Entitled Customer Is Put In Place By A Cashier That Offered Her A Senior’s Discount
The customer isn’t always right, unfortunately. The vast majority of customers are pretty friendly, but there’s a very vocal minority of super-rude individuals who can make your life hell if you let them.
Reddit user Amaranthinenightmare, who used to work at a popular department store and was incredibly stressed out, posted her story about dealing with an incredibly rude female customer who was having a go at her. Well, the Redditor had an incredibly witty comeback about the woman looking old, which shut her up for good. Amaranthinenightmare 1, Rude customer 0.
Be sure to scroll down for Bored Panda’s interview with Alexander Kjerulf of Positive Sharing about how to treat store employees, and what they should do if they encounter a rude customer.
An annoying customer behaved very rudely with a department store employee
Image credits: Jim William (not the actual photo)
The employee had an epic comeback
When Amaranthinenightmare worked as a department store supervisor, she was covering somebody’s break at the registers when she was approached by a customer with a serious attitude. The straw that broke the camel’s back was when the woman started yelling about poor customer service after the supervisor rejected her unusable coupons.
“On the bright side, since it’s Tuesday I can still apply your senior’s discount! So at least you aren’t losing that one, right?” the Redditor hit back, which completely shocked the customer who replied that she wasn’t a senior. That’s when Amaranthinenightmare struck again, this time taking away the discount which amounted to a very sizeable 20 dollars.
The department store employee’s post went viral with over 26,900 people thinking it was interesting and engaging enough to upvote on Reddit. More than 530 people also commented on the story, while the Redditor also received a Platinum Award, 6 Gold Awards, and 4 Silver Awards. That’s enough to start her own virtual trophy case.
Positive Sharing argues that there are several reasons why the idea that the customer is always right is actually wrong, as it leads to bad customer service, ironically. According to the blog, treating customers as royalty is bad for company morale because it shows that you side with them and not your employees, who are the lifeblood of your business.
What’s more, this kind of thinking means that your company is ripe for abuse: we all know that some customers will do absolutely anything for a discount or a service that they wouldn’t normally qualify for. Also, the harsh truth is that not all customers are equally good for your business — it’s best to let some of them go if they’re abusive to your staff. Positive Sharing writes that putting employees first, rather than customers, results in the best possible results for everyone.
Have you come into contact with any rude customers at your work? Share your stories in the comments below, and let us know what you think is the best way to deal with them.
Alexander Kjerulf of Positive Sharing told Bored Panda what staff members should do when confronted with incredibly rude customers: “Keep your cool and remember that whatever abuse they’re giving you is no reflection on you as a person. That customer doesn’t even know you, so there’s no way it could be. But on the other hand, don’t be subservient. Don’t be afraid to stand up for yourself and tell customers that abuse is not tolerated. And if it persists, hand them over to a manager as soon as you can and let them deal with it.”
“I just talked to the former CEO of mobile phone company Call Me in Denmark. She told me that they trained their customer service reps to stand up to bullying customers. First they’d tell the customer “We don’t accept abuse – please stop yelling at me.” If the behavior persisted, the employee would hang up. If the customer called back and kept up the abuse, the call would be escalated to a manager, who would tell the customer: “There are over 20 other mobile phone companies in Denmark to choose from. We don’t feel you’re a good fit for us, so we will be terminating your contract.”
Alexander explained that “You have to remember that in many cases a customer who behaves badly is not necessarily a bad person — it can be a good person having a bad day and that’s why they’re acting out. But the sad truth is that some customers act this way because they’ve learned that it works and will get them discounts or preferential treatment.”
He also added that a better motto than ‘the customer is always right’ would be ‘be nice – or at least don’t be a dick.’ “And this goes for both customers and employees. Whenever I’m a customer anywhere, I always try to be kind and positive to the staff — even when occasionally I have to complain about something. It’s literally the least I can do.”
People showered the Reddit user with support
This is everyday at my job. They think they deserve something just because. I have kicked people out of my store for being abusive. You cuss at me or one of my team members and out you go. We aren't paid to take abuse.
Once had a customer return a ham bone (and just the bone) in January insisting the holiday ham was "too greasy." We gave her a full refund because the store policy was "the customer is always right." The store is now out of business.
You can tell the difference in customer behavior based on the policies of the companies. I worked for Whirlpool's call center where the policy stated that you could not disconnect with customers and you'd get a ding in your file for calls transferred to managers. Nintendo, on the other hand, allowed us to give one verbal warning to customers and then, if the customer continued their abuse, we could disconnect. Whirlpool was a constant barrage of abusers and whiners. Nintendo had it's rude customers, but way way down on the abusive scale.
