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Guy Shares A Viral Story Of A Tinder Date Going Bad As The Same Woman Tricked Dozens Of Men
If you are in a healthy relationship, you might not have had a chance to swipe left or right on the notoriously famous Tinder app. Flicking through hundreds of profiles, hoping to match with the ones you’re interested in, and instantly forgetting profiles that failed to catch your attention is what you can expect from this people-matching app. You match, you have a good chat, exchange phone numbers (or you have a chat and then figure out a clever ghosting technique or some excellent excuse not to carry on the conversation anymore) and eventually, if it’s all good, you manage to meet in person. And then, fingers crossed, you get married and live happily ever after.
This is not exactly what happened to Twitter user @bvdhai after matching with a girl online who had a few potential red flags and eventually led to a hell of a story and some sort of dating scam involving dozens of guys, not just him, in one of the busiest squares in New York City.
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Twitter user @bvdhai expressed his disappointment in a thread explaining how he matched with this girl on Tinder, was chatting to her and exchanged phone numbers. She then asked if they could continue in a few weeks as she had a presentation taking up her time. The guy agreed and a few weeks later, they decided to meet up. His date said that her friend was DJing in Union Square in the evening and that’s where they should meet up. Dozens of men ended up arriving at Union Square expecting to go on a date with a girl they met on Tinder and instead, she created a “Hunger Games-style” competition for someone to win and date her.
@bvdhai shared a picture he snapped of the scene taking place in Union Square and even received comments from his fellow “victims.”
It all started with @bvdhai matching with a girl on Tinder that was somewhat mysterious
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After chatting, they exchanged phone numbers and all of a sudden, the girl said that she had a big presentation and would want to carry on chatting in few weeks
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After some time, the girl texted with a time and location to meet up and go for a drink afterwards
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The guy expressed to his friend that he was slightly suspicious about the girl and something was off
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As he turned up for the date at the agreed location, it seemed that there really was an event happening
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And that’s when things started to get really uncanny as the girl showed up with bodyguards
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And as everyone in the crowd was watching, she started to explain what was happening
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And the truth of why so many guys were in the same place started to come to light
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After the moment of realization, @bvdhai decided to return home
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Here are some comments that users on Twitter had regarding the Tinder date story, you can share yours below
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Easily Excitable Panda 4 years ago
When you want to be on "The Bachelorette" but couldn't pass the psych test.
Ryan Deschanel 4 years ago (edited)
It is despicable ! What kind of cruel manipulative bitch does that ?! This thing should not be in the "funny" section ! And please, no "yeah but she is a woman so she can do no wrong", I'm not in the mood.
Nevits Yibble 4 years ago
Any guy, DUMB enough, to stay and play her game deserves a woman like that.
tw 72 4 years ago
Do not spend one more minute with a woman like that. She thinks relationships are games and competitions - and she thinks she is the prize. For anyone dating her, she will always be looking for someone "better." Right now, I am looking out my window; I think her ego is blocking the sun.
zims 4 years ago
I thought it would be a ploy to drum up a crowd for her DJ buddy's gig, to actually show up and have the guys compete for the date is self-aggrandizing on a whole other level. Fallopian fortitude indeed.
Viviane 4 years ago
As it turns out, this is from 2018. The woman was an actress hired by a producer who was filming social commentary. https://www.cbsnews.com/news/natasha-aponte-woman-who-tricked-thousands-of-men-on-tinder-explains-purpose-behind-dating-competition/
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wild_mushrooms 4 years ago
Dude... if this was a guy who did this to a bunch of girls, nobody would think this is funny. It's honestly disgusting.
AzKhaleesi 4 years ago (edited)
Lmao "fallopian fortitude" I will forever use this whenever I do something bad ass. And also she's super full of herself but it was a hilarious read, and from the back, she aint that pretty haha.
Sergio Bicerra 4 years ago (edited)
OMG!!! Just checked it on youtube... it was a marketing stuntl!!! Check for "Why Woman Duped Men She Met on Tinder Into Meeting for Dating Competition"
Parmeisan 4 years ago
I don't understand why so many women leave their profiles blank, or say like "ask me anything!" or "I don't know what to say". Like, do you *want* to be judged purely on your looks? Do you have absolutely no desire to date someone who has similar interests, opinions, or relationship goals to you? You are probably losing out on good potential matches, AND making extra work for yourself and others by forcing a conversation to get even the most basic info about each other. Yeah, I just don't get it.
