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Homeowners Get Deliciously Even With Power-Tripping HOA President Via Malicious Compliance
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Homeowners Get Deliciously Even With Power-Tripping HOA President Via Malicious Compliance

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It’s one thing to have a horrible neighbor, and it’s another to have an HOA officer who is intent on making your life a living hell. The latter could be worse because they have more authority and could misuse it to their advantage.

This is exactly what this HOA president did when her attempts to bully a regulation-abiding couple failed miserably. As she became more vindictive and childish, the couple got back at her with some malicious compliance

You will find the entire story below, along with some reactions from readers. 

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    This couple would likely agree, given their experience with their HOA president

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    The relationship between HOAs and homeowners is at its worst

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    Experts have noted a worsened relationship between the HOA and residents. It’s likely why we’ve been seeing a lot of these stories lately. 

    According to a 2022 Gallup poll, only 27% of Americans are confident in institutions and have almost zero trust in figures of authority. 

    According to Charlotte real estate attorney James Galvin, that fractured relationship, “mirrors the lack of social trust that exists in society in general.” 

    Common points of dispute between the HOA and the homeowner include discrimination, failure to comply with requests, and violations. These also seemed to be the points of contention among Joan, Liz, and Dave. 

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    Documentation, reviewing governing documents, and seeking legal action (when necessary) are the usual tips HOA lawyers like Manning & Meyers would give. Liz and Dave did all of those. They played by the rules and went through proper legal procedures. 

    Unfortunately for them, they were dealing with a vindictive, childish HOA president, and it was becoming a losing battle. Their act of malicious compliance was a way of standing up for themselves without hostility and causing more conflict. If anything, they handled it well.

    People in the comments shared similar experiences

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    Ieva Pečiulytė

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    I'm a Visual Editor for Bored Panda. I’m also an analog collage artist. My love for images and experience in layering goes well with both creating collages by hand and working with digital images as an Editor. When I’m not using my kitchen area as an art studio I also do various experiments making my own cosmetics or brewing kombucha. When I’m not at home you would most definitely find me attending a concert or walking my dog.

    What do you think ?
    Kristiina Männiste
    Community Member
    14 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What is so garish about pumpkin orange? Most of houses in Estonia are painted bright colors, preferably yellow or red. When you live in the great gray for 6 months each year, you will start to appreciate bright, sunny colors. My house is lemon colored for example. The color of the first sunny days after a long winter. And the main hall is slightly subdued pumpkin orange to create the illusion of warm sun shining in.

    Tori Whitby
    Community Member
    11 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There was a movement in the 90s-00s in American housing where every house/neighborhood became bland and cookie cutter to maximize resale value. That is also the reason HOAs became popular too (and the underlying racism)

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    AutumnGirl
    Community Member
    13 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just came here to say that the photo shows Brighton hotel in Valparaíso, Chile :-)

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    Trillian
    Community Member
    13 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This HOA thing never ceases to astonish me. I get wanting to make sure a neighborhood looks okay, but telling you you can't rent out rooms in your own effing home? That you own? Like, w*f????

    JL
    Community Member
    4 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If the HOA rules don't state the whole house has to be the same color, you could pick 4-5 of the colors and make patterns - stripes on one side of the house, checkerboard on another, polka dots, and then zig zags.

    tori Ohno
    Community Member
    13 minutes ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why weren't the police informed of the peeping and photographing through the bedroom window? That's illegal in every state. That would have shut her down fast.

    GalPalAl
    Community Member
    6 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I absolutely love the way the person who wrote this described the commandant of the HOA sound like the heel she is by using verbiage that describes her without being graphic or mean. So well written and it made me laugh to read her rotted turnip for a brain and the pimple on the backside of humanity.

    Manny
    Community Member
    7 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And this is why HOA's need to be banned. I don't what the policy in a HOA manual says, they do not own my home and can't tell me who I can have live in my house. A lot of these so called rules that HOA's have are illegal to begin with.

    UnclePanda
    Community Member
    8 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    HOAs are the bastion of tiny dicktators.

    Tea Drinker
    Community Member
    11 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I *like* the pumpkin orange. Most houses are so bland here - gray, beige, greige (as if it was too hard to decide), light blue *maybe*...

    Kristiina Männiste
    Community Member
    14 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What is so garish about pumpkin orange? Most of houses in Estonia are painted bright colors, preferably yellow or red. When you live in the great gray for 6 months each year, you will start to appreciate bright, sunny colors. My house is lemon colored for example. The color of the first sunny days after a long winter. And the main hall is slightly subdued pumpkin orange to create the illusion of warm sun shining in.

    Tori Whitby
    Community Member
    11 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There was a movement in the 90s-00s in American housing where every house/neighborhood became bland and cookie cutter to maximize resale value. That is also the reason HOAs became popular too (and the underlying racism)

    Load More Replies...
    AutumnGirl
    Community Member
    13 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just came here to say that the photo shows Brighton hotel in Valparaíso, Chile :-)

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    Trillian
    Community Member
    13 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This HOA thing never ceases to astonish me. I get wanting to make sure a neighborhood looks okay, but telling you you can't rent out rooms in your own effing home? That you own? Like, w*f????

    JL
    Community Member
    4 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If the HOA rules don't state the whole house has to be the same color, you could pick 4-5 of the colors and make patterns - stripes on one side of the house, checkerboard on another, polka dots, and then zig zags.

    tori Ohno
    Community Member
    13 minutes ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why weren't the police informed of the peeping and photographing through the bedroom window? That's illegal in every state. That would have shut her down fast.

    GalPalAl
    Community Member
    6 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I absolutely love the way the person who wrote this described the commandant of the HOA sound like the heel she is by using verbiage that describes her without being graphic or mean. So well written and it made me laugh to read her rotted turnip for a brain and the pimple on the backside of humanity.

    Manny
    Community Member
    7 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And this is why HOA's need to be banned. I don't what the policy in a HOA manual says, they do not own my home and can't tell me who I can have live in my house. A lot of these so called rules that HOA's have are illegal to begin with.

    UnclePanda
    Community Member
    8 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    HOAs are the bastion of tiny dicktators.

    Tea Drinker
    Community Member
    11 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I *like* the pumpkin orange. Most houses are so bland here - gray, beige, greige (as if it was too hard to decide), light blue *maybe*...

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