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The human brain is a fascinating, complex mechanism that continues to puzzle us to this day. So in an attempt to shed some light on it, at least, from a psychological perspective, certified coaching practitioner Elisabeth Donatella, aka Coach Lisy, has started an educational video series on TikTok.

It's called "Psychological Facts You Didn't Know About Yourself."

Sharing everything she has learned through meticulously researching the subject, Coach Lisy answers such interesting questions, like "Why do we forget things the moment we walk into a room to get them?" or "Why do we prefer to park our car next to another one in an almost empty lot?"

Continue scrolling and check them out!

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#1

Woman Goes Viral For Sharing Interesting 'Psychological Facts You Didn't Know' It takes 5 positive things to outweigh 1 negative thing. Your brain has "negativity bias." This is why you quickly forget that someone praised you but keep dwelling that someone else made fun of you for something.

coachlisy , Nathan Dumlao Report

denzoren
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4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why does it have to happen when I'm trying to fall asleep though? I remember everything cringe.

Annabell
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4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That’s why I‘m on Boredpanda until I fall asleep.

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ThoughtsAreNotFacts
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4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Always consider the source of praise and blame! People who don't know you from a bucket of paint don't deserve that much head space

F-Dup
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4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It sounds simple in practice but if you can do this you have a valuable skill I think

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Daria B
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4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And when the one who used to praise you is the one who hurt you, that brings it back to the cycle of pain....

Phil DeBlanc
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4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Huh. I'd heard that it takes ten "attaboys" to make up for one "aw s**t." I guess it's five.

Lois Brown
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4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

OMG! Someone who has as many freckles as I do!

Lolliegag
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4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My therapist told me it takes ten positive to out weigh one negative.

Brian Bennett
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4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I figure turn about is fair play somebody Hits you with a negative comment do unto others as they do unto you Sock-it-to-'em. Then nothing to worry about.

Mazer
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4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think we’re also attracted to drama and we have a morbid curiosity which is why we slow down to look at wrecks on the road

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    #2

    Woman Goes Viral For Sharing Interesting 'Psychological Facts You Didn't Know' Your brain wants you to be lazy. Conserving energy is 1 of your brains top priorities. Its been 1 of the essential things for humans for survival.

    coachlisy Report

    44f5 Dixit
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Finally.... it's not my fault anymore

    Eppe
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It was never your fault. It is your responsibility though.

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    New Prometheus
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And it wants others not to be lazy for the same reason. Making others work for you is a survival tactic for some individuals. Don't be too proud of your hard work for someone else's benefit...

    Giovanna
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So writing "1" instead of "one" falls into the category of energy saving? 😁

    AzKhaleesi
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm crushing it... I'm gonna survive forever lol

    Martha Meyer
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Your brain uses the most energy when thinking, so lying on the couch doing "nothing", could still use up a lot of energy.

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    #3

    Woman Goes Viral For Sharing Interesting 'Psychological Facts You Didn't Know' You forget what you went into a room for as soon as you get there. Because of something called the "doorway effect." The act of walking through the doorway makes you forget because you're changing your environment.

    coachlisy , Filip Kominik Report

    Vicky Zar
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I forget if I flushed the toilet, when I am still washing my hands somehow

    Night Owl
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Because flushing the toilet is something you usually do automatically and not consciously because you do it often so your brain doesn't use up energy and space storing the information, same with turning off the oven, lacing up your shoes, closing the door behind you, locking up the door, etc.

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    Isabela Ivan
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My theory- i m overtired...or took to many pills

    denzoren
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This also seems to increase in frequency with age.

    Never Stop Twinkling™
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The nightmare of heading to and returning from a shop only to forget particular things you really needed. 😆 Oof. This is why I finally took shopping lists seriously. (even when I forget the lists themselves every now and then!)

    Terry Tobias
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'll forget what I'm going into another room for before I even get off the couch. What does that say about me?

    Teopa Sano-Reve
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    because your lazy brain checks the box when you go b through the doorway, like okay, that's done.

    Seabeast
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think it's because we're characters in somebody's work of fiction. When we walk back out to remember, that's when the author is backspacing and re-writing the sentence.

    Nikki Sevven
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I disagree, at least anecdotally. Everyone's memory works differently. I can forget what I got up for the instant I stand up from the chair; it doesn't take a doorway. Other times, I can remember a memorized list, even if I'm not completing the tasks in the list's order, and even if I've gone through several doorways.

