“I’m Not Doing Secret Santa Ever Again”: 20 People Share The Worst Gifts They Received
InterviewThe Christmas season certainly isn’t all about giving and receiving gifts, but the game of Secret Santa is! Whether you play with your colleagues, best friends or family members, it’s always exciting to surprise someone with a heartfelt gift. The understanding with this game is that everyone puts in time and effort and is rewarded with the warm feeling of making someone’s day, as well as a gift of their own.
But apparently, some Secret Santas out there belong on the naughty list. TikTokers have recently been sharing the worst presents they’ve received from gift exchanges, so we’ve gathered some of their photos below. While these presents must have been painful to receive, we have to admit that they’re hilarious to see. Keep reading to find a conversation with Raeshorn Creque, one of the TikTokers featured on this list, and be sure to upvote the gifts that you'd consider worse than coal!
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Its great for the friend whom you know will find it funny. For a coworker this is grounds for going to HR and rightfully so (and otherwise terrible unless you are 1000% certain the recepient will be into it).
Load More Replies...Secret Santa should be about jokes and humorous items like this. That's what makes it fun for all involved and that cup is hilarious.
Someone picked that particular photo to put on that mug on purpose. LOL!
I'm pretty sure that's a heat sensitive mug, the picture only appears when a hot drink is poured. What would happen if you regifted it to your granny or the Vicars wife 🤣
Load More Replies...To learn more about how it feels to receive a lackluster Secret Santa gift, we reached out to TikToker Raeshorn Creque, who recently shared his disappointing present online and was kind enough to have a chat with Bored Panda. Raeshorn said he was inspired to post a video about his experience because he knew his audience would be amused by the clear lack of effort put into his gift.
For some reason, Raeshorn's Secret Santa gave him a half-eaten box of Pop-Tarts, used cologne, a Roku remote and a sauce packet. But thankfully, he said this is the first time he's had a bad experience with Secret Santa. "I enjoy Secret Santa! It's very exciting knowing someone who may or may not know you can you get something that can one day forever be a treasure in your heart," the TikToker shared.
It looks like it was in a gift bag though. It could have just been left on your desk by itself. That happened to me once.
The secret Santas I used to be involved with had a price limit. Also, we’d say whether we wanted a nice present or a joke one.
I've been in secret Santas with price limits where they were simply ignored under the cover of anonymity...
Load More Replies...Raeshorn also shared that he went all out purchasing his present for someone else. "I ended up spending around $100-$150 on a gift for my person because I knew them personally and knew what they really wanted to do with their life," he explained. "I gifted him a tripod that moves, a microphone for his phone, Dior Sauvage cologne and a gold chain. I know he likes to smell and look good while also wanting to become an influencer."
Why is the dish soap half empty? And maybe the vitamin water, too.
Secret santa, the "things you can steal from the office because you forgot" edition.
And as far as preventing himself from receiving bad gifts in the future, Raeshorn says he doesn't believe it's possible unless he were to simply change who he was playing with. But he told Bored Panda that he's still a fan of the game. "Secret Santa is a game for families to come together and show their creativity, and that’s what I love most about it!"
This is what one of my coworkers likes to do for a "funny" white elephant gift. She thinks it's HYSTERICAL and we make sure that we explain the rules to new hires before she can get to them, otherwise she instructs them to give "naughty" gifts like she does. She's the only one who thinks it's funny and she's the only one who does it. One year I got stuck with her gift which was her junk drawer that she had emptied into a box and wrapped up. Newsflash: it SUCKS to walk away without a real gift when everyone else gets something nice because you're the only one who gave literal garbage away. There are silly gifts that get passed around every year, but the silly gift ALWAYS comes with a real present to make up for the gag gift. This woman doesn't believe in that, though. I can't f*****g stand it.
