Woman Grew Up Poor While Her Husband Grew Up In Upper Class, Here Are 10 Of Their Differences
InterviewMoving in together with your partner is said to be one of the greatest joys in life. Not only do you get to start each day with your soulmate by your side, but you also get to learn all their quirks — however annoying they may be.
In Michaela‘s and Alex‘s case, the couple quickly noticed that besides some occasional snoring or contrasting spending habits, their upbringing in different economic classes made the pair appreciate and do things quite differently.
To celebrate these differences, the couple shared their contradicting habits on TikTok in a three-part series that has been viewed almost 9 million times.
After noticing the differences in their habits, this couple released a series of TikToks that captures what it’s like to live with someone who comes from a different social class

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When grocery shopping, Alex would always get the name brand. I had to teach him that store brand is just as good with a few notable exceptions.
things you never cheap if you can help it 1 cheese toilet paper and bread
Cheep all you want on cheese......in Wisconsin
Load More Replies...Store brand isn't just as good. Some of them may be kinda ok sure, but not as good. I buy store brand butter, but it isn't as good as fancy butter. Store brand food is like watching TV shows in SD on your phone. Regular brand is HD on your laptop. And fancy brands are 4k on a TV. Same show, but not the same experience.
They were out of a name brand cereal I like, so I bought the generic. It was terrible. I ended up throwing out half of the box. Some generics are good though, like with medicine.
Load More Replies...Noticed no difference from the organic costco butter.
Load More Replies...This is an important life lesson, it only comes with buying the store brand dishwashing liquid and realising that it's a bad idea, the brand name lasts me 2-3 times as long for only 15% more... then also realising that I can't actually taste the difference between sminorff vodka and Ciroc, so I buy the cheaper always
I always try difference "brands" to see if they're any good, and if not, I either try something else or go back to the original. I never just "settle" for the expensive stuff if there are reasonable alternatives. My life doesn't revolve around food.
Load More Replies...Again, not a class issue. Store brand isn't "just" as good either. Lots of companies have extremely strict protocols and safety checks to allow them to sell in certain stores like Costco and BJ's. Many times the extra cost is better quality and much stricter safety guidelines. Not always apples to apples here.
butter is butter, they are the same. One costs more cos of advertising. If the ingredients are the same and the formulation then it's just going to be butter.
Load More Replies...In the paper titled 'Is America coming apart?' the authors argue that income inequality and the gap between the rich and poor are at their "all-time high." Hence the increasing segregation between different socioeconomic classes.
In order to find out if class differences affect intimate relationships — as highlighted in Michaela's and Alex's case — Jessi Streib, Duke University's sociology professor and the author of 'The Power of the Past: Understanding Cross-Class Marriages', has dedicated his entire research to this. "So often we think about how class differences keep us apart," Streib explained to Bored Panda. "I wanted to know if and how they draw us together."
After studying and extensively interviewing 32 couples in which one partner comes from a well-to-do family and the other from a "blue-collar" one —as well as 10 couples in which both partners grew up in the same economic class— Jessi was able to discover that "strangers who grew up in the same social class had more in common with each other than they did with spouses with whom they shared their lives."
Alex grew up with only purebred poodles as his dogs. My childhood dog was a mutt from the pound. But together we adopted this pitbull mix from the county shelter in Atlanta.
Tummy looks like a girl. She's still an adorable and obviously excellent dog. :)
Load More Replies...I grew up upper glass, and I'm proud to say all of our pets were rescues <3
Nothing wrong with getting a dog from a proper, responsible breeder who is in it for the betterment of the breed. As long as you make sure to thoroughly research the breeder in question beforehand. Always ask to meet the mom and puppies at their home, if they refuse to allow you that and don't provide a reasonable explanation like someone in the house caught covid or something, walk away.
Rescues are the best. It seems like they know you saved them and they are the most loyal and affectionate.
While a lot of breeds are cute, many of them are products of unhealthy matches - mother to son, father to daugher, brother to sister, etc.... The majority of breeders are in it for the money, they don't give a damn about the dogs.
Jessi thinks that the 'opposites attract' law, which not only applies to people's personalities but apparently their upbringing in different socioeconomic backgrounds too, partly comes from problem-solving. "People in each class face a distinct set of problems, and sometimes those who grow up in other classes have the solutions," she said.