    Neill Powell
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is not entirely true. People with extremely high innate SA (situational awareness) of have an environment that is demonstrably larger than just a room. Example: Taxi Drivers

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    #4

    Woman Goes Viral For Sharing Interesting 'Psychological Facts You Didn't Know' You're programmed to love the music that you listened to the most in high school. The music that you like most hits you with dopamine and other "feel good chemicals." Age 12 to 22 everything feels more important, so we tent to emphasize those years the most and hang on to those musical memories.

    coachlisy , Jace & Afsoon Report

    denzoren
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This makes so much sense. I'm 33 and I always have such an overwhelming sense of nostalgia and "better times" feels when I listen to my 90s/00s playlists.

    Foxxy (The Original)
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I disagree, yes I enjoy a lot of the music from my school days but my favourite music era is the 80's. I certainly wasn't at school then.

    Seán Baron
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No decade has ever been able to compete with the 80s in terms of music IMHO. IT WAS JUST BRILLIANT.

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    Some Cool Guy
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I haven't liked the mainstream pop/rock I listened to as a teenager for a long time

    Jonathan
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Definitely not true for me.

    Mazer
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah I’m not buying this one. My music likes and dislikes have changed so much since I was in high school and many of the songs that I love I was listening to wait before I got into year 12 of my life. Besides I hate to be super picky but I really don’t like it when people say I’m programmed for something.

    Jezergirl
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Actually I love the music I listened in my childhood.

    Jan Olsen
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, you are not programmed to...

    mamafrog
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I grew up listening to a beautiful organ and talented player in my church, Lutheran, for years. I still have a love for classical music, Bach, Beethoven, Mozart. My tastes run to everything though now.

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    #5

    Woman Goes Viral For Sharing Interesting 'Psychological Facts You Didn't Know' You mimic people that you're interacting with, sometimes without realizing it. Mimicking someone can make them like you more. This is called: the chameleon effect. This can be in a form of copying someones facial expressions and also their speech patterns and accents.

    coachlisy , Mimi Thian Report

    Aski Markup
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Omgosh! I do this too much, my accent changes. And sometimes people think I'm mocking them, but I'm not.

    James Arvidson
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I moved around a lot as a child and learned to mimic accents. Have to be careful sometimes.

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    ElenaK
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But that means that others are mimicking myself, while I am mimicking them, so I become them and they become me?

    Night Owl
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    LOL Not really. Depends who has the stronger personality and leads the interaction OR each of you become a little more similar to each other in the way you interact with one another and become little more like the other person

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    Daria B
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This one makes sense. It's probably also the reason why some people start looking kinda like their crushes or the person they're romantically involved with.

    Mazer
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Spot on - Interrogators in law-enforcement do this. Super affective

    Tarryn Louise
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I find this creepy. When I catch myself doing it I immediately stop.

    Sky Render
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or if you're an Aspie, you do this because human behavior makes no sense to you and you need to do something to keep people from noticing that you're seriously different from them.

    Leodavinci
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Again, nope. It does happen... sorta. The idea is the basis, so-to-speak, of a self-improvement concept referred to as NLP (neuro-linguistic programming)... the stuff Tony Robbins does.

    Morgan Carpenter
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is one of the tips we were taught when I had a very sales focused job.

    Emo Sloth
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I mimic the style of the books I read. Like if I just read Captain Underpants by Dav Pilkey (don't laugh) I tend to be more casual and childish with my language, but if I read, say, Hatchet by Gary Paulsen, I'd be more direct and formal.

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    #6

    Woman Goes Viral For Sharing Interesting 'Psychological Facts You Didn't Know' Your turn the volume off or lower it when you drive in unfamiliar places. In moments when you are focusing your attention on listening you are less aware of the visual information that your brain is getting.

    coachlisy , BezeVision Report

    Ashamba
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I absolutely do this, consciously- I am aware that distractions can be a danger and I WANT TO DRIVE SAFELY. Please don't be reckless with your life and that of others.

    DarkAngelNic
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Turn the radio down, I can't see!"

    Mark Skopczynski
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Majority of the music I listen to is relaxing like jazz or new age. The music keeps me calm and more focused with my surroundings.

    Gary Davidson
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do this fully knowing that louder music... shakes my nerves and rattles my brain. Too much love drives a man insane. You broke my will, but what a thrill. Goodness gracious, great balls of fire!

