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Woman Goes Full Slasher On Sister’s Closet Out Of Envy, Smirks, Then Gets Hauled Off By The Cops
Sibling relationships are unlike any other. There’s no other person that you love as wholeheartedly as you do a sibling, yet at the same time, there’s no person in the world who is more annoying than them, either.
Unfortunately, sometimes, aggravating behavior can put unconditional love on the back burner. That’s what happened to this redditor, who had to deal with her sister constantly “borrowing” her clothes. That led to the OP putting a lock on her closet, which in turn resulted in her sister taking action even more maliciously. In the end, the sisters couldn’t solve their issues without getting the police involved.
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This young woman had to deal with her sister constantly “borrowing” her clothes
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For many people, a sibling relationship is the longest one they will ever have in their life
For many people, the relationship with their sibling is the longest relationship they will ever have. Growing up together from an early age, brothers and sisters are there through thick and thin, watching friends and partners come and go, often being the only constant in people’s lives relationship-wise.
Bearing that in mind, it’s not difficult to see why siblings tend to play a significant role in people’s lives. But according to a professor of human development and family studies at Utah State University, Shawn Whiteman, PhD, said role can be a double-edged sword.
“The sibling relationship has the ability to uniquely shape a child’s behavior, adjustment, and well-being, for better and worse,” Whiteman told the American Psychological Association (APA), pointing out that while siblings often support and learn from one another, they also compete for things, like parental attention, and can introduce one another to certain risky behaviors.
As they grow older, though, brothers and sisters tend to engage in less conflict, which many people, including yours truly, can attest to. As reported by the APA, Whiteman’s studies found that even though young adults communicated less frequently with their siblings after leaving home, they considered their talks more meaningful and felt like they better understood their siblings in emerging adulthood.
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Sibling relationships might fluctuate as people age
Some studies suggest that more than 80% of children under the age of 18 (in the US) live with at least one sibling. That means most people know just how big of a love-hate relationship sibling bond can be. It’s also no secret that it tends to fluctuate between love and hate as siblings age.
In my case—which, I would say, is very much a classic example—everything was fine, even lovely, when me and my brother were little. Then came war, which lasted until we were both more or less done with our angsty teenage years, and ever since then, I have a friend for life, a personal cheerleader, and a rock to lean on all in one person.
Studies suggest that those who find themselves safe out of the “war zone years” are likely to feel less anxious later in life. According to research delving deeper into the influence of sibling relationship quality on emotional distress from adolescence to early midlife, having a good relationship with siblings at the age of 23 predicted lower levels of anxiety at the age of 41, as well as lower levels of depressive symptoms. A reverse scenario of people reporting a poor relationship with their sibling at 23 years old predicted detrimental effects later in life, such as anxiety, depressive symptoms, and hostility.
The OP shared that until recently, she didn’t have any major troubles with her sister; living together under the same roof was “mostly fine,” as she put it. That was until her sister started “borrowing” her clothes and eventually took things too far by destroying some of them. Needless to say, that didn’t make the sister relationship any better and even led to a police report filed on one of them – an action that seemingly split netizens in the comments into two camps.
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Many netizens didn’t think that calling the police made the woman a jerk
Others, however, shared a different opinion, saying that the OP—or, in some cases, both of the sisters—was a jerk
What do you think ?
Upstaged75 8 months ago
Sounds like the sister is a nasty spoiled beyotch with no respect for anyone else. And the parents are enabling her. I'd cut them all off until they learn how to behave themselves. As usual the YTA are insane.
BrownEyedPanda 8 months ago (edited)
NTA. Don't drop the charges. Both the sister and her enablers need a lesson in Newton's 3rd Law of Motion. File a lawsuit for the damage and emotional suffering. If they whine, text them an invoice for the full amount and tell them, "I'll drop the charges when you: 1) Reimburse me in full for ALL of the damage caused by your brat, in cash, IMMEDIATELY, 2) She moves elsewhere, preferably in with you, 3) You find me a mature, responsible roommate, and 4) I never see or hear from your rotten child ever again, not even on holidays and family events. Take it or leave it!" Whatever they decide will work out to be in OP'S favor.
🇺🇦 🇵🇸 TribbleThinking 8 months ago (edited)
If the parents want her treated as just a kid, then great. The parents of a kid are legally responsible for her, so pay up in full, please. It ought to add up to easily a few thousand. And don't forget the price of the lock.
LakotaWolf (she/her) 8 months ago
Sister should go back and live with their parents, too, since she's "just a kid"! She's not old enough to live on her own, even with her big sister! XD /s
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SheamusFanFrom1987 8 months ago (edited)
To the YTA dumbskulls, I hope you never make enough money to afford said brands that OP can. So, which part of destruction of property by the sh*tter (she ain't a sister, for sure) is okay and how can their equally dumbskull parents try to justify her behaviour with "just a kid"? Yeah, she's a kid alright. In a 21-year old's body. Enough reason to be put behind bars at least overnight. Already sh*tter is helping herself to OP's stuff without asking and now that preventive measures were put in place, she thinks she can just destroy everything without any repercussions? A good overnight stay in the slammer ought to at least put some fear into her and the dumbnut parents ought to be given a verbal hammering at the very least for enabling a criminal in the making!!! OP, please press charges and as for you YTA dumbskulls, watch and hopefully (but I won't hold my breath) get some common sense into your collective wasteland excuse for brains...!!! >:-(
KatSaidWhat 8 months ago
Always good to see the unhinged YTA - that relationship deserves to be destroyed forever and the sister has now learnt that with severe actions come severe consequences.