Viviane 4 years ago
I would put interests, what I like in a partner, and add something amusing, such as "I have two overseas foster children, Leo and Poppy, who never write because literacy is apparently not a priority at the chimp orphanage."
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Carol Emory 4 years ago
That's when you revert things back to the old days. Go to the nearest grocer, buy all their rotten fruit and veg and then hand it out to all the dudes to launch at her. See how pretty she is with tomato in her hair and mushed banana all over her outfit. Probably was a stunt on her part to get guys to come to her Instagram page and up her numbers.
Carol Emory 4 years ago
Actually, as soon as I found out about her Instagram profile I would have been "That's a big time NOPE!"
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Demi Zwaan 4 years ago
The worst thing is that many of the guys stayed and PLAYED! They all should have just turned around and walked away. Who wants to date a self absorbed twat like that? All those guys want is sex :(
Arctic Fox Lover 4 years ago
Oh. My. Giddy. Go. Gosh!! XDDDDD This is immensely funny!! This girl on TInder, who claims she's an actress, singer, and model gathered up all these dudes from Tinder, told them all to meet her in the same place that her friend was DJing at, and arrived kind of late to stop the DJ and say "Hey y'all, wassup, all o' y'all are from TInder and I told y'all to meet me here. I want you guys to compete against each other in a bunch o' stupid stuff, and the last man standing gets to date me. Who's in?!" and a good number of the guys said "Lol heck yeah, why not". Am I missing anything?
𝕁𝕖𝕟𝕟𝕪𝔹𝕖𝕖 4 years ago
In this guy's words: "What in the Scooby Doo is the sh*t?" Like what girl thinks she is good enough for that. Taylor Swift isn't even good enough for that. I also kinda wanna know who won though...
Kelli from Fitness Blender 4 years ago
SAME! I think this is awful and so dumb, but I want to know who won.
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Alicia Butterfield 4 years ago
Hope he doesn't give up that there are normal people out there too ! Best to go home and leave the attention seekers to it, any guys staying deserve what they get (she'll be a nightmare, I'm sure)
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Domo Salfaro 4 years ago
Would have been awesome if they all bro'ed up and left her standing on her stage of selfishness alone.
Bacony Cakes 4 years ago
Another reason to defect to the reptilians. We don't pull sh*t like this.
NATHAN ENGLANDER 4 years ago
This would happen in like Inglewood or Culver City. If you live in LA you know what I am talking about.
PrincessTheSiameseKat 4 years ago
to be honest no girl likes when people "compete for them" so she must be a phycopath
Sheila Stamey 4 years ago
No, what would have been nice to have seen would have been to see every man turñ and wave the fade off hand at her as they left.
aubergine10003 4 years ago
My main takeaway is: why did he refer to 17th Street as 17th Avenue? Dude. C'mon. Do you even know how to Manhattan?
OhForSmegSake 4 years ago
When you get sick of never getting picked to be The Bachelorette so you decide to hold your own competition
Viviane 4 years ago
She ended up eliminating candidates - some of her criteria made sense (men already in relationships, alcoholics) and others were picayune (she hates the name Jimmy, khakis, and certain types of shoes). Some of the men who remained seemed to find it fun. So she eliminated the guys who hate games.
Easily Excitable Panda 4 years ago
When you want to be on "The Bachelorette" but couldn't pass the psych test.
Ryan Deschanel 4 years ago (edited)
It is despicable ! What kind of cruel manipulative bitch does that ?! This thing should not be in the "funny" section ! And please, no "yeah but she is a woman so she can do no wrong", I'm not in the mood.
Nevits Yibble 4 years ago
Any guy, DUMB enough, to stay and play her game deserves a woman like that.
tw 72 4 years ago
Do not spend one more minute with a woman like that. She thinks relationships are games and competitions - and she thinks she is the prize. For anyone dating her, she will always be looking for someone "better." Right now, I am looking out my window; I think her ego is blocking the sun.
zims 4 years ago
I thought it would be a ploy to drum up a crowd for her DJ buddy's gig, to actually show up and have the guys compete for the date is self-aggrandizing on a whole other level. Fallopian fortitude indeed.
