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There’s one kind of event where everything is at stake. All the money, all the effort, all the planning, all the dreams, and yep, we’re talking weddings.

And when pressure to have the perfect day reaches the boiling point, it basically becomes a real-life reality show with drama, unstaged emotions, toxic family members, entitled guests, bridezillas, and lost grooms.

The content weddings provide us is so immense that wedding shaming groups have been popping up one by one on social media lately. This corner of Reddit known as the Wedding Shaming subreddit is also a destination to shame anything from wedding themes, vendors, brides and grooms, in-laws, and Uncle Bobs, and boy, it’s been buzzing.

Below we collected some of the new posts shared on the community, so scroll down below for some crazy nuptial drama. More wedding shaming content can be found in our previous posts here and here.

#1

Wedding Shaming, The Dear Prudence Edition

Wedding Shaming, The Dear Prudence Edition

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    #2

    Check Out This Horror Of A "Mother"

    Check Out This Horror Of A "Mother"

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    CatGirl
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And I bet this horror calls herself a Christian as well

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    #3

    It Truly Is Funny How Being A Part Of Someone's Bridesmaids Or Being The Maid Of Honor Is No Longer Chosen By How Close You Are To The Bride But By How Well You Fit Her Aesthetic

    It Truly Is Funny How Being A Part Of Someone's Bridesmaids Or Being The Maid Of Honor Is No Longer Chosen By How Close You Are To The Bride But By How Well You Fit Her Aesthetic

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    Helen Waight
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Once got told to ‘make an effort to not take the attention away from the bride’ by a then friend who was getting married. She meant ‘lose weight and don’t use walking aids’. Didn’t attend and haven’t spoken to her in over 22 years.

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    No wedding has gone without at least a tiny drop of drama. This is because people put the pressure on themselves a little too much, until for many brides and grooms, it becomes unbearable.

    To find out more about navigating your perfect day in a way that doesn’t cost all your nerves, Bored Panda previously spoke with Jen Glantz, the founder of Bridesmaid for Hire and The Newlywed Card Game, a 3x best-selling author, a voice of You’re Not Getting Any Younger podcast, and the brains behind Jen & Juice coaching, digital courses, & the Pick-Me-Up newsletter.

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    #4

    You Want My To Cut My Hair. You Can’t Fire Me, I Quit

    You Want My To Cut My Hair. You Can’t Fire Me, I Quit

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    BobTDG
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't like your hair, you can't be a bridesmaid! More Narcissist.

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    #5

    Bridesmaid/Sil From Hell From Dear Prudence

    Bridesmaid/Sil From Hell From Dear Prudence

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    Francis
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    that's not a joke! that's just cruel! wtf is wrong with people?? EDIT: the stroy goes on (about 4 more pics); OP's whole family will be absent from the wedding. the sister is just "a child" and the sister dubbled down with "it's not like it was the actual skeleton of the dead sister"

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    #6

    Asking The Girl Your Fiancé Groomed To Be Your Photographer For Free

    Asking The Girl Your Fiancé Groomed To Be Your Photographer For Free

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    BobTDG
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Censors failed, Scott should be in prison. EDIT: dark topic but my first comment with more than 100 uppies.

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    It turns out that conflict and drama starts as early as the bridal party. “That's because weddings are filled with decisions, pop-up challenges, and a lot of emotions. When you bring your friends and family into that equation and ask them to stand by your side, while also giving them a to-do list of things you expect them to do during your wedding adventure, it can bring a level of intensity that didn't exist before the wedding within that relationship,” Glentz explained.

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    #7

    Too Bad, So Sad Wedding Photo Edition

    Too Bad, So Sad Wedding Photo Edition

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    General Anaesthesia
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sure, for $3,200. She can even wear her wedding dress if she wants to.

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    #8

    Poor Photographer.. That Said I'd Be Interested To See The Pictures That They Had To Capture While This All Went Down

    Poor Photographer.. That Said I'd Be Interested To See The Pictures That They Had To Capture While This All Went Down

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    Azolane
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would have stayed, and shot awesome pictures of this brawl. Memories for a lifetime.

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    #9

    Mother Of Groom Insists On Being In Son’s Wedding Portrait With Bust Of Deceased Husband

    Mother Of Groom Insists On Being In Son’s Wedding Portrait With Bust Of Deceased Husband

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    Bob Bobbs
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The mother of the groom being Queen Victoria...

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    A lot of conflicts, however, could be avoided with better communication and slightly lower expectations, Glantz argues. “So much can be avoided if the person getting married clearly states what they want from their bridal party and the people in the bridal party openly share what they are able and willing to do before the wedding process even starts,” she told us in a previous interview.

