Bullied 7YO Comes Home Upset, Mom Considers Shaving Her After Classmates Mock Her For Being Hairy

Body image issues are something that pretty much everyone struggles with, and can find hard to accept or come to terms with. The problem is that these insecurities often start becoming a big deal when people are young, and they then tend to carry these worries into adulthood.

That’s exactly why one mom wasn’t sure whether she should help her seven-year-old shave to avoid bullying, or try to boost her confidence another way. She knew that either one of her choices could affect her child’s self-esteem for life.

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Parents might feel helpless and not know what to do if they learn that their child is being teased for their appearance or physical features 

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The poster shared that when she was helping her seven-year-old daughter get dressed, the girl seemed very eager to cover her body with long-sleeved shirts and pants

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The mom questioned her daughter and found out that a boy from her class had been teasing her about her body hair and calling her a “boy” because of it

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The poster didn’t want her daughter’s confidence to be affected, so she felt that the best option would be to help her shave her body hair

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The problem is that the mom was worried that if she let her daughter shave, it could impact her self-confidence and put the wrong ideas in her head

As the poster had mentioned, she noticed that her daughter suddenly seemed shy about her body and was worried when she’d get to wear long tights and cardigans. That’s why, after a little bit of questioning, the mom realized that her little one had been getting teased about her leg and arm hair.

According to research on body image, both young boys and girls struggle with their appearance and might not have the confidence to accept all of their physical characteristics. These insecurities don’t just go away as kids get older; they might also face these same issues with their self-esteem in their teens.

Unfortunately for the little girl, the biggest cause of her insecurity was her classmate, who kept making jabs about her hairiness. He tried to make her feel like there was something wrong with her body hair and told her that it made her look like a boy, which she slowly started feeling self-conscious about.

In situations like this, many young women might feel bad about the hair growing on their bodies, and professionals state that these worries won’t go away unless the individual really works on them. It can be really tough to confront society’s ideas, but doing so might help the person be more comfortable with themselves.

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Since the poster was quite concerned about her daughter’s feelings, she felt that the best thing to do would be to help the girl out by shaving her arms and legs. She also felt that this would probably stop the bullying and make the child feel confident while going to school and playing sports.

The problem is that the OP also realized that if she helped her daughter shave, it would probably teach her that it was okay to keep changing her body to fit society’s ideals. This is not what the poster wanted to do; she simply wanted her little child to feel better and be less self-conscious.

Although it can be quite difficult for parents to know how to navigate their child’s body image issues, experts explain that the best way to go about it is to first make their kid feel safe. Then they should have an honest discussion about the issue so that the child also understands that their natural physical characteristics are nothing to be ashamed of. 

The mom wanted to do exactly that, but she knew that if her daughter kept getting shamed for her body hair, it would completely wreck her confidence. She also didn’t want her little one to get obsessed with her body image so soon, which is why she decided to ask folks online for advice.

What do you think is the best way for the mother to deal with this complicated situation? We’d love to hear your opinion on the story, and if you have ever faced something like this in your own life.

Folks were divided on the issue, with some feeling that the mom should just help her daughter out, and others stating that she shouldn’t let this happen so young

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