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Man Upset By Wife’s Ungrateful Attitude To Helpful Sis, Gives Her Harsh Reality Check That Backfires
We all know that marriage is not a walk in the park, as every couple is faced with different challenges constantly. The key is to face them together as a team; otherwise, even the smallest of difficulties can ruin any relationship in the blink of an eye.
This couple was also stuck in a tough situation as the wife stayed with her sick dad, while the husband lived at his sister’s house with their child. However, he was annoyed by how ungrateful his wife was about his family, so he snapped at her. Scroll down to find out what happened next!
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The poster’s wife quit her job to look after her sick dad, and as the poster couldn’t afford the rent, he moved into his sister’s home with their kid
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His sister’s house was “smelly” as she had 3 dogs, so his wife kept complaining about it, but it annoyed him, as she was being ungrateful
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He snapped at her that she didn’t live there anyway, but this caused her to have a meltdown, as she claimed he was accusing her of abandoning them
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The frustrated poster finally told her that she should consider returning home and letting her siblings care for their dad, but she was hesitant
They say that beggars can’t be choosers, so the original poster (OP) was really annoyed with his wife complaining about their living situation. While she was taking care of her sick father, she stayed with him. Meanwhile, as they couldn’t afford rent, her son and OP lived with his sister, who had a 3-bedroom house. However, since she had 3 dogs, it was kind of smelly.
Besides, the poster and the kid had to share a room, as the other one was used as storage. Also, his sister was a flexitarian, so they couldn’t eat certain things in the house. Despite all this, OP was grateful to have a roof over his head and also the fact that he got babysitting help from her, too. The main problem was his wife, who kept complaining about it.
She was visiting them for a week and felt that his sister’s lifestyle was affecting their kid. Well, OP lost it and said that she was not living there anyway, but this just hurt her as she broke down in tears. She felt OP was accusing her of abandoning them, but all he wanted was for her to say thank you to his sister, considering how they were in this situation because of her family.
Netizens advised that the couple should really talk things through. OP heeded what they said and asked his wife to come back so they could live together. The poster felt that her siblings could look after her father. Well, she was pretty doubtful about it and said that she would think things through. The last time OP updated, he was still waiting for her answer.
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Many netizens felt that they could sympathize with OP’s wife. Not only was the poor woman grieving her late mom, but she was also burned out from looking after her sick father. Research stresses that “Even as an adult child, losing a parent can be extremely distressing. It’s easy to feel lost and for all those old childhood insecurities to suddenly return.”
Moreover, experts emphasize that caring for a loved one can strain even the most resilient people. They further state that this burnout is a state of physical, emotional, and mental exhaustion that can spark hopelessness, helplessness, irritability, frustration, or anger towards others. Well, I don’t know about you, but to me, that sounds exactly like the poster’s wife, doesn’t it?
It is understandable that she was suffering a lot at that time. However, that doesn’t mean that she should not be grateful that at least her child and husband have a roof over their heads. After all, the average rent per month in the US is anywhere between $1,400 and $2,000. Also, as per data, the average rate for a babysitter in the US is $26.24 per hour.
Seems like the couple was saving a lot of money because of the generous sister. Netizens agreed that OP’s wife should indeed express her gratitude to her sister-in-law. Many folks also found it absurd that she barely gave a thought to how her family became homeless because of her decision. If you were in her shoes, how would you handle the situation? Let us know in the comments!
Although netizens could understand the strain his wife was feeling, they felt that she should be grateful to his sister for providing them with free shelter
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K Barnes 4 hours ago
This story is a good example of one kind of situation that contributes to the earning gap between men and women: a working woman forced to quit earning an income and provide care when she doesn't want to, but her siblings refuse to. It's not just SAHMs who are carers. Really sad situation for their family.
Murdock Schlegel 1 hour ago
yes. and also a good example for a system of a society, thats build on money.
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Bored Jellyfish 3 hours ago
Went through something similar that the wife is going through, so I really feel for her. It was a nightmare. She is in her own personal hėll right now and I’m sorry to see she’s lashing out where she doesn’t need to be
cecilia kilian 3 hours ago
The elder care situation in the US is insane, and has been for a while.
K Barnes 4 hours ago
This story is a good example of one kind of situation that contributes to the earning gap between men and women: a working woman forced to quit earning an income and provide care when she doesn't want to, but her siblings refuse to. It's not just SAHMs who are carers. Really sad situation for their family.
Murdock Schlegel 1 hour ago
yes. and also a good example for a system of a society, thats build on money.
Load More Replies... Bored Jellyfish 3 hours ago
Went through something similar that the wife is going through, so I really feel for her. It was a nightmare. She is in her own personal hėll right now and I’m sorry to see she’s lashing out where she doesn’t need to be
cecilia kilian 3 hours ago
The elder care situation in the US is insane, and has been for a while.
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