Cat Teaches Aggressive Child Not To Hurt Animals After Parents Failed To Do So
Interview With ExpertOne of the things we (are supposed to) learn while growing up is that there are consequences for our actions. Every action has a reaction. Some kids learn this by trial and error and others are helped along and guided by their parents. Of course, you get some folk who stand back and watch their little ‘angels’ do something wrong, and then act completely shocked when the child has to deal with the repercussions.
A cat owner says they were horrified when a random kid started terrorizing their pet. And they were equally disturbed that parents did nothing about the child’s “borderline aggressive” behavior. The parents only sprung into action when the cat retaliated. Of course, they claimed it was not the child’s fault, and have instead called for the pet to be put down. It’s sparked another debate around animal and child interactions.
Bored Panda spoke to Rover’s Pet Lifestyle Expert Nicole Ellis and Parenting Coach and founder of The Peaceful Parent, Lisa Smith to get their advice on keeping kids and pets safe.
This ginger boy is generally very sweet and gets along well with adults and children
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But when a 9-year-old terrorized him while out on a walk, he responded the only way he knew how
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“Even well-behaved kids make impulsive moves when no one’s looking,” an expert weighs in
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Your child is bound to encounter an animal at some point in their life. And the sooner you teach them the basics, the better for all. But even then, experts say parental supervision is key when it come to young kids interacting with pets.
“Even well-behaved kids make impulsive moves when no one’s looking,” says Lisa Smith, parenting coach and founder of The Peaceful Parent. “Safety comes from supervision, clear expectations, and mutual trust—not assumptions.”
The same applies to animals, says Certified Dog Trainer and Pet Lifestyle Expert for Rover.com, Nicole Ellis. “Young children and dogs need constant supervision and thoughtful boundaries,” she told Bored Panda. “Even the most well-behaved dog should be monitored around babies and young children not only for the child’s safety but the dog’s as well.”
Smith says toddlers in particular learn by doing and modeling. It is up to adults to teach them to be gentle. “Show them what ‘gentle’ looks like,” suggests the expert. “Use their hand in yours to stroke the animal while saying ‘gentle touches.’”
Ellis agrees. Model respectful behavior, she says. “Let children watch you interact calmly and kindly with your dog so they can learn by example,” the expert advises. “Encourage quiet voices and gentle, open-hand petting on the chest or back—not on the face, tail, or paws. Practice with stuffed animals first.”
Smith adds that it also helps to narrate empathy: “Say things like, ‘[Pet’s name] doesn’t like when he’s touched hard. See how he moved away? That means he’s uncomfortable.’” Smith says you should also praise the good moments to reinforce what you want. For example, “You’re petting [pet’s name] so gently—that’s so kind!”
Even if you don’t have a pet at home, you can still teach your kids how to treat animals with kindness. Smith says one way of doing this is to read books together. Or if your child is old enough to read, buy them a few appropriate books. “There are wonderful children’s books about being kind to animals that help build empathy,” she told us.
Every year, we read news stories about children being attacked by dogs. Many of these incidents could have been avoided. Ellis stresses that supervision is non-negotiable. “Never leave a dog and a young child alone, even for a few seconds,” she advises. “Use baby gates, crates, or playpens to keep everyone safe.”
It’s also important to teach kids to read a dog’s body language. “Help children recognize signs that a dog is stressed, like yawning, lip licking, moving away, or growling,” Ellis says. And despite some of the (irresponsible) videos we see on social media, do not encourage your little one to hug or ride the family pet.
“Children should not hug dogs, ride them, stand on them, take objects from them or put their faces in the dog’s face,” warns Ellis.
Some netizens were left with more questions than answers
Many supported the pet owner and some had useful advice for them
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😂 totally, no one’s on this kids side but his parents and maybe cat haters
Load More Replies...The cat was on a leash and the brat was told to stop and he didn't. The cat smacked him, smacked NOT clawed and the parents finally react to their brat. If somebody did that to my almost 14 yo 6 lb cat I would push them away and grab my cat. The only time she goes outside is in her carrier for vet visits so I don't have to worry about it. You do that c**p to a dog you might or might not get a warning growl.
