Seating Chaos Splits Family, Dad Battles Airline To Prevent 4YO Sitting Alone
Traveling with kids requires planning for everything in advance. But Reddit user Medium-City-2094 claims his family’s recent trip was thrown into chaos at the last second due to a sudden aircraft change.
In a post on r/UnitedAirlines, the man says the carrier reassigned their seats, placing his four-year-old alone, away from the rest of the family, and repeatedly refused to fix the issue. So, he was reportedly forced to take matters into his own hands.
(Bored Panda has reached out to both the traveler and the airline for comment.)
For air travel to go smoothly, every detail needs to fall into place
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But this dad claims that instead of helping him, United Airlines made his family’s journey even more unnecessarily stressful
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Many airlines promise not to split up families with young children
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According to the U.S. Department of Transportation, a parent who purchases airline tickets for a family should receive a guarantee from the airline that it will seat the parent and child together without fees or a last-minute scramble at the gate or having to ask other passengers to give up their seat to allow the parent and child to sit together.
On February 1, 2023, Secretary of Transportation Pete Buttigieg announced the Department’s plan to launch a dashboard that displays which airlines guarantee family seating. Since then, some airlines, including Alaska, American, Frontier, Hawaiian, and JetBlue, have stepped up to guarantee adjacent seats for children aged 13 and younger traveling with an accompanying adult at no additional cost.
For the most part, United also does this.
Its Customer Commitment says, “If you’re traveling with children under 12, they won’t have to sit by themselves,” and that, “The first adult listed on the reservation can sit next to up to two children in their party for free.”
However, the airline adds, “Sometimes, seat assignments change because of unscheduled aircraft changes. If this happens on your flight, and your children are separated from an adult, you can switch to another flight with open seats in the same cabin for free.”
The story has received a lot of strong reactions online
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Share on FacebookUnited stole stuff out of our bags once. Delta just flat out hates their customers. There isn’t a good airline anymore. I wish we had trains.
This is a story of plain incompetence and uncaring. Obviously there was a lack of communication between staff. That one man who refused to move was just being an arsehole. Wouldn't have hurt him to move. Also the refusal of being seated in 1st class because " it's too expensive " was BS. They weren't earning anything from empty seats anyway. Yes, I wouldn't have anything to do with United after that experience.
What the bananas is going on with airlines nowadays? A four-year old NEEDS to be seated next to one of their parents! And if there’s two empty business class seats available, then that’s what you use. If they haven’t sold, they are worthless except as a solution to a problem. There’s near zero chance of those seats being sold once boarding has started.
Google ' united breaks guitars' , laugh and see how United has been negligent in Customer service for years
United? Delta etc. reputation sucks. too many crashes, incredibly poor service and problem solvings, as this OP and family experienced. Lucky to get home. Any honest lawyers there to sue? or are they all $$$$$ for the rich.
I don´t understand this. So the family paid, so they would sit together, aircraft changed so their seating changed as well...but did everyone else paid as well? I don´t live in U.S. but here in Europe, if you don´t want to pay for a specific seat, you get your seat at check in...like, couldn´t they work with people who don´t have their seats allocated yet?
This is what gets me . People complain of unruly children on flights or kids that cry because their ears hurt from the changing pressure. Then you get people like this guy trying to be a responsible parent and gets treated like that . If it were me I would have offered up my seat so he could sit with this child . We were on a flight where this couple was traveling with twins each parent had one child . He was waiting for his wife and the gate agent made him leave the area because they needed two people to carry two strollers . The gate agent would not let him go back and help his wife . Mu husband snuck back on the jet way told the wife the situation . the mean time he shut the doors so no one else could de board the plane . after he complained about holding up people getting off . My husband snuck back there so fast I didnt see it and he helped her get the strollers. The gate agent could have handled it better rather that getting up in the guys face
I was taking a flight to the US once (American airline). And at one point we changed gates. At boarding, the boarding pass of the lady in front of me would not go through. Just *loud buzzer* and red lights. Watching this Im thinking, "doee she have the right flight? The gate changed." The flight attendant gets frustrated and - without even looking at the pass! - waves the woman onto the plane. As we are about to taxi, the pilot announces our route and suddenly I hear a commotion, "Im on the wrong flight!" I get up from my seat to check and sure enough its the lady from earlier.
United did something similar to my family back in 1994-this was before you could pick your own seats. They seated my brother and I significantly away from my mom. I was 14, so I was fine, but my brother was pretty young. No one would help….until my brother loudly announced he was going to throw up. Then miraculously accommodation was made for him to sit next to my mom. Remember, next time a parent asks to switch with you on a flight, they may have bought seats together originally, but gotten screwed by the airline.
Have you flown lately. They are charging an arm and a leg to choose any decent seat, so I understand the guy requesting compensation
Load More Replies...Stop. Using. Airtravel. Just stop. There is no reason WHATSOEVER for a human to cross an ocean in anything other than a boat. Your convenience does not trump the climate crisis.
Are you trolling? If this is sarcastic it kinda does a bad job
Load More Replies...This was a horrible situation. I hate flying anyway, and this would have pushed me over the edge. But things are only going to get worse with flying in general. Boeing's poor decisions are catching up to them, planes are getting older, climate change will force more flight cancellations due to huge storms and outages, and this administration has fired a lot of air traffic controllers (making it much less safe to fly) and has begun deregulations, among other things.
