This Guy’s Tinder Experiment Shows How Girls Respond To Creepy Messages From Hot Guys, And It’s Quite Shocking
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For a lot of people, the results of this social experiment, nobly undertaken by a bodybuilding enthusiast who calls himself Germanlifter, will be surprising. Others though will simply shrug their shoulders and wonder what the big deal is.
“I Made a fake tinder profile just to see how well a male model compares to the rest of us,” he wrote. “The results are unbelievable. Every single girl I swipe yes to has been an instant match. There hasn’t been a SINGLE time where I have swiped yes, and there was no match.”
Shock! Women like hot guys. Isn’t this just human nature? Particularly on an online dating site like Tinder, which is known for its hookup culture. People are there to judge each other on their physical appearance first and foremost, so this really shouldn’t come as that much of a surprise, should it?
What the ‘experiment’ does do, however, is highlight the sheer power of good looks when it comes to the dating game. Being strongly attracted to someone physically is perfectly normal, but it probably shouldn’t come at the expense of common courtesy and respect. Germanlifter was surprised with the kind of filth he could introduce himself with, which many women seemed to be willing to overlook. “I can literally say ANYTHING and still get their number,” he said. “The girls often initiate first and respond immediately when I send a message. Admittedly I did get turned down a few times only because I opened with stuff like let’s f**k.”
It would have been interesting to see the occasions when he was rejected, and find out exactly how often it occurred, to get a more balanced picture. For now, though, you can scroll down below to check out how Germanlifter undertook his tinder profile ‘experiment,’ and let us know what you think in the comments!
Bodybuilding enthusiast Germanlifter created a Tinder profile using the photos of this guy
Who is in fact a male model
The idea was to see how women would react to creepy messages…
If they were sent by an attractive guy like that
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To all the people that act like this is no big deal: it's not that people are more likely to want to have sex with attractive people. That's fine, and if people want to hook up for fun and not date that's completely fine. What isn't fine is that somebody could send these kind of messages and immediately the other person trusts them enough to give over their number, but acts like they've been violated if an ugly person were to say the same thing. Just because somebody isn't attractive that isn't license to treat them as less equal.
I agree with what you said. Its kinda sad, but that's the way it is lol.
And you know that the girls shown here all acting like they've been violated if it comes from an ugly person from what source exactly??
Right? I was expecting to see the other side of the reactions; with a not so hot guy.
Have you ever heard a #metoo when an attractive guy was involved?
Are you serious? It's called the reactions that every guy who's not like this chiselled Adonis get all over the world if they try to be a creep. Thought that was pretty self evident, hence the need for an experiment like this.
"Just because somebody isn't attractive that isn't a license to treat them as less equal." Some women do overreact, that's true but who you choose to have sex with is not an area in which you are required to treat everyone equally, I don't mean that dismissively of the shitty way that some people turn people down that they're not attracted too but we all guilty of it, the fact is if Emily Ratajkowski contacted me for sex but said I had to let her take a dump on my chess I would probably strongly consider it.
I don't think "treat them less than equally" means sleep with them. But women tend to call less attractive men perverts or sexual harassers if they come on with the same kinds of lines that a more attractive man might get away with. That isn't fair. By all means say no if you don't want to sleep with someone but don't make them out to monsters just because you don't like their face.
Just because someone rejects you doesn't mean they're "acting like they've been violated." No one owes you.
You're saying it isn't about looks and attraction, then you are saying it is about looks and attraction... which is it?
Soooo, Im guessing Perry isnt attractive...just guessin...
Ok, so he posted a compilation of girls who fell for it. I wonder, how many didn't and gave him a cold shoulder.
I wondered that too!
Yeah, because I can swear I don't care how good looking the person is writing such dumb lines. It's a no and unmatch from me. I don't know though how would I react to good looking/not good looking guys if I were into one night hook-ups, like, I can't judge how much good looks matter in such case
exactly! that's why I down arrowed it. It's bias and it's kind of gross.
The fact that more than one fell for it is disturbing.
Of course a lot of girls gave him a cold shoulder, but still 20, not 3, not 6, not even 15, 20! gave away their number and said YES to what ALL WOMEN ALWAYS REFER TO AS: RUDE, HARASSMENT, CREEPY. Just saying...
20 out of how many attempts though? And did he choose women with profiles who looked most likely to be keen?
>20 out of how many attempts though? Yeah, I don't fucking know. However I've been on tinder myself for almost a month and a half, and I've totaled about 15 matches, 3 of them with fat chicks (because the first day I was just swiping right like a retard). So how long do you think they did the experiment for? 2 years? Obviously every fucking chick that saw his account swiped right. Dafuq does it matter?
Seems legit. Why you look like this guy and it doesn't work for you?
Taken right from the article: “Made a tinder troll account just to see how well a male model compares to the rest of us,” he wrote. “The results are unbelievable.Every single girl I swipe yes to has been an instant match. There hasn’t been a SINGLE time where I have swiped yes and there was no match.”
Taken right from the article: “Made a tinder troll account just to see how well a male model compares to the rest of us,” he wrote. “The results are unbelievable.Every single girl I swipe yes to has been an instant match. There hasn’t been a SINGLE time where I have swiped yes and there was no match.”
