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“AITA For Refusing To Pay Medical Bills For My Roommate’s Son After He Had An Allergic Reaction?”
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“AITA For Refusing To Pay Medical Bills For My Roommate’s Son After He Had An Allergic Reaction?”

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Allergies are not something to be taken lightly.

So, understandably, when this Redditor realized their roommate had left her toddler alone with them—and the child had eaten the one thing he was allergic to—they immediately called 911 to get him help.

But instead of gratitude, the child’s mom was furious about how the situation was handled. And now she wants them to cover the hospital bill.

Read the full story below.

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    But when she returned to find the child had an allergic reaction, she was not happy with the way it was dealt with

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    Just how dangerous can a fruit allergy be?

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    Allergies are uncomfortable at best and potentially dangerous at worst, yet they’re also extremely common.

    Globally, a significant percentage of people experience some form of allergy, with estimates ranging from 10% to 40%, depending on the type and region.

    When it comes to food, specifically, the most common allergens are milk, eggs, fish, crustacean shellfish, tree nuts, peanuts, wheat, soybeans, and sesame. These are considered “major” allergens and are legally required to be listed on food labels in many countries, including the United States.

    But what about fruit, or in this case, strawberries? How risky are they?

    To find out, Bored Panda spoke with Dr. Kara Wada, MD, FAAAAI, DiplABLM, a board-certified allergist and immunologist and host of the Becoming Immune Confident podcast.

    According to Dr. Wada, allergic reactions to strawberries can vary widely in severity.

    “For some, symptoms may include itching, hives, or swelling around the mouth often due to irritation rather than true allergy,” she said.

    “In more serious but rare cases, strawberries can trigger anaphylaxis—a life-threatening reaction that may involve difficulty breathing, throat swelling, rapid heartbeat, and a drop in blood pressure,” Dr. Wada explained.

    Although severe reactions are rare, they require immediate emergency treatment with epinephrine. Dr. Wada encourages anyone who has experienced a reaction to strawberries to be evaluated by a board-certified allergist or immunologist.

    How to protect children from allergy attacks

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    Thankfully, fatal allergic reactions are very rare.

    One UK study found fewer than 10 deaths per year due to food-induced anaphylaxis. In the US, another study estimated a fatality rate of around 0.3% for anaphylactic reactions.

    But rare doesn’t mean impossible. And for families managing food allergies, preparation is key.

    With children, the risk can be more complicated. Kids may not fully understand their allergies or the importance of rules around them. That’s why Dr. Wada recommends a few valuable strategies to help keep children safe:

    1. Create an allergy action plan: Write out the child’s allergies, symptoms, and emergency steps. Share copies with caregivers, teachers, and coaches.
    2. Ensure access to epinephrine: If prescribed, the child should always have two epinephrine auto-injectors on hand. Adults responsible for them should know how to use them.
    3. Label everything: Clearly label lunch boxes, snacks, and personal items to avoid mix-ups.
    4. Teach age-appropriate awareness: Help kids learn to speak up about their allergies and understand why they shouldn’t share food.
    5. Communicate clearly with other adults: Don’t assume people know what an allergy means. Explain what to watch for and what to avoid.

    That said, Dr. Wada emphasizes the importance of balancing safety with confidence.

    “For children with food allergies, inclusion, and confidence are just as important as safety. We can help them feel empowered—not fearful—by reinforcing that their needs are valid and manageable,” she said. “Schools, camps, and caregivers are usually willing to help when they’re given the right tools and information.”

    The majority of readers backed the author, believing they handled the situation appropriately

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    Some placed the blame on both adults

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    Meanwhile, a few felt the author was wrong for making food with known allergens

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    Oleksandra is an experienced copywriter from Ukraine with a master’s degree in International Communication. Having covered everything from education, finance, and marketing to art, pop culture, and memes, she now brings her storytelling skills to Bored Panda. For the past five years, she’s been living and working in Vilnius, Lithuania.

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    Mike F
    Community Member
    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Apparently, if someone in the home has an allergy it is up to the whole house to accommodate? And this business of just bang on the door and run, leaving the kid with someone who is SLEEPING is acceptable?

    amy lee
    Community Member
    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The adult version... "tag you're mum"

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    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mom leaves child alone without even knowing if OP is home; kid climbs to TOP shelf to get the cookies, and somehow the YTA think he's in the wrong here? Lol.

    Vinny DaPooh
    Community Member
    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Current protocol is epipen followed by ER

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    Mike F
    Community Member
    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Apparently, if someone in the home has an allergy it is up to the whole house to accommodate? And this business of just bang on the door and run, leaving the kid with someone who is SLEEPING is acceptable?

    amy lee
    Community Member
    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The adult version... "tag you're mum"

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    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mom leaves child alone without even knowing if OP is home; kid climbs to TOP shelf to get the cookies, and somehow the YTA think he's in the wrong here? Lol.

    Vinny DaPooh
    Community Member
    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Current protocol is epipen followed by ER

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