Something doesn't add up here. Gate agents are supposed to ensure the name on boarding pass and passport match before boarding the passenger. Yet they let someone on who wasn't in possession of a valid boarding pass? Then the FA deboarded to sort the situation with the gate agent? Nope, not buying the story as told. Airlines take mis-scans very seriously. No gate agent is going to just wave someone onto the flight without logging that they've been boarded. This story has been embellished from the 4 year old sitting alone (EASA rules would ensure it flagged on the system and was sorted), to the flight attendant leaving the aircraft while boarding is in progress. Also, it's not on gate agents to fix flight control issues such as seating. That is sorted at check in/bag drop. No one would tell you to speak to the gate agents for that. Unless, of course, UA can flout all aviation rules and regulations.
Across the aisle and 1 row back seems fine. You can reach the child with an arm. It doesn't seem much different than the backseat of a car.
No, you can't reach a child ACROSS THE AISLE and one row back on a plane. You have to be nearly SIX feet (almost 183cm) tall just to reach across the aisle AT ALL and that's if your in the SAME ROW! It is VERY MUCH different than the backseat of a car because you'll be STANDING UP and REACHING OVER and/or AROUND STRANGERS while your child is literally SEATED WITH those strangers.
Load More Replies...United stole stuff out of our bags once. Delta just flat out hates their customers. There isn’t a good airline anymore. I wish we had trains.
This is a story of plain incompetence and uncaring. Obviously there was a lack of communication between staff. That one man who refused to move was just being an arsehole. Wouldn't have hurt him to move. Also the refusal of being seated in 1st class because " it's too expensive " was BS. They weren't earning anything from empty seats anyway. Yes, I wouldn't have anything to do with United after that experience.
What the bananas is going on with airlines nowadays? A four-year old NEEDS to be seated next to one of their parents! And if there’s two empty business class seats available, then that’s what you use. If they haven’t sold, they are worthless except as a solution to a problem. There’s near zero chance of those seats being sold once boarding has started.
Google ' united breaks guitars' , laugh and see how United has been negligent in Customer service for years
United? Delta etc. reputation sucks. too many crashes, incredibly poor service and problem solvings, as this OP and family experienced. Lucky to get home. Any honest lawyers there to sue? or are they all $$$$$ for the rich.
I don´t understand this. So the family paid, so they would sit together, aircraft changed so their seating changed as well...but did everyone else paid as well? I don´t live in U.S. but here in Europe, if you don´t want to pay for a specific seat, you get your seat at check in...like, couldn´t they work with people who don´t have their seats allocated yet?
This is what gets me . People complain of unruly children on flights or kids that cry because their ears hurt from the changing pressure. Then you get people like this guy trying to be a responsible parent and gets treated like that . If it were me I would have offered up my seat so he could sit with this child . We were on a flight where this couple was traveling with twins each parent had one child . He was waiting for his wife and the gate agent made him leave the area because they needed two people to carry two strollers . The gate agent would not let him go back and help his wife . Mu husband snuck back on the jet way told the wife the situation . the mean time he shut the doors so no one else could de board the plane . after he complained about holding up people getting off . My husband snuck back there so fast I didnt see it and he helped her get the strollers. The gate agent could have handled it better rather that getting up in the guys face
I was taking a flight to the US once (American airline). And at one point we changed gates. At boarding, the boarding pass of the lady in front of me would not go through. Just *loud buzzer* and red lights. Watching this Im thinking, "doee she have the right flight? The gate changed." The flight attendant gets frustrated and - without even looking at the pass! - waves the woman onto the plane. As we are about to taxi, the pilot announces our route and suddenly I hear a commotion, "Im on the wrong flight!" I get up from my seat to check and sure enough its the lady from earlier.
United did something similar to my family back in 1994-this was before you could pick your own seats. They seated my brother and I significantly away from my mom. I was 14, so I was fine, but my brother was pretty young. No one would help….until my brother loudly announced he was going to throw up. Then miraculously accommodation was made for him to sit next to my mom. Remember, next time a parent asks to switch with you on a flight, they may have bought seats together originally, but gotten screwed by the airline.
Have you flown lately. They are charging an arm and a leg to choose any decent seat, so I understand the guy requesting compensation
Load More Replies...Stop. Using. Airtravel. Just stop. There is no reason WHATSOEVER for a human to cross an ocean in anything other than a boat. Your convenience does not trump the climate crisis.
Are you trolling? If this is sarcastic it kinda does a bad job
Load More Replies...This was a horrible situation. I hate flying anyway, and this would have pushed me over the edge. But things are only going to get worse with flying in general. Boeing's poor decisions are catching up to them, planes are getting older, climate change will force more flight cancellations due to huge storms and outages, and this administration has fired a lot of air traffic controllers (making it much less safe to fly) and has begun deregulations, among other things.
Something doesn't add up here. Gate agents are supposed to ensure the name on boarding pass and passport match before boarding the passenger. Yet they let someone on who wasn't in possession of a valid boarding pass? Then the FA deboarded to sort the situation with the gate agent? Nope, not buying the story as told. Airlines take mis-scans very seriously. No gate agent is going to just wave someone onto the flight without logging that they've been boarded. This story has been embellished from the 4 year old sitting alone (EASA rules would ensure it flagged on the system and was sorted), to the flight attendant leaving the aircraft while boarding is in progress. Also, it's not on gate agents to fix flight control issues such as seating. That is sorted at check in/bag drop. No one would tell you to speak to the gate agents for that. Unless, of course, UA can flout all aviation rules and regulations.
Across the aisle and 1 row back seems fine. You can reach the child with an arm. It doesn't seem much different than the backseat of a car.
No, you can't reach a child ACROSS THE AISLE and one row back on a plane. You have to be nearly SIX feet (almost 183cm) tall just to reach across the aisle AT ALL and that's if your in the SAME ROW! It is VERY MUCH different than the backseat of a car because you'll be STANDING UP and REACHING OVER and/or AROUND STRANGERS while your child is literally SEATED WITH those strangers.
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