"For example, people who grew up with white-collar parents often felt that their parents pushed them to have academic and extracurricular achievements." Which, as most of us are aware, means being away from your beloved family — something that folks from the lower-class get to experience less often due to lack of funds or opportunities.
As Jessi explains, this is all connected because "people from white-collar backgrounds are then often drawn to people from blue-collar backgrounds because they see them as able to help them have the close family relationships they always wanted."
Michaela keeps everything from every takeout restaurant we've ever ordered from. There's a whole drawer full of this stuff. She also keeps all of our gift bags which is great for holidays, birthdays, gift-giving, making it a lot easier.
Well, the gift bag one is just logical. Most of the times they are as good as new. Had a tradition with a friend where we kept gifting each other the same bag back and forth for several years.
My brother-in-law keep regifting escort the same card every year. It's a fun way to save $6 on a greeting card that usually you'd never see again.
Load More Replies...I only buy gift bags if I need an especially large one. Otherwise I have a reliable stash!
I'm late '50s and I have Christmas boxes and wooden hangers we used when is was 11 or younger....right now I'm looking at a night stand that was a handmedown when I was a teen that is in my 23 yr old daughters room.
That must be upper-class hangers and furniture lol cheap furniture don't last like that 😅.
Load More Replies...More people should recycle stuff and not just pitch out things that are perfectly good. If you don’t want packaged restaurant freebies donate them to the food bank.
Like free soda crackers that come with soup, and the like?
Load More Replies...We reuse the same gift bags every year. We are still using one that my daughter got a birthday present in for her 9th birthday. She is 28.
This isn't a class issue, know many people that do this. Come to think of it, most everyone I know does this to some extent. You never know when an extra duck sauce will come in handy.
I like to finish all of our leftovers. Michaela will not finish the last of anything in the fridge. This is a byproduct of her growing up with food insecurity and not necessarily knowing where her next meal will come from.
I never realised I had this until I read this, thank you for helping me understand myself
I usually find the opposite being true. The richer people don't finish food off and just let leftovers rot and instead order takeout or make something else. Meanwhile, the poorer are much more likely to actually finish stuff so as not to waste.
Which are you? I guess it also depends on the way you were raised and if you felt secure
Load More Replies...I always have a full frig and freezer. It's a bit annoying at time and i never really understood why. But i did grow up with us foraging literally for much of the food we ate, also growing a large portion of our food and stored to eat throughout the year. I'm going to go empty the frig a bit right now...
That explains the people in my office who will leave 1/8 of a donut in box in the kitchen. Just eat it!
That feels more like leaving the last gulp of milk in the bottle so the next person has to replace it.
Load More Replies...This isn't something that is present in everyone who had food insecurity as children. Until I started dealing with all the childhood trauma, my extreme food insecurity growing up manifested, as an adult, as buying way more food than we need (esp. pantry items). I have NEVER had a pantry that wasn't overstuffed, and I often would have to throw out expired items because I bought stuff we never used. It's amazing how much just starting to chip away at that trauma has helped curb those impulses.
I am so uncomfortable finishing anything in the kitchen because I might "need it more" later. Maladaptive because often that stuff ends up going bad.
I keep leftovers until they have a nice coat of fuzz on them....THEN I throw them out.
I grew up in poverty, and I would have to say my house was very much a "waste not want not" house. No food was ever thrown away. Every last leftover was eaten. Often it got tricky by the end of the week and food is running out... but there are lots of little leftovers. How do you combine them together into a meal? Resulted in some rather creative results.
During my family’s worst money situation, my mother made a rotating pot of beans, each of which was huge and would last for days: pinto, kidney, white. If we were really lucky, the butcher at the grocery store would have a ham bone we could toss in for extra flavor.
Load More Replies...I used to lives (and still are) just like Michaela back before 2010. I was totally broke, living n sleeping under the sky or public bench most of the times (worse if its raining, soaking wet n cold 😢), been thought r treated as an addict, accused of theft n etc. Meal times can never be predicted, let alone be choosy. I'll grab whatever foods available and/or offered even though I just had a meal as I cant be sure when or if my nxt meal will comes. But those times thought me lots n lots of things. Things I never knw existed or tried before, and appreciates things more (and still are, infact sometimes to an annoyances of those around me 😅) especially those that I took for granted previously. I appreciate n valued life more than ever, especially those of others and to animals around me (even to ants i found around the hse, tryin to do at least something or not so they are disturbed). Also learned lots of things especially those of spirituality and religions and more, way more.
