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“You Ignored My Warning”: Mom Refuses To Pay For Friend’s Gucci Sunglasses And iPhone
Interview With ExpertBabies are adorable, but let’s be honest, not all the time. They might bite, spit, grab at anything shiny, or throw things across the room. That’s just part of being a baby, and most people understand it comes with the territory.
But sometimes, people just refuse to see it that way. For instance, one woman shared how she repeatedly warned her friend that her 6-month-old loves grabbing things. Instead of taking the advice seriously, the friend brushed it off, only to regret it later when the baby managed to break her pricey Gucci sunglasses and iPhone. Keep reading to see how it all unfolded.
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When holding babies, always keep your hands clean and maintain hygiene
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When it comes to babies, there are certain dos and don’ts that people should always keep in mind. For instance, one of the most essential rules when interacting with a baby is hygiene. Parents often insist on visitors washing their hands before holding or even touching the little one, and for good reason. A newborn’s immune system is still developing, making them vulnerable to infections. Even a simple cold can feel overwhelming for a baby. By keeping your hands clean, you’re not just respecting the parents’ wishes, but you’re also helping protect the child.
To get more perspective on this, we spoke with Violetta Carvajal. She may be an engineer now, but during her high school years, she worked extensively as a babysitter. Reflecting on her experience, she says, “When it comes to babies, you can never be too careful.” According to her, most parents appreciate visitors who are considerate, cautious, and mindful of the baby’s routine. It’s not about being overly strict, it’s about prioritizing the child’s wellbeing.
“Always maintain hygiene, no matter how short your interaction might be,” Violetta emphasizes. She shared that even something as simple as forgetting to sanitize hands before playtime can make parents feel uneasy. Beyond that, avoiding strong perfumes, freshly smoked clothes, or unwashed items can also make a big difference. Babies are highly sensitive, so maintaining cleanliness and creating a safe, fresh environment around them is essential.
Another important thing to remember is keeping noise levels down around babies. Violetta advises, “Don’t be too loud near them.” Babies can easily be startled by sudden noises or overstimulation. While gentle talking, humming, or singing can soothe them, loud laughter, shouting, or blaring music can overwhelm their senses. A calm, quiet environment helps babies feel secure and reduces the chances of fussiness or tears.
In today’s world, screens are everywhere, but Violetta strongly recommends avoiding excessive screen time around babies. “Don’t watch too much screen near them,” she says. The constant flashing lights, sounds, and movements can be harsh for their developing eyes and brains. Instead, it’s much better to engage with the baby directly: making eye contact, smiling, or simply letting them explore their surroundings in peace.
Never feed a newborn without asking the parents first
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Another surprising but important point is to limit excessive photography. “Don’t click too many photos, it might irritate them,” Violetta adds. While parents may love capturing every little milestone, constant flashes or being passed around for pictures can overstimulate babies. Instead, a few sweet, natural shots without forcing the baby into position are much more thoughtful.
Perhaps one of the most crucial rules is to never feed a baby anything without asking the parents first. Violetta is firm on this: “Never feed a baby anything without permission.” Babies often have strict feeding schedules, and in some cases, allergies or sensitivities that only the parents are aware of. Offering food without checking could pose serious risks.
Overall, when it comes to interacting with babies, the golden rule is to always ask the parents first. “It’s always better to ask than to assume,” Violetta concludes. Whether it’s about holding, feeding, taking photos, or even playing with the baby, parents know what works best. Respecting their boundaries not only keeps the baby safe but also builds trust between you and the family.
In this case, the woman ignored the author’s warning about the baby’s habit. Do you think the author should really pay her £2,300, or was it the friend’s fault for not listening? Share your thoughts in the comments below.
Many readers agreed that since she had given clear warnings, it wasn’t her fault
Others argued that because it was her baby, she should take responsibility and cover the costs
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Upstaged75 2 months ago (edited)
I would have been pissed that she screamed at my baby! That's not how adults act. Babies grab things - they don't know any better. She and her husband don't owe the pretentious biatch anything. She was warned and then was rude in her dismissal. And who the heck takes selfies with a baby that isn't their own or a family member? That's weird. She sounds like a nightmare.
Anthony Elmore 2 months ago
Yeah... I found it particularly bat-s**t crazy for the commmenter that say she needs to teach a 6 month old child responsibility. Or the one where the mother knew what was going to happen and apparently the person who agreed to hold her had NO idea that it was likely to happen. I don't usually try to guess if someone online is a Karen, but I'm gonna go ahead and guess that MOST of the YTA people are Karens.
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Binky Melnik 2 months ago (edited)
People act as if a broken screen is no big thing, but don’t stop to think that if the digitizer broke — the hardware that actually *displays* things in the screen — it’s a MUCH more expensive repair. I have an iPhone 6 (really) and so have NO clue about how the 16s work, but usually when the digitizer goes, it’s New Phone Time. In other words, it’s been totaled. It’s bricked. It’s an ex-phone. But this is all beside the point. I’Ve never had kids and held one exactly once, and even *I* know you don’t “teach” a six-month-old ANYTHING because all his brain can do is eat and excrete. (Wouldn’t have stopped my mom; I’ve a feeling she prolly slapped my hand and/or me from birth because why would her impatience wait until I became sentient? but that’s neither here nor there.) This “friend” with her stupid sunglasses got what she deserved,
Bewitched One 2 months ago
Yea sounds like friend was too worried about her glasses and broke her own phone by dropping it because, again, she was more worried about the glasses apparently
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Upstaged75 2 months ago (edited)
I would have been pissed that she screamed at my baby! That's not how adults act. Babies grab things - they don't know any better. She and her husband don't owe the pretentious biatch anything. She was warned and then was rude in her dismissal. And who the heck takes selfies with a baby that isn't their own or a family member? That's weird. She sounds like a nightmare.
Anthony Elmore 2 months ago
Yeah... I found it particularly bat-s**t crazy for the commmenter that say she needs to teach a 6 month old child responsibility. Or the one where the mother knew what was going to happen and apparently the person who agreed to hold her had NO idea that it was likely to happen. I don't usually try to guess if someone online is a Karen, but I'm gonna go ahead and guess that MOST of the YTA people are Karens.
Load More Replies... Binky Melnik 2 months ago (edited)
People act as if a broken screen is no big thing, but don’t stop to think that if the digitizer broke — the hardware that actually *displays* things in the screen — it’s a MUCH more expensive repair. I have an iPhone 6 (really) and so have NO clue about how the 16s work, but usually when the digitizer goes, it’s New Phone Time. In other words, it’s been totaled. It’s bricked. It’s an ex-phone. But this is all beside the point. I’Ve never had kids and held one exactly once, and even *I* know you don’t “teach” a six-month-old ANYTHING because all his brain can do is eat and excrete. (Wouldn’t have stopped my mom; I’ve a feeling she prolly slapped my hand and/or me from birth because why would her impatience wait until I became sentient? but that’s neither here nor there.) This “friend” with her stupid sunglasses got what she deserved,
Bewitched One 2 months ago
Yea sounds like friend was too worried about her glasses and broke her own phone by dropping it because, again, she was more worried about the glasses apparently
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