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    #10

    I Paid $600 And Gave Her Six Months For My Wedding Dress Hem To Look Like This

    I Paid $600 And Gave Her Six Months For My Wedding Dress Hem To Look Like This

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    #11

    Host A Photography Competition Instead Of Paying For A Photographer!

    Host A Photography Competition Instead Of Paying For A Photographer!

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    CatGirl
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think this is a great idea! And her description of the 'wedding naffness' was hilarious

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    #12

    With Friends Like These Who Needs Enemies

    With Friends Like These Who Needs Enemies

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    Minath
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She tried to sabotage the wedding and OP's life, no way should she be allowed anywhere near the wedding.

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    But no matter how much drama weddings may have, you may wonder if it’s still okay to shame these events and the people behind them. After all, are wedding shaming groups considered to have some form of hate that may be harmful to their targets?

    Well, we previously asked that question to Darlene Lancer, who is a therapist, relationship & NPD expert, and the author of "Codependency for Dummies." Lancer explained that according to the FBI, “hate groups” direct their hatred against a particular race, religion, gender, ethnic group or people of a particular sexual orientation. They investigate these hate groups to protect democracy and individual liberty. “So defined, wedding haters and shamers are not members of a ‘hate group,’” she said.

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    #13

    Say Yes To The Dress Bride Wanted An “Avatar Unicorn.” My Friend Had Thoughts

    Say Yes To The Dress Bride Wanted An “Avatar Unicorn.” My Friend Had Thoughts

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    BobTDG
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Poor horse. If done properly it shouldn't have harmed the poor beastie.

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    #14

    Mother In Law And Sister In Law Wore White

    Mother In Law And Sister In Law Wore White

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    #15

    Mil Really Wanted To Be Bride. I'm Now Divorced From Her Son, Who She Posed With In The 2nd Picture

    Mil Really Wanted To Be Bride. I'm Now Divorced From Her Son, Who She Posed With In The 2nd Picture

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    alwaysMispelled
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do not understand women/mothers that do this. It's SO PSYCHO

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    Having said that, Lancer explained that blaming and shaming often is done by people with low self-esteem and who carry shame themselves. “They shame others to project and rid themselves of the shame they have inside, which is often hidden and unconscious. Projection is a defense that works for them. It may be fueled by anger and envy because of the widening discrepancy between classes of haves and have-nots. Aggression and envy are also defenses to shame.”

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    #16

    From My Cousins (The Grooms) Wedding, Of Which I Wasn’t Invited

    From My Cousins (The Grooms) Wedding, Of Which I Wasn’t Invited

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    #17

    Guy Asks Fiance If He Can Invite His Friends On Their Honeymoon

    Guy Asks Fiance If He Can Invite His Friends On Their Honeymoon

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    James016
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What the f**k is wrong with you?

    General Anaesthesia
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You're getting married and you "announce" to your bride-to-be that you'll do the thinking from now on? And you'll allow her to tell her friends? How generous of you. My present to her will be a divorce attorney's business card.

    Moosy Girl
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was fine with it until it changed from „with friends” to „with the guys”, that says enough.

    Katarzyna Gratka
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He wants to share his honeymoon with his friends. Great idea! It's good that he didn't invite them for the wedding night. What a jerk. Poor woman.

    Julie Lee
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe they can talk him into it. Don’t want to disappoint them!

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    hungryghost
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    WTH... totally YTA

    Mark Stewart
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wouldn't be expecting any jiggy jiggy on the honeymoon now mate.

    Memere
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Way way back in 1970, I married a guy from a town about an hour & a half away from my home town. Wedding was at my family church, & we drove back to our rental house in his home town. 3 of his buddies followed us back & they all wound up staying at the house, drinking beer & smoking weed til dawn. On. My. Effing. Wedding. Night. I left him 18 months later & got a divorce. This bride needs to seriously think about cancelling the wedding.

    TCW Sam Vimes
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    you might not be an AH but an idiot for sure :D

    Sasha
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He's trying to get away from his bride to be with the guys and they aren't even married yet....

    TheAquarius1978
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't Marry this dude lmao, he's One of those that preffers to be partying with boa " Bros " than home in bed with his wife.

    Ember
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    On your honeymoon? Really?

    SkekVi
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I thought guys like this only existed as a joke for movies wtf. Bro do you even understand what a honeymoon IS??

    de borah
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    sounds like he isn't ready to be married

    Chris Newkirk
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My wife and I tagged along with our friends on their honeymoon after they got married, we all had a blast. The problem here isn't going on honeymoon with friends tagging along, it's lack of communication and not treating one's spouse as a partner. That's not the kind of decision you can just "announce."

