Mom Says Her Friend Who Babysits Her 3 Kids For Free Is “Poisoning” And “Starving” Them
Watching three kids is a lot of work. But when Reddit user Sea-Shirt was looking after her friend’s munchkins, the woman even found time to cook for them.
At the time, she had been a vegetarian for a decade and loved Indian food. So did the children. But when her friend learned about it, she just lost it.
Threatening Sea-Shirt with child protective services, the mom said that her kids need to have meat instead. So the Redditor made a post on the platform, asking everyone if what she did was, indeed, wrong.
While this woman was taking care of her friend’s kids, she made them Indian food
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But when the mom learned about it, she called the meals “poison”
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Indian food is a vast constellation of culinary influences and traditions from all over Asia
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Indian cuisine could be described as simple food that packs a flavorful punch, though interpretations on the “right” way to cook something can vary wildly even between neighbors.
While the country has a soft spot for sweets, Indian food is vegetable-forward, with plenty of vegetarian and even vegan options like okra bhajis, samosa, and dal.
The healthiness of it depends on the specific dishes and cooking methods involved. Many traditional recipes incorporate a variety of vegetables, legumes, and spices, offering a rich source of nutrients and antioxidants, however, some can be high in calories, saturated fats, and added sugars, especially if they involve deep frying or excessive use of ghee (clarified butter) and cream.
Local takeaways can damage its reputation
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People, including the mother of the three children that the Redditor was looking after, might form a bad opinion of Indian food from local joints.
For example, a study of 280 takeaway samples from 36 outlets across the Republic of Ireland and Northern Ireland revealed that they contained far more than an adult’s recommended daily calorie intake.
Researchers at the University of Ulster discovered that the average portion of peshwari naan bread contained 748 calories, while an average dish of tikka masala main course harbored 1,249 calories.
The starters which were tested contained one third of an adult’s total daily amount of salt, while eating a peshwari naan was like having a slice of cake, containing 168 percent of the recommended daily intake for saturated fat. Rice portions, meanwhile, were in general large enough for two people.
Dr. Cliodhna Foley-Nolan, director of human health and nutrition with the Safefood watchdog, said: “While traditional meals in India are low in fat, high in fibre and rich in fruit and vegetables, chefs here have adapted their recipes to suit local taste buds favoring foods high in fat and salt and serving bigger portions.”
As the post went viral, its author provided more information on what happened in the comments section, and most people said the accusations against her made no sense
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something here doesn't add up The parents aren't home all day, and can't take care of the children, yet they "home school" them? when?
Same thought. We homeschooed and even followed more of an unschool philosophy. Even with that, a parent needs to be present to help facilitate resources, etc. If the parents are working all day, and don't have time to even cook, how are they facilitating anything? I mean, unless they have some kind of schdule starting at 4. But its weird the person the kids spend the bulk if their day with isn't aware. Do the kids not talk to them about their lessons, hobbies, etc.? This entire story doesn't really add up. There are several holes.
Load More Replies...I am no vegetarian, but I love indian cuisine - nobody dies because of no meat in the dish :-)
No fooling! There’s more than a billion Indians in the world, which is waaay more than in the US, so their diet certainly isn’t killing ‘em off! When you look at it like that, you hafta wonder whether their diet is a big part of the reason they’re so fecund.
Load More Replies...lol. My reply to her would be "sounds like a you problem". Stop babysitting. Don't engage. Problem solved.
OP only knew these people for three months and she’s providing all their care and home schooling while the parents complain about the meals OP is providing, all for free? OP must have “sucker” tattooed on her forehead. Anyway, if schools were open these kids should have been in them, unless they had low immunity health problems. Regardless, op should have had some harsh words with the parents about choosing beggars.
I've been a "sucker" for years. I'm intentionally generous with my time and money. It's part of who I choose to be. A few years ago I needed some help. It was like a scene from "It's a wonderful life". So many people rallied around to help. I was getting hugs and phone calls from people I hadn't seen in years. Open yourself up, it's so rewarding.
Load More Replies...TOTALLY NTA! Can I ask why you are having to provide the food in the first place?? Her saying she doesn't have the time or money to do that is just soooo f'd up to me!! She should be the one reported to CPS for not being able to feed her children and whinging when someone does! I really can't believe this!!
So you're watching three kids for free and feeding them out of your own money, and your "friend" is threatening you with prison? WTF.
