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Family Dinner Turns Awkward After Ingredients In Chicken Pot Pie Cause BIL’s Dramatic Reaction
Man at family gathering pointing at a plate with a spin on classic chicken pot pie being served.
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Family Dinner Turns Awkward After Ingredients In Chicken Pot Pie Cause BIL’s Dramatic Reaction

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Family dinners are known for being a blend of fun, laughter, and sometimes, unexpected drama. Maybe it’s a forgotten side dish, a last-minute seating shuffle, or a misunderstood comment, but for one person, the issue came down to a simple recipe twist. 

In this case, a home cook turned to the internet for advice after their brother-in-law took offense to a unique spin on chicken pot pie at a family gathering. The author’s version, made with fresh ingredients, didn’t meet his traditional expectations, leading to a tense confrontation. Keep reading to see how their family reacted to the dish and what the internet had to say.

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    Man in striped shirt offering a plate with a twist on classic chicken pot pie during a family gathering meal.

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    The author turned to the internet for advice after their brother-in-law criticized their beloved chicken pot pie recipe

    Text discussing serving a chicken pot pie with a twist, causing a family gathering reaction involving the brother-in-law.

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    Close-up of a chicken pot pie with a savory crust and fresh roasted hatch chilies, corn, chicken, onions, and kale filling.

    Fresh kale leaves on a tray with chili flakes and oil, ingredients for a unique chicken pot pie recipe twist.

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    Alt text: Text describing brother-in-law upset after host’s spin on classic chicken pot pie at family gathering.

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    Text excerpt about a classic chicken pot pie recipe causing a brother-in-law to walk out at a family gathering.

    Slice of classic chicken pot pie with a golden crust served with fries and vegetables at a family gathering.

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    Host puts a spin on classic chicken pot pie at family gathering causing brother-in-law to walk out early.

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    Text excerpt discussing family recipe flexibility and opinions on classic chicken pot pie variations at gatherings.

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    The author later provided more context and details about their recipe

    Reddit comments discussing a unique twist on chicken pot pie with fresh roasted hatch chilies and no gravy.

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    Busy work schedules and the lure of social media are two of the biggest reasons why quality family time often falls by the wayside

    Family enjoying a meal and drinks together, celebrating with a toast during a cozy dinner gathering.

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    With busy schedules and endless to-do lists, finding quality time for family has become more challenging than ever. Between work demands, school activities, and other commitments, many families struggle to carve out moments to connect meaningfully.

    An Independent report on a study of 2,000 parents with children at home reveals that work schedules pose the biggest barrier to family time, with 56% of parents stating that their shifts interfere with their ability to spend quality time together. Social media use also plays a role, with 20% of parents feeling it distracts them from family interactions.

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    Interestingly, the study also highlighted what families actually consider “quality time.” Eating meals together topped the list at 74%, followed by watching TV together at 66%, and cooking as a group at 46%. These simple activities seem to bring families closer, making room for shared moments amidst their routines.

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    To help bridge these gaps, seven in 10 parents surveyed through OnePoll said they actively set aside at least one day each week to gather around the table for a meal. For 67% of families, dinner is the most likely time they come together, a way to wind down and reconnect at the end of a busy day.

    Sundays are the true family feast days, with 44% of households coming together for a cozy group dinner. Saturdays aren’t far behind at 39%, and Fridays bring up a solid 25%, which just goes to show that weekdays are often too jam-packed to squeeze in this special family time.

    Spending time with family comes with a whole mix of perks and, let’s be real, a little bit of drama too

    Family gathering preparing a chicken pot pie twist with a group around a table filled with food and drinks.

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    In the U.S., spending time with family is consistently viewed as one of the most essential aspects of life. According to a recent Pew Research Center survey, Americans overwhelmingly prioritize family time above other personal goals, underscoring its value across all walks of life.

    Beyond shared meals and laughter, family time also has other benefits. It helps strengthen emotional bonds, fostering resilience and support systems that help people navigate life’s ups and downs together.

    Additionally, spending quality time with loved ones also helps younger generations build a strong sense of self-identity. By engaging in shared family activities and traditions, children and teens learn more about themselves and where they come from.

    Of course, no family gathering is complete without a bit of drama. For instance, in this particular case, the author’s brother-in-law was furious over a non-traditional recipe choice during a family event. Do you think he went too far? 

    Many felt the brother-in-law’s behavior was inappropriate and disrespectful to the host

    Reddit comment discussing a brother-in-law walking out after a non-traditional chicken pot pie at a family gathering.

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    Screenshot of a Reddit comment discussing rude guest behavior at a family gathering involving a chicken pot pie dish.

    Comment questioning the choice of kale in a chicken pot pie during a family discussion about the dish’s recipe changes.

