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Teen Suspects Her Dad’s GF Is The Source Of His Ridiculous Period Advice And Demands An Apology
Getting advice from your dad about anything related to puberty is awkward at best. It is usually a special blend of good intentions and spectacularly wrong information, bless their hearts. Their knowledge base often seems to be cobbled together from a half-remembered health class and pure, unadulterated panic.
Usually, these well-meaning blunders are harmless and just become funny family stories. But the advice isn’t always just a little off; sometimes it’s so wildly incorrect it defies all logic. One dad’s “helpful” suggestion for his daughter was a truly absorbent-ly bad idea instead.
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Even a hero-dad’s well-meaning advice about puberty can sometimes be spectacularly, hilariously wrong
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After a teen got her period on vacation, her dad valiantly bailed on their waterpark plans for go-karting instead
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But he quickly backtracked and came up with the solution that she should just use a “paper towel” to go swimming with the family
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When she called the idea “stupid,” he shouted, slammed the door, and left her alone all day
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In a heartwarming twist, the dad sent a perfect, heartfelt apology after educating himself on this delicate subject
A 15-year-old girl’s vacation plans were ambushed by the arrival of her period, making the planned water park trip a no-go. Her dad, her main support system, was initially a hero. He not only understood but even suggested a cool alternative: ditching the water park and taking her go-karting instead, a perfect dad-daughter bonding moment.
But the heroics were short-lived. A few hours later, influenced by his girlfriend and the younger sister, he bailed on the go-karting plan. He then offered a piece of menstrual advice so spectacularly bad it belongs in a museum of terrible ideas: his “female friends” just use “paper towels” to go swimming, and she could too if she wasn’t “choosing not to.”
Understandably, the teen called this “stupid idea” what it was: stupid. Her dad did not take this critique of his questionable medical advice well. He responded by shouting, slamming the door in her face, and then giving her the silent treatment. She was left stranded in the caravan for the rest of the day, her vacation effectively ruined over a piece of truly absorbent-ly bad advice.
But in a heartwarming twist, the dad actually listened and learned. The next day, he sent a heartfelt apology text, admitting he’d “taken some advice” from someone who actually knows things. He confessed he felt terrible for not understanding and promised to come up with a real plan to help her, a rare and beautiful moment of a dad admitting he was wrong and actively trying to do better.
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The dad’s now-infamous “paper towel” suggestion isn’t just a little off; it’s a complete anatomical and functional impossibility. As made clear by experts at Tampax, it’s perfectly safe to swim on your period, but only with internal protection like a tampon or menstrual cup.
Pads, and by extension, paper towels, are designed to absorb liquid, meaning they would instantly become saturated with pool water, rendering them useless and likely leading to a deeply humiliating situation for his daughter.
The initial conflict highlights a common but critical challenge: how dads can and should talk about periods. Experts at Nua emphasize that a dad’s role is to be a supportive, reassuring presence—not to offer unqualified medical advice. The goal is to make his daughter feel comfortable and understood and by dismissing her reality he missed the mark.
His immediate, angry reaction further damaged that trust. Dr. Asma J. Chattha stresses the importance of dads creating a safe space and being open to learning, not shutting down. By getting defensive, shouting, and slamming the door, he turned a moment where she needed support into a moment where she was punished for his own ignorance.
However, the father’s update is a perfect example of how to correct a parenting mistake. According to advice from Calm.com, a sincere apology involves taking responsibility, expressing remorse, and showing you’ve learned from the experience. The dad’s text hits every single one of these points and is a faultless example of how to mend a relationship after a major misstep.
This is a safe space to trauma dump, so tell us all your most cringe-worthy or frustrating puberty parenting mishaps!
The internet applauded the dad’s apology, calling it a masterclass in how to admit you’re wrong
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Tabitha 2 months ago (edited)
Is no one going to say anything about the dad saying that tampons aren’t good to use for someone who isn’t sexually active? FFS, I was still a teenage virgin when I stopped using pads and switched to tampons, especially for swimming, but also because pads are an inconvenient stinky mess. So, being sexually active has NOTHING to do with tampons—-I mean, they make special slim ones for teenagers, FFS. So daddy was partly OK in his apology, but he has A LOT left to learn about women’s periods. How in TF can a man have been married, living 24/7/365 with his wife, have a DAUGHTER and STILL not know a damned thing about how women’s bodies work? My husband, who only had one sister so didn’t come from a majority female household, learned enough between school, his mother, and girlfriends to understand about periods and pregnancy. He had no problem, no embarrassment with buying me tampons and other feminine products when I ran low. He had no issues taking care of me when I had to have a hysterectomy. While I still had the staples holding my surgical site together, my husband held me up in the shower and helped me bathe. Having surgery on your core area really wakes you up to how much that area controls your body. I couldn’t lift my legs to step over the tub to get into the shower, so he had to lift me then stand by me and help me stand. Because he paid attention, and listened to the do tor’s instructions. That’s love. That’s the real thing. He also knows I would do—-and have done—-the same for him.
Ms.GB 2 months ago (edited)
Yeah Dad still has no idea what's he's talking about. Time to educate yourself further with a reliable source DAD! I taught myself to use tampons at 12 so that I could go swimming and I most certainly was not sexually active, I still had barbies in my room 😀
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Trillian 2 months ago (edited)
Using tampons is fine, it has nothing to do with being sexually active. But it is her choice and if she doesn't feel comfortable that is fine. I would love for the gf to demonstrate swimming using a paper towel though ...
Tabitha 2 months ago (edited)
Is no one going to say anything about the dad saying that tampons aren’t good to use for someone who isn’t sexually active? FFS, I was still a teenage virgin when I stopped using pads and switched to tampons, especially for swimming, but also because pads are an inconvenient stinky mess. So, being sexually active has NOTHING to do with tampons—-I mean, they make special slim ones for teenagers, FFS. So daddy was partly OK in his apology, but he has A LOT left to learn about women’s periods. How in TF can a man have been married, living 24/7/365 with his wife, have a DAUGHTER and STILL not know a damned thing about how women’s bodies work? My husband, who only had one sister so didn’t come from a majority female household, learned enough between school, his mother, and girlfriends to understand about periods and pregnancy. He had no problem, no embarrassment with buying me tampons and other feminine products when I ran low. He had no issues taking care of me when I had to have a hysterectomy. While I still had the staples holding my surgical site together, my husband held me up in the shower and helped me bathe. Having surgery on your core area really wakes you up to how much that area controls your body. I couldn’t lift my legs to step over the tub to get into the shower, so he had to lift me then stand by me and help me stand. Because he paid attention, and listened to the do tor’s instructions. That’s love. That’s the real thing. He also knows I would do—-and have done—-the same for him.
Ms.GB 2 months ago (edited)
Yeah Dad still has no idea what's he's talking about. Time to educate yourself further with a reliable source DAD! I taught myself to use tampons at 12 so that I could go swimming and I most certainly was not sexually active, I still had barbies in my room 😀
Load More Replies... Trillian 2 months ago (edited)
Using tampons is fine, it has nothing to do with being sexually active. But it is her choice and if she doesn't feel comfortable that is fine. I would love for the gf to demonstrate swimming using a paper towel though ...
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