    Teopa Sano-Reve
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    this is why "hands free" fones while driving are a false security....

    Mark Johansen
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well yes, of course. I often hear people make fun of this, like "Oh, you turn off the radio so you can see better? Ha ha ha!" Umm, no, I turn off the radio so I won't be distracted by the sound when I'm trying to look for something. That's perfectly rational behavior.

    Deborah Hale
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do this also, but only sometimes. People can laugh and say it has nothing to do with listening to the radio while driving, but I think it has to do with the voices on the radio. If I'm listening to something that is 100% instrumental, I don't need to turn down the radio. So I'm good with piano sonatas, but when the announcer is on I have to turn it down.

    Tarryn Louise
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I mean this is a VERY well known fact...

    Mikołaj Witkowski
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Your turn"?? English is not that hard.

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    #7

    Woman Goes Viral For Sharing Interesting 'Psychological Facts You Didn't Know' You don't take the last piece of pizza or donut. Because you don't feel like you have the right. Specialists called this phenomenon the diffusion of entitlement.

    coachlisy , Fernando Andrade Report

    troufaki13
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is no such dilemma when you eat the whole pizza by yourself!! :D

    Alex the awful German
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    is it a "malfunction" of my brain that I never ever felt that?

    Julie C Rose
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don’t know about you, but I was quite isolated from people for a long time, including during formative years, and I often wonder if that’s why I haven’t picked up various types of social guilt. I notice that when my volunteer group has lunch, a lot of other people are reticent about being the first to take something while it’s NBD for me. Maybe it’s because I’m used to being socially self-sufficient, or maybe it’s just because I didn’t spend enough time around people to pick up those habits by osmosis.

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    MiriPanda
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have been taught to never just grab the the last of anything and always ask first. In my case the 'phenomenon' is called childhood education...

    Leodavinci
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nonsense. People consciously don't take the last slice. It's not a psychological "trick" of your mind. It's ex post facto rationalization.

    Mazer
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Clearly I live with a pack of wolves

    Daria B
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nope. I take it. And I say it out loud, it's because it feels lonely, poor piece of pizza etc.

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    Anne Mitchell
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well my mother taught me that it was ill mannered because someone else may want it Even if it being offered one should refuse the first offer and only accept on the second offer if no one else has taken it.

    Zophra
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    IDK... last donut...ANY donut? Suddenly I feel confidently entitled...

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    #8

    Woman Goes Viral For Sharing Interesting 'Psychological Facts You Didn't Know' You hold the door open for other people. Scientists have found this goes beyond us just trying to be polite. Meaning: we are all trying to spend less energy doing things. This show that we do try to treat others the way we want to be treated.

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    Foxxy (The Original)
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How is me holding the door open for others trying to use less energy doing things.

    C Lawson
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We want to use less energy when we can. We hold the door open for others because we know it will help them use less energy, thus we are treating them how we want to be treated, which is in a way that requires less energy use. But we may end up using more energy in doing so. Its odd.

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    WillemPenn
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wut? I live in LA and ppl rarely hold the door for each other (and if they see you coming for the elevator they push the "close" button a bunch of times). And this was before COVID. I grew up in the South and was raised to hold the door so I definitely notice when it is not -- and it is not in LA.

    Mazer
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So wait you kind of contradicted yourself here. If I’m trying to spend less energy doing things than why would I go hold the door open for somebody??? And how does our body spending less energy correlate with politeness? Is it just me because I am lost here.

    Zoe Duddle
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think it means that you are helping others use less energy (by not having to open the door from closed), hence the treating others the way we want to be treated.

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    Daria B
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hold it open to avoid injuries, mostly.

    Jon S.
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is a lot of nuance in who we hold doors for, and it is very culturally loaded. For instance, trans men have reported being surprised at how often people let the door go on them post-transition. They took the politeness for granted when they were women. There was some experiments done with people reacting to football shirts, where people only held the door for people in the same shirts, not that day's rivals.

    CalicoKitty
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Personally I hold the door open for everyone because I'm scared of it hitting someone in the face :/

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    JennyLaRue
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Treating others how you want to be treated is being polite. Think that scientist that found that might need to give their head a wobble.

    Mikołaj Witkowski
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I honestly hate when people do it. I know how to open the doors myself, it's not an issue, and it's preferable to rushing because the neighbour is waiting with the door.