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Oh, you didn't say no?
Well, yes. Just as men will tolerate almost any kind of behaviour from a woman that looks like a gorgeous model and that they just ant to have sex with, so will women. Here's a shocking revelation for the year 2018: A lot of women also do enjoy casual sex with no strings attached!!
I felt the same way. Seems like slut shamming. But we do see these types of post where they show men willing to go out with horrible but beautiful women. I kind of feel the same way about the situation, being willing or simply wanting to have sex with someone doesn't mean you would be willing to enter into a long term relationship, or even if you would, is it anyone's business? When you are talking about letting someone have sex with you then I think it is a personal decision where no one should be expected to treat everyone equally. Of course we all want to be with attractive people, I really don't get the push to shame people for finding attractive people attractive or the pressure to date people you don't find attractive for equality sake. I will support your right to vote, protest, and have equal pay, but I draw the line at letting someone put their dick in me for fairness sake. I will be as shallow as I want. My life, my vagina.
Completely agree with you!
I think the only fair point (and this is arguable, I think this is more of an entertainment post than anything) to be taken away is that there's hypocrites in this world (or people who don't understand how they themselves work). Because among the women who would say yes (which is fine, I mean as long as you're not into a closed relationship you're not harming anyone) there are some that post messages like that and go "ew so creepy". But then again, I'm sure the point to be made is that some people will go out with someone they find reprehensible if only to fuck them for one night so that's no news.
That's fine, just don't bullshit men, when you're willing to lower your standards infinitely, just because the guy is good looking, but suddenly, when a less attractive guy engages in the same behavior you lash out. And no, I would not tolerate some bitch being a bitch to me, just for the sake of sex. And how does that even work? If she's being a bitch to me, chances are she doesn't want to have sex with me. But here we're not talking about someone being offensive, or insulting, or even rude. He's just being honest and direct.
Actually, when I asked my husband about this, he said, "The problem is that eventually you have to talk to them."
No, some men have standards, as do some women.
Well, yes, of course. I'm just annoyed about the stupid title that pretends that this is SUCH a surprise that some people don't. And I also believe - and some posts have shown that it works - that it discredits the current debate about sexual harrassment. Kind of: 'Ey women are acting the same way' so they should just shut about metoo and everything.
Men are willing to tolerate stupid, childish, nagging behavior. But no woman would be a bitch to you, but at the same time want to fuck you. Chances are, if she wants to fuck you, she's gonna be nice. Also it's not that women just want casual sex. It's that they're all going for the top tier 8/10+ guys. Other such experiments show that if you're as low as a 7/10 in the looks department, as a guy, your dating pool is closer to a guy who's lower than a 4/10, than it is to a guy who's 8/10+. Which is fucking ridiculous. Also, same experiment shows that basically a woman who's 8/10 has pretty much the same number of options as a 7/10, and if she's between a 4 and a 6, she has 3/4 as many options, and if she's below 4, basically fat and ugly, she has half the options of an 8++. Absurd.
Girls lose in the end tho. If all girls are going for the top 20 percent of men, then the majority of them end up single and alone after 35. Most men want a family. When women cant have kids anymore, they are finished. Millilenial women are going to be the generation of cat ladies because they can’t get passed physical beauty
Yes, but since we have a higher EQ we are more likely to seek sex that has strings attached. I
Who'd have thunk?
To all the people that act like this is no big deal: it's not that people are more likely to want to have sex with attractive people. That's fine, and if people want to hook up for fun and not date that's completely fine. What isn't fine is that somebody could send these kind of messages and immediately the other person trusts them enough to give over their number, but acts like they've been violated if an ugly person were to say the same thing. Just because somebody isn't attractive that isn't license to treat them as less equal.
I agree with what you said. Its kinda sad, but that's the way it is lol.
And you know that the girls shown here all acting like they've been violated if it comes from an ugly person from what source exactly??
Right? I was expecting to see the other side of the reactions; with a not so hot guy.
Have you ever heard a #metoo when an attractive guy was involved?
Are you serious? It's called the reactions that every guy who's not like this chiselled Adonis get all over the world if they try to be a creep. Thought that was pretty self evident, hence the need for an experiment like this.
"Just because somebody isn't attractive that isn't a license to treat them as less equal." Some women do overreact, that's true but who you choose to have sex with is not an area in which you are required to treat everyone equally, I don't mean that dismissively of the shitty way that some people turn people down that they're not attracted too but we all guilty of it, the fact is if Emily Ratajkowski contacted me for sex but said I had to let her take a dump on my chess I would probably strongly consider it.
I don't think "treat them less than equally" means sleep with them. But women tend to call less attractive men perverts or sexual harassers if they come on with the same kinds of lines that a more attractive man might get away with. That isn't fair. By all means say no if you don't want to sleep with someone but don't make them out to monsters just because you don't like their face.
Just because someone rejects you doesn't mean they're "acting like they've been violated." No one owes you.
You're saying it isn't about looks and attraction, then you are saying it is about looks and attraction... which is it?