I worked customer service for many many years and it is sickening how people treat cashiers. I was in a gas station once and this elephant/hippo if a woman (mind you I'm a big girl myself but this lady was huge....and MEAN) came in walked in front of me as I was clearly in the middle of my transaction and demanded the cashier leave the store and me to go help her pump gas. Mind you it was like 10 at night and he was alone. He very politely said since he was by himself he could not do that and asked her to please step aside so he could finish the transaction w/ me. THIS B***H looked me up and down and turned her enormous face to him saying that she was more important than me and she was handicapped and if he didnt close up "immediately and help she would report him to the manager and the BBB and god knows who else. At this point I stepped in because I HATE entitled people who are rude for no reason to one another and said that per state law he was not allowed to close the store and that if she had read the sign about assisting handicapped people it clearly said "if possible they would come and assist" her face turned a very awkward shade of maroon and she said "I'm not talking to you you dumb b***h besides I'm handicapped and im more important than you" (she ACTUALLY USED THESE WORDS).. I took a deep breath and in the sweetest most matter of fact voice I could come up with I replied...."oh I'm sorry ma'am but being a fat c**t isn't considered a disability in this state" at which point she screamed a long list of obscenities at me and walked out. I gave the cashier my info in case she went to the manager so I could say what actually happened and he just kept thanking me saying that no one ever stands up for you when u get a customer like that... anyway it may have been a cheap shot and petty but I felt good and I think I I made that cashier's night.
I lived in a small town for 14 years. Occasionally we'd get the entitled out-of-town jackass that thought it was ok to treat our retailers crappy thinking that we should be "grateful he's giving us his business." I encountered one that had a poor cashier frazzled demanding that his order be available on the spot, not realizing that food was made-to-order. I told the cashier to take his time and ignore the rudeness. Then the guy finally goes off on this rant of "OMG! What is taking so long?!? Are you that incompetent!!?" I turned to the guys two kids (both under 10) and said "Promise me you won't grow up to be anything like your father." Boy, there was a lot of cussing! I told him if he was going to act like that he could leave. He says "You can't tell me what to do you b***h!" Then the booming voice of the manager. "She can't, but I can. Give him his money back. And you can get out of my store. Don't ever come back." The cashier couldn't stop smiling.
Load More Replies...There's a website dedicated to the retailworkers and customers from hell. The stories you'll find there are all similar to this one or even worse. As an European I'm simply amazed by the rudeness that retailworkers in America have to endure. None of this c**p would be acceptable over here and the chances of the rude customer getting banned from the store are more likely than a retailworker getting written up or fired.
We have to deal with it in Australia. I remember we had one particular customer that came in every week who was an absolute a*****e to all the staff. No one ever wanted to serve him but we had no choice. I was on my last week at work before I went to go on maternity leave and was the unfortunate one, he came to my checkout. He was awful, I ended up calling my supervisor, walked away from my checkout without permission (my supervisor had to take over), went outside and bawled my eyes out. We also had a customer call all us girls “useless bitches” because one of my co workers wouldn’t put rat poison in the same bag as his fruit and vegetables. These aren’t even the half the a*****e customers we have to deal with.
Load More Replies...I worked in retail for ten years. It took a long time to shake off the resulting misanthropic rage afterwards. The abuse we were subjected to was outrageous. I was also threatened at knifepoint not once, but twice! It's a hard job.
Worked at a call center for a while. Misantrophic rage really is a good expression for the feeling you get from that too.
Load More Replies...And customers like this is why I never want to work in retail again. I generally won’t answer my phone if I am at a checkout or being served because it’s just so rude. The only time I will answer is if it’s a private number and I will apologise profusely to the server and tell the person on the phone to either call back in 10 mins or hold on the line whilst am being served. I will not stand that and converse with someone.
My sister and I have this kind of ESP connection. It's like she can always tell when I'm in a check out line and will pick that moment to call. One time she called 3 times while I was in check out. I finally answered the third time and said "I'm in grocery store check out, is it so important that I need to step out of line or can I call you back." I hear her say "Your mother is impossible!" I said "Great... I'll call you back..." and hung up. If I'm not answering the phone, there is a reason, people. And if you are burning up my phone, someone better be dead or dying.... Otherwise it can wait.
Load More Replies...One of my favorite jobs was a store where the owner put up a sign behind the register reading "The Customer Is Always Right. You Are Not Always The Customer." He explicitly told all employees, "If someone wants to cost the store more than they pay, they're not a customer - and that includes your time and labor."
A customer is technically a guest in their establishment. There is no excuse for rudeness, so have the decency to get off your sodding mobile phone and address your host with respect. Manners cost nothing.
just because you are a "guest" doesn't mean you get to treat the workers as less than human.
Load More Replies...This is everyday at my job. They think they deserve something just because. I have kicked people out of my store for being abusive. You cuss at me or one of my team members and out you go. We aren't paid to take abuse.
Once had a customer return a ham bone (and just the bone) in January insisting the holiday ham was "too greasy." We gave her a full refund because the store policy was "the customer is always right." The store is now out of business.
