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“That’s Basically Human Trafficking”: Man Reports Sister To CPS After Hearing Her Plan
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“That’s Basically Human Trafficking”: Man Reports Sister To CPS After Hearing Her Plan

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Some people will do whatever it takes to become parents. Even if it means breaking the law…

A man has shared a shocking story of how his sister and her husband cooked up an elaborate plan to ‘adopt‘ a baby. The couple were ‘offered’ the infant by a pregnant woman. Instead of doing the right thing and declining, they went full steam ahead. It almost worked until they were exposed for much more than just illegal adoption.

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    She thought she had it all figured out: cheat the system, lie, and magically become a mom

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    But her brother refused to sit back and watch “human trafficking with extra steps” so he did something about it

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    There are strict laws when it comes to adopting a child, and for good reason…

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    Adoption is a legal process through which the legal obligations and rights of a child with respect to its biological parents are terminated. And new rights and obligations are established between the child and the child’s new adoptive parents. That’s the definition, according to the experts at legalmatch.com.

    The best interests of the child should always come first. And that’s why there a very strict laws when it comes to the adoption process.

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    In the United States, a person must be qualified to adopt a child under the law of the state in which they live. “State law also regulates who may be adopted,” notes the legal site. In almost all cases, the consent of the biological parents is mandatory. And there are steps and procedures that need to be taken before any adoption can take place.

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    Adoption fraud is a criminal act. “Adoption fraud refers to any form of intentional misrepresentation or illegal act in the area of adoption,” warns the FBI. “Any participant involved in an adoption—birth parents, prospective adoptive parents, and adoption service providers—are all capable of fraud.”

    Illegal adoptions violate the rights of the child, and can put them at serious risk. According to legal resources site U.S. Legal Forms, there are two primary types of illegal adoptions. The first is misconduct or illegal actions by adoption agencies. And the other is black market adoptions, which is what the man’s sister seemed to be involved in.

    Black market adoptions involve an illegal adoption transaction that occurs outside of legal channels, often involving unethical practices, explains U.S. Legal Forms.

    The experts add that many people believe that all adoptions are legal if they involve a child. “This is incorrect; illegal adoptions can occur even with the appearance of legitimacy,” warns U.S. Legal Forms.

    Likewise, some people think that adopting a child from another country is always legal. Wrong again. All international adoptions have to comply with both U.S. and foreign laws in order to be valid.

    “There is a misconception that illegal adoptions only involve criminal organizations,” adds the site. “In reality, they can also involve well-meaning individuals who unknowingly engage in illegal practices.”

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    Or, in the case of the man, they could involve a relative trying to cheat the system with little regard for the baby…

    “You saved that baby’s life”: many netizens labeled the man a hero

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    Not everyone praised the brother

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    ॐBoyGanesh
    Community Member
    2 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We adopted our son right after he was born & my best friend (his mom) had died. She asked us if we’d be his dads when she found out she was pregnant. We had to take foster/adoption classes, get fingerprinted, pass an FBI background check, speak with a therapist & social work over multiple interviews and have several home visits. Quite a bit of overkill than what cis-het couples had to go through a decade ago. It was definitely a process & although we brought him home from the hospital, the (foster to) adoption wasn’t finalized until he was 8 months old.

    Dusty's mom
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm glad for you. May your family thrive! ♥

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    Deborah B
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Seriously NTA here. But also don't tell her it was you. It will create drama for no benefit, and stop her from telling you about any other stupid plans you need to report on. You shouldn't feel any guilt for reporting - this is exactly the sort of situation where you are supposed to report. Hopefully that baby will now have the chance to be raised in a safe and stable environment.

    megabeth
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sadly, I feel it is just a Chance. But a chance no less. M**h addicts in an RV with no electric? Hope baby ends up with good people.

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    Tabitha
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, the YTA is obviously either the j****e sister or one of her j****e pals.

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    ॐBoyGanesh
    Community Member
    2 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We adopted our son right after he was born & my best friend (his mom) had died. She asked us if we’d be his dads when she found out she was pregnant. We had to take foster/adoption classes, get fingerprinted, pass an FBI background check, speak with a therapist & social work over multiple interviews and have several home visits. Quite a bit of overkill than what cis-het couples had to go through a decade ago. It was definitely a process & although we brought him home from the hospital, the (foster to) adoption wasn’t finalized until he was 8 months old.

    Dusty's mom
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm glad for you. May your family thrive! ♥

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    Deborah B
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Seriously NTA here. But also don't tell her it was you. It will create drama for no benefit, and stop her from telling you about any other stupid plans you need to report on. You shouldn't feel any guilt for reporting - this is exactly the sort of situation where you are supposed to report. Hopefully that baby will now have the chance to be raised in a safe and stable environment.

    megabeth
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sadly, I feel it is just a Chance. But a chance no less. M**h addicts in an RV with no electric? Hope baby ends up with good people.

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    Tabitha
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, the YTA is obviously either the j****e sister or one of her j****e pals.

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