    Erla Zwingle
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So "our friends" really means "the guys"? Wow. Good thing she found out where she stands in the pecking order before it was too late. But who's going to break it to "the guys" that your wife comes first? Your wife comes first, right? Right? Hello?

    Foxxy says goodbye.
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, no, no. Do not invite friends/family to the honeymoon. Unless discussed prior and agreed upon.

    Judit Hajdu
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    is he going to invite them for the wedding night too? grow up idiot!

    Ana Ferreira
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tell me you have a serious case of Peter Pan Syndrome without telling me you have a serious case of Peter Pan Syndrome.

    Jordi Sharpe
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    YTA. If your friends want to go so badly, they can get married and go there themselves.

    Maggie Hood
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    -_- this is so incredibly dumb. They know what honeymoons are for right??

    Kate Jones
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A honeymoon is not for bro'ing out. It's to be with your new wife/husband and make some nice memories to start your marriage. The whole point is to be alone together. Plan a trip with friends another time.

    IamMe
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    NTA. Just lacking in the intelligence department.

    Jasmin Sheridan
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's a honeymoon not just a holiday. First thing you want to do with your wife after marrying her is hang out with your buddies? What 😂

    Katherine Stevens
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    YTA most definitely! You shouldn't even thought this was ok. When your friends got excited you should have said well let's maybe have a bro trip the next year. Then talk to your lady about having a friends trip the next year. Family and friends inclusive honeymoons are freaking creepy and weird.

    FreshGanesh
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Too late to give the guy advice on this as I’m certain the divorce or more likely annulment has already happened.

    Prius Owner
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    YTA. And also extremely lucky if your fiance doesn't immediately kick you to the curb.

    Shelli Aderman
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Um. Yah. Kind of assholey in a big way.

    Glitterati
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This guy is an AH, or at least totally clueless. We took my parents, aunt, cousin, brothers and a bunch of friends on a massive road trip for our honeymoon and it was the best experience we could’ve had. But they had flown from all over the world to Australia so ditching them would’ve been terrible. I wouldn’t have changed a thing, it was epic.

    DforDory
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Might not have been intentional, but it really is inconsiderate. Unless it is something both parties wish to do, they have to come up with a compromise, like they chose another honeymoon destination at a later time and got to that particular place with friends, or something like this. It's not the end of the world to find a proper compromise, just needs communication 🤗

    Glittery Panda
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think if he talked with the bride first about it it’s not the worst, but still not the point of a honeymoon. He is the AH but if he handled it differently maybe not the AH? Still not great though. Maybe if he suggested a couple weeks jsut the two of them, then their friends fly out later? Or vice versa?

    Seedy Vine
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My first husband brought friends over to our hotel room on our honeymoon to drink and play loud video games (without me) until dawn. I couldn't get divorced fast enough.

    Allison B
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Seriously?! If he had that idea he should have discussed it with his fiancee first! I mean how dumb can you be?!

    Becky Woods
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That should have been brought up t the fiance before bringing it up to the friends.

    Paul F
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just a tiny bit of AA. You were pretty darn insensitive IMO. Just because you think one way, does not mean that the entire world - and specifically your fiancée - see things the same way. If you had broached this with her as "just a thought" before even discussing it with your friends you would probably have gotten away with it. So, for the sake of your future marriage, LEARN FROM THIS BLUNDER and be more thoughtful and sensitive with your partner in the future.

    Denise Melek
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you consider going somewhere with another couple to spend some time together with people you know at the bar or beach..okay. But "taking the guys"?! Hell, no!

    Granny's Thoughts
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    YTA - bigtime. I hope she dumped your dumb a*s.

    Sea cucumber (They/them)
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    YTA. A trip with friends is a fun idea, but the honeymoon is not the time to do it.

    Misty-Dawn Amayi
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This goes beyond "Tone Deaf" and right into "Cognitive Dissonance" territory.

    Celtic Pirate Queen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You seriously have to ask? You don't invite OTHER PEOPLE on your honeymoon. WTF is wrong with you?

    Nightshade1972
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm glad they're not married yet--if he's gonna be this inconsiderate now, I can only imagine it's not gonna get better as time goes on. Hope she got out before he put a ring on it.

    Hello
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dude, a honeymoon is for the married couple

    Quitethedilemma
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    3 years ago

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    Eline
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What is wrong with you???? Oh, and yes, YTA.