Not sure why she's even allowed to do it anymore. My HR a*s would call her into my office n be like "listen, Debbie, you either stop dumping your junk drawer on people and get a REAL gift, which needs to be approved 3 days ahead of time, or you can't participate." ....nicely. I'd say it nicely 🤣
Load More Replies...People are obviously confusing 'secret Santa' gifts with 'white elephant' gifts. Secret Santa gifts are a decent gift from an anonymous person, hence the 'secret' part. White elephant gifts are gag gifts, the most worthless, ridiculous piece of junk you can find. Done right, it's hilarious.
We had a work related baby shower, one tasteless person gave the mother-to-be a crotchless lingerie set (in her pre-pregnancy size) and a baby romper that said "I won't be an only child long!" She then told the soon-to-be mom that the lingerie was meant to give her a push to lose all of the weight that she has gained with the pregnancy. I showed her, AH guest, the door while everyone else was trying to get momma to stop sobbing!!
Yeah I wont do secret Santa anymore. In my 20s worked at small club as a barback. My bf best friend was one of the bartenders. So we did secret Santa and at the party everyone got their gifts except me. The man told me later he didn't know what to get me so he got ne nothing and gave another girl a gift. Nobody even noticed I didn't have anything to open. The guy could have asked the bartender. Last time I ever did a secret Santa and I'm in my 60s now. Someone always ends up on the wrong end.
When my husband was in the military, there was a Chia Pet being passed around the unit for at least 15 years. They’d go out of their way to disguise it and whoever got it had to display it in the office like a trophy. Legend says it’s still being passed around… Buy it always came with a real gift too.
The first time I ever participated in a Secret Santa gift exchange was my freshman year of high school. I was absolutely thrilled and spent so much time and effort planning the perfect gift for my person. I created a shirt online for her, ordered it and ensured that it would be delivered in time for our Christmas party. I knew she would love it.
But what I didn’t think about until the day of was the fact that I would be getting a gift too. Well, in theory. The person who picked me conveniently didn’t show up for class that day, and when he appeared the next day, he handed me a box of chocolates. That’s it. Now, don’t get me wrong, I love chocolate. But it was obvious what had happened there.
I don't even know what those things are, other than "something plastic wrapped in plastic."
It's weird even if she doesn't. Zero thought put into that gift.
Load More Replies...As a parent who had babies not long ago, I've grabbed whatever bag was nearby to throw whatever we needed for baby into if we were in a rush. I totally think that's what happened here. Got the bags mixed up.
Load More Replies...This seems like a statement about how they view her as a child (attitude) or she's the baby of the group.
Despite having a disappointing first experience with Secret Santa, I was not deterred from participating again in the future. In fact, I think I’ve participated in a Secret Santa gift exchange nearly every year since. And because I love getting presents for others and spreading some Christmas joy, I’m always happy to participate. But after seeing the photos on this list, I can understand why not everyone is eager to hop on the Secret Santa train.
According to the University of Technology Sydney, if your office has 20 employees who wish to participate in Secret Santa festivities, there are about 895 quadrillion possible combinations of who will choose who (while still ensuring that no one has to purchase their own present). But as it seems from this list, there’s probably a 1 in 20-ish chance that you’ll receive a present you hate.
I don't get the hype of sugar-free drinks. Most of them are sweetened with stevia, which in all of my experiences, has a weird aftertaste.
Load More Replies...A gallon of drain cleaner is expensive, that'd be a score...
Load More Replies...Tbh I’d dig it—if it wasn’t sugar-free. Also, annoying to carry a gallon of liquids around.
ITS A TINY TABASO SAUCE. ITS SO TINY. I NEED IT. FOR MY TRINKET COLLECTION.
Yes and they are amazing and very addictive! Goldfish have a variety of sweet versions like chocolate and cinnamon graham,, as well. They're in the same vain of "Circus Animals" crackers, Nilla wafers, etc.
Load More Replies...Maybe if she wins on the lotto tickets she can at least buy a whole pack of crackers to replace the open one.
I watched the Tik Tok, almost everything was open.
Load More Replies...Even I gotta admit that calling this gift half-assed would be generous, lol.