The biggest hurdle that mixed-class couples faced, according to Jessi's study, was the difference in planning and preparation. "The big difference that couples faced was whether to manage everything or to take it as it comes."
To our own surprise, partners from wealthy families would usually take the lead. "They grew up with financial security and parents in positions of authority. This allowed them to be able to predict the future and want to try to control their surroundings," Streib reasoned.
"People who grew up in blue-collar families often have less financial security and authority. So other people and events throw things at them, and they become very good at reacting. Seeing the future as unpredictable, they want to take things as they come."
Or, to borrow a golden phrase from John Lennon: "Life happens when you're busy making other plans." As long as you're making those plans together, despite the differences in habits and upbringing, that's what matters in the end.
We are 26 and Alex has never bought a car, laptop, or cellphone himself. And I have purchased every car, laptop, and cellphone that I've ever owned.
I refuse to drive, unless required for work, or on very rare occasions, such as that I used to travel to pick my sons up in a rented car when they were younger. I think it's nonsensical that people detest war and such force and violence, yet make a conscious choice purchase products that require them to fund those wars. I walk, or use public transport. Since where I live there is still a mandate to wear face masks on public transport, and almost no other setting, I refuse to use public transport. So I purchased a bike. I'm not an invalid. I don't require a glorified mobility scooter.
Load More Replies...Sorry, but being able to buy a car makes you rich. I'm struggling with whether or nor accepting my dad offer of paying my driver license which would cost 4 months of his salary (he offered to buy/pay something for me to start working, I'm still evaluating what would give best chances to get a job).
This reminds me of my partner and me. He was born with several silver spoons in his mouth (and maids to polish them), whereas I lived in 12 different homes and essentially raised myself and my siblings. When we were first dating, he was driving a 750Li, and I was driving my 3rd Sentra. All he ever had was $100k cars. So when his BMW started breaking down a lot and requiring $4k in repairs every few weeks, I suggested he look at the new Altimas. After he was done scoffing a bit, he agreed to go test drive one. He drove his new Altima off the showroom floor that same day, and has only owned Altimas since. Not only that, two colleagues of his (each of whom are worth many millions of dollars) who only drove fancy, uber-expensive cars bought Altimas, as well, once they drove his. So...luxury isn't all it's cracked up to be.
I too have purchased every car and tech with my own money my entire life.
I grew up poor, always food in fridge and fruit on the table but thats where it stops. I was never gifted these things. The people that i knew in similar lives that were gifted these things, those people worked extra hours and saved to buy them.
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I keep all of my receipts in case there's something wrong with something that I bought and have to return it. Alex doesn't keep receipts because if there's something wrong with what he bought, he'll just buy another one.
Other people have to be told by their parents to keep their receipts so they can always prove that they weren't shoplifting.
Initially I thought you were talking about distrustful parents. And I guess it's possible you were. But then as I continued to ponder, I recalled just how often individuals are profiled negatively based on their physical traits and/or dress, and my heart sank. Too damned true for comfort and acceptance.
Load More Replies...That's just foolish of him. One because of the waste of money but two what if he needs it as an alibi because somebody who looks very similar to him committed a crime? My receipts are my alibis!
Ok, this is as weird as my daughters stepmom telling her to never memorize her debit card pin in case she gets kidnapped and the kidnappers also try to torture her for her pin so they can steal her money. The weirder part is the stepmom doesn't have money
Load More Replies...I do this backwards. I grew up poor, so I remember lots of returns and exchanges (and layaway) growing up. Now I make enough that I can afford to let my social anxiety win -returning something is just too much. Up to a certain price point, anyway. Now I'm imagining a self checkout machine that takes returns 🤔
Also you can get rebates from some apps now if you have the receipts.
THIS. Yes. Same with my partner (who never saves receipts, warranty info, were) and me (who documents, saves, and organizes EVERYTHING).
not sure about elsewhere but in Ireland, a receipt is proof of purchase but not required when returning products as long as you can prove it came from the shop. So even if you lose your receipt returning a product within 28 days or if it stops working.
I understand this conceptually, but I can’t imagine any business in California doing such a thing unless (a) it’s a small town [<10,000], and/or (b) you’re on a first-name basis with the owner or manager.
Load More Replies...Buying another and throwing out is how the environment got into this mess. At least recycle.
Overpopulation is the main driver of all of our non-political problems!