    Arsenio Alejo
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The lack of self-awareness of some people never ceases to amaze me. SMH.

    Kelley Baltierra
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A resounding yes was heard around the world

    Laura Isabel
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wonder how this one turned out? Where do people come up with these ideas? How does any of this make sense? He's THE AH 100%

    Diane Kelson
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did you go on group dates when you were dating?

    S&P
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you don't wanna spend time, just the two of you, for the length of a honeymoon, that relationship is NOT gonna last. My sister and her first husband started calling family members 2 days after theirs started, to come and visit and we were all shocked. "Don't you two wanna spend time together? Just the two of you? After this you're gonna be busy with work and everything." Sure enough, they didn't last long.

    Daman dan
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I usually hate these aita post but in this case, yes...yes yta

    Thecoolbonnie
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I get his side 'a little bit' but def should've checked with the bride first

    Katie Brown
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love how by the end he still doesnt understand how this was inconsiderate. Aside from he shouldve asked her first. Which is good he figured that out after it was spelt out for him... but doesnt understand that.. hes going on a trip with his wife. On a honeymoon. And what he did was he took that... and considered his friends might want to come... and proceeded to not consider if it was even ok with his wife. And then proceeded to make plans with them.. and not tell his wife till after he already did it..

    Madam Liourex
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep. YTA. Maybe plan a group vacation in a year

    Maureen Ausbrook
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep, you're the a**h*le. Either that or you're 12 years old.

    Fire Breathing Moon Beam
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow... He's either that much of an ah or doesn't know what a honeymoon actually is. On the other hand this is a warning. Apparently, she is marrying all of them. She should ask if she is expected to have sex with all of them too.

    NoSoupForYou
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't even need to read this, the circumstances don't matter at all. A Honeymoon is exclusive to the wedding couple, dumba$$.

    Julie Lee
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    NTA. You’re just an idiot.

    Elizabeth Molloy
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes ... a HUGE s**t-dribbling arsehole!

    Delta Dawn
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tell me you’re in your very early 20s without telling me you’re in your very early 20s

    Paul Macdonell
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A dumb mistake.... you will make more !

    Lyone Fein
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dude, you knew beforehand that this is a place where all your buddies have wanted to go for a guy gathering for years. Why choose it for your honeymoon? Just YTA from the moment you picked this destination.

    Lia Salvatore
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    guys, chill. He made a stupid decision. we all make mistakes. stop being so harsh on the guy. for god's sake.

    TheAquarius1978
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Stupid lol, this wasn't a stupid decision, this is colossaly dumb, and shows what type of husband he Will be, c**p if o was his bride the weading was off.

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    Tracy Rieon Hall
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes you're totally the a hole. This is your honeymoon not just a trip. Your wife to be should see this as a major red flag and not even go through with the wedding what nerve.Run girl run

    Laurie Livingston
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep-YTA. So, maybe NEXT year for your vacay-maybe? That is, if she doesn't break it off this year.

    Andrzej Nikolaevich
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am afraid i don't understand how is it hard to "align vacation days" in the past but it's a whole lot easier to "align vacation days" sometime later

    A.
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you have to ask, you already know the answer. YTA.

    Tyler
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    bro the whole point of a honeymoon is to spend quality one-on-one time with your SO before you have to get back to life responsibilities

    Dr. Carlos Dangercat
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This idea kind of appeals to me, but it's not everyone's cup of tea and the guy is an idiot for discussing it with his friends without talking to the bride first.

    Ambry Petersen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can somewhat relate to the bride a bit on this one. She might be afraid that you would spend more time with your friends than you do with her. She may have over reacted a bit on her end, but I could understand her being upset.

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    Spare A Thought For This Poor Girl Who Has Been Dealt The Injustice Of Being Gifted A Mere $32,000 For Her Wedding

    Spare A Thought For This Poor Girl Who Has Been Dealt The Injustice Of Being Gifted A Mere $32,000 For Her Wedding

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    Katarzyna Gratka
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Since she is an adult, she can pay for her wedding herself. If she can't afford it, it's her problem, not her future in-laws. A wedding can always be modest.

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    “Ironically, public displays of extravagant and ostentatious weddings may also be fueled by shame where the emphasis is on impressing other people of the family’s wealth and status,” a therapist said. This is to compensate for not feeling adequate or sufficiently respected, she concluded.

    #19

    Please Be Considerate About Peoples Choices At Your Wedding

    Please Be Considerate About Peoples Choices At Your Wedding

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    Jennik
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Looks like they rummaged through the florist's bin for the bits stripped of the wedding bouquet flowers

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    #20

    Guests Called The Police To The Reception Because They’d Been Unknowingly Drugged By The Bride!

