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Greedy Lady Eats SIL’s Gluten-Free Cake As It “Looks Better,” Sparks Drama As Hubby Scolds Her
Person refusing to share gluten-free cake with chocolate base and light frosting on a green plate at a wooden table

Greedy Lady Eats SIL’s Gluten-Free Cake As It “Looks Better,” Sparks Drama As Hubby Scolds Her

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Having any kind of disease is not a piece of cake (pun with today’s story’s topic intended). Your physical and mental health suffers, and dealing with people’s reactions to it isn’t easy either. 

Like in this story, where a celiac woman had a sister-in-law who always seemed to have an issue with her disease. Her annoyance with it went so far that she didn’t shy away from trying to ruin the woman’s birthday party in the pettiest way possible. 

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    Having a disease is already hard enough, but sometimes people around you make it even harder

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    Like for this woman, who’s celiac disease was deeply unliked by her sister-in-law

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    For instance, when this sister-in-law always rolled her eyes when the woman had to have gluten-free versions of food

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    One day, during the woman’s birthday party with two cakes – one normal, one gluten free – the sister-in-law decided to make a petty move

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    She cut the gluten-free cake, cross-contaminating it with the glutenous one, saying the kids wanted it

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    She rambled how the birthday woman should share the cake and it was not a big deal

    One day, the OP’s family decided to throw her a surprise birthday party. They prepared two cakes for it – one regular and one gluten-free – since the birthday woman has celiac disease, gluten literally hurts her. 

    The cakes looked very similar; the only slight differences were in their ingredients, taste, and price. So, everyone who participated in the party was cut a piece of “normal cake”, while the gluten-free version was put aside, so the woman could enjoy it later, when there would be no risk of cross-contamination. 

    Then, a little later, the OP’s sister-in-law decided to cut her kids a cake that was put aside, justifying that the kids thought it looked nice and that she had left some of it for the woman. But knowing she had cut it on the same board as the other cake, it was pointless, as the gluten-free version was now cross-contaminated.  

    Granted, later on, the brother-in-law, realizing how jerk-ish this SIL’s move was, replaced the cake and apologized for it. Apparently, the SIL herself wasn’t so happy with everyone taking the OP’s side, as she was always rather passive-aggressive when it came to the woman’s gluten allergy. And now she caused major family drama because of it. 

    The thing is that it’s hard to find justification behind the SIL’s annoyance with celiac disease. After all, it’s not like women chose to have it – a person gets it through a combo of genetic predisposition and environmental triggers, not a choice. 

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    And it’s not an easy disease to have. First, you can’t indulge in various treats like other people. Just take this story as an example – the woman has to have a separate, less tasty cake, which sucks for her. 

    If she had “normal” cake, she would have to go through tiring symptoms, such as stomach pain, gas, anemia, unexplained weight loss, dental enamel defects, or even infertility or mental health issues in the long run. When you look at it through this lens, it doesn’t paint a pretty picture. 

    What is even worse is that celiac disease cannot be fully treated – only managed. And to do so, the person has to adhere to a strict, lifelong gluten-free diet, along with supplements and constant health monitoring. 

    So, when you think about it, the SIL’s annoyance with the OP’s disease is annoying in itself. Rolling your eyes or stealing cakes just because you think someone is making a fuss by watching their health is full-blown jerk behavior. 

    At least that’s what netizens decided. What about you? Please, share all your opinions and takes on this situation in the comments!

    Netizens decided that this woman was simply passive-aggressive by cutting the cake when ordered not to, and not in a sharing move, as she claimed it to be

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    Ugnė Bulotaitė

    Ugnė Bulotaitė

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    Ugnė Bulotaitė

    Ugnė Bulotaitė

    Writer, Community member

    I am a writer at Bored Panda. I have loved creating and writing down stories about people and things since I was little and I think this passion led me to get degrees in sociology, communication, and journalism. These degrees opened various paths for me, and I got a chance to be a volunteer in the human rights field, and also try myself out in social research and journalism areas. Besides writing, my passions include pop culture: music, movies, TV shows; literature, and board games. In fact, I have been dubbed a board games devotee by some people in my life.

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    JB
    Community Member
    23 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yay! A mostly wholesome story about husband and in-laws all being sane, logical, nice and caring, apart from SIL. While I’m impressed that OP was sublimely not bothered, I think I’d have invited SIL to sit in front of everyone and eat the entire cake she had served up so as not to waste it. No, “I don’t like it excuses”, she took the one birthday cake OP can eat safely and made it inedible for her.

    Trillian
    Community Member
    1 day ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Typical entitled b***h. So because her brats thought OP's cake "looked better", she went and took it without even asking and is now in a huff. Well, too bad. Some people only learn the hard way.

    Vinnie
    Community Member
    21 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How hard is it to explain to kids that they can't eat have it? Just explain "OP gets very, very sick if she eats cake. She can only eat this cake because it has a special medicine. It wouldn't be good for you."

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    Kate Johnson
    Community Member
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    20 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Great! Sounds like this problem sorted itself. Nasty, stupid, entitled SIL will now stay away. I wouldn't want her horrible example around my kids anyway. I feel sorry for her kids, having such a rancid excuse for a human being as a parent.

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    JB
    Community Member
    23 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yay! A mostly wholesome story about husband and in-laws all being sane, logical, nice and caring, apart from SIL. While I’m impressed that OP was sublimely not bothered, I think I’d have invited SIL to sit in front of everyone and eat the entire cake she had served up so as not to waste it. No, “I don’t like it excuses”, she took the one birthday cake OP can eat safely and made it inedible for her.

    Trillian
    Community Member
    1 day ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Typical entitled b***h. So because her brats thought OP's cake "looked better", she went and took it without even asking and is now in a huff. Well, too bad. Some people only learn the hard way.

    Vinnie
    Community Member
    21 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How hard is it to explain to kids that they can't eat have it? Just explain "OP gets very, very sick if she eats cake. She can only eat this cake because it has a special medicine. It wouldn't be good for you."

    Load More Replies...
    Kate Johnson
    Community Member
    Premium
    20 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Great! Sounds like this problem sorted itself. Nasty, stupid, entitled SIL will now stay away. I wouldn't want her horrible example around my kids anyway. I feel sorry for her kids, having such a rancid excuse for a human being as a parent.

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