    Commenter discussing frustrations with a brother-in-law over a non-traditional chicken pot pie at family gathering.

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    Screenshot of a discussion about a brother-in-law walking out after a host alters a classic chicken pot pie recipe.

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    Screenshot of a forum comment discussing a brother-in-law walking out over a host’s unique chicken pot pie twist.

    Some believed both the author and the brother-in-law shared blame for the awkward situation

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    User comment discussing the brother-in-law’s reaction to the host’s unusual chicken pot pie at a family gathering.

    Comment discussing traditional chicken pot pie ingredients and reaction to unexpected spiciness at family gathering.

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    Screenshot of a Reddit comment discussing a host’s unique spin on classic chicken pot pie at a family gathering.

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    Screenshot of a Reddit comment discussing unusual chicken pot pie ingredients causing a family disagreement.

    Comment explaining brother-in-law walking out after host serves a unique spin on classic chicken pot pie at family gathering.

    Comment discussing a brother-in-law walking out after a host changes a classic chicken pot pie recipe at family gathering.

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    Text post discussing expectations and reactions about a non-standard chicken pot pie at a family gathering.

    Reddit comment criticizing host’s unusual chicken pot pie twist, sparking brother-in-law’s walkout at family gathering.

    A few people online sided with the brother-in-law, saying the author was actually in the wrong

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    Screenshot of a Reddit comment criticizing a host’s spicy twist on classic chicken pot pie at a family gathering.

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    Reddit comment criticizing a host’s unusual chicken pot pie recipe that caused the brother-in-law to walk out at a family gathering.

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    Comment discussing non traditional ingredients in chicken pot pie and meal expectations at family gathering.

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    Nikita Manot

    Nikita Manot

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    Nikita's knack for storytelling and creativity has led her into the world of writing. With a robust foundation in business studies, she crafts compelling narratives by seamlessly blending analytical insight with imaginative expression. At Bored Panda, she embarks on an exhilarating quest to explore diverse topics, fueled by curiosity and passion. During her leisure time, she savors life's simple pleasures, such as gardening, cooking homemade meals and hosting gatherings for loved ones.

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    Nikita Manot

    Nikita Manot

    Writer, BoredPanda staff

    Nikita's knack for storytelling and creativity has led her into the world of writing. With a robust foundation in business studies, she crafts compelling narratives by seamlessly blending analytical insight with imaginative expression. At Bored Panda, she embarks on an exhilarating quest to explore diverse topics, fueled by curiosity and passion. During her leisure time, she savors life's simple pleasures, such as gardening, cooking homemade meals and hosting gatherings for loved ones.

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    Emilu
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You get free food. Don’t complain.

    Upstaged75
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It doesn't matter what you're served, you don't ask "WTF is this ?" when you're a guest in someone's house. Frank sounds like a caveman without any manners. He'd never be invited again if it were me - but then I don't have any adult relatives who act like bratty children. The dish sounds a bit different, but I'd try it. As usual the YTAs are completely unhinged. One person said "you can literally break someone's heart if you don't serve what's been promised". 🙄🙄

    Elio
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do have bratty adult relatives but I wouldn't invite them over for dinner.

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    LookASquirrel
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why do people freak out over kale? It must be from seeing the word on the internet. Just like if I serve collard greens. Just say it's spinach and they don't care.

    Kira Okah
    Community Member
    5 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some people just don't like kale. I have eaten it and can firmly say that I don't like kale; it has this nasty aftertaste and a texture that I can't stand, try to call it something else like spinach and I am not going to eat it, I probably would privately ask why you were claiming that the food is something that it's not. I'm also allergic to pineapple so I don't like pineapple pizza either. Not every food dislike is "meme on the internet", people do just not like something.

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    Emilu
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You get free food. Don’t complain.

    Upstaged75
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It doesn't matter what you're served, you don't ask "WTF is this ?" when you're a guest in someone's house. Frank sounds like a caveman without any manners. He'd never be invited again if it were me - but then I don't have any adult relatives who act like bratty children. The dish sounds a bit different, but I'd try it. As usual the YTAs are completely unhinged. One person said "you can literally break someone's heart if you don't serve what's been promised". 🙄🙄

    Elio
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do have bratty adult relatives but I wouldn't invite them over for dinner.

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    LookASquirrel
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why do people freak out over kale? It must be from seeing the word on the internet. Just like if I serve collard greens. Just say it's spinach and they don't care.

    Kira Okah
    Community Member
    5 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some people just don't like kale. I have eaten it and can firmly say that I don't like kale; it has this nasty aftertaste and a texture that I can't stand, try to call it something else like spinach and I am not going to eat it, I probably would privately ask why you were claiming that the food is something that it's not. I'm also allergic to pineapple so I don't like pineapple pizza either. Not every food dislike is "meme on the internet", people do just not like something.

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