needs a list to know what needs to be done around the house. It's not like he's 8 and needs a chore wheel and a sticker chart!
Load More Replies...With him having a pregnant girlfriend working two jobs, he needs to take *any* job he can find. If looking online doesn't work, he needs to physically go into bars and restaurants and ask if they're hiring. Doing that will get him a job in no more than a couple of weeks, maybe days. If he's "too good" for those jobs then he should stay in the car.
He's been offered a job, but he thinks working in a care home is something his kid wouldn't be proud of? So much wrong there
Load More Replies...She's young, tired, pregnant, working two jobs, hormonal, and probably worried sick about it all... GET THE WOMAN A GOD-DAMN BURGER YOU LAZY SoB!!!!!!
The boyfriend AND his friend are both AH here. So not only does OP work two jobs, she's also expected to do all the cognitive labor? Surely he can see what needs to be done around the house (that he's in all day) without his mommy - I mean, girlfriend - making him a list. He needs to either help out or move out.
Yeah, it actually never works to stay with someone because you are afraid of being alone. Not only that, but since he isn't contributing anything, then she would be better off alone. My guess is that as soon as the baby comes, he's going to leave anyway. He doesn't sound like he wants any responsibility at all. He doesn't even do chores, so how is he going to cope with a baby? They aren't actually married, I know, but this is basically a scenario I have seen before from my youth, of the couple getting married because they "had to." And of course, it ended in divorce. In this case, they actually are not legally bound together, but they are basically trying to force a relationship that neither was ready for to begin with, all for "the sake of the baby." Being a single mother is hard, but I guarantee staying with him will be even harder.
Dude is 28, he needs to step up to the plate and finally embrace “man-hood”, which should’ve already happened years ago. He’s about to be a father, that alone is a reason he needs to man up and provide for his child, but, he also needs to show gratitude towards his woman for letting him move in with her, and tend to her needs as need be. Not gonna go as far as saying he’s an a*****e, but he does need to grow tf up.
Dude is 28... and she's 21. Yet somehow, she's the only adult in the relationship.
Load More Replies...Girl!!! You ate already taking care of your baby and yourself. You don't need him! 28 years-old , no plan on stepping up already. He is using you. And I'd hate to think of what he considers "baby sitting" but if it's anything like taking care of you SMH
Kick that loser out of your place and life, guarantee you'll be much happier and better off
Yeah he sees her hormones are racing and going through mood swings that she can’t help, baring with her and showing her the care and support she needs is what he should be doing but he showed he’s incapable of doing that. He’s not fit for this, not yet. Well he better learn quick before he loses a good thing.
Load More Replies...As a single mother, l welcome her to the club. If she doesn't ditch him (as she should), he'll eventually leave because he's "overwhelmed", as she said. It's a shame that she can't see it as clearly as we all do, but we never learn from other's mistakes and we need to make ours.
And what kind of an adult needs a list to know what needs to be done around the house. It's not like he's 8 and needs a chore wheel and a sticker chart!
Load More Replies...With him having a pregnant girlfriend working two jobs, he needs to take *any* job he can find. If looking online doesn't work, he needs to physically go into bars and restaurants and ask if they're hiring. Doing that will get him a job in no more than a couple of weeks, maybe days. If he's "too good" for those jobs then he should stay in the car.
He's been offered a job, but he thinks working in a care home is something his kid wouldn't be proud of? So much wrong there
Load More Replies...She's young, tired, pregnant, working two jobs, hormonal, and probably worried sick about it all... GET THE WOMAN A GOD-DAMN BURGER YOU LAZY SoB!!!!!!
The boyfriend AND his friend are both AH here. So not only does OP work two jobs, she's also expected to do all the cognitive labor? Surely he can see what needs to be done around the house (that he's in all day) without his mommy - I mean, girlfriend - making him a list. He needs to either help out or move out.
Yeah, it actually never works to stay with someone because you are afraid of being alone. Not only that, but since he isn't contributing anything, then she would be better off alone. My guess is that as soon as the baby comes, he's going to leave anyway. He doesn't sound like he wants any responsibility at all. He doesn't even do chores, so how is he going to cope with a baby? They aren't actually married, I know, but this is basically a scenario I have seen before from my youth, of the couple getting married because they "had to." And of course, it ended in divorce. In this case, they actually are not legally bound together, but they are basically trying to force a relationship that neither was ready for to begin with, all for "the sake of the baby." Being a single mother is hard, but I guarantee staying with him will be even harder.
Dude is 28, he needs to step up to the plate and finally embrace “man-hood”, which should’ve already happened years ago. He’s about to be a father, that alone is a reason he needs to man up and provide for his child, but, he also needs to show gratitude towards his woman for letting him move in with her, and tend to her needs as need be. Not gonna go as far as saying he’s an a*****e, but he does need to grow tf up.
Dude is 28... and she's 21. Yet somehow, she's the only adult in the relationship.
Load More Replies...Girl!!! You ate already taking care of your baby and yourself. You don't need him! 28 years-old , no plan on stepping up already. He is using you. And I'd hate to think of what he considers "baby sitting" but if it's anything like taking care of you SMH






























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