    Zed Muk
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So how do you explain all the rude knobs that don't hold the door open for people?

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    #9

    Woman Goes Viral For Sharing Interesting 'Psychological Facts You Didn't Know' You are more creative when solving someone else problems than your own. To understand this, we have to look into the construal level theory of psychological distance. The concept of self is closer to yourself than it is to other people. Other people are psychologically distant from you. That is why thinking for other people tends to improve problem-solving and even deter personal/emotional barriers to creativity.

    coachlisy , Lagos Techie Report

    Mazer
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is written in kind of a confusing way, I get the gist of it though because I love brainstorming most any problem…Except math and politics.

    Brian Bennett
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do too, and with the same exceptions. A lot of times people don't take time to figure the problem out. A lot of time it's just common sense and your different way of approaching the problem.

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    Neil Bidle
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Translation: People think differently, so you're more likely to come up with a solution that someone else hasn't thought of than a new idea for yourself

    Beatrice Multhaupt
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tragically true. I once did a lot of creative thinking for a widow with two teen-age children, with lots of problems between the tree of them.. One day, I had a huge problem of my own and decided to call her for input. She just said, ''Well. you're so good at solving other people's problems; why don,t you just solve your own for a change?''. I was devastated. She later apologized in writing but, yes, I tend to keep my problems to myself.

    Jon S.
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This makes no sense to me. Anyone want to have a go re-phrasing it?

    Tawfiq H
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    maybe its easier because you don't have the full concept of the problem, you only have the basic surface level of what the person's problem is. idk fresh perspective

    Gussi Gusii
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Basically what it means is - when its your own problems you're less inclined to look at it from a different perspective due to biases and the like. But helping others out frees you from that constraint since you're now helping them from a more objective view. In short someone helping you out with a problem isn't dealing with the same biases/issues you that are subconsciously mentally blocking you from finding a solution.

    Leodavinci
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can't see the forest for the tress... in other words.

    Maggie Dinzler Shaw
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, because you can see the alternatives more objectively.

    Christoph
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I need to find out more about this and find some solutions.

    Mer
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love it when a coworker interrupts me for help! Now I know why solving their problems is easier to do!

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    #10

    Woman Goes Viral For Sharing Interesting 'Psychological Facts You Didn't Know' You feel happier when you are busy. Your brain dislikes being idle. It prefers to stay busy. For each task you complete you are rewarded with dopamine.

    coachlisy Report

    troufaki13
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Isn't this contradicting the other statement that was made about being lazy??

    Wistiti
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I thought I was lazy because of brain... I'm so confuse now.

    N G
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Think lots, but don't move. Be physically lazy so the brain can use ALL the available calories, but it needs something to do to burn those calories. Your brain's ideal scenario is you lying on a couch doing quadratic equations.

    The yellow dragon
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Learning things from bored panda is dangerous and very likely not fact checked.

    Martha Meyer
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My brain must not like my job AT ALL then. It's been witholding the dopamine for work tasks.

    Anna
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So our brain wants us to be lazy (fact #3 currently) AND busy? 🤯

    MrOwlAteMyMetalWorm.
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Brain likes to be busy ,my thoughts are not negative when I am busy ,I don't feel sadness whem am doing calculus but in some cases my anxiety levels reach the roof where my brain no my wntire being oppose my very existence.Lazy?Yes,all beings love to conserve their energy but this f*****g mind ,these torturous thoughts that tell me to kill myself and that doesn't happen during math.So either anxiety or ibedkfywkdhdufj for me. Brain,why do you do this? I am so tired. And done.

    Mazer
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I believe in lifelong learning even if you have to just go out and buy a book and teach yourself. After I destroyed my leg a couple years ago I started learning about geology and could not get enough. I guess Im a learning addict. Let me guess there’s no 12 step programs for learning addiction

    Ally R
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anyone else get the feeling this needs more explanation? Maybe for some people this is true but for others, the previous statement is? I think there's a 'hunter/gatherer' thing going on.

    mamafrog
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Until you have 15 projects going on at once and your brain implodes, lol.

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    #11

    Woman Goes Viral For Sharing Interesting 'Psychological Facts You Didn't Know' Food made by someone else tastes better than your own cooking. You are standing around it so long it's already feels less appealing by the time it's ready to eat.

    coachlisy , Jimmy Dean Report

    troufaki13
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Where is she getting this information?? That's totally not true!