One of my cats likes walks, but I generally only do it late at night when there aren’t people about. He gets a little freaked out when he sees someone else, plus he’s old and super ornery now (to people who aren’t me), so a smack would definitely be involved.
Load More Replies...Bad parents are a scourge worse than any "aggressive" cat. Kids need to be taught; at that age one should knowto be nice to animals. Kid might have other problems but the parents sound like ássháts.
And they’re the same parents who will be totally mystified why their little b*****d ends up expelled from school, sent to juvie, and in and out of prison the rest of his life.
Load More Replies...If some little crôtch monster started messing with my cat, the warning swipe would come from me. If you don't know how to interact with other living beings (I bet he's a bully too) then expect pushback, and stupid lazy parents that enable such behaviour are the absolute worst.
When I was little I deliberately teased and bullied the family cat despite being repeatedly told not to. Finally the cat had had enough and scratched me hard enough to draw blood. In the face, no less. I ran crying to my mother who calmly said, "Well you deserved that, didn't you?" I never bothered the cat again.
Parents know their kids. My youngest is 4, I know she's still hands on with animals. In a loving you to death kind of way. She doesn't have control enough yet. So, she gets to pet the cat under super vision. Once she slipped upstairs the moment she knew I wasn't looking (I was in the bathroom or something) and came down crying she got scratched. I told her that's what happens when you pet an animal too roughly. Every animal has their own way to be pet (or not even). But even at 4 she doesn't poke in eyes or anything, that's just abuse. And every living beings has a right to defend itself from bodily harm. Either way, the parents know.
Tiny me pulled the dogs tail one time, Grandma gave me no warning the buttslap was never forgotten
Yep! When I was a baby/toddler, my family had a Great Dane. Absolutely wonderful, loving, patient girl; she apparently put up with a TON of BS from Baby Lakota (I am told I often climbed on her back and sometimes rode her around like a pony.) One of my first "actually rememberable" memories is me, maybe aged 2 or so, putting wooden clothespins on her ears and flews (lips.) She was such a wonderful, patient dog that she was just sitting there letting me do it. My dad came up, saw what was happening, removed the clothespins, gently whacked me on the butt, and explained that we don't do things to hurt our family members, do we? And the dogs are our family, so we don't hurt animals. That has stayed with me for over four decades of life. I currently have two dogs, two adult cats, and five kittens, and I can't imagine hurting any animal. I learned that lesson early.
Load More Replies...Fkn little two-legged ferals shouldn't be allowed out in public without a muzzle and a leash. Here's my two cents. Several years ago I went to pick up a baby ferret I had ordered from a pet place (I already had one baby ferret at home and I know there should be at least two) Picked out my sweet little girl, who immediately conked out in my hands while I waited to do the paperwork, pay for her, etc. Three feral little bishes tearing around this pet place, screaming, mauling all the animals they could lay their hands on, sticking their hands in the fish tanks etc. Oldest ran up to me and demanded to pat my tiny, sleeping carpet shark. I flatly refused. She screamed at me, went running howling to mummy about the ''fat, mean lady'' (and I quote) I completely ignored it all, and got a lovely conspiratorial smile from the staff member behind the counter. One thing I CANNOT STAND is animals, especially small, very young or elderly, animals being harrassed.
the kid AND his parents need a better education. Hurt my cat and prepare yourself for a slap in your face. A cat is not a toy, even if you have an entitled kid. Period.
The minute Damian made a move to hurt my cat, I would have swiped him with MY paw... Right upside the head. Then daddy and mommy... For being shite parents. The littlest, wisest member of the family I'd have treated to an ice-cream.