Load More Replies...Very sensible to keep them. I do it as well. I've been a single mum. 😁🥰
My wife keeps receipts for 7 years for tax purposes and also in case we need to reference back to a purchase place so we can know where to buy a replacement. I have digital copies of tax returns going all the back to 1992. Why? Old addresses, old employer info, etc.
Every time I leave a room and leave the light switch on, she will turn it off. Even if I'm going right back into that room a minute later.
This seems to be outdated advice/habit. It made sense when light bulbs were using 60W a piece but modern LED bulbs use 1/10th of that. It's around 5 USD per year to keep a light bulb on 24/7 (using the US average price of 10.5 cents per kWh). If you have 10 lights on for 5 hours per day every day, then it costs you 12 USD per year. There is virtually no saving potential in this.
No need to burn the energy just because we can afford it.
Load More Replies...Engineer here, with modern LEDs, it is more cost efficient to leave them on for short absences. LEDs actually take a fair amount of power to switch on. The old wisdom has been reversed. If you're leaving a room for no more than 20-40 MINUTES, it's more efficient to leave an LED light on.
That would drive me crazy. Turn the lights off when you leave for the day or go to sleep at night, but it's ridiculous to turn them off when you just leave a room for a brief period of time.
Absolutely. LEDs consume far less power. This is measurable. Unless you aren't going back into a room for hours, leave them on. Turning lights off and back on after a little bit of time simple does not save much in money nor energy (and also puts more wear and tear on wiring, switches, and lights). It was never a good idea to do that with any type of light.
Load More Replies...I'd wonder about excessive wear on the bulbs, forcing more frequent purchase of new ones, with too many on/off cycles.
I won't eat anything without announcing it, because growing up I wasn't allowed to eat so much as a piece of cheese. My mother had planned all the meals to the slice of cheese.
My mom used to threaten to issue us one light bulb to use from room to room if we didn't learn to shut off the lights when we left the room! I used one lightbulb in a 5 bulb light fixture in my apartment. When the manager did my annual inspection he asked why only one light worked. I demonstrated all of them worked but only one was screwed in all the way since I "didn't own stock in the utility company" and couldn't afford to use more than one at a time.
My dad has this habit and I hate it so much! I'm not comfortable in the dark and hate it when I have to stumble back to the room I just left because he just turned off all the lights. Nowadays lightbulbs do not use that much energy - my highest electricity bills are in summer when I run the AC. But I totally get it - turning off the lights all the time is a sign you grew up poor :(
Turning lights off and on wears them out faster....LEDs though are not like the lights most of us grew up with.
When eating a meal, I always finished my plate because I was not allowed to leave the table until I finished my plate and was told I was wasteful, if I didn't. My husband will eat until he's full like a regular human.
Ok, but that one is crazy thinking. Just put a smaller portion on your plate. Wasteful cooking comes from cooking more than necessary or not saving scraps.
When you don't know if there will be a next meal you "stock up". There is usually no space to leave it safe if you don't eat it because somebody else will eat it if you don't. It IS craxy thinking that's the point of this post, to highlight the differences.
Load More Replies...You are both regular humans! Never forget that! Love your post, with regards, a regular human
My grandma grew up during the depression and would often force herself to finish the food she would serve. "I'd rather it go bad inside me than outside me" was her reasoning
This is a sign of an unhealthy food relationship that can expand into ED territory. If you do this please be careful.
Yep ^^ my story exactly. People say "Why don't you just stop eating when you're full?" Well because most of my life was food-insecure and I am still worried about getting enough to eat even though I'm in a much better financial position.
Load More Replies...No Rissie. It comes from not knowing when your next meal is coming from since birth. Some of you never had to wait for your mom's boyfriends work release lunch to split with your sibling for all 3 meals that day and it shows.
In case you're wondering that's Pluto on the left and Venus on the right plate.
forcing children to sit at the table and finish what was probably too big of a portion anyway is so unhealthy and may lead to eating disorders. did for me anyway......
I have a collection of jars in case I can reuse them. I was taught to never throw anything away. And Alex will throw away or recycle stuff when he's done with it.
It's fine to save some, the risk of not having money goes to keeping everything even if you don't need it. Creating a mess you have to carry around with you. Because do you really ever need a jar so bad it's worth keeping for 10 years? It's the behavior that, in its extremes, has people end up hoarding unnecessary things.