    Guests Called The Police To The Reception Because They’d Been Unknowingly Drugged By The Bride!

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    #21

    Guest Demands To Bring Their Son (18) Daughter (23), 3 Grandchildren, And A Dog To The Wedding

    Guest Demands To Bring Their Son (18) Daughter (23), 3 Grandchildren, And A Dog To The Wedding

    Guest demands to bring their son (18) daughter (23), 3 grandchildren, and a dog to the wedding. Bride puts her foot down and guest ominously ends the friendship with ellipsis

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    Helen Waight
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a no kids wedding. Some people just sent their regrets - still okay with them. Some sent me long diatribes about how weddings are ‘about babies’ and how evil we’re being - don’t speak to them anymore. No loss.

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    #22

    Received This Abomination Of A Save The Date… Whole Card Was Filled With It

    Received This Abomination Of A Save The Date… Whole Card Was Filled With It

    Sir_Rup_N_Waffles Report

    Kassiopeia
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To not produce waste we send you a letter full of waste. And the letter will be waste too

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    #23

    Just Got This In My Email After Receiving The Invite 2 Days Ago

    Just Got This In My Email After Receiving The Invite 2 Days Ago

    Similar-Vari Report

    #24

    What In The Hell. What A Nightmare!

    What In The Hell. What A Nightmare!

    mdnnnsph Report

    Sheila Stamey
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They're lucky she didn't have a weapon and found was àble to find alcohol. That was atrocious!

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    #25

    A "Friend" Took Our Wedding Photos As A Gift To Us And Then Ghosted Us. It's Been 6 Months

    A "Friend" Took Our Wedding Photos As A Gift To Us And Then Ghosted Us. It's Been 6 Months

    oh_devil Report

    LuckyL
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have the feeling, there are two sides to this story.

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    #26

    From A Wedding Group I'm In. People In The Comments Were Ragging On The Step Mum's Choice Of Shoes

    From A Wedding Group I'm In. People In The Comments Were Ragging On The Step Mum's Choice Of Shoes

    apejsnfhre Report

    Francis
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    those shoes are a bad choice... but not as bad as the dress...

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    #27

    Bride Doesn’t Want Her Great Aunt’s Nurse To Attend The Wedding

    Bride Doesn’t Want Her Great Aunt’s Nurse To Attend The Wedding

    mdnnnsph Report

    🧶𝔹𝕚𝕥𝕔𝕙 𝕂𝕟𝕚𝕥𝕥𝕖𝕣🪡
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow 🤦🏻‍♀️ How heartless do you have to be to discriminate against a guest, your own family member whom you presumably WANT to bear witness to your wedding, for having a disability that requires a nurse?! The nurse would literally be working during the entire event, watching over the aunt. What does she think she's gonna do?!

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    #28

    A Former Coworker Of Mine. She Was Always Extra At Work. It's No Surprise She Posted This Before Her Wedding. I'm Glad I Wasn't Invited

    A Former Coworker Of Mine. She Was Always Extra At Work. It's No Surprise She Posted This Before Her Wedding. I'm Glad I Wasn't Invited

    Room1oh1 Report

    Jill Rhodry
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't agree with her tone, choice of words or method of delivery but I do understand the sentiment - people, as guests, can be just as rude as bridezillas these days.

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    #29

    I ‘Broke Group Rules’ With This Comment To A Bride Who Was About To Disown Her Dad For Not Being Able To Afford To Spend $3k On Chair/Tent Rentals

    I ‘Broke Group Rules’ With This Comment To A Bride Who Was About To Disown Her Dad For Not Being Able To Afford To Spend $3k On Chair/Tent Rentals

    gringitapo Report

    Nimues Child
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Correction: group rule #1 is apparently "Agree with me".

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    #30

    Seen On Facebook. What Is This Kind Of Trash

    Seen On Facebook. What Is This Kind Of Trash

    mdnnnsph Report

    Francis
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    as a tipjar in a sho, it could be funny.. at a wedding? just no

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    #31

    Bride Used Fish As Decor And Centerpieces

    Bride Used Fish As Decor And Centerpieces

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    #32

    “Bride” Gets Angry When Fb Group Advises Against Surprise Wedding

    “Bride” Gets Angry When Fb Group Advises Against Surprise Wedding

    JohnDoe480 Report

    Mere Cat
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Epidemy :D (yeah, she meant epitome, but I got some hilarious mental images)

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    #33

    Bride-To-Be Asking For Alternatives To The Garter Toss, This Was One Of The Responses

