ADVERTISEMENT

Meet Jae'lynn Chaney, a 25-year-old travel blogger, body positivity advocate, and content creator out on a mission to help society unlearn harmful biases. She believes that all bodies can be travel bodies and that everyone deserves to travel comfortably. By covering anything from her wanderlust moments to the hurdles she encounters on the way, Jae has captured the internet’s heart.

With over 108,000 followers on TikTok, Jae recently went viral with her 'Plus-Size Travel Struggles' series where she lists the things "plus-size travelers hate" and highlights the issues in an industry still hostile to all bodies, sizes, and shapes.

In the videos, which amassed more than 16 million views on the platform, the TikToker evaluates her experiences and sheds light on how airlines, hotels, and other businesses consistently fail to accommodate larger-bodied globetrotters. Below, we gathered some illuminating examples Jae shared with her audience, from towels that don’t fit to tray tables that wouldn’t come down. So continue scrolling, upvote as you go, and be sure to share your own stories in the comments below, we’d love to hear all about them.

Body positivity advocate Jae'lynn Chaney recently went viral for sharing "things plus-size travelers hate" that highlight how the travel industry is still hostile to bodies of all sizes

Image credits: jaebaeofficial

You can watch Jae’s "Things Plus-Size Travelers Hate" series, which amassed over 16 million views, right below

@jaebaeofficial These are some of the struggles that plus size travelers face. Travel is possible for everyBODY, but it definitely comes with challenges and should be more accessible!! What travel challenges have you faced? #plussizetravel #plussizetravelblogger #flyingwhilefat #travellingwhilefat #travelingwhilefat #traveltok #plussize #plussizeedition #fyp ♬ Monkeys Spinning Monkeys - Kevin MacLeod & Kevin The Monkey

Here are some of the obstacles Jae faces when traveling

#1

22 "Plus-Size Travel Struggles" Skinny People Don't Have To Worry About When Traveling Turnstiles and worrying you'll get stuck.

jaebaeofficial , Karen Foto Report

Noah
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm sure even skinny people are scared of these. At least I am...

Hatred Pony
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Herding small children thru them is a nightmare.

Load More Replies...
James Edwards
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Try being a skinny old person, I hope I don't break my hip!

Dacă nu pierdeam, câștigam
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They've started replacing them with automatic doors in the Bucharest metro(subway)

Brazen
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm curious, are they revolving, do they swing open or slide open? It sounds like a smart way to do things.

Load More Replies...
CursedWith Migraines
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

People have mass and weight. The airlines aren't "hostile". If your fat self takes up more space and weighs more then it costs MORE in fuel and you must by another ticket. OR...you could lose the weight.

Bubbles and sparks
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Aren't there special wheelchair availabilities then to pass these? I honestly don't know because I never use any public transportation... but I can imagine there should be, the same for people that use a service dog, they need a little more space for their dog to pass these.

Jrog
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There is usually a manned gate with direct access for people with disabilities, wheelchairs, strollers, large luggage etc.

Load More Replies...
Lady of the Mountains
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I dont think this was done maliciously....they were probably trying to get as many slots as possible in so lines could move faster. I dont think this is a deliberate oversight.

Suby
Community Member
2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hate those things, especially when I have luggage with me. I hated them when I was skinny, and I hate them now that I could stand to lose a few pounds.

O.M.Miki
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hmmm I don't know if I should read this page lol for me this is one you really can't complain about - there is only so much space to build them depending on the country and station

BirFromHH
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes, These can be a problem for oversized people. They have to use the options for disabled instead. But this does not fit the header, because there are skinny people who have to use these as well. If the header was "Inconvenience fat people face when travelling": Well, yes, they do. Like someothers.

View more comments
RELATED:
    #2

    22 "Plus-Size Travel Struggles" Skinny People Don't Have To Worry About When Traveling People staring all the time.

    jaebaeofficial , Keira Burton Report

    Courtney Christelle
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People need to remember that manners are free. I once met a cyclops and didn't make a thing about it.

    Lauren S
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am trying to find the words to talk to my kid about things like this, not specifically obesity, but anyone looking different from you. There was a blonde girl in his swim class with some type of foot deformity and one day a brunette girl noticed (I guess she just didn’t pay attention before) and started yelling “oh my God! What’s wrong with your feet? Everyone come look at her feet!” Etc. Blonde girl in tears. Brunette girls parents did NOTHING! I was horrified. I talked to my kid about how people are made in all shapes and sizes and colors and our differences make us unique and interesting. We always need to remember that underneath it all is a person with feelings. We need to judge someone by what they do, how they treat others, not by how they look. At the same time, I’m torn with eye contact. I don’t want to stare and I don’t want to avoid making eye contact with someone I’d normally smile at because of a difference.

    Hatred Pony
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a mother of a child with a craniofacial disorder, I very much appreciate it. Thankfully my daughter is too young to realize people stare, but I see it all the time. Kids are usually cool about it and will ask questions, adults gawk and sometimes make rude remarks.

    Load More Replies...
    Catpawsarethebest
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some of the other posts are quite pointless but this is one is actually important. People should stop staring no matter what! Doesnt apply to just obese people. STOP STARRING AT ANYBODY, PEOPLE!