You can tell the difference in customer behavior based on the policies of the companies. I worked for Whirlpool's call center where the policy stated that you could not disconnect with customers and you'd get a ding in your file for calls transferred to managers. Nintendo, on the other hand, allowed us to give one verbal warning to customers and then, if the customer continued their abuse, we could disconnect. Whirlpool was a constant barrage of abusers and whiners. Nintendo had it's rude customers, but way way down on the abusive scale.
I worked customer service for many many years and it is sickening how people treat cashiers. I was in a gas station once and this elephant/hippo if a woman (mind you I'm a big girl myself but this lady was huge....and MEAN) came in walked in front of me as I was clearly in the middle of my transaction and demanded the cashier leave the store and me to go help her pump gas. Mind you it was like 10 at night and he was alone. He very politely said since he was by himself he could not do that and asked her to please step aside so he could finish the transaction w/ me. THIS B***H looked me up and down and turned her enormous face to him saying that she was more important than me and she was handicapped and if he didnt close up "immediately and help she would report him to the manager and the BBB and god knows who else. At this point I stepped in because I HATE entitled people who are rude for no reason to one another and said that per state law he was not allowed to close the store and that if she had read the sign about assisting handicapped people it clearly said "if possible they would come and assist" her face turned a very awkward shade of maroon and she said "I'm not talking to you you dumb b***h besides I'm handicapped and im more important than you" (she ACTUALLY USED THESE WORDS).. I took a deep breath and in the sweetest most matter of fact voice I could come up with I replied...."oh I'm sorry ma'am but being a fat c**t isn't considered a disability in this state" at which point she screamed a long list of obscenities at me and walked out. I gave the cashier my info in case she went to the manager so I could say what actually happened and he just kept thanking me saying that no one ever stands up for you when u get a customer like that... anyway it may have been a cheap shot and petty but I felt good and I think I I made that cashier's night.
I lived in a small town for 14 years. Occasionally we'd get the entitled out-of-town jackass that thought it was ok to treat our retailers crappy thinking that we should be "grateful he's giving us his business." I encountered one that had a poor cashier frazzled demanding that his order be available on the spot, not realizing that food was made-to-order. I told the cashier to take his time and ignore the rudeness. Then the guy finally goes off on this rant of "OMG! What is taking so long?!? Are you that incompetent!!?" I turned to the guys two kids (both under 10) and said "Promise me you won't grow up to be anything like your father." Boy, there was a lot of cussing! I told him if he was going to act like that he could leave. He says "You can't tell me what to do you b***h!" Then the booming voice of the manager. "She can't, but I can. Give him his money back. And you can get out of my store. Don't ever come back." The cashier couldn't stop smiling.
Load More Replies...There's a website dedicated to the retailworkers and customers from hell. The stories you'll find there are all similar to this one or even worse. As an European I'm simply amazed by the rudeness that retailworkers in America have to endure. None of this c**p would be acceptable over here and the chances of the rude customer getting banned from the store are more likely than a retailworker getting written up or fired.
We have to deal with it in Australia. I remember we had one particular customer that came in every week who was an absolute a*****e to all the staff. No one ever wanted to serve him but we had no choice. I was on my last week at work before I went to go on maternity leave and was the unfortunate one, he came to my checkout. He was awful, I ended up calling my supervisor, walked away from my checkout without permission (my supervisor had to take over), went outside and bawled my eyes out. We also had a customer call all us girls “useless bitches” because one of my co workers wouldn’t put rat poison in the same bag as his fruit and vegetables. These aren’t even the half the a*****e customers we have to deal with.
Load More Replies...I worked in retail for ten years. It took a long time to shake off the resulting misanthropic rage afterwards. The abuse we were subjected to was outrageous. I was also threatened at knifepoint not once, but twice! It's a hard job.
Worked at a call center for a while. Misantrophic rage really is a good expression for the feeling you get from that too.
Load More Replies...And customers like this is why I never want to work in retail again. I generally won’t answer my phone if I am at a checkout or being served because it’s just so rude. The only time I will answer is if it’s a private number and I will apologise profusely to the server and tell the person on the phone to either call back in 10 mins or hold on the line whilst am being served. I will not stand that and converse with someone.
My sister and I have this kind of ESP connection. It's like she can always tell when I'm in a check out line and will pick that moment to call. One time she called 3 times while I was in check out. I finally answered the third time and said "I'm in grocery store check out, is it so important that I need to step out of line or can I call you back." I hear her say "Your mother is impossible!" I said "Great... I'll call you back..." and hung up. If I'm not answering the phone, there is a reason, people. And if you are burning up my phone, someone better be dead or dying.... Otherwise it can wait.
Load More Replies...One of my favorite jobs was a store where the owner put up a sign behind the register reading "The Customer Is Always Right. You Are Not Always The Customer." He explicitly told all employees, "If someone wants to cost the store more than they pay, they're not a customer - and that includes your time and labor."
A customer is technically a guest in their establishment. There is no excuse for rudeness, so have the decency to get off your sodding mobile phone and address your host with respect. Manners cost nothing.
just because you are a "guest" doesn't mean you get to treat the workers as less than human.
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