    Bride-To-Be Asking For Alternatives To The Garter Toss, This Was One Of The Responses

    kaioone Report

    #34

    This Is Supposed To Be Cute But It’s Just Weird And Awkward

    This Is Supposed To Be Cute But It’s Just Weird And Awkward

    PM_ME_YOUR_NUISANCES Report

    猫草
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    people who associate marriage with being "caught" or "in prison" really shouldn‘t get married

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    #35

    Didn't Know It Was Possible To Agree And Disagree To Everything In A Single Post. Yes To The Sentiment, Big No To The Execution

    Didn't Know It Was Possible To Agree And Disagree To Everything In A Single Post. Yes To The Sentiment, Big No To The Execution

    Ellie_Loves_ Report

    BobTDG
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's all reasonable, just comes across a bit bitchy.

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    #36

    What Would Make Someone Ever Want To Take These Photos

    What Would Make Someone Ever Want To Take These Photos

    slothlovelauren Report

    #37

    From An Fb Group I'm In. Girl, If You Have To Ask, You Probably Already Know The Answer

    From An Fb Group I'm In. Girl, If You Have To Ask, You Probably Already Know The Answer

    GrumpyFoodLady Report

    Ember
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why people don’t just have a smaller wedding if they’re struggling with the cost is beyond me…

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    #38

    My Sil Just Asked Me If This Was Okay To Wear To My Wedding

    My Sil Just Asked Me If This Was Okay To Wear To My Wedding

    Marianzillaa Report

    #39

    It’s The “You Can Dance For Free!” For Me

    It’s The “You Can Dance For Free!” For Me

    michellechanphoto Report

    Denise Melek
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Working together? To me it seems photographer would be the only person working there.

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    #40

    My Sil Wore A Black T-Shirt, Khaki Cargo Pants And Yellow Sneakers To Our Semi-Formal Wedding

    My Sil Wore A Black T-Shirt, Khaki Cargo Pants And Yellow Sneakers To Our Semi-Formal Wedding

    B00KW0RM214 Report

    Minath
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not the point of the post but I really like the bride's dress.

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    #41

    Bride Wants Bridal Party And Friends To Pay For Her Solo Spa Weekend Instead Of Having A Bachelorette Party

    Bride Wants Bridal Party And Friends To Pay For Her Solo Spa Weekend Instead Of Having A Bachelorette Party

    MyFleetwoodMacSxPnts Report

    Ember
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’ve never understood why some brides expect bridesmaids etc to pay so much of their own money (for dresses, gifts, venues, transport etc). It’s your wedding, if you want these people to be part of your wedding, you should pay for it. Why should they be out of pocket?

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    #42

    God Forbid Her Sister Getting A Tattoo Before The Wedding!

    God Forbid Her Sister Getting A Tattoo Before The Wedding!

    mdnnnsph Report

    Jill Rhodry
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Warning - I'm about to be judgey - if someone having a tattoo that doesn't match your wedding theme is something you find devasting - you've lived a charmed life.

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    #43

    Nothing Says Love Better Than Dead Fish Instead Of Flowers

    Nothing Says Love Better Than Dead Fish Instead Of Flowers

    WhipAsh11 Report

    🧶𝔹𝕚𝕥𝕔𝕙 𝕂𝕟𝕚𝕥𝕥𝕖𝕣🪡
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No! First off, black moor and fantail goldfish wouldn't be cheaper than flowers in most instances. Feeder goldfish are cheap as hell but fancier varieties are at least a few bucks a piece...and they definitely aren't meant to stay in a vase. Goldfish need well aerated, cold, filtered water as they breathe from their gills and produce a ton of waste. You'd literally be killing those fish over the course of the event and even if you gave them away and/or kept them, it's highly unlikely most would survive. Goldfish will grow as big as their environment will allow and keeping them confined like that is bad for them and will leave them swimming in & breathing their own filth.

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    #44

    Imagine Thinking That Your Color Scheme Is More Important Than Your “Closest” Friend

    Imagine Thinking That Your Color Scheme Is More Important Than Your “Closest” Friend

    the_mess_express Report

    Nimues Child
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'll say it again: it is the people that are important, not the show.

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    #45

    Women Shares Petty Story Of Revenge At Wedding. I Understand How One May Wish To Do This, But Don't

    Women Shares Petty Story Of Revenge At Wedding. I Understand How One May Wish To Do This, But Don't

    Sarcastic_Troll Report

    Ember
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why didn’t you just cut them both out of your life at the time rather than waiting for some kind of cruel, petty revenge at her wedding. I know she did a terrible thing and hurt you greatly, but move on.