The ones I keep are any which are compatible with Ball or Mason lids (which I give to a friend who cans her own vegetables), and those which are smooth and completely generic (without special molding or company names) because they don't automatically look re-used, even if they are.
Load More Replies...I save jars and other reusable containers, too, but I do make myself limit how many. Don't want to wind up on "Hoarders". :)
Glass jars are a really good place to store the bacon fat.
Mine have measurements on them, so they are good for keeping track of how much I've had to drink.
Load More Replies...Omg I have the same jars with that checkered lid. I've re- used all of them
My well off but frugal mother has always done this so it's a struggle for me to get rid of certain items even if I don't use them anymore because "I might need it". It's rubbed off on my 13 year old daughter too. Clutter drives me crazy but getting rid of stuff causes anxiety too so it's a constant battle.
Both my parents came from extreme poverty. My mother did this, my father threw away everything and couldn't be bothered.
Alex is good at picking up but he's not as good at cleaning because he always had to pick up for the cleaning service that he had his whole life. I'm better at cleaning because if I wanted something to be clean, I had to do it myself, but I am just naturally messier than he is.
Remembering working two months in a camp housekeeping department and hearing stories about the 18 year olds who had never swept because of the nanny. -.-
I took a group of middle school kids which included my daughter to a camp for a week. We wanted them to set the tables, wash the dishes and mop floors. They were good kids but not one knew how to do any chores and when we asked them to they said that was the maids job. I was embarrassed because while I grew up doing all those things my daughter never did and it was my fault, not hers. I did show them how and by the end of the week we were a well oiled machine.
Load More Replies...Teach Alex to do all of the chores and split them 50-50 so you don't turn into his cleaning service because, 'you're better at at'.
From the way she said she is messier than him I don't think that's an issue.
Load More Replies...My son in law can cook, clean, fix his own cars, clips coupons and always buys off brand groceries. He has car loans and student loans. He doesn’t throw out or replace even basic clothing items like socks and underwear. He always worked multiple jobs and he really knows how to budget. My daughter has never cleaned a toilet or mopped a floor. Has never had a loan of any type because her parents paid cash for her cars, vacations, education including grad school and no budget wedding. Has been to Europe more times than her husband has left his small town. When she married her husband he didn’t own a winter coat while my daughter had coats in every color, some of which cost $1,000 each. My son in law could get by on his starting teacher salary and my daughter makes at least 4 times his salary but couldn’t live off that if it weren’t for her husbands ability to budget. They somehow make it work like this lovely young couple.
I'm very tidy and don't make messes to begin with because I always had to do it myself. And working long hours I never wanted to have to spend my days off cleaning.
imagine having cleaners.... I had to do proper hard chores at 9-10 yrs old like mopping, ironing, cleaning the gutters , even cooking full meals.
Does no one else reuse aluminum foil? Like spread it out, wipe it off with the dish cloth, let it air dry and have it all sitting on top of the microwave? Especially useful for those tupperwares whose lids have melted or warped. And no, we never had a dishwasher. They just warp after a while. In fact, to this day I don't have a dishwasher. Seemed like a waste of water during the short time we had one in an apartment and I ended up rewashing most of it anyway.
It depends on the dishwasher- many of the newest ones are very energy efficient and can wash a load of dishes (even half a load, according to some research) using less water than washing by hand. Singles/couples may still find it quicker to hand wash.
Load More Replies...I suck at menial cleanings like dusting, windows, and wet mopping the floor, so instead I do the vacuuming, laundry, and yard work. It works out great because my wife is slightly OCD and those other tasks are done much better by her.
I remember when I started working at a hotel and got looks when I said I'd never made a bed before. No, I didn't have someone else making the bed for me, I just never did it so it remained unmade. Not making the bed is actually cleaner.
A lot of viewers could relate to Michaela's hardships and observations highlighted in their TikToks










I used to be like Alex, but with the age I've become Michaela. Not because I was raised in a wealthy family - I wasn't. It's not about money, I feel I've just become more conscious, started carying for environment, avoiding waste and limiting consumption.
I've seen people without money being wasteful and with money being very conscious about it. I agree with you this is more about a different layer of conscious behavior. Sure there is a correlation between how much money and how high this is on your list, but it really is about the type of person too.
