30 Questions To Reveal If You’re A People Pleaser Or Just Nice

I got this answer too. Makes me sound quite a bulldozer. I used to be a people pleaser, but I think I've grown beyond that now. I still do my best not to upset people, but not at the expense of my self worth or principles.

You give great importance to your loved ones, and you go to great lengths when necessary to cheer them up or make them feel special. However, it is not because you’re a people-pleaser but simply because you are a nice person who is kind, caring, and loving. That's pretty much me

This is the answer I got and this is definitely not me. I am not assertive or bold but I am honest. I don't do things for other people to like me but I also don't do things that will make people dislike me. I thought I would get people -pleaser. I feel I answered both the people-pleasing and self- assertive questions kind of evenly. I'm not assertive all the time but I'm mostly around my family so I was answering in a sense of how I act with them. If I answered this thinking of how I act at work or with strangers the results would be different

I had that one, too. But I very often clicked "neutral" and never "strongly..." because it's really hard to say something definitively when my reactions vary, depending on the people I am with. I react differently with different persons. *shrug* BUT: Age makes a difference. I used to be very upset if people don't like me, but since I've reached and went past my thirties, a lot of things just don't bother me anymore. I don't let people interrupt me if it's not something constructive and I don't let people walk over me - I think back when I was younger, I would have let that happen. Luckily, I didn't have many of that kind of people around me. So for everyone who's insecure and young: just give it time. If you are insecure about your positions in life now, it might not stay the same. You gain confidence once you realize that you're good at what you do. And that might just take time. So, little grasshopper: patience!

It said I am a people pleaser. But I disagree. Do I make sacrifices for people I love? Yes. Do I put others before myself? I am a parent, and that is my job, so yeah. But I'm perfectly willing to set boundaries. Please don't be mad at me. Lol

I think that should have been my answer.

I got the same however I'll admit that if I took this test 20 years ago I may have gotten chronic ppl pleaser. Age and experience helps you grow a spine.