Viviane 4 years ago
As it turns out, this is from 2018. The woman was an actress hired by a producer who was filming social commentary. https://www.cbsnews.com/news/natasha-aponte-woman-who-tricked-thousands-of-men-on-tinder-explains-purpose-behind-dating-competition/
Load More Replies... wild_mushrooms 4 years ago
Dude... if this was a guy who did this to a bunch of girls, nobody would think this is funny. It's honestly disgusting.
AzKhaleesi 4 years ago (edited)
Lmao "fallopian fortitude" I will forever use this whenever I do something bad ass. And also she's super full of herself but it was a hilarious read, and from the back, she aint that pretty haha.
Sergio Bicerra 4 years ago (edited)
OMG!!! Just checked it on youtube... it was a marketing stuntl!!! Check for "Why Woman Duped Men She Met on Tinder Into Meeting for Dating Competition"
Parmeisan 4 years ago
I don't understand why so many women leave their profiles blank, or say like "ask me anything!" or "I don't know what to say". Like, do you *want* to be judged purely on your looks? Do you have absolutely no desire to date someone who has similar interests, opinions, or relationship goals to you? You are probably losing out on good potential matches, AND making extra work for yourself and others by forcing a conversation to get even the most basic info about each other. Yeah, I just don't get it.
Viviane 4 years ago
I would put interests, what I like in a partner, and add something amusing, such as "I have two overseas foster children, Leo and Poppy, who never write because literacy is apparently not a priority at the chimp orphanage."
Load More Replies... Carol Emory 4 years ago
That's when you revert things back to the old days. Go to the nearest grocer, buy all their rotten fruit and veg and then hand it out to all the dudes to launch at her. See how pretty she is with tomato in her hair and mushed banana all over her outfit. Probably was a stunt on her part to get guys to come to her Instagram page and up her numbers.
Carol Emory 4 years ago
Actually, as soon as I found out about her Instagram profile I would have been "That's a big time NOPE!"
Load More Replies... Demi Zwaan 4 years ago
The worst thing is that many of the guys stayed and PLAYED! They all should have just turned around and walked away. Who wants to date a self absorbed twat like that? All those guys want is sex :(
Arctic Fox Lover 4 years ago
Oh. My. Giddy. Go. Gosh!! XDDDDD This is immensely funny!! This girl on TInder, who claims she's an actress, singer, and model gathered up all these dudes from Tinder, told them all to meet her in the same place that her friend was DJing at, and arrived kind of late to stop the DJ and say "Hey y'all, wassup, all o' y'all are from TInder and I told y'all to meet me here. I want you guys to compete against each other in a bunch o' stupid stuff, and the last man standing gets to date me. Who's in?!" and a good number of the guys said "Lol heck yeah, why not". Am I missing anything?
𝕁𝕖𝕟𝕟𝕪𝔹𝕖𝕖 4 years ago
In this guy's words: "What in the Scooby Doo is the sh*t?" Like what girl thinks she is good enough for that. Taylor Swift isn't even good enough for that. I also kinda wanna know who won though...
Kelli from Fitness Blender 4 years ago
SAME! I think this is awful and so dumb, but I want to know who won.
Load More Replies... Alicia Butterfield 4 years ago
Hope he doesn't give up that there are normal people out there too ! Best to go home and leave the attention seekers to it, any guys staying deserve what they get (she'll be a nightmare, I'm sure)
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Domo Salfaro 4 years ago
Would have been awesome if they all bro'ed up and left her standing on her stage of selfishness alone.
Bacony Cakes 4 years ago
Another reason to defect to the reptilians. We don't pull sh*t like this.
NATHAN ENGLANDER 4 years ago
This would happen in like Inglewood or Culver City. If you live in LA you know what I am talking about.
PrincessTheSiameseKat 4 years ago
to be honest no girl likes when people "compete for them" so she must be a phycopath
Sheila Stamey 4 years ago
No, what would have been nice to have seen would have been to see every man turñ and wave the fade off hand at her as they left.
aubergine10003 4 years ago
My main takeaway is: why did he refer to 17th Street as 17th Avenue? Dude. C'mon. Do you even know how to Manhattan?
OhForSmegSake 4 years ago
When you get sick of never getting picked to be The Bachelorette so you decide to hold your own competition
Viviane 4 years ago
She ended up eliminating candidates - some of her criteria made sense (men already in relationships, alcoholics) and others were picayune (she hates the name Jimmy, khakis, and certain types of shoes). Some of the men who remained seemed to find it fun. So she eliminated the guys who hate games.
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