You’ve likely heard the saying, “Love is blind.” But in case you’re confused about what it actually means, it explains how many people tend to overlook the faults, imperfections, and even the blatant lies of the person they are with.
These women would know, and they are sharing their unfortunate experiences in a recent TikTok post. All of these anecdotes may prompt readers to cast judgment, but again, love can sometimes blur the lines between what is acceptable and otherwise.
If you’ve ever been in a similar situation, feel free to share your own stories in the comments. And don’t worry, it happens to the best of us.
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One once told me he couldn't stay over at my house because the curtains weren't blackout so he'd wake too early and be tired for work. Turned out he couldn't sleep out because he was going home to his wife.
“You don’t have to lie to girls. If they like you, they’ll just lie to themselves”
i mean he isn't wrong but BOY was that a bullet you dodged there!!
He told me he was on Tinder because his friend was part owner and had asked him to test the user experience
Yeah right, and my friend is the co founder of OnlyFans, and wants me to make an account/login to test the "user experience/client satisfaction"...
mine was when my spare toothbrush and skincare would disappear from his bathroom every time I came over and he said it was because he was cleaning and I would find it behind his clothes in the closet.
His ex told me she was still sleeping with him and to prove it she said she kissed the wall behind his bedroom curtain with lipstick on, I checked, it was there, confronted him, he said he did it himself
He told me he couldn't take his ex's pictures off the wall, in case it 'damaged the paint' and I believed him
He admitted to speaking to his ex on the phone about OUR relationship problems and my brain went “I’m glad he has someone to talk to”
We ran into his ex once at some bar. He tried to stay away from me the whole time, so that she wouldn't know we were together.
my ex said his phone was broken and wouldn't let him to change the photo of his ex he had as his lockscreen & wallpaper - 6 months later when I finally called him on it, he said he was still with her, and had also met another woman in the meantime!!! (we obviously then continued dating for another 3 years)
I once kissed a hickey on his neck because he told me he hurt himself at work
Caught him lying and my inner voice was like “awwww he cares enough to put effort into lying to you???"
mine had all of his ex's belongings in his bedroom. shoes, clothes, her uni certificates on the wall, trinkets, everything. she moved out MONTHS ago
mine said his ex's photo was stuck in his wallet and he can’t take it out
New Wallet, put all his cards and cash in there... Problem solved with the "Stuck" picture.
She told me she was going to her ex's house to fix her laptop and I believed her
My ex told me he waited in the car while his friends went to the brothel and I believed him too
I truly hope you went to the std clinic next time u were stupid enough to have s*x with him !!
HE MADE ME COMFORT THE GIRL HE WOULD REPLACE ME WITH
He told me he would not delete the pics with his ex from ig, cause that was part of his history but when we broke up he deleted mine
He invited his ex for sleepover at his house , I believed nothing happened cause his guy friends were also invited
my ex told his grandma's cat attacked him when he got his neck full of hickeys, and no, I didn't believe it
my favourite is when he sat down and opened a love letter the girl he eventually left me for had sent him, and I just stood there and waited for him to be finished
he had naked pictures on the wall of his ex, because they were "artsy", and yup I still went ahead and slept with him and stayed for 3 miserable years
“I didn’t even know I had a tinder account” “I don’t even know these girls sending me nudes”
I once saw mascara on the towel, full well knowing it’s not mine. I ignored it and pretended I hadn’t seen it
I found size 12 clothing (brand new) in his boot, I was a size 6 atm . He told me they were gifts for me but didn’t have my size in stock so he went a few sizes up
when he told me he was the happiest he's ever been.. But texted his ex to saying he's not happy and it's not the same without her there.. We were out together at 'their spot'
he told me tinder was already downloaded on the phone when he bought it
Found jewellery in his room THREE DIFFERENT TIMES and he said his brother must’ve had a girl over (in his room without even changing the sheets???) and I believed him…
Once he told me he had to drive a fiends cat to the vet, case no taxi will take a cat. I told that he is such anice and good person.yep - he was cheating with the owner of the cat. I was dumb
He kissed a girl in front of me on a night out, I SAW IT WITH MY OWN EYES. He said he just helped her because she was really drunk and I overlooked it
“I don’t know how to work up this phooone. I’ve been trying to take out the red heart from her name but the phone keeps putting it back up”
back in a day,i dated a guy that didn't answer my messages for a day and half and he told me that was bc he was sleeping
first time i ever went into my ex's room he had a photo of his ex above his bed because he "liked the photo, it's not that deep", didn't even throw it away just moved it so i couldn't see
Entering his room to see all their paintings hanging on the walls and the pictures of them together should’ve sent me running right back through that door, but I like to learn the hard way
My ex had a photo of him and his ex as his background for months because he “liked the background”
another one of my exes tried to give me earrings he found in his room and when i said they weren’t mine suddenly realised they must have been his flatmates gf’s
He said his phone got a virus and because of that he had random nudes on his phone after I found them
believed him when he told me he accidentally subscribed to a dating app from an advert
I was openly power dating on Ok Cupid. Wasn't hung up on guy I was seeing I met from another site. He got all weird when I responded to his Ok Cupid profile. No harsh. The goose and gander understood our non status. It was more funny how he panicked at my Ok Cupid "hey, i know you. What are you doing tonight". Like I broke his vibe . I have no shame in my past but certain shame in making him feel bad. Was't my intention. I thought it was funny we found it humorous we were both feral rabbits.
I was openly power dating on Ok Cupid. Wasn't hung up on guy I was seeing I met from another site. He got all weird when I responded to his Ok Cupid profile. No harsh. The goose and gander understood our non status. It was more funny how he panicked at my Ok Cupid "hey, i know you. What are you doing tonight". Like I broke his vibe . I have no shame in my past but certain shame in making him feel bad. Was't my intention. I thought it was funny we found it humorous we were both feral rabbits.