This Guy’s Tinder Experiment Shows How Girls Respond To Creepy Messages From Hot Guys, And It’s Quite Shocking
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For a lot of people, the results of this social experiment, nobly undertaken by a bodybuilding enthusiast who calls himself Germanlifter, will be surprising. Others though will simply shrug their shoulders and wonder what the big deal is.
“I Made a fake tinder profile just to see how well a male model compares to the rest of us,” he wrote. “The results are unbelievable. Every single girl I swipe yes to has been an instant match. There hasn’t been a SINGLE time where I have swiped yes, and there was no match.”
Shock! Women like hot guys. Isn’t this just human nature? Particularly on an online dating site like Tinder, which is known for its hookup culture. People are there to judge each other on their physical appearance first and foremost, so this really shouldn’t come as that much of a surprise, should it?
What the ‘experiment’ does do, however, is highlight the sheer power of good looks when it comes to the dating game. Being strongly attracted to someone physically is perfectly normal, but it probably shouldn’t come at the expense of common courtesy and respect. Germanlifter was surprised with the kind of filth he could introduce himself with, which many women seemed to be willing to overlook. “I can literally say ANYTHING and still get their number,” he said. “The girls often initiate first and respond immediately when I send a message. Admittedly I did get turned down a few times only because I opened with stuff like let’s f**k.”
It would have been interesting to see the occasions when he was rejected, and find out exactly how often it occurred, to get a more balanced picture. For now, though, you can scroll down below to check out how Germanlifter undertook his tinder profile ‘experiment,’ and let us know what you think in the comments!
Bodybuilding enthusiast Germanlifter created a Tinder profile using the photos of this guy
Who is in fact a male model
The idea was to see how women would react to creepy messages…
If they were sent by an attractive guy like that
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To all the people that act like this is no big deal: it's not that people are more likely to want to have sex with attractive people. That's fine, and if people want to hook up for fun and not date that's completely fine. What isn't fine is that somebody could send these kind of messages and immediately the other person trusts them enough to give over their number, but acts like they've been violated if an ugly person were to say the same thing. Just because somebody isn't attractive that isn't license to treat them as less equal.
I agree with what you said. Its kinda sad, but that's the way it is lol.
"Just because somebody isn't attractive that isn't a license to treat them as less equal." Some women do overreact, that's true but who you choose to have sex with is not an area in which you are required to treat everyone equally, I don't mean that dismissively of the shitty way that some people turn people down that they're not attracted too but we all guilty of it, the fact is if Emily Ratajkowski contacted me for sex but said I had to let her take a dump on my chess I would probably strongly consider it.
I don't think "treat them less than equally" means sleep with them. But women tend to call less attractive men perverts or sexual harassers if they come on with the same kinds of lines that a more attractive man might get away with. That isn't fair. By all means say no if you don't want to sleep with someone but don't make them out to monsters just because you don't like their face.
I would also add that I don’t believe for a second that women handle unattractive guys like that in most cases, typically if a woman doesn’t like a guy she’ll tell him. But accuse him of sexual harassment doesn’t seem like something most women would do, which is the point that Anarkzie was making. What a minority portion of women do shouldn’t determine how the majority are regarded. Isn’t that what men like to say? Most women would cry harassment is if the behaviour persists. I would recommend that “unattractive” guys simply ask, if she says, “No”, or shows disinterest, leave her alone. I’ve experienced guys I didn’t like being persistent and didn’t care for it honestly. I would also recommend women just flat out say, “No”, even if you fear hurting his feelings. This will be your evidence of harassment later, if he’s the kind of guy that won’t go away.
I don’t agree with the monster context when you factor that a lot of attractive guys who act creepy don’t get away with that behaviour based on how they look, I think the point is that people tend to take issue that are likely not major problems and overblown them. Yea, attractive people have an advantage but they doesn’t mean unattractive people are treated as “monsters”. You need to factor that since people define harassment as “Unwanted behaviour”, if an attractive guy does something and the woman likes it, then he’s not harassing her, but if an unattractive guy does it, and she doesn’t want it, it would be considered harassment by this definition, a definition I’ve heard people use. The point here is we need to correctly define what harassment means and then enforce it from that context. Other than that, there is truth in the sense that an unattractive guy coming into a woman, or vice versa, is going to generally be unwanted.