People need to be told how to deal with cats. They're not dogs. You need their permission to approach - let them smell you first, then only rub their head gently back away from their eyes. That's the limit until they know you A LOT better.
Yes and NTA - when I got my 10 week old Golden, a friend had me bring him over to her BBQ. There was a mother and her small child. The child insisted on wanting to tug in and grab the puppy - he’s going to bite, scratch - both kept following us/me every where we went - Then the screaming, that didn’t take long
wtf are those inhuman parents of that entitled little monster gonna do if he does that to a DOG !, cos a swipe with a paw from a cat is nothing compared to what a dog will do to! Even the most loving safe well trained dog will not put up with THAT !! what vile parents , how the little one has learnt respect is beyond me but let’s hope he stays that way , cos the older ones gonna be in Juvi soon !! op op,z give old boy a huggle from me x
I have 2 children. One nearly an adult, with learning challenges. My kids (and most of yours) would never do this. Its not funny to most kids. They are naturally good humans and do know better...your lazing parenting actually TAUGHT them to be jerks. I feel so bad for these kinda kids. I see them out, causing chaos, bumping into elderly people, knocking this over, running where they shouldn't. Doing "bad" things. Making everyone around them frustrated and anxious BUT they are NOT bad kids, they are not not listening, as far as they know they are doing nothing wrong, bc their caregivers arent telling them not too. Then someone says "oh hunny be careful!" And they want u to mind your buisness bc if they dont care about their child...why should you? These will be adults everyone hates to see coming, they wont understand why and will just know they are rejected by society. Do your job
Some people are just idiots. Our cats are mostly indoor but they do go in the garden a lot, but as such they’re not used to being out in the street. One day one of them escaped as I was taking out the trash. I grabbed him fairly quickly and was carrying him back in when this lady with a medium-sized dog saw us and went ‘oh, look, doggie, it’s a cat! Let’s say hi to the cat!’. She proceeded to pick up her dog and shove it in my cat’s face, who obviously went mental and scratched half the skin off my arm. Good job, lady. That being said, that was clearly unintentional ignorance. I don’t know what the hell the parents in OP’s story were thinking. If my kid did something like that I’d know I’d failed somewhere as a parent.
I sincerely hope that the part about the kid putting his fingers in the cats butt was hyperbole.
Control your child!! Luckily all the cat did was paw at him. Aggressive children that are mean to animals won’t stop there. I would be concerned how he acts towards others when he grows up. This is a warning sign to these parents. And as far as telling the owner to control the cat or you’ll have it put down! Control your child before someone kicks his a*s or puts him down!!!!
Vaguely related - we got 3 kittens and a rotti puppy at the same time. Rotti decided to play with my boy, all good. Rotti decided to drag kitty by tail - kitty swiped his nose and he never tried that again. I still laugh but also lump up at the memory (both long rainbow)
Years ago I hosted a BBQ for my birthday. Among the guests were my niece Pops (5 ) & my bff's kid (f5) Emi. It was a warm day & my 3 cats were inside chilling. The girls asked to go see them, I said OK but only if they are downstairs and only Lola & Nala as they are friendly. A few minutes later my niece comes out saying she got to pet the chubby one but now they went upstairs and Emi followed and kept trying to pull their tails. I was just about to head inside to save my cats when my friends kid comes out crying & screaming with a very visible bloody hand. She'd followed the cats upstairs & was pulling them about ( including the one I said not to touch ). Long story short she got bitten by 1 and scratched by the other 🤣.
I wish all the abu.si.ve kids and their awful parents would get put down. Too many innocent animals are loosing their life because adults don’t take responsibility in properly raising their offspring and society isn’t taking responsibility: it should end sociopaths and psychopaths before they are adults. Poor kind toddler growing up amongst monsters instead of a decent set of parents and good sibling.