Tabitha 8 months ago (edited)
I hate hearing about parents enabling the bad seed they gave birth too, and ignoring or taking it out on the good kid. If I was OP, I would boot Sister out of my place ten minutes ago, change the locks and anything else she’d need to get in, and go NC with the whole kit and caboodle of them. Then just wait for my “I told you so” moment, after Sister is sentenced to life in prison for a worse kind of retaliation crime (burning down an ex-boyfriend’s house, attacking and seriously injuring someone over some imagined slight, you get the picture), and the parents (unsuccessfully) come crying to me because “family comes together in a crisis” or some horseshit family lies like that. Not only Sister but the parents are jumping into FAFO situation with both feet. OP should just go NC, step back and away from all of it, stay completely uninvolved, and just watch that farce unfold.
Hollie Marie 8 months ago
She works hard for those nice clothes why shouldn't she have them. Especially as some were only worn once before being destroyed. This isn't f*****g Cinderella where the sisters get to walk all over her, its real life. What did the 21 year old expect to happen. The woman shouldn't have to tailor her lifestyle for the sake of her sister. She also shouldn't have to be threatened in her own home. I'm sorry but if I had to live with someone like that I'd call the cops too and tell them to gtfo.
Upstaged75 8 months ago
Sounds like the sister is a nasty spoiled beyotch with no respect for anyone else. And the parents are enabling her. I'd cut them all off until they learn how to behave themselves. As usual the YTA are insane.
BrownEyedPanda 8 months ago (edited)
NTA. Don't drop the charges. Both the sister and her enablers need a lesson in Newton's 3rd Law of Motion. File a lawsuit for the damage and emotional suffering. If they whine, text them an invoice for the full amount and tell them, "I'll drop the charges when you: 1) Reimburse me in full for ALL of the damage caused by your brat, in cash, IMMEDIATELY, 2) She moves elsewhere, preferably in with you, 3) You find me a mature, responsible roommate, and 4) I never see or hear from your rotten child ever again, not even on holidays and family events. Take it or leave it!" Whatever they decide will work out to be in OP'S favor.
🇺🇦 🇵🇸 TribbleThinking 8 months ago (edited)
If the parents want her treated as just a kid, then great. The parents of a kid are legally responsible for her, so pay up in full, please. It ought to add up to easily a few thousand. And don't forget the price of the lock.
LakotaWolf (she/her) 8 months ago
Sister should go back and live with their parents, too, since she's "just a kid"! She's not old enough to live on her own, even with her big sister! XD /s
Load More Replies... SheamusFanFrom1987 8 months ago (edited)
To the YTA dumbskulls, I hope you never make enough money to afford said brands that OP can. So, which part of destruction of property by the sh*tter (she ain't a sister, for sure) is okay and how can their equally dumbskull parents try to justify her behaviour with "just a kid"? Yeah, she's a kid alright. In a 21-year old's body. Enough reason to be put behind bars at least overnight. Already sh*tter is helping herself to OP's stuff without asking and now that preventive measures were put in place, she thinks she can just destroy everything without any repercussions? A good overnight stay in the slammer ought to at least put some fear into her and the dumbnut parents ought to be given a verbal hammering at the very least for enabling a criminal in the making!!! OP, please press charges and as for you YTA dumbskulls, watch and hopefully (but I won't hold my breath) get some common sense into your collective wasteland excuse for brains...!!! >:-(
KatSaidWhat 8 months ago
Always good to see the unhinged YTA - that relationship deserves to be destroyed forever and the sister has now learnt that with severe actions come severe consequences.
Tabitha 8 months ago (edited)
I hate hearing about parents enabling the bad seed they gave birth too, and ignoring or taking it out on the good kid. If I was OP, I would boot Sister out of my place ten minutes ago, change the locks and anything else she’d need to get in, and go NC with the whole kit and caboodle of them. Then just wait for my “I told you so” moment, after Sister is sentenced to life in prison for a worse kind of retaliation crime (burning down an ex-boyfriend’s house, attacking and seriously injuring someone over some imagined slight, you get the picture), and the parents (unsuccessfully) come crying to me because “family comes together in a crisis” or some horseshit family lies like that. Not only Sister but the parents are jumping into FAFO situation with both feet. OP should just go NC, step back and away from all of it, stay completely uninvolved, and just watch that farce unfold.
Hollie Marie 8 months ago
She works hard for those nice clothes why shouldn't she have them. Especially as some were only worn once before being destroyed. This isn't f*****g Cinderella where the sisters get to walk all over her, its real life. What did the 21 year old expect to happen. The woman shouldn't have to tailor her lifestyle for the sake of her sister. She also shouldn't have to be threatened in her own home. I'm sorry but if I had to live with someone like that I'd call the cops too and tell them to gtfo.
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