It also seems that plenty of employees know before they even agree to participate in Secret Santa that they’re dreading the experience. Employer News reports that nearly one third of participants say they worry about choosing certain colleagues who they wouldn’t want to shop for, and the same number of employees admit that opening up gifts in front of their coworkers makes them uncomfortable. 24% of participants say they’ve had to buy a present for a colleague they’ve never even spoken to, and 18% say that Secret Santa adds unnecessary stress to an already hectic season.
Looks like an engagement ring and wedding band set so probably not.
Load More Replies...Looks homemade, with some effort put in. Does the though not count anymore?
I would still say the KIDS home made ornaments do not belong in the secret Santa gift.
Load More Replies...Have you seen some peoples kitchens... Sorry it is a hard no thank you -
Load More Replies...It's the nail design. There is a bow on the end.
Load More Replies...So the message I am getting from this is that IT IS NOT the thought that counts. It's the "I'm a greedy a$$ b!tch and want something more expensive" thought that counts!
There was no thought here, it's a Gatorade and fast food sauce packets. If there's a thought here it is "f**k you I hate you"
Load More Replies...Those pens are satisfying to play with
Load More Replies...Looks like they mixed up a secret Santa gift with a leftover party favor bag for a 4 yo birthday party
Even though one third of employees at UK companies say they’ll participate in their workplace Secret Santa this year, 30% admit that they’d really rather not take part. 36% admit that they’ll even give away the gift they receive if they don’t like it. So even though a whopping £167m has been spent on Secret Santa presents, at an average of £15.50 per gift, £60m of that ends up being wasted.
it's a pity they don't fit, this isn't a cheap gift. :-( Unless they were unloading old stuff on you.
Stop putting your own preferences before someone else's wish list: just stick to it. How hard is that?
Load More Replies...I mean, you CAN exchange the diapers for the correct size, even without the receipt. Just tell them the truth, it was a gift, and you need a different size. I did it when my son was a baby, and I got too many newborn size diapers at my baby shower, and he grew out of them before we could use them all (we were very fortunate to have such good friends). **BUT** that said, although it's always nice to get something that saves you money, this is a TERRIBLE Secret Santa gift.
She's an ageist. Anyone at any age can be an asshat secret santa. Her caption made me not feel bad for her at all.
why TF with the ageism? so tiresome. it makes me sick to my f***ing a*s that mocking those of us who [perhaps against odds] have somehow succeeded in notching multiple decades into our belts is still a cool, funny, OK thing to do. old-shaming is very much in fashion.
Comments like your is why the stereotypes of oldies exist. Sounds like you have something against being young?
Load More Replies...Seems to me that she thought that for her, an African American person, to receive Kool Aid-even if it was gum-was a little bit racist. (TBH, I kind of agree.) Or at least, playing on racial stereotypes. And perhaps the person giving it was old enough that they were from "another time" and thought this would be funny. (It really wasn't.) I also think everyone who is getting caught up in getting their panties bunched about "ageism" is missing the whole point here...
Anything can be a torture device if you try hard enough.
Load More Replies...Thought that peeler was a sling shot for a second….would of been good too
Employees are also calling for some changes to be made to the Secret Santa setup. Nearly a third would like to see a smaller spending limit, and 22% of employees say they’d actually rather give to charities than one another. It’s not surprising, considering how questionable the gifts they receive often are. Respondents told Employer News they’ve opened up presents to find used candles, toilet paper, cash and half-eaten or expired food items.
I love all of those things. All of them are useful. I don't have human children, so that baby book would 100% be filled with photos of my cats and dogs XD
That's the problem with Secret Santa. The gifts are useful for someone, but not necessarily the recipient. Probably because co-workers either don't know enough about each other so that they can get an appropriate gift or they just don't care about a) others in general b) their coworker specifically. From what I understand, the whole Secret Santa thing is detrimental to the work place and should therefore be abandoned.
Load More Replies...I'm baffled by Secret Santa giving so many gifts! I've only seen one or two. This one really looks like the person walked around their home grabbing anything they didn't want anymore.
