“The Baby Wasn’t My Brother’s”: Sister Fights Brother’s Ex In Court, Sends Her To Jail

A mother can almost always be 100% sure that a baby is hers. Fathers, on the other hand, don’t have the same luxury. In fact, around 1% to 10% of dads find out that the children they have been raising aren’t actually theirs.

This man wasn’t around anymore to discover this, but his sister did the digging for him. After the results came in, they shocked the family, and the mother found out the hard way that messing with people’s lives can result in you losing custody of your child and spending some time behind bars.

A man’s passing left his family with an ex-wife and a child to support financially

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Yet they grew suspicious of his paternity after some things about the mother came to light

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Paternity fraud negatively impacts all the people involved: the husband, the real father, and, most importantly, the child

The baby’s mother in this story is, essentially, guilty of paternity fraud. She led the deceased man and his family to believe that a child was his, when the actual biological father was another man. In doing so, the woman potentially ruined the lives of more than five people: herself, her ex-husband, the baby’s father, the baby, and the deceased man’s family.

As the man is no longer alive, he can’t feel the devastation of finding out that a child is not his. However, his family might be feeling the effects instead of him. Experts say that in addition to a years-long financial burden, many men also feel grief, anger, sadness, and guilt.

But perhaps the biggest victims in paternity fraud cases are the children. Of course, the child in this story is a toddler, but finding out that your father is not your real dad can do a number on children. As Monique Lynch-Jonah, PhD, explains, when they learn of paternity fraud, children often face an identity crisis.

Some may even develop trust issues. While the first person they may distrust the most is the mother, they may come to trust other people later in life, too. Research has also shown that children who have experienced paternity fraud are more likely to develop anxiety and depression.

“The uncertainty surrounding their family dynamics, coupled with feelings of abandonment or rejection, can create a breeding ground for mental health issues,” Lunch-Jonah writes.

If the couple is married before a child is born, the husband will automatically be the legal parent

This story has at least one happy element: that the biological father stepped up and battled the mother for custody. And, in the end, he won. Generally, fathers having full custody of their children are not that unusual in this day and age in America. According to the U.S. Census in 2022, 21.8% of custodial parents were fathers.

Commenters speculated that the mother probably did something really bad to end up in jail and lose custody of her child. She wouldn’t have to serve time behind bars if her only crime was paternity fraud, as it’s a civil matter instead of a criminal one.

Legally, there’s an interesting thing when it comes to paternity. In many states, a child who was born to a couple who is married will legally be the husband’s child. That means that even if a man is not the child’s biological father, he is the legal parent. If the husband doesn’t question the baby’s parentage, he will be the father in the eyes of the law.

Of course, if the biological father appears and demands custody, then it’s a different story. Or, like it was in this case, if the husband’s family suspects something fraudulent and demands a paternity test. The court doesn’t make decisions on the basis of the parent’s gender. Experts emphasize that the court will always attempt to make a decision that is in the child’s best interest.

Most commenters sided with the family: “Play stupid games, win stupid prizes”

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However, some shamed the family for ruining the young mother’s life

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