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Woman Tells Drunk Boyfriend To Stop Acting Like A Jerk, He Refuses: “I Could Go Home With Any Woman Here”
Drunk boyfriend acting like a jerk holding a beer while woman looks upset and frustrated at home.

Woman Tells Drunk Boyfriend To Stop Acting Like A Jerk, He Refuses: “I Could Go Home With Any Woman Here”

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Alcohol has a way of lowering people’s inhibitions and making them say or do things they’d usually keep in check. But when those moments end up hurting someone else, is it the drink to blame—or the person who chose to keep drinking?

One woman agreed to be the designated driver for her boyfriend and his friends during their night out. She didn’t mind at all—until she arrived to pick them up and her boyfriend started acting like a complete jerk. Hurt and uncomfortable, she quietly went home, leaving the group without a ride.

Once the guys realized what happened, a messy drama followed. Read the full story below.

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    The woman agreed to be the designated driver for her boyfriend and his friends on their night out

    Group of friends cheering and drinking while a drunk man acts like a jerk at a lively social gathering.

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    But when she showed up to pick them up, her boyfriend started acting like a jerk—so she left them stranded

    Woman tells drunk boyfriend to stop acting like a jerk while he refuses and boasts at a crowded bar.

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    Woman tells drunk boyfriend to stop acting like a jerk at the bar as he refuses and boasts to other women.

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    Text conversation describing a woman telling her drunk boyfriend to stop acting like a jerk and his refusal.

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    Text describing a woman confronting her drunk boyfriend acting like a jerk who refuses to change behaviors.

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    Text displaying a woman questioning if she overreacted after telling her drunk boyfriend to stop acting like a jerk.

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    Text excerpt about a woman addressing her drunk boyfriend’s behavior and setting boundaries in their relationship.

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    Woman tells drunk boyfriend to stop acting like a jerk as he refuses and brags he could go home with any woman.

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    Plenty of commenters said her response made sense given what happened

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    Comment explaining refusal to drive drunk boyfriend home after he acted disrespectful and could get an Uber instead.

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    But some felt it was a drunken moment she could’ve handled differently

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    Not long after, the author came back with an update

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    Text excerpt about woman ending relationship with drunk boyfriend after he refuses to change his jerk behavior.

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    Readers were glad she chose to walk away

    Alt text: Woman telling drunk boyfriend to stop acting like a jerk as he defiantly refuses and brags confidently.

    Comment expressing relief and support for a woman dealing with a drunk boyfriend refusing to change his jerk behavior.

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    Oleksandra Kyryliuk

    Oleksandra Kyryliuk

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    Oleksandra is an experienced copywriter from Ukraine with a master’s degree in International Communication. Having covered everything from education, finance, and marketing to art, pop culture, and memes, she now brings her storytelling skills to Bored Panda. For the past six years, she’s been living and working in Vilnius, Lithuania.

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    Oleksandra Kyryliuk

    Oleksandra Kyryliuk

    Writer, BoredPanda staff

    Oleksandra is an experienced copywriter from Ukraine with a master’s degree in International Communication. Having covered everything from education, finance, and marketing to art, pop culture, and memes, she now brings her storytelling skills to Bored Panda. For the past six years, she’s been living and working in Vilnius, Lithuania.

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    Surly Scot
    Community Member
    6 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When people show you their true face, believe them.

    Space Invader
    Community Member
    6 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wonder if the proper reaction to gaslighting is turnabout. She could have claimed that she DID drive him home. And when he protested she should have replied "The only reason I would have left and not driven you home would have been if you said something deeply inappropriate and hurtful to me. You said you did not, which means that ergo I must have driven you home. It's not my fault you were too drunk to remember..."

    Wyrdwoman
    Community Member
    3 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would have done the same as her. The fact these idiots couldn't work out how to order an Uber/taxi shows that they were way drunker than they thought they were. Thank the gods she moved on.

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    Surly Scot
    Community Member
    6 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When people show you their true face, believe them.

    Space Invader
    Community Member
    6 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wonder if the proper reaction to gaslighting is turnabout. She could have claimed that she DID drive him home. And when he protested she should have replied "The only reason I would have left and not driven you home would have been if you said something deeply inappropriate and hurtful to me. You said you did not, which means that ergo I must have driven you home. It's not my fault you were too drunk to remember..."

    Wyrdwoman
    Community Member
    3 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would have done the same as her. The fact these idiots couldn't work out how to order an Uber/taxi shows that they were way drunker than they thought they were. Thank the gods she moved on.

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