    Rose the Cook
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I disagree, I seldom enjoy other people's cooking even in good restaurants. Besides, when you cook it yourself you know exactly what went into it and that it was hygienically handled.

    Random Panda
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same here. We rarely go out to restaurants now, because we hate paying a lot of money for mediocre food that I could have cooked better myself.

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    WillemPenn
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OMG this is so true! Not universally but there are certain things my husband "makes" that just taste better even though we make them the exact same way. Coffee for example is always better when he makes it. He says it is because I want him to wait on me, but it isn't true. Well only a little bit. :-D

    Foxxy (The Original)
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am a fussy eater for various reasons so I generally prefer my cooking. But I often have to cook 2-3 separate meals every night so that does frustrate me and makes me enjoy my food less. Plus I hate the cleaning up afterwards. So whilst I prefer my food I wish the whole cooking and cleaning side of things wasn't so damn annoying.

    Queen fhk
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To be honest this is total bullshi*t love my cooking more than someone else because I tend to cook according to my tastebuds

    Debbie Burton
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well that's a load of crap. I prefer my own cooking (unless at a nice restaraunt.

    Ƶed Dew
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This one is the one I can't agree with. Each moment I spend looking at my cooking I'm thinking "I can't wait to eat this!" It's so satisfying to eat a meal I've cooked and I know exactly what went into it and tailored it exactly to my tastes (lots of spice and flavor!).

    Zophra
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Says who? People who can't cook?

    Giles McArdell
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not reading anymore of this "this applies to me so it must be true for everyone" B.S. See ya !

    Hugo A-niro
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What we need is factual information .you know ingo that is supported by research

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    #12

    Woman Goes Viral For Sharing Interesting 'Psychological Facts You Didn't Know' Being forgetful is a sign of high intelligence. Scientists claim that forgetting is just as important as remembering. "Bad memory" = mechanism for making more space for more relevant information in your brain. And it keeps your brain from wasting space and energy.

    coachlisy Report

    New Prometheus
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nice spin about the intelligence, though it can just be a sign of being overworked, under a stress or in a new situation (take pregnant mothers or grieving people).

    Gary Davidson
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ...and all 3 of the situations you mentioned would drive your brain to "make more space for more relevant information in your brain. And (keep) your brain from wasting space and energy.".

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    Tarryn Louise
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well I must be f**king Einstein then.

    Pim de Vente
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So, what does this tell me if I already forgot most of the brain "facts"

    Maggie Dinzler Shaw
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes it is about how it is stored and the problem may be retrieval and not a loss of information.

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    Zophra
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think some/many of these need a source citation. Are these some fringe studies done on 10 people?

    Jon S.
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This sounds like bullshit. Some of the smartest people I know have the best memories.

    Mark Johansen
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like something said by a person with a bad memory.

    Wouldiwas Shookspeared
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I legitimately have the worst memory ever I forget what I was talking about all the time like midsentance I will like hear something and bam I have no clue what I was talking about :(

    Obi Wang Kenobi
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yessss, I love making excuses for myself

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    #13

    Woman Goes Viral For Sharing Interesting 'Psychological Facts You Didn't Know' You thought you felt your phone vibrate in your pocket but there were no notifications. This condition is called Phantom Vibration Syndrome and 68% of us suffer from it.

    coachlisy , Laura Chouette Report

    Peko
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "suffer from it" makes it sound a lost worse than it is.

    MrOwlAteMyMetalWorm.
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    what kind of statistics is this?How?

    Martha Meyer
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm glad I belong to the other 32%.

    Bella, Your Kitty-Loving Queen
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What pocket are you referring to? Cause I’ve like never been able to fit my phone in a pocket.

    Gary Davidson
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not so much the phone anymore. Now it's the Fitbit vibrating for a text or call.

    safia shakil
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    the girl is beautiful though ><

    Fatér Dezső
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For me it turned out it was my twitter account that i rarely used, all visual notifications were off, but the phone randomly kept buzzing. Found out, when i got a Xiaomi Mi Band, that was buzzing the same time, but said “Twitter:” on its screen.

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    #14

    Woman Goes Viral For Sharing Interesting 'Psychological Facts You Didn't Know' What does your texting style say about your personality? If you write long texts, you are sensitive and thoughtful. You see words as a meaningful and powerful tool and put feelings and thoughts into it.

    coachlisy , Kelli McClintock Report

    Thecoolbonnie
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think that goes both ways.... Sometimes long texts are meaningless, repetitive, and time wasting

    Gary Davidson
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ...only to someone who doesn't see that data equally as "meaningful, powerful, or thoughtful" as the original author.