Soooo, Im guessing Perry isnt attractive...just guessin...
Ok, so he posted a compilation of girls who fell for it. I wonder, how many didn't and gave him a cold shoulder.
I wondered that too!
Yeah, because I can swear I don't care how good looking the person is writing such dumb lines. It's a no and unmatch from me. I don't know though how would I react to good looking/not good looking guys if I were into one night hook-ups, like, I can't judge how much good looks matter in such case
exactly! that's why I down arrowed it. It's bias and it's kind of gross.
The fact that more than one fell for it is disturbing.
Of course a lot of girls gave him a cold shoulder, but still 20, not 3, not 6, not even 15, 20! gave away their number and said YES to what ALL WOMEN ALWAYS REFER TO AS: RUDE, HARASSMENT, CREEPY. Just saying...
20 out of how many attempts though? And did he choose women with profiles who looked most likely to be keen?
>20 out of how many attempts though? Yeah, I don't fucking know. However I've been on tinder myself for almost a month and a half, and I've totaled about 15 matches, 3 of them with fat chicks (because the first day I was just swiping right like a retard). So how long do you think they did the experiment for? 2 years? Obviously every fucking chick that saw his account swiped right. Dafuq does it matter?
Seems legit. Why you look like this guy and it doesn't work for you?
Taken right from the article: “Made a tinder troll account just to see how well a male model compares to the rest of us,” he wrote. “The results are unbelievable.Every single girl I swipe yes to has been an instant match. There hasn’t been a SINGLE time where I have swiped yes and there was no match.”
Taken right from the article: “Made a tinder troll account just to see how well a male model compares to the rest of us,” he wrote. “The results are unbelievable.Every single girl I swipe yes to has been an instant match. There hasn’t been a SINGLE time where I have swiped yes and there was no match.”
This comment is hidden. Click here to view.
Oh, you didn't say no?
Well, yes. Just as men will tolerate almost any kind of behaviour from a woman that looks like a gorgeous model and that they just ant to have sex with, so will women. Here's a shocking revelation for the year 2018: A lot of women also do enjoy casual sex with no strings attached!!
I felt the same way. Seems like slut shamming. But we do see these types of post where they show men willing to go out with horrible but beautiful women. I kind of feel the same way about the situation, being willing or simply wanting to have sex with someone doesn't mean you would be willing to enter into a long term relationship, or even if you would, is it anyone's business? When you are talking about letting someone have sex with you then I think it is a personal decision where no one should be expected to treat everyone equally. Of course we all want to be with attractive people, I really don't get the push to shame people for finding attractive people attractive or the pressure to date people you don't find attractive for equality sake. I will support your right to vote, protest, and have equal pay, but I draw the line at letting someone put their dick in me for fairness sake. I will be as shallow as I want. My life, my vagina.
Completely agree with you!
I think the only fair point (and this is arguable, I think this is more of an entertainment post than anything) to be taken away is that there's hypocrites in this world (or people who don't understand how they themselves work). Because among the women who would say yes (which is fine, I mean as long as you're not into a closed relationship you're not harming anyone) there are some that post messages like that and go "ew so creepy". But then again, I'm sure the point to be made is that some people will go out with someone they find reprehensible if only to fuck them for one night so that's no news.
That's fine, just don't bullshit men, when you're willing to lower your standards infinitely, just because the guy is good looking, but suddenly, when a less attractive guy engages in the same behavior you lash out. And no, I would not tolerate some bitch being a bitch to me, just for the sake of sex. And how does that even work? If she's being a bitch to me, chances are she doesn't want to have sex with me. But here we're not talking about someone being offensive, or insulting, or even rude. He's just being honest and direct.
Actually, when I asked my husband about this, he said, "The problem is that eventually you have to talk to them."
No, some men have standards, as do some women.
Well, yes, of course. I'm just annoyed about the stupid title that pretends that this is SUCH a surprise that some people don't. And I also believe - and some posts have shown that it works - that it discredits the current debate about sexual harrassment. Kind of: 'Ey women are acting the same way' so they should just shut about metoo and everything.
Men are willing to tolerate stupid, childish, nagging behavior. But no woman would be a bitch to you, but at the same time want to fuck you. Chances are, if she wants to fuck you, she's gonna be nice. Also it's not that women just want casual sex. It's that they're all going for the top tier 8/10+ guys. Other such experiments show that if you're as low as a 7/10 in the looks department, as a guy, your dating pool is closer to a guy who's lower than a 4/10, than it is to a guy who's 8/10+. Which is fucking ridiculous. Also, same experiment shows that basically a woman who's 8/10 has pretty much the same number of options as a 7/10, and if she's between a 4 and a 6, she has 3/4 as many options, and if she's below 4, basically fat and ugly, she has half the options of an 8++. Absurd.
Girls lose in the end tho. If all girls are going for the top 20 percent of men, then the majority of them end up single and alone after 35. Most men want a family. When women cant have kids anymore, they are finished. Millilenial women are going to be the generation of cat ladies because they can’t get passed physical beauty
Yes, but since we have a higher EQ we are more likely to seek sex that has strings attached. I
Who'd have thunk?