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    #46

    Found In A Book Of Faces Group. Far Too Many Commenters Are Saying, Though Tacky, The Brother Isn’t Out Of Line

    Found In A Book Of Faces Group. Far Too Many Commenters Are Saying, Though Tacky, The Brother Isn’t Out Of Line

    FormalityBites Report

    Ember
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would NEVER pay to be at a wedding. Here in the UK I’ve never heard of anyone having to pay for their plate or simply to attend. A gift is not mandatory either….yes it’s polite to bring a gift for the couple but you get them what you can afford. If you want to get married, you pay for the wedding. It’s that simple. If you can’t afford a big wedding, have a smaller, more intimate day. So much attention is payed to the wedding day when it’s how you go forward as a married couple that’s more important.

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    #47

    She Looks Absolutely Beautiful. Too Bad - That's My MIL At My Wedding 7 Years Ago

    She Looks Absolutely Beautiful. Too Bad - That's My MIL At My Wedding 7 Years Ago

    Dear_BubblesMcGee Report

    NsG
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So, are we to imply the dress is white and that's the issue? In a grey scale photo, it could easily be a pale blue or grey. Not a good example if you're wanting sympathy/support in judgement.

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    #48

    Groomsmen Plans To Propose At Bachelor/Ette Party. Group Is Split On Whether Or Not It's Okay

    Groomsmen Plans To Propose At Bachelor/Ette Party. Group Is Split On Whether Or Not It's Okay

    Ellie_Loves_ Report

    alwaysMispelled
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well but also why would you use someone else's celebration/event to propose??

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    #49

    Vape-Themed Wedding Shoot Turns Terrifying

    Vape-Themed Wedding Shoot Turns Terrifying

    neopetsfangirl Report

    Moosy Girl
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This one made me laugh out loud, looks like something just offscreen is sucking out their souls!

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    #51

    My Sister Got Married And Her MIL Decided To Get A Bigger Wedding Cake Than Our Mum's Self-Made

    My Sister Got Married And Her MIL Decided To Get A Bigger Wedding Cake Than Our Mum's Self-Made

    ilostmysocks66 Report

    The Gingersmurf
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    MIL's cake is just flat-out weird. Soccer balls? Green? *blech*

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    #52

    Bride Looking For Ways To Honor The Groom’s Native American Heritage

    Bride Looking For Ways To Honor The Groom’s Native American Heritage

    Wendyroooo Report

    Donkey boi
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is a case of 'heart in the right place, head in wrong place'. It's a great idea, but I would suggest discreetly asking his family what/if any traditions normally take place, then see about having them incorporated in your wedding.

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    #53

    Ewww, I Would Prefer Nothing Over A Mlm Gift

    Ewww, I Would Prefer Nothing Over A Mlm Gift

    de1etecl Report

    🧶𝔹𝕚𝕥𝕔𝕙 𝕂𝕟𝕚𝕥𝕥𝕖𝕣🪡
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sure, I'd take the products for free. Just don't expect ME to pay for them - I want absolutely no part of those financial scams.

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    #54

    Seen Posted On Facebook. Erm, What!

    Seen Posted On Facebook. Erm, What!

    mdnnnsph Report

    #55

    Bride Wants A Bridal Shower But Wants The Guests To Pay For It

    Bride Wants A Bridal Shower But Wants The Guests To Pay For It

    alltheaids Report

    Mama Panda
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I didn't have one but I think the MOH is the one that orchestrates the Bridal shower not the Bride.

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    #56

    Bridesmaid Dyes Hair Red After Bride Asks Her Not Too

    Bridesmaid Dyes Hair Red After Bride Asks Her Not Too

    kaioone Report

    Aahzmandus Pervect
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, because the hair on the left is so natural...

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    #57

    Leaving A Review After Showing Up Drunk At A Bridal Appointment With More Liquor

    Leaving A Review After Showing Up Drunk At A Bridal Appointment With More Liquor

    tbearr26 Report

    Moosy Girl
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow, these absolute bastards wanted them to be safe and live to see their wedding day, how very judgemental of them.

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    #58

    “Parents Are Paying For Everything So They Should Do Everything For Me, But Also My Mil Is Helping Me Plan And I Hate It”

    “Parents Are Paying For Everything So They Should Do Everything For Me, But Also My Mil Is Helping Me Plan And I Hate It”

    makmorning Report

    Ember
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Let me get this right…..You want your family to not only pay (a small fortune) for your wedding, but organise it all too? and when your MIL tries to help you with some of the organisation (which you’ve stated you are too busy to do) she’s in the wrong? I’m lost for words on this one….