😂 totally, no one’s on this kids side but his parents and maybe cat haters
Load More Replies...The cat was on a leash and the brat was told to stop and he didn't. The cat smacked him, smacked NOT clawed and the parents finally react to their brat. If somebody did that to my almost 14 yo 6 lb cat I would push them away and grab my cat. The only time she goes outside is in her carrier for vet visits so I don't have to worry about it. You do that c**p to a dog you might or might not get a warning growl.
One of my cats likes walks, but I generally only do it late at night when there aren’t people about. He gets a little freaked out when he sees someone else, plus he’s old and super ornery now (to people who aren’t me), so a smack would definitely be involved.
Load More Replies...Bad parents are a scourge worse than any "aggressive" cat. Kids need to be taught; at that age one should knowto be nice to animals. Kid might have other problems but the parents sound like ássháts.
And they’re the same parents who will be totally mystified why their little b*****d ends up expelled from school, sent to juvie, and in and out of prison the rest of his life.
Load More Replies...If some little crôtch monster started messing with my cat, the warning swipe would come from me. If you don't know how to interact with other living beings (I bet he's a bully too) then expect pushback, and stupid lazy parents that enable such behaviour are the absolute worst.
When I was little I deliberately teased and bullied the family cat despite being repeatedly told not to. Finally the cat had had enough and scratched me hard enough to draw blood. In the face, no less. I ran crying to my mother who calmly said, "Well you deserved that, didn't you?" I never bothered the cat again.
Parents know their kids. My youngest is 4, I know she's still hands on with animals. In a loving you to death kind of way. She doesn't have control enough yet. So, she gets to pet the cat under super vision. Once she slipped upstairs the moment she knew I wasn't looking (I was in the bathroom or something) and came down crying she got scratched. I told her that's what happens when you pet an animal too roughly. Every animal has their own way to be pet (or not even). But even at 4 she doesn't poke in eyes or anything, that's just abuse. And every living beings has a right to defend itself from bodily harm. Either way, the parents know.
Tiny me pulled the dogs tail one time, Grandma gave me no warning the buttslap was never forgotten
Yep! When I was a baby/toddler, my family had a Great Dane. Absolutely wonderful, loving, patient girl; she apparently put up with a TON of BS from Baby Lakota (I am told I often climbed on her back and sometimes rode her around like a pony.) One of my first "actually rememberable" memories is me, maybe aged 2 or so, putting wooden clothespins on her ears and flews (lips.) She was such a wonderful, patient dog that she was just sitting there letting me do it. My dad came up, saw what was happening, removed the clothespins, gently whacked me on the butt, and explained that we don't do things to hurt our family members, do we? And the dogs are our family, so we don't hurt animals. That has stayed with me for over four decades of life. I currently have two dogs, two adult cats, and five kittens, and I can't imagine hurting any animal. I learned that lesson early.
Load More Replies...Fkn little two-legged ferals shouldn't be allowed out in public without a muzzle and a leash. Here's my two cents. Several years ago I went to pick up a baby ferret I had ordered from a pet place (I already had one baby ferret at home and I know there should be at least two) Picked out my sweet little girl, who immediately conked out in my hands while I waited to do the paperwork, pay for her, etc. Three feral little bishes tearing around this pet place, screaming, mauling all the animals they could lay their hands on, sticking their hands in the fish tanks etc. Oldest ran up to me and demanded to pat my tiny, sleeping carpet shark. I flatly refused. She screamed at me, went running howling to mummy about the ''fat, mean lady'' (and I quote) I completely ignored it all, and got a lovely conspiratorial smile from the staff member behind the counter. One thing I CANNOT STAND is animals, especially small, very young or elderly, animals being harrassed.
the kid AND his parents need a better education. Hurt my cat and prepare yourself for a slap in your face. A cat is not a toy, even if you have an entitled kid. Period.
The minute Damian made a move to hurt my cat, I would have swiped him with MY paw... Right upside the head. Then daddy and mommy... For being shite parents. The littlest, wisest member of the family I'd have treated to an ice-cream.