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Just because someone rejects you doesn't mean they're "acting like they've been violated." No one owes you.
And you know that the girls shown here all acting like they've been violated if it comes from an ugly person from what source exactly??
Right? I was expecting to see the other side of the reactions; with a not so hot guy.
Are you serious? It's called the reactions that every guy who's not like this chiselled Adonis get all over the world if they try to be a creep. Thought that was pretty self evident, hence the need for an experiment like this.
Have you ever heard a #metoo when an attractive guy was involved?
Yes, a lot of the men called during the MeToo uprising were attractive men who were used to getting what they wanted. A lot of them were celebrity men by the way, power, money and looks, yet, they were called out for Sexual assault, harassment, or manipulation. How did you miss this?
Soooo, Im guessing Perry isnt attractive...just guessin...
ya i agree but thats on them
You're saying it isn't about looks and attraction, then you are saying it is about looks and attraction... which is it?
Am with u on that!
About 15 years ago a woman made similar experiment with the catfishing problem and was horrified, basically telling that this would be a golden mine for all sorts of maniacs, judging by just how quickly women agree to date with a hot guy, even if he is creepy, with none of the thinking about their safety.
Omg, people treat attractive people differently! Stop the presses! You should see how horrible men treat ugly women. Even ugly men treat ugly women badly. But of course, y'all just want to make yourselves into victims and don't really care about the truth, only about your own entitlement.
People aren’t more likely to have sex with attractive people? Ummm, that’s not true at all… I do agree with you though that unattractive should not be treated less than. We are all equal.
THIS. As a (I guess) unattractive guy its been that way all my life. Ignored, rejected, never picked, never been asked out.
Ok, so he posted a compilation of girls who fell for it. I wonder, how many didn't and gave him a cold shoulder.
I wondered that too!
Same. I'd deny the fuck out of some stranger i didnt know or had mutual connections with. 🤷♀️
Sara, judging from your profile pic you'd never, ever get one of these messages from a Chad. Sorry.
Yeah, because I can swear I don't care how good looking the person is writing such dumb lines. It's a no and unmatch from me. I don't know though how would I react to good looking/not good looking guys if I were into one night hook-ups, like, I can't judge how much good looks matter in such case
exactly! that's why I down arrowed it. It's bias and it's kind of gross.
The fact that more than one fell for it is disturbing.
Fiona Messenger easy
Of course a lot of girls gave him a cold shoulder, but still 20, not 3, not 6, not even 15, 20! gave away their number and said YES to what ALL WOMEN ALWAYS REFER TO AS: RUDE, HARASSMENT, CREEPY. Just saying...
20 out of how many attempts though? And did he choose women with profiles who looked most likely to be keen?
Most of normal men get about 2 to 5
>20 out of how many attempts though? Yeah, I don't fucking know. However I've been on tinder myself for almost a month and a half, and I've totaled about 15 matches, 3 of them with fat chicks (because the first day I was just swiping right like a retard). So how long do you think they did the experiment for? 2 years? Obviously every fucking chick that saw his account swiped right. Dafuq does it matter?
Seems legit. Why you look like this guy and it doesn't work for you?
Taken right from the article: “Made a tinder troll account just to see how well a male model compares to the rest of us,” he wrote. “The results are unbelievable.Every single girl I swipe yes to has been an instant match. There hasn’t been a SINGLE time where I have swiped yes and there was no match.”
Taken right from the article: “Made a tinder troll account just to see how well a male model compares to the rest of us,” he wrote. “The results are unbelievable.Every single girl I swipe yes to has been an instant match. There hasn’t been a SINGLE time where I have swiped yes and there was no match.”
He says none. Are you sure you red the whole text. Well it proves you chicks not much different from us. You wanna hook up also if you see someone you like. Difference is that whole make up things.
