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“I Know What You’re Doing”: Woman Shares Way She Spies On Partner, Sparks Outrage Online
“I Know What You’re Doing”: Woman Shares Way She Spies On Partner, Sparks Outrage Online
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“I Know What You’re Doing”: Woman Shares Way She Spies On Partner, Sparks Outrage Online

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A woman’s intrusive tactic to spy on her partner has sparked conversation online about the lengths some people go to in order to put their trust issues to rest. 

TikTokerAbby Paige suggested she monitored her partner’s internet activity thanks to an app that allowed her to see what they were up to online.

It all began with a video captioned “like i know what youre doin stink” that shows Abby smirking with an on-screen text that reads, “when their phone is always hidden from you but they’re connected to your wifi.” Demonic laughter can be heard in the background, too.

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    “When their phone is always hidden from you but they’re connected to your wifi,” TikToker Abby Paige wrote

    @abby.paige like i know what youre doin stink😘 #real#relatable#foryoupage#fyp#cheater♬ Teddy Bear x prodbyrl – Terror

    The intriguing six-second clip, viewed almost 700,000 times, piqued users’ curiosity, making Abby upload a follow-up video explaining her strategy in greater detail.

    In the next clip, the young woman claimed that her Xfinity WiFi service can be set up to track what other users are doing on the network. “I did this on accident, I didn’t even mean to do it,” she admitted.

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    Abby continued by sharing her phone’s screen with the Xfinity app open. As she revealed, the app allows her to assign a wifi-connected device to a specific user. 

    The TikToker showed she had her home’s smart TV and Xbox assigned.

    Abby’s video raised concerns about the ethical issues of monitoring someone’s behavior

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    Then, she went to the “manage 1 person” part of the app, and demonstrated how she was able to view the user’s most used apps (in the case shown on screen, it was Instagram and X), how much time they’d been on them, the peak hours of app use, and total wifi use time.

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    However, Xfinity’s Sherlock Holmes resources are limited, as the company has confirmed their services can’t be used to track a person’s history through a router or modem.

    “The only way to see your complete browsing history would be through the ‘History’ or ‘Security’ settings tab on the individual [internet] browsers used,” they wrote on a blog post.

    As she explained in a follow-up clip, she uses the Xfinity WiFi app, which allows her to assign a wifi-connected device to a specific user

     

    Image credits: abby.paige

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    Additionally, anyone with administrator-level capabilities can change settings in the Xfinity app, restricting users to specific times of the day or night.

    People had mixed feelings about Abby’s anti-cheating technique, with some raising ethical concerns about spying on someone’s online behavior, and others labeling her an “MVP.”

    “I’d be outta there so quick. Not cause I’m not loyal but because I refuse to be in a relationship with no trust,” someone wrote.

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    “Some of yall asking how to do it in the comment section, like yall need to be leaving that person if you feel the need to do this…” another person said.

    A third person agreed, “if a man lost my trust this hard you better believe I’m leaving. I’m not going to invade his privacy. I’m not babysitting anyone.”

    The app lets her know the user’s most used social media apps, how much time they’ve been on them as well as the peak hours of app use and total wifi use time

    Image credits: abby.paige

     “I did this on accident, I didn’t even mean to do it,” Abby said

    @abby.paige Replying to @Karma Renee #greenscreen#real#relatable#foryoupage#fyp♬ original sound – Abbs :)

    “This isn’t a flex. HELLA invasion of privacy & just flat out psychotic…how do u do it please,” someone else joked.

    Recently, another case of technology being employed for detective purposes came to light when a woman found out her husband had been unfaithful after an Airbnb host shared a security camera photo of the married guest with another woman.

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    The “superhost” apparently decided to take vengeance after the man, Shawn Mackey, violated the house’s strict no-party rule and left a negative review about the property.

    Mackey then filed a lawsuit against the host and Airbnb, alleging “extreme emotional distress” and “public humiliation” due to the incident.

    Many people considered Abby’s anti-cheating tactic to be too extreme

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    Emma S
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you have to spy on your partner to feel that you can trust them then the relationship is already over.

    Catastrophisticate
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pet peeve: interest or curiosity is "piqued" - NOT peaked or picked

    Ripley
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My pet peeve is "on accident". No it isn't, it's "BY accident" and yes, this is the hill that I will die on.

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    pasej41913@bustayes.com
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This wasn't as bad as most TikTok posts, but really could do with just the story/information and not screenshots of a toxic idiot's giant fat face and stupid pointing.

    Becky Samuel
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe if you weren't screaming "pay attention to me" at the bottom of every single article...

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    Emma S
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you have to spy on your partner to feel that you can trust them then the relationship is already over.

    Catastrophisticate
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pet peeve: interest or curiosity is "piqued" - NOT peaked or picked

    Ripley
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My pet peeve is "on accident". No it isn't, it's "BY accident" and yes, this is the hill that I will die on.

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    pasej41913@bustayes.com
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This wasn't as bad as most TikTok posts, but really could do with just the story/information and not screenshots of a toxic idiot's giant fat face and stupid pointing.

    Becky Samuel
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe if you weren't screaming "pay attention to me" at the bottom of every single article...

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