I think, to make it look like they made some effort🤷♀️
Load More Replies...Whats wrong with Lindor? This is expensive chocolate, I pay about 25-30 Euro pro kilogram (and it is not sold by the kilogram)
My first thought was not about getting Lindor chocolates, but that it's not a packet of them. It looks like Secret Santa took a handful out of a container they already had. That is what's wrong with this present.
Load More Replies...But this is what I put in my mom's stocking and she was soooo happy. :-(
That'd be 60 bucks in my local currency, I love Lindtt, they're luxury chocolate here.
Lindt chocolate is good but Lindor chocolate is full of vegetable fat for that ̶w̶a̶x̶y̶ "creamy" texture.
where is he getting his skincare products from his skin is F. L. A. W. L E. S. S.
It's real...at least he said it was. It's on TikTok, you can look it up and judge for yourself. He said the lantern smelled like old cigarettes. 🤢
Load More Replies...I don’t understand why seemingly everyone photographs everything in mirrors. What the hell for? Is it because they can’t stand not seeing themselves for the fifteen seconds it takes to get a photo? I haven’t been able to make out about three-fourths of this c**p because it’s all BACKWARDS, and it’s not just this post; it’s the majority of them. Anyone know the reason, or s it just down to stupidity?
I was given a lantern like that for Christmas, from an old boss. There's a switch on the side that makes it snow over a diorama of deer and trees. I love it, and it's on year round display - thought the snow only gets turned on at Christmas time.
Load More Replies...I like it. It shows effort. You may not care for it, but it is still a nice gift.
What's for you is not for everyone else. I got a gift last year and Gave to my sister. Had no use for a selfie stick.
Load More Replies...To prevent receivers of Secret Santa presents from going home saying “bah humbug,” some companies have implemented mandatory wish lists to ensure that everyone gets something they actually like. Websites that allow everyone to upload wishlists, like Elfster and Draw Names, can be a massive help, especially when employees don’t actually know one another well. Just because you picked a person who you couldn’t even spot in a crowd doesn’t mean you have to get them a generic gift!
This I will admit is not being rich or spoiled that honestly is some weird c**p
Off topic, but I really like everything about her outfit--and her hair.
Those glasses though.... I wear glasses and I'm imagining having frames so big that they ride down the sides of my nose.
Load More Replies...Hand warmers are awesome, like unless you live in CA, AZ, FL, Australia, Egypt, Hawaii or whatever. But honestly, I'd have been thrilled with those. The rest looks... dollar store, so, meh.
Yeah, unless there's some missing context--like that the recipient is diabetic, or the price range for the exchange was high, this is OK. Not the most creative or personal gift, but OK.
Load More Replies...Some of yall is just rich brats at this point. There ain't a f**king thing wrong with this.
I don’t like sweet things at all, so it wouldn’t be a very good gift for me. I couldn’t use or enjoy it.
Load More Replies...Nah you can see the reese's tree there and other green packaged candy. They probably paid full price 🤣
Load More Replies...This is a great gift, unless you are aware of the recipient's sugar restrictions. 🤷♀️
Most of these were not fails but simply ungrateful people. Also half the fun of secret Santa is the horrible gifts! Just have a laugh and better luck next year.
Forced gifts in exchange are never a good idea, especially when there don't seem to be any rules and max values. And for some people even $5 may be a struggle. I am happy this isn't a thing where I work.
I really struggle to know how to feel about Christmas. At its best it is wonderful. It's a time for loved ones to be together and connect with each other. However, I see and feel firsthand the mental toll it takes on so many, particularly those with low incomes. The guilt single parents feel because they can't give what others can. The loneliness so many feel. The most magical time of the year for many, is also the most difficult time of the year for many more. I'd love it if we shifted the focus from gifts to community because that's really what makes Christmas magical.