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Oh, you didn't say no?
Well, yes. Just as men will tolerate almost any kind of behaviour from a woman that looks like a gorgeous model and that they just ant to have sex with, so will women. Here's a shocking revelation for the year 2018: A lot of women also do enjoy casual sex with no strings attached!!
I felt the same way. Seems like slut shamming. But we do see these types of post where they show men willing to go out with horrible but beautiful women. I kind of feel the same way about the situation, being willing or simply wanting to have sex with someone doesn't mean you would be willing to enter into a long term relationship, or even if you would, is it anyone's business? When you are talking about letting someone have sex with you then I think it is a personal decision where no one should be expected to treat everyone equally. Of course we all want to be with attractive people, I really don't get the push to shame people for finding attractive people attractive or the pressure to date people you don't find attractive for equality sake. I will support your right to vote, protest, and have equal pay, but I draw the line at letting someone put their dick in me for fairness sake. I will be as shallow as I want. My life, my vagina.
I think the only fair point (and this is arguable, I think this is more of an entertainment post than anything) to be taken away is that there's hypocrites in this world (or people who don't understand how they themselves work). Because among the women who would say yes (which is fine, I mean as long as you're not into a closed relationship you're not harming anyone) there are some that post messages like that and go "ew so creepy". But then again, I'm sure the point to be made is that some people will go out with someone they find reprehensible if only to fuck them for one night so that's no news.
Completely agree with you!
Also what women find attractive varies...muscles n tatts = not every women finds attractive. Some have dad bods, some chubby but w definition (big boned, broad shoulders, etc) some are like this guy, some are pale skinny nerds Some women find all manner of men attractive and others have a very specific set of looks they find attractive You all act like 1 man = universally attractive to all women Not true...i know women who would find this specific guy an average meat head w no interest in him. "Hot" is subjective. Taste/opinion So 2 women turn you down you feel unattractive who cares im wiling to wager that 2 other women may find you attractive.
It's hardly s**t shaming. It's shaming people for encouraging reprehensible behavior for the sake of something as superficial as physical appearance. And not wanting to date people you don't find physically attractive is called being shallow, and that's nothing to be proud of.
" reprehensible behavior" Like what? "And not wanting to date people you don't find physically attractive is called being shallow, and that's nothing to be proud of." Most people want to date people they find attractive. It's not being shallow, it's being human. Welcome among us humans!
Sounds like someone who sleeps with random men to try and fill a hole. Unfortunately you’re filling the wrong hole. People like you deserve to be shamed. It’s shameful act to sleep with random strangers. Morals have gone away these days. Who gives a crap about your feelings. Justify sleeping with random men all you want, but you’ll still be a lonely hoe in the end.
It’s ok to shame sluts, male or female. Get over yourself.
That's fine, just don't bullshit men, when you're willing to lower your standards infinitely, just because the guy is good looking, but suddenly, when a less attractive guy engages in the same behavior you lash out. And no, I would not tolerate some bitch being a bitch to me, just for the sake of sex. And how does that even work? If she's being a bitch to me, chances are she doesn't want to have sex with me. But here we're not talking about someone being offensive, or insulting, or even rude. He's just being honest and direct.
Actually, when I asked my husband about this, he said, "The problem is that eventually you have to talk to them."
No, some men have standards, as do some women.
Well, yes, of course. I'm just annoyed about the stupid title that pretends that this is SUCH a surprise that some people don't. And I also believe - and some posts have shown that it works - that it discredits the current debate about sexual harrassment. Kind of: 'Ey women are acting the same way' so they should just shut about metoo and everything.
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Very few....
News flash: you can BOTH enjoy casual sex AND have no tolerance for abusive behavior.
pretty sexy women are great to fuck, but not great to date or have a relationship with...those kind of girls, especially nowadays, will always be looking for something better...and then you have to put up with having guys hit on her or her flirting with guys...that is something I couldn't deal with...