People need to be told how to deal with cats. They're not dogs. You need their permission to approach - let them smell you first, then only rub their head gently back away from their eyes. That's the limit until they know you A LOT better.
Yes and NTA - when I got my 10 week old Golden, a friend had me bring him over to her BBQ. There was a mother and her small child. The child insisted on wanting to tug in and grab the puppy - he’s going to bite, scratch - both kept following us/me every where we went - Then the screaming, that didn’t take long
wtf are those inhuman parents of that entitled little monster gonna do if he does that to a DOG !, cos a swipe with a paw from a cat is nothing compared to what a dog will do to! Even the most loving safe well trained dog will not put up with THAT !! what vile parents , how the little one has learnt respect is beyond me but let’s hope he stays that way , cos the older ones gonna be in Juvi soon !! op op,z give old boy a huggle from me x
I have 2 children. One nearly an adult, with learning challenges. My kids (and most of yours) would never do this. Its not funny to most kids. They are naturally good humans and do know better...your lazing parenting actually TAUGHT them to be jerks. I feel so bad for these kinda kids. I see them out, causing chaos, bumping into elderly people, knocking this over, running where they shouldn't. Doing "bad" things. Making everyone around them frustrated and anxious BUT they are NOT bad kids, they are not not listening, as far as they know they are doing nothing wrong, bc their caregivers arent telling them not too. Then someone says "oh hunny be careful!" And they want u to mind your buisness bc if they dont care about their child...why should you? These will be adults everyone hates to see coming, they wont understand why and will just know they are rejected by society. Do your job
Some people are just idiots. Our cats are mostly indoor but they do go in the garden a lot, but as such they’re not used to being out in the street. One day one of them escaped as I was taking out the trash. I grabbed him fairly quickly and was carrying him back in when this lady with a medium-sized dog saw us and went ‘oh, look, doggie, it’s a cat! Let’s say hi to the cat!’. She proceeded to pick up her dog and shove it in my cat’s face, who obviously went mental and scratched half the skin off my arm. Good job, lady. That being said, that was clearly unintentional ignorance. I don’t know what the hell the parents in OP’s story were thinking. If my kid did something like that I’d know I’d failed somewhere as a parent.
I sincerely hope that the part about the kid putting his fingers in the cats butt was hyperbole.
Control your child!! Luckily all the cat did was paw at him. Aggressive children that are mean to animals won’t stop there. I would be concerned how he acts towards others when he grows up. This is a warning sign to these parents. And as far as telling the owner to control the cat or you’ll have it put down! Control your child before someone kicks his a*s or puts him down!!!!
Vaguely related - we got 3 kittens and a rotti puppy at the same time. Rotti decided to play with my boy, all good. Rotti decided to drag kitty by tail - kitty swiped his nose and he never tried that again. I still laugh but also lump up at the memory (both long rainbow)
Years ago I hosted a BBQ for my birthday. Among the guests were my niece Pops (5 ) & my bff's kid (f5) Emi. It was a warm day & my 3 cats were inside chilling. The girls asked to go see them, I said OK but only if they are downstairs and only Lola & Nala as they are friendly. A few minutes later my niece comes out saying she got to pet the chubby one but now they went upstairs and Emi followed and kept trying to pull their tails. I was just about to head inside to save my cats when my friends kid comes out crying & screaming with a very visible bloody hand. She'd followed the cats upstairs & was pulling them about ( including the one I said not to touch ). Long story short she got bitten by 1 and scratched by the other 🤣.
I wish all the abu.si.ve kids and their awful parents would get put down. Too many innocent animals are loosing their life because adults don’t take responsibility in properly raising their offspring and society isn’t taking responsibility: it should end sociopaths and psychopaths before they are adults. Poor kind toddler growing up amongst monsters instead of a decent set of parents and good sibling.






































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