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“Should Have Got A Raise”: Fury After SF Bartender Fired For Viral Response To Drunken “Karen”
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“Should Have Got A Raise”: Fury After SF Bartender Fired For Viral Response To Drunken “Karen”

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The bartender involved in the incident that saw a couple physically and verbally attack employees at a San Francisco restaurant has been fired.

Last month, a viral video showed a woman, later identified as Shireen Afkari, with her partner, Christian Bruchman, attacking staff at Hazie’s, a popular restaurant co-owned by celebrity chef Joey Altman.

Highlights
  • Bartender Miguel Marchese was fired after a viral incident where an "intoxicated" couple assaulted Hazie's restaurant staff.
  • Marchese defended his actions after Shireen Afkari violently pulled his hair and kicked him.
  • He declined a $5,000 severance that required him not to sue or publicly criticize Hazie's.
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    The December 15 clip begins with Afkari yelling at the staff and filming them on her phone.

    Bartender Miguel Marchese said the disruptive couple entered the establishment at around 9:30 p.m. and sat at a table to order food and cocktails.

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    “They were verbally abrasive with one of the servers, very harsh with her,” Marchese, who recently lost his job at Hazie’s due to his reaction to the attack, told SFGate.

    Just being difficult people. It was evident that they were intoxicated.”

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    When the manager intervened to escort the couple outside, Afkari reportedly ran into the kitchen and behind the bar to yell at employees.

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    “I’m trying to tell her with my hands, ‘OK, let’s just calm down, everybody, time to leave,’” Marchese said. “And everything just spirals into chaos.”

    Afkari then attacked one of Marchese’s co-workers, who responded by slamming her to the ground in self-defense.

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    Following the incident, the bartender and other staff members ushered the couple out of the restaurant. Instead of calming down, Afkari continued acting violently outside.

    Marchese said the woman suddenly began “kicking” him and wrapping his hair around her hand.

    “She weaves it around her hand quite tightly, and she pulls on it for dear life. So that was quite a predicament to be stuck in,” he recalled.

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    The bartender then grabbed the woman’s phone and threw it down the street, explaining that he did so in the hope that she would chase after it “like a rabid dog going after a bone.”

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    After he broke free from her, Marchese tripped her, making her fall onto the pavement.

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    According to the Gazetteer San Francisco, the bartender was fired at the end of December. One of the restaurant owners reportedly told him that he was an insurance liability for tripping the customer and therefore could no longer work at Hazie’s.

    Marchese was reportedly offered $5,000 in exchange for signing a severance agreement under which he agreed not to sue the company or publicly criticize it, but he declined.

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    Despite his termination, the bartender stands by his actions, sharing, “I found it odd that I was getting fired when in reality, I did nothing wrong at the end of the day.

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    “There were just so many dubious things at play at the moment.”

    SFGate reported that the severance agreement stated the reason for Marchese’s termination was a video that showed the employee “tripping the guest, which caused her to fall onto the sidewalk.”

    Additionally, the legal document referenced a December 19 social media post by Marchese in which he criticized the restaurant’s chef, TV personality Joey Altman.

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    The bartender said the worker who slammed the woman to the ground inside the restaurant has not been fired.

    “I ask people to put themselves in my shoes. Imagine that not only are you sick with laryngitis, but your hair is being viciously pulled out of your head,” Marchese expressed.

    “I just want my health to get better and the water to settle down and not to have this constant stress.”

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    San Francisco residents have shown their support on the street, hugging Marchese or shaking his hand and telling him they are on his side, the ex Hazie’s employee shared.

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    The bartender told local media that he and other Hazie’s workers filed a claim in December to the Office of Labor Standards Enforcement (OLSE) over alleged wage and tip theft. Hazie’s is now under investigation by the government agency.

    Marchese also claimed he has been unable to access his San Francisco Medical Reimbursement Account, a city-mandated health care savings account funded by employers.

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    As for Afkari, the 32-year-old woman dubbed a “Karen” online was reportedly arrested on charges of public intoxication and taken to San Francisco County Jail. She was also fired from her job at Strava.

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    Marina Urman

    Marina Urman

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    With a degree in social science and a love for culture, I approach entertainment journalism at Bored Panda with a research-driven mindset. I write about celebrity news, Hollywood highlights, and viral stories that spark curiosity worldwide. My work has reached millions of readers and is recognized for balancing accuracy with an engaging voice. I believe that pop culture isn’t just entertainment, it reflects the social conversations shaping our time.

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    Marina Urman

    Marina Urman

    Writer, Entertainment News Writer

    With a degree in social science and a love for culture, I approach entertainment journalism at Bored Panda with a research-driven mindset. I write about celebrity news, Hollywood highlights, and viral stories that spark curiosity worldwide. My work has reached millions of readers and is recognized for balancing accuracy with an engaging voice. I believe that pop culture isn’t just entertainment, it reflects the social conversations shaping our time.

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    Janelle Collard
    Community Member
    Premium
    10 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That bartender should have gotten a lawyer to get a better termination settlement. $5,000 is peanuts compared to what that bar takes in every week-end.

    Adam Zad
    Community Member
    10 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can't make any kind of determination until I see the video.

    carmenagnes
    Community Member
    7 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I get paid over 220 Bucks per hour working from home with 2 kids at home. i never thought i'd be able to do it but my best friend earns over 15k a month doing this and she convinced me to try. the potential with this is endless..., COPY HERE➤➤ 𝗟𝗶𝘃𝗲𝗝𝗼𝗯𝟭.𝗰𝗼𝗺

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    Apatheist
    Community Member
    12 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tripping the customer appears to have been over the top - defending himself or a colleague shouldn't be, but that (if true) takes it beyond "reasonable force".

    Janelle Collard
    Community Member
    Premium
    10 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That bartender should have gotten a lawyer to get a better termination settlement. $5,000 is peanuts compared to what that bar takes in every week-end.

    Adam Zad
    Community Member
    10 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can't make any kind of determination until I see the video.

    carmenagnes
    Community Member
    7 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I get paid over 220 Bucks per hour working from home with 2 kids at home. i never thought i'd be able to do it but my best friend earns over 15k a month doing this and she convinced me to try. the potential with this is endless..., COPY HERE➤➤ 𝗟𝗶𝘃𝗲𝗝𝗼𝗯𝟭.𝗰𝗼𝗺

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    Apatheist
    Community Member
    12 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tripping the customer appears to have been over the top - defending himself or a colleague shouldn't be, but that (if true) takes it beyond "reasonable force".

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