“AITA For Leaving The Hospital After My Sister Gave Birth And Announced The Name Of Her Baby?”

Seriously. What an asśhole.

Plus - OP could end up adopting a child, or end up choosing to do IVF, or could even have a child via a surrogate. Just because OP and her husband have fertility issues doesn't mean they'll "NEVER" have a child, which is what OP's sister said. It's one more layer of utter, unnecessary cruelty and a-hole-ness by OP's sister on top of everything else.

Yeah, the sister didn't do this out of love for her baby or concern for her sibling or sheer coincidence. The sister purposefully went out of her way to do this out of spite and as an attempt to demonstrate some sort of superiority over her sister. I think OP should simply say, "There was no love for anyone in my sister's actions. There was only purposeful hostility. I cannot be around someone who uses babies as a weapon to hurt others. I will not be around someone who regards me with hatred and hostility. It is not up to me to resolve this because I have no way to help someone who is afflicted with such deep levels of anger. I think it is best that she get professional help and that I stay away so as not to antagonize her issues." The onus to fix this is on the sister, not OP.

Seriously, her sister sounds like a terrible person.

I agree with this. OP was most upset about her sister's messed up comments, which is understandable. The snooping Is also something important to consider As an adult, her sister being in the bedroom her sister and BIL share long enough to find that notebook and read the baby name? Very much not okay. A total violation of their privacy. In addition to everything else, of course.

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There's no reason to struggle with infertility unless you've committed barrier crimes and wouldn't be able to have a legal adoption.