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    JennyLaRue
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Long texts can also be rambling incoherent nonsense devoid of any sensitivity or thought.

    denzoren
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This depends on who I'm texting, why I'm texting and where I'm texting.

    Monday
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    False, I avoid writing long texts because I hate reading long texts.

    New Prometheus
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Depends on the culture :D In my culture, very long texts are considered awkward.

    Eglė Bukauskaitė
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    what, then does it say about me? I think in text messages. By that - every message is a new sentence. Each and every time i think that i wrote everything i wanted, but here we are - another 3 additional messages with additional information. Yes i do do the talk first, think later

    Owiella Freddie
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nope. This empath just doesn’t like communicating via text.

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    #15

    Woman Goes Viral For Sharing Interesting 'Psychological Facts You Didn't Know' You position your feet towards the person you are most interested in. It's a survival instinct. Your body is making sure your feet could react immediately if you feel any type of threat.

    coachlisy , Brandon Hoogenboom Report

    New Prometheus
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And you can indicate disinterest to your babbling colleague by turning your feet away from them though keeping your face looking at them. Makes them end the conversation faster.

    Peko
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So I supposedly treat people I'm interested in as threats?

    Chaotic-Pansexual (she/they)
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, according to this, the people you’re interested in are the people you would run to if any threat were to arise, meaning they’re the safe, non-threatening person. However, the reasoning given by the author isn’t totally accurate. We typically direct our feet toward what is grabbing our interest most, we feel pulled towards it. If someone’s feet are facing you while you talk, they’re interest in the conversation, but if they’re pointed away, they’re most likely uninterested and want to leave. It’s about what the person wants to focus on, not necessarily about danger or survival

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    Kerstin Fransen
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i'm pretty sure this has already been disproven

    Brendan
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So when I am talking to someone who is boring me, I twist my feet 180 to the interesting person behind me?

    Brian Bennett
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well damn I didn't know my feets was so smart!

    S
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Okay so in New Girl, when Cece told Jess this, I thought she was insane. I'm sorry Cece, you were correct.

    Mazer
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is 100% spot on. And it’s fascinating to watch when people have to engage with other people that they don’t like but they don’t have a choice. Like for business. People are fascinating and being able to “read people” it’s even more fascinating

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    #16

    Woman Goes Viral For Sharing Interesting 'Psychological Facts You Didn't Know' You are always late. People who are chronically late have tendencies of underestimating how long a task is going to take to complete. This is called "planning fallacy."

    coachlisy , Graeme Worsfold Report

    Ally R
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's also a symptom of add/adhd.

    Wouldiwas Shookspeared
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Usually yes but some people like me are purposefully incredibly early all the time which sucks too because I don’t want to be rude but I end up there like 2 hours early and if I’m after the other person I get really stressed

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    Mazer
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can also be a sign of passive aggressive behavior. I am never late I hate being late and I keep reading materials in my car just because I’m always early and to be early is as disrespectful as being late is

    Eric Soliday
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What a bind, I used to be early every time and now I'm late all the time. Whenever it's the weekend and I say I'm on my way my friends will say like "from your bed?" Do you have a cure? lol

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    Scagsy
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I call BS. A wizard arrives precisely when he is meant to.

    Suzan van Gemeren
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do they also arrive too early? It has to work both ways, doesn't it?

    Terry Tobias
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm always late because I'm lazy.

    Legen ( wait for it ) dary
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm always late. Even worse if I wake earlier then my wake up ring. I tend to think that I have all the time of the world.

    Brendan
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If we are always late, that would mean we are always on time.

    mamafrog
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or I just don't want to leave what I'm doing to go do something else, maybe less interesting.

    Brian Bennett
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think it is a habit - I was always taught you should always be 15 min. early for an appointment. Yesterday I was on time for my appointment, this chic same sauntering in she had to register and she was taken in before me which means she was late no I am late. Being the bitch that I am I told her next time to be on time no you have made me late. Of course if she was ignorant enough to be late you know you aren't going to get a respose!