Yes, but since we have a higher EQ we are more likely to seek sex that has strings attached. I
Meanwhile, a 19-year-old was arrested (sentenced to 10 years) for touching a young woman's arm. And for being "Strange". Now if you were handsome you could say things that are rude and nuts. Anyway ... World of shit ...
Men are willing to tolerate stupid, childish, nagging behavior. But no woman would be a bitch to you, but at the same time want to fuck you. Chances are, if she wants to fuck you, she's gonna be nice. Also it's not that women just want casual sex. It's that they're all going for the top tier 8/10+ guys. Other such experiments show that if you're as low as a 7/10 in the looks department, as a guy, your dating pool is closer to a guy who's lower than a 4/10, than it is to a guy who's 8/10+. Which is fucking ridiculous. Also, same experiment shows that basically a woman who's 8/10 has pretty much the same number of options as a 7/10, and if she's between a 4 and a 6, she has 3/4 as many options, and if she's below 4, basically fat and ugly, she has half the options of an 8++. Absurd.
Girls lose in the end tho. If all girls are going for the top 20 percent of men, then the majority of them end up single and alone after 35. Most men want a family. When women cant have kids anymore, they are finished. Millilenial women are going to be the generation of cat ladies because they can’t get passed physical beauty
Women get cycled through the same 20 Chad/Tyrone through their 20's, then get dropped like a hot potato after 30. That's fine, but then they go on rants about "All men are sh*t" and "where have all the good men gone?" etc... Sorry honey, you were playing the wrong game.
In general, men overlook more inadequacy than women. Women are known to be hypergamous in scientific literature. This means men accept more flaws and have done so for a very very long time.
To all the people that act like this is no big deal: it's not that people are more likely to want to have sex with attractive people. That's fine, and if people want to hook up for fun and not date that's completely fine. What isn't fine is that somebody could send these kind of messages and immediately the other person trusts them enough to give over their number, but acts like they've been violated if an ugly person were to say the same thing. Just because somebody isn't attractive that isn't license to treat them as less equal.
I agree with what you said. Its kinda sad, but that's the way it is lol.
"Just because somebody isn't attractive that isn't a license to treat them as less equal." Some women do overreact, that's true but who you choose to have sex with is not an area in which you are required to treat everyone equally, I don't mean that dismissively of the shitty way that some people turn people down that they're not attracted too but we all guilty of it, the fact is if Emily Ratajkowski contacted me for sex but said I had to let her take a dump on my chess I would probably strongly consider it.
I don't think "treat them less than equally" means sleep with them. But women tend to call less attractive men perverts or sexual harassers if they come on with the same kinds of lines that a more attractive man might get away with. That isn't fair. By all means say no if you don't want to sleep with someone but don't make them out to monsters just because you don't like their face.
I would also add that I don’t believe for a second that women handle unattractive guys like that in most cases, typically if a woman doesn’t like a guy she’ll tell him. But accuse him of sexual harassment doesn’t seem like something most women would do, which is the point that Anarkzie was making. What a minority portion of women do shouldn’t determine how the majority are regarded. Isn’t that what men like to say? Most women would cry harassment is if the behaviour persists. I would recommend that “unattractive” guys simply ask, if she says, “No”, or shows disinterest, leave her alone. I’ve experienced guys I didn’t like being persistent and didn’t care for it honestly. I would also recommend women just flat out say, “No”, even if you fear hurting his feelings. This will be your evidence of harassment later, if he’s the kind of guy that won’t go away.
I don’t agree with the monster context when you factor that a lot of attractive guys who act creepy don’t get away with that behaviour based on how they look, I think the point is that people tend to take issue that are likely not major problems and overblown them. Yea, attractive people have an advantage but they doesn’t mean unattractive people are treated as “monsters”. You need to factor that since people define harassment as “Unwanted behaviour”, if an attractive guy does something and the woman likes it, then he’s not harassing her, but if an unattractive guy does it, and she doesn’t want it, it would be considered harassment by this definition, a definition I’ve heard people use. The point here is we need to correctly define what harassment means and then enforce it from that context. Other than that, there is truth in the sense that an unattractive guy coming into a woman, or vice versa, is going to generally be unwanted.