I suspect this is made up. They met three months ago and now she takes care of their children every day without compensation. If that's true, I'd give up on their friendship. The friend does not seem to want to learn about vegetarian food, otherwise she would understand that a well-composed vegetarian meal can nutritionally replace a meal with meat. Im not a vegetarian but I eat vegetarian meals several times a week,
But if it was why would she make herself look like more of a gullible idiot by saying they only met a couple months ago? Wouldn't she just say they had been friends for a few years? There is a possibility it's fake tho
Load More Replies...Gosh how stupid and entitled can you get? It‘s FREE childcare and food! The children love it! I would be SO damned grateful and I would not care if my kids would get crickets and worms, if they liked it and it wasn‘t really bad for them. We westerners eat too much meat anyway. Mom is just jelouse her kids like the other food better than hers.
No one in the comments of this article even picked up on the fact these kids are not in school and this woman is threatening to call CPS about her own children? Is she f*****g stupid? Her kids aren't being home schooled cause they are at OP'S house all day and the mom doesnt get off til 8! The 2 hours of homework is likely all the schooling these kids get unless this mother is doing school at 7 am (highly doubtful since she won't cook anything not prepackaged)
whatt??? I always try not to judge, cause you usually don't know the full story. BUT she knows them 3 months and has been watching the kids every weekday for what, some weeks now? sounds like freeloading friend, sorry... Also, no money to feed the kids, BUT has money for nailsalons? Maybe the situation changed recently, but this sounds terrible
something here doesn't add up The parents aren't home all day, and can't take care of the children, yet they "home school" them? when?
Same thought. We homeschooed and even followed more of an unschool philosophy. Even with that, a parent needs to be present to help facilitate resources, etc. If the parents are working all day, and don't have time to even cook, how are they facilitating anything? I mean, unless they have some kind of schdule starting at 4. But its weird the person the kids spend the bulk if their day with isn't aware. Do the kids not talk to them about their lessons, hobbies, etc.? This entire story doesn't really add up. There are several holes.
Load More Replies...I am no vegetarian, but I love indian cuisine - nobody dies because of no meat in the dish :-)
No fooling! There’s more than a billion Indians in the world, which is waaay more than in the US, so their diet certainly isn’t killing ‘em off! When you look at it like that, you hafta wonder whether their diet is a big part of the reason they’re so fecund.
Load More Replies...lol. My reply to her would be "sounds like a you problem". Stop babysitting. Don't engage. Problem solved.
OP only knew these people for three months and she’s providing all their care and home schooling while the parents complain about the meals OP is providing, all for free? OP must have “sucker” tattooed on her forehead. Anyway, if schools were open these kids should have been in them, unless they had low immunity health problems. Regardless, op should have had some harsh words with the parents about choosing beggars.
I've been a "sucker" for years. I'm intentionally generous with my time and money. It's part of who I choose to be. A few years ago I needed some help. It was like a scene from "It's a wonderful life". So many people rallied around to help. I was getting hugs and phone calls from people I hadn't seen in years. Open yourself up, it's so rewarding.
Load More Replies...TOTALLY NTA! Can I ask why you are having to provide the food in the first place?? Her saying she doesn't have the time or money to do that is just soooo f'd up to me!! She should be the one reported to CPS for not being able to feed her children and whinging when someone does! I really can't believe this!!
So you're watching three kids for free and feeding them out of your own money, and your "friend" is threatening you with prison? WTF.
I suspect this is made up. They met three months ago and now she takes care of their children every day without compensation. If that's true, I'd give up on their friendship. The friend does not seem to want to learn about vegetarian food, otherwise she would understand that a well-composed vegetarian meal can nutritionally replace a meal with meat. Im not a vegetarian but I eat vegetarian meals several times a week,
But if it was why would she make herself look like more of a gullible idiot by saying they only met a couple months ago? Wouldn't she just say they had been friends for a few years? There is a possibility it's fake tho
Load More Replies...Gosh how stupid and entitled can you get? It‘s FREE childcare and food! The children love it! I would be SO damned grateful and I would not care if my kids would get crickets and worms, if they liked it and it wasn‘t really bad for them. We westerners eat too much meat anyway. Mom is just jelouse her kids like the other food better than hers.
No one in the comments of this article even picked up on the fact these kids are not in school and this woman is threatening to call CPS about her own children? Is she f*****g stupid? Her kids aren't being home schooled cause they are at OP'S house all day and the mom doesnt get off til 8! The 2 hours of homework is likely all the schooling these kids get unless this mother is doing school at 7 am (highly doubtful since she won't cook anything not prepackaged)
whatt??? I always try not to judge, cause you usually don't know the full story. BUT she knows them 3 months and has been watching the kids every weekday for what, some weeks now? sounds like freeloading friend, sorry... Also, no money to feed the kids, BUT has money for nailsalons? Maybe the situation changed recently, but this sounds terrible































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