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    #17

    Woman Goes Viral For Sharing Interesting 'Psychological Facts You Didn't Know' You can't see smartphones in your dreams. Research suggest that since smartphones and other modern day devices are newer our brain haven't gotten used to them yet.

    coachlisy , Rodion Kutsaev Report

    troufaki13
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not true... I have seen it multiple times in my dreams!

    Nubis Knight
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Buuuut .. I can't use it in my dreams. Like I always type in wrong numbers etc. Drives me nuts. Like my sleeping mind knows it can't realistically mimic a call to another person. @_@

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    Jenie R
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    U can see them, anything that you've seen previously, or even imagined vividly, be it fiction, can be seen in your dreams

    JennyLaRue
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is nonsense as there are people around who have grown up knowing smartphones, and their brain isn't any older than they are.

    Terry Tobias
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    4 years ago

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    With all due respect... whaaat?

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    New Prometheus
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They often play a role in one of my most common nightmares. For reasons x y or z I am escaping and hiding and I must call the emergency number. I get the phone from my pocket but it's not mine and I don't know to open it, or I all of a sudden forget what the emergency number is, or the battery dies, or I get to call but the person answering does not want to help. My brains have serious suspicions against this modern day device and I give them credit for it.

    Lily Knopf
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have kind of similar nightmares. It's an emergency or I have to call someone very urgently and my phone doesn`t work or I am not able to dial numbers.

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    Brendan
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Where are they getting this BS from?

    Zed Muk
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Out of all the bored panda stuff I've read, this has to be the number one for "random stuff I pulled out of my a**e and stated as a fact".

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    Kat Zwingle
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I see smartphones in my dreams frequently, but they never ever work. I get pictures but no numbers or contact information. And I NEEEEED to make a phone call!

    Monday
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Total bull. I can not only see but also use smartphones in my dreams. I generally have trouble reading in dreams since the text is usually blurry and keeps changing on me, but it's not impossible.

    Bella, Your Kitty-Loving Queen
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Considering how much people are on their phones these days, this sound like bullshit.

    Shelby P
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't dial a phone number in my dreams to save my life. It's very frustrating

    Got Myself 4 Dwarves
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm the same, it's horrible having those dreams, so stressful!

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    #18

    Woman Goes Viral For Sharing Interesting 'Psychological Facts You Didn't Know' You prefer to park your car next to another car in an almost empty lot. It's because we often follow the crowd. This behavior helps us to explain that we as humans are social beings.

    coachlisy , Timothy Tan Report

    Some Cool Guy
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or maybe they just want to park closer to the shop

    New Prometheus
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or because our brain prefers lazy and parking as close to the entrance as possible. Someone should test this by parking some group of cars in a not so optimal spot at the lot.

    Rod Egret
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is not true for car people: we tend to park as far as possible to others to avoid scratches....

    Mazer
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Actually this can be applied to a number of areas in our lives that we are not completely conscious of. When driving down the road we tend to drive in packs with other cars, if there are other cars on the road. So I think that this concept is true however like Delboy states there are going to be some situations where you choose to be farther from the crowd.

    Eric Soliday
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is where I'm different, traffic is not very alluring to me

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    Leodavinci
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is nonsense. Now if this were about seating in a nearly empty restaurant, maybe. That would address one my personal peeves... going into an empty restaurant where you seat yourself, and the next couple that enters comes over and sits at the booth/table next to yours. Go away. When I enter a nearly empty place, I choose seating the furthest away from anyone already there. Even in places where you are seated by a hostess, they tend to seat you next to other people. No... just no.

    Eric Soliday
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sound like an attention-getter to me. The waiter is more likely to be quicker with you then too

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    Bella, Your Kitty-Loving Queen
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    NOPE. Assholes are out there. And some of those assholes have cars. If you park next to the ass, they just might slam your car with their door. And then asshole acts like an ass and blames it on you.

    Gary Davidson
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ...unless you're trying to avoid door dings in a new or classic car!

    Ashamba
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Priorities: is there a space? Does it have shade? Close enough to destination? Can I use this opportunity to punish someone who is parked badly by parking really close to them, while still parking perfectly myself? Yes, sometimes I'm evil, but only to those who I think deserve it.

    Unwelcomed Guest
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nope I always park next to the most solid inanimate object

    Owiella Freddie
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This one I believe. I’ve noticed this one in action, especially when I’m the first one to arrive and I park in the back of the lot. … OR, it could be that the spot I picked was part of a group the only 3 shady spots in the lot ;)

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