Did Secret Santa twice at work. Both times, everyone gave a list of things they'd like to receive to the organizer, who gave them to the appropriate "Santa." Both times, we were instructed to only buy things that were on the list. First time, the giver went off-list and I received a set of four very generic, gold-rimmed highball glasses that looked like they came from Pic-n-Save. I already had way too many glasses, don't like gold, and don't drink alcohol at all let alone highballs (and yes I know you can drink anything out of them, but still). Second time the giver also went off-list, and bought me a card game which he thought I would like. And he was right, it's a very fun game that I really enjoy playing. It's a pity that I already owned it, which is why it wasn't on the list. So yeah, one "I appreciate the thought, I really do, but..." gift and one "You didn't put any thought into this at all, did you?" gift.
I've never had any luck with Secret Santa and I hate it because I always go out of my way (whatever the $ limit is) to be thoughtful about figuring out what they'd like and I always get c**p with not a single thought about what -I- might like. But One year I didn't even get mine. The co-worker totally forgot about Secret Santa and was on holidays for 2 weeks, so I got mine when she came back in mid January. Funny thing is - it was the ONLY Secret Santa I got that I actually loved. Go figure.
We had a minimum of $25 and I had everyone fill out a sheet of preferences. I got a bag full of s**t that I'll never use and don't like. Person said "I didn't know what you liked so I got you this." Uh. Yeah you did. Yeah. You did. I have a very personalized nice glass jar to my person as I knew it's exactly what she wanted. What's the point? I'd be mad but whatever.
My first secret Santa I received a pair of faux fur toxic green slippers. The gifter deliberately chose something she 'knew' I would hate. I loved those slippers, as did my cat. Pissed my coworker off royally.
Most of these were not fails but simply ungrateful people. Also half the fun of secret Santa is the horrible gifts! Just have a laugh and better luck next year.
Forced gifts in exchange are never a good idea, especially when there don't seem to be any rules and max values. And for some people even $5 may be a struggle. I am happy this isn't a thing where I work.
I really struggle to know how to feel about Christmas. At its best it is wonderful. It's a time for loved ones to be together and connect with each other. However, I see and feel firsthand the mental toll it takes on so many, particularly those with low incomes. The guilt single parents feel because they can't give what others can. The loneliness so many feel. The most magical time of the year for many, is also the most difficult time of the year for many more. I'd love it if we shifted the focus from gifts to community because that's really what makes Christmas magical.
Did Secret Santa twice at work. Both times, everyone gave a list of things they'd like to receive to the organizer, who gave them to the appropriate "Santa." Both times, we were instructed to only buy things that were on the list. First time, the giver went off-list and I received a set of four very generic, gold-rimmed highball glasses that looked like they came from Pic-n-Save. I already had way too many glasses, don't like gold, and don't drink alcohol at all let alone highballs (and yes I know you can drink anything out of them, but still). Second time the giver also went off-list, and bought me a card game which he thought I would like. And he was right, it's a very fun game that I really enjoy playing. It's a pity that I already owned it, which is why it wasn't on the list. So yeah, one "I appreciate the thought, I really do, but..." gift and one "You didn't put any thought into this at all, did you?" gift.
I've never had any luck with Secret Santa and I hate it because I always go out of my way (whatever the $ limit is) to be thoughtful about figuring out what they'd like and I always get c**p with not a single thought about what -I- might like. But One year I didn't even get mine. The co-worker totally forgot about Secret Santa and was on holidays for 2 weeks, so I got mine when she came back in mid January. Funny thing is - it was the ONLY Secret Santa I got that I actually loved. Go figure.
We had a minimum of $25 and I had everyone fill out a sheet of preferences. I got a bag full of s**t that I'll never use and don't like. Person said "I didn't know what you liked so I got you this." Uh. Yeah you did. Yeah. You did. I have a very personalized nice glass jar to my person as I knew it's exactly what she wanted. What's the point? I'd be mad but whatever.
My first secret Santa I received a pair of faux fur toxic green slippers. The gifter deliberately chose something she 'knew' I would hate. I loved those slippers, as did my cat. Pissed my coworker off royally.