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    #59

    My Sister Is Getting Married.. This Is The Dress One Of Her Bridesmaids Bought

    My Sister Is Getting Married.. This Is The Dress One Of Her Bridesmaids Bought

    hallengoats Report

    CatGirl
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Looking at the handbag, I'm not surprised.

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    #60

    Bride Books Cabin For Her Ceremony Location Without Making Sure It Was Okay With The Renters To Do So

    Bride Books Cabin For Her Ceremony Location Without Making Sure It Was Okay With The Renters To Do So

    Ellie_Loves_ Report

    Ember
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She should have done her homework and checked that her plans were ok with the place before booking.

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    #61

    Jealous Of Children…. New Low In The Wedding Group

    Jealous Of Children…. New Low In The Wedding Group

    glass_heart2002 Report

    troufaki13
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm really torn about this one. On one hand these kids are apparently a big part of his life and he wants them there. On the other hand she doesn't feel comfortable. So who should respect whom?

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    #62

    “Selfish” Bridesmaids Ruin Wedding By Saving Their Money During Record Inflation

    “Selfish” Bridesmaids Ruin Wedding By Saving Their Money During Record Inflation

    Rupindah Report

    Ember
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    …..once again…..for those at the back who didn’t hear the first time…..pay for your own damn wedding

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    #63

    I Guess Enough Is Never Enough When It Comes To Gifts Or Cash Donations

    I Guess Enough Is Never Enough When It Comes To Gifts Or Cash Donations

    Lvanwinkle18 Report

    Ember
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I didn’t have a honeymoon (couldn’t afford it at the time) and have been married now for almost 30 years. It’s not the end of the world if you don’t have one….however, expecting your friends and family to pay for one is just terrible!

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    #65

    Girl, Just Don't Have A Bridal Party

    Girl, Just Don't Have A Bridal Party

    Youcantquitme_baby Report

    Hyrule26
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Brides should not get to control hair. I can understand everything else on this but that hair is a step too far

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    #66

    When Wedding Planning Is The Only Thing On Your Mind

    When Wedding Planning Is The Only Thing On Your Mind

    princecowboy Report

    Jordi Sharpe
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's where you are: alive, not under constant threat of artillery exploding near you, or burying your family members who were shot by soldiers. Be thankful, you incurable a**l cyst.

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    #67

    Spotted On Fb. Casual Beach Wedding, So I Totally Thought This Woman Was The Bride At First

    Spotted On Fb. Casual Beach Wedding, So I Totally Thought This Woman Was The Bride At First

    Soalai Report

    Charlie B
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At first I was more concerned about the guy in the back with slenderman arm lol

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    #68

    Influencer At A Black Tie Wedding Reception. Gotta Get Content For The Gram Right

    Influencer At A Black Tie Wedding Reception. Gotta Get Content For The Gram Right

    Head2Heels Report

    Ember
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Influencers are the spawn of satan

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    #69

    Bride Refuses To Host Reception For 100-Person "Micro Wedding"

    Bride Refuses To Host Reception For 100-Person "Micro Wedding"

    rachelleybell Report

    CatGirl
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I see where she's coming from - but she should probably put something like that on the invitation. And I'm just thinking about the other poor drinkers at whatever pub they decide to 'crash'.

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    #70

    Couple Posted A Tik Tok Of Unique Things They Did At Their Wedding, One Of Which Being Unity Milk!

    Couple Posted A Tik Tok Of Unique Things They Did At Their Wedding, One Of Which Being Unity Milk!

    84aomame Report

    Hawkmoon
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And then, the sardines of communion, the muffins of coherence and the roast beef of harmony...

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    #71

    Found This Whilst Looking At A Hashtag For A Wedding Venue…. That Is Not The Bride

    Found This Whilst Looking At A Hashtag For A Wedding Venue…. That Is Not The Bride

    sunshard66 Report

    #72

    Sounds Like He Dodged A Bullet

    Sounds Like He Dodged A Bullet

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    Minath
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yikes, we're only getting one version of events but if it's at all truthful the OP definitely dodged more than one bullet.

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    #73

    She Posted In A Wedding Shaming Group For Opinions And Is Getting Completely Roasted

    She Posted In A Wedding Shaming Group For Opinions And Is Getting Completely Roasted

    Jeriais Report

    Na Schi
    Community Member
    Premium
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can someone please point out the things that are shame-worthy? I find all those points quite reasonable and it doesn't sound as those will be announced as a late "suprise" to the guests to be.

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