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Just because someone rejects you doesn't mean they're "acting like they've been violated." No one owes you.
And you know that the girls shown here all acting like they've been violated if it comes from an ugly person from what source exactly??
Right? I was expecting to see the other side of the reactions; with a not so hot guy.
Are you serious? It's called the reactions that every guy who's not like this chiselled Adonis get all over the world if they try to be a creep. Thought that was pretty self evident, hence the need for an experiment like this.
Have you ever heard a #metoo when an attractive guy was involved?
Yes, a lot of the men called during the MeToo uprising were attractive men who were used to getting what they wanted. A lot of them were celebrity men by the way, power, money and looks, yet, they were called out for Sexual assault, harassment, or manipulation. How did you miss this?
Soooo, Im guessing Perry isnt attractive...just guessin...
ya i agree but thats on them
You're saying it isn't about looks and attraction, then you are saying it is about looks and attraction... which is it?
Am with u on that!
About 15 years ago a woman made similar experiment with the catfishing problem and was horrified, basically telling that this would be a golden mine for all sorts of maniacs, judging by just how quickly women agree to date with a hot guy, even if he is creepy, with none of the thinking about their safety.
Omg, people treat attractive people differently! Stop the presses! You should see how horrible men treat ugly women. Even ugly men treat ugly women badly. But of course, y'all just want to make yourselves into victims and don't really care about the truth, only about your own entitlement.
People aren’t more likely to have sex with attractive people? Ummm, that’s not true at all… I do agree with you though that unattractive should not be treated less than. We are all equal.
THIS. As a (I guess) unattractive guy its been that way all my life. Ignored, rejected, never picked, never been asked out.
Ok, so he posted a compilation of girls who fell for it. I wonder, how many didn't and gave him a cold shoulder.
I wondered that too!
Same. I'd deny the fuck out of some stranger i didnt know or had mutual connections with. 🤷♀️
Sara, judging from your profile pic you'd never, ever get one of these messages from a Chad. Sorry.
Yeah, because I can swear I don't care how good looking the person is writing such dumb lines. It's a no and unmatch from me. I don't know though how would I react to good looking/not good looking guys if I were into one night hook-ups, like, I can't judge how much good looks matter in such case
exactly! that's why I down arrowed it. It's bias and it's kind of gross.
The fact that more than one fell for it is disturbing.
Fiona Messenger easy
Of course a lot of girls gave him a cold shoulder, but still 20, not 3, not 6, not even 15, 20! gave away their number and said YES to what ALL WOMEN ALWAYS REFER TO AS: RUDE, HARASSMENT, CREEPY. Just saying...
20 out of how many attempts though? And did he choose women with profiles who looked most likely to be keen?
Most of normal men get about 2 to 5
>20 out of how many attempts though? Yeah, I don't fucking know. However I've been on tinder myself for almost a month and a half, and I've totaled about 15 matches, 3 of them with fat chicks (because the first day I was just swiping right like a retard). So how long do you think they did the experiment for? 2 years? Obviously every fucking chick that saw his account swiped right. Dafuq does it matter?
Seems legit. Why you look like this guy and it doesn't work for you?
Taken right from the article: “Made a tinder troll account just to see how well a male model compares to the rest of us,” he wrote. “The results are unbelievable.Every single girl I swipe yes to has been an instant match. There hasn’t been a SINGLE time where I have swiped yes and there was no match.”
Taken right from the article: “Made a tinder troll account just to see how well a male model compares to the rest of us,” he wrote. “The results are unbelievable.Every single girl I swipe yes to has been an instant match. There hasn’t been a SINGLE time where I have swiped yes and there was no match.”
He says none. Are you sure you red the whole text. Well it proves you chicks not much different from us. You wanna hook up also if you see someone you like. Difference is that whole make up things.
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Oh, you didn't say no?
Well, yes. Just as men will tolerate almost any kind of behaviour from a woman that looks like a gorgeous model and that they just ant to have sex with, so will women. Here's a shocking revelation for the year 2018: A lot of women also do enjoy casual sex with no strings attached!!