Load More Replies...You don't have to be poor to not be wasteful and try to save some money. e.g. I'd always turn the lights off when I leave a room and I try to avoid food waste. Helps a little to save the planet and I waste less money
Have lived my whole life in third world country, It's kind of funny to see what poverty means for an American 😂
I'm going to venture a guess someone in poverty, in America, currently, wouldn't show up in a post, like this. I'm not sure why you think this is showcasing two people currently experiencing poverty. The post was about what ramifications poverty/wealth can have on people's behavior; Fear of food scarcity, fear of wasting money, compulsion to hoard items, etc. vs seeing things as replaceable, or disposable.
Load More Replies...It was the exact opposite with me and two of my old relationships. They both came from poorer backgrounds and I had to fight them to get them to save any money. "Let's spend the money while we have it" they said.
Yeah that's a scarcity mindset that a lot of poorer people have (myself included) and it makes it super hard to actually get out of poverty
Load More Replies...my ex came from a family that was well off and his parents wanted him to 'have everything they didn't'. he didn't understand budgeting, off-brands, etc. it was hard in the beginning. i especially remembered he didn't know what a coupon was but by the time we split he was the one looking and/or using coupons. interesting changes.
None of these have nothing to do with having wealth or not. I've seen the same behaviour in different social classes.
I’d say that my family and I are fairly well off, like if I want something and it isn’t an unreasonable price then I’ll usually be able to get it, I don’t have an allowance, etc. However, my parents didn’t grow up as well of as we are now, so we have a drawer full of fortune cookies, ketchup packets, etc, and a bunch of old paper bags, and that kind of stuff. Since environmental concern is big now, I think this is a good idea no matter your class.
There are many wealthy people who are frugal. Warren Buffett is notorious for pinching pennies.
This is also just however you're raised because my family was very well off financially but I have a food scarcity mindset because I was moderate to severely neglected and didn't know where my next meal would come from even though we always had plenty of food in the kitchen. We couldn't just get whatever we wanted from the kitchen because we didn't want to be yelled at for touching stuff we weren't supposed to.
I used to be like Alex, but with the age I've become Michaela. Not because I was raised in a wealthy family - I wasn't. It's not about money, I feel I've just become more conscious, started carying for environment, avoiding waste and limiting consumption.
I've seen people without money being wasteful and with money being very conscious about it. I agree with you this is more about a different layer of conscious behavior. Sure there is a correlation between how much money and how high this is on your list, but it really is about the type of person too.
Load More Replies...You don't have to be poor to not be wasteful and try to save some money. e.g. I'd always turn the lights off when I leave a room and I try to avoid food waste. Helps a little to save the planet and I waste less money
Have lived my whole life in third world country, It's kind of funny to see what poverty means for an American 😂
I'm going to venture a guess someone in poverty, in America, currently, wouldn't show up in a post, like this. I'm not sure why you think this is showcasing two people currently experiencing poverty. The post was about what ramifications poverty/wealth can have on people's behavior; Fear of food scarcity, fear of wasting money, compulsion to hoard items, etc. vs seeing things as replaceable, or disposable.
Load More Replies...It was the exact opposite with me and two of my old relationships. They both came from poorer backgrounds and I had to fight them to get them to save any money. "Let's spend the money while we have it" they said.
Yeah that's a scarcity mindset that a lot of poorer people have (myself included) and it makes it super hard to actually get out of poverty
Load More Replies...my ex came from a family that was well off and his parents wanted him to 'have everything they didn't'. he didn't understand budgeting, off-brands, etc. it was hard in the beginning. i especially remembered he didn't know what a coupon was but by the time we split he was the one looking and/or using coupons. interesting changes.
None of these have nothing to do with having wealth or not. I've seen the same behaviour in different social classes.
I’d say that my family and I are fairly well off, like if I want something and it isn’t an unreasonable price then I’ll usually be able to get it, I don’t have an allowance, etc. However, my parents didn’t grow up as well of as we are now, so we have a drawer full of fortune cookies, ketchup packets, etc, and a bunch of old paper bags, and that kind of stuff. Since environmental concern is big now, I think this is a good idea no matter your class.
There are many wealthy people who are frugal. Warren Buffett is notorious for pinching pennies.
This is also just however you're raised because my family was very well off financially but I have a food scarcity mindset because I was moderate to severely neglected and didn't know where my next meal would come from even though we always had plenty of food in the kitchen. We couldn't just get whatever we wanted from the kitchen because we didn't want to be yelled at for touching stuff we weren't supposed to.