I felt the same way. Seems like slut shamming. But we do see these types of post where they show men willing to go out with horrible but beautiful women. I kind of feel the same way about the situation, being willing or simply wanting to have sex with someone doesn't mean you would be willing to enter into a long term relationship, or even if you would, is it anyone's business? When you are talking about letting someone have sex with you then I think it is a personal decision where no one should be expected to treat everyone equally. Of course we all want to be with attractive people, I really don't get the push to shame people for finding attractive people attractive or the pressure to date people you don't find attractive for equality sake. I will support your right to vote, protest, and have equal pay, but I draw the line at letting someone put their dick in me for fairness sake. I will be as shallow as I want. My life, my vagina.
I think the only fair point (and this is arguable, I think this is more of an entertainment post than anything) to be taken away is that there's hypocrites in this world (or people who don't understand how they themselves work). Because among the women who would say yes (which is fine, I mean as long as you're not into a closed relationship you're not harming anyone) there are some that post messages like that and go "ew so creepy". But then again, I'm sure the point to be made is that some people will go out with someone they find reprehensible if only to fuck them for one night so that's no news.
Completely agree with you!
Also what women find attractive varies...muscles n tatts = not every women finds attractive. Some have dad bods, some chubby but w definition (big boned, broad shoulders, etc) some are like this guy, some are pale skinny nerds Some women find all manner of men attractive and others have a very specific set of looks they find attractive You all act like 1 man = universally attractive to all women Not true...i know women who would find this specific guy an average meat head w no interest in him. "Hot" is subjective. Taste/opinion So 2 women turn you down you feel unattractive who cares im wiling to wager that 2 other women may find you attractive.
It's hardly s**t shaming. It's shaming people for encouraging reprehensible behavior for the sake of something as superficial as physical appearance. And not wanting to date people you don't find physically attractive is called being shallow, and that's nothing to be proud of.
" reprehensible behavior" Like what? "And not wanting to date people you don't find physically attractive is called being shallow, and that's nothing to be proud of." Most people want to date people they find attractive. It's not being shallow, it's being human. Welcome among us humans!
Sounds like someone who sleeps with random men to try and fill a hole. Unfortunately you’re filling the wrong hole. People like you deserve to be shamed. It’s shameful act to sleep with random strangers. Morals have gone away these days. Who gives a crap about your feelings. Justify sleeping with random men all you want, but you’ll still be a lonely hoe in the end.
It’s ok to shame sluts, male or female. Get over yourself.
That's fine, just don't bullshit men, when you're willing to lower your standards infinitely, just because the guy is good looking, but suddenly, when a less attractive guy engages in the same behavior you lash out. And no, I would not tolerate some bitch being a bitch to me, just for the sake of sex. And how does that even work? If she's being a bitch to me, chances are she doesn't want to have sex with me. But here we're not talking about someone being offensive, or insulting, or even rude. He's just being honest and direct.
Actually, when I asked my husband about this, he said, "The problem is that eventually you have to talk to them."
No, some men have standards, as do some women.
Well, yes, of course. I'm just annoyed about the stupid title that pretends that this is SUCH a surprise that some people don't. And I also believe - and some posts have shown that it works - that it discredits the current debate about sexual harrassment. Kind of: 'Ey women are acting the same way' so they should just shut about metoo and everything.
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Very few....
News flash: you can BOTH enjoy casual sex AND have no tolerance for abusive behavior.
pretty sexy women are great to fuck, but not great to date or have a relationship with...those kind of girls, especially nowadays, will always be looking for something better...and then you have to put up with having guys hit on her or her flirting with guys...that is something I couldn't deal with...
Yes, but since we have a higher EQ we are more likely to seek sex that has strings attached. I
Meanwhile, a 19-year-old was arrested (sentenced to 10 years) for touching a young woman's arm. And for being "Strange". Now if you were handsome you could say things that are rude and nuts. Anyway ... World of shit ...