    Sara Khan
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's normal to stare ar anything that stands out from our normal surroundings. You don't have to be an ahole about it, and keep staring, but it's kinda unavoidable for people to take a longer look or two.

    Katiekat
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And again, as someone who used to weigh 160 lbs more than I do now, I'd stare at them SUPER aggressively right back. You want to give me attitude? Here's 5x that attitude right back. It's all about power and control at that point.

    YaMaOnToast
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They're probably not staring at you because you're fat but because you're wearing Sandals on a hiking trail

    digitalin
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, let's all stare at someone's wardrobe choices when they are trying to exercise and have limited wardrobe options.

    Load More Replies...
    Izzy Curer
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not saying it doesn't happen, but I wonder how much of this is just the individual feeling self-conscious. Everybody feels like others are more focused on them than they actually are, not just larger individuals. Whether it's being stared at, or how one talks and behaves in society. It's human nature to think people are paying attention to you. Usually, they're not.

    Brazen
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Naw, it happens. Getting openly laughed at happens and yes you can tell when it's in your direction...they don't hide the fact they are doing it. Sometimes when people are being extra rude they don't try and hush their comments either.

    Load More Replies...
    I just work here
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't understand the staring thing..at all..ever. Of course you might notice someone and give a quick look just like you would any other person you saw on the planet, but what is staring about? You going to stare them into non-existence? I truly don't get it..

    Terran
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The post is about traveling, so keep in mind that the amount of staring that is considered rude may vary by country.

    Load More Replies...
    James Baker
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe they ain't staring maybe they can't see around you.

    View more comments

    Jae’s incredible personality and powerful statements may have racked up millions of views, but they also deeply resonate with people struggling in a society obsessed with seemingly perfect looks and unrealistic beauty standards. This just goes to show just how absurd and flawed the travel industry is by failing "to realize that the average woman is no longer a size 14," as Jae said in an interview with BuzzFeed. "They are now a size 18 and beyond. Yet as we’ve gotten bigger, things like airplane seats, clothing, and everything else has gotten smaller or stayed the exact same."

    ADVERTISEMENT

    To gain more insight into the struggles larger-bodied travelers face on their journeys, we reached out to animator, illustrator, and body positivity activist Stacy Bias aiming to amplify marginalized voices. "From running the Flying While Fat Facebook group for the last several years, I've witnessed thousands of concerns and I've learned that there are some experiences that are shared across the size spectrum," she told Bored Panda.

    #3

    22 "Plus-Size Travel Struggles" Skinny People Don't Have To Worry About When Traveling Not being able to find clothes your size anywhere.

    jaebaeofficial , William Matt Report

    Well-Dressed Wolf
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As I mentioned on the "towels" post - using double or triple the material to create clothing that would "fit" an obese person costs double or triple the materials-cost to the company making it. Either companies are going to have to charge more for larger clothing sizes, as they literally use way more material to make them, or the cost of everyone's clothing, including normal-sized ones, are going to have to go up in order to cover the costs of manufacturing clothing sized for obese people.

    Celtic Knotter
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sure, more fabric more cost; fat people expect to pay more for it, but not being able to get clothes that fit is a real issue. Just because someone is really big, doesn’t mean they don’t need clothing. And for all occasions: casual, formal, parties, vacation, beaches, working out…all of it. Fat people are still human and deserve to be treated just as well as everyone else, though it’s horrifying to think that this is being “considerate” and not simply a basic need. What other option is there? A nudist colony?

    Load More Replies...
    Serial pacifist
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is not only an issue for overweight people. All of us living in the imperfect realm are terrorized by the “standard size” principle.

    Well-Dressed Wolf
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep! I'm female, but I put on fat deposits in places where males usually do vs. where females usually do (I look like I have a "beer gut", but I have normal-sized thighs/legs/heiny). Thus most female clothing doesn't fit me well XD I'm overweight myself (though technically within "normal female range" for my height...??) so it's hard to find shirts that fit since I'm not built like a "normal" female.

    Load More Replies...
    M Kawai
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have the same problem being tall and thin. Smaller waist sizes rarely fit my leg length as well as smaller long sleeve shirt and coat sizes hardly fit my arm length.

    Matthews
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly. Most things have to be tailored, which adds an eye watering extra price tag.

    Load More Replies...
    Mama Penguin
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Online shopping is your friend. Also, Old Navy now carries plus sizes with the same styles as the regular sizes.

    similarly
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not even very big, but I have to buy clothes online because in Japan, the stores only have clothes that I haven't been able to wear since I had hair.

    Jenna
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel ya. I lived in Japan for three years. I'd go shopping and see so many cute things that I couldn't wear since I was 12 years old. A Japanese "Large" is like an American "Small." :(

    Load More Replies...
    mm65851
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This pertains to small people, too.

    Izzy Curer
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sorry, I have to weigh in. This isn't just fat people. I've always been right down the middle of average in both height and weight. 'Medium' is practically my middle name. But, guess what happens when you try to go to a store where the majority of people in your gender are the exact same size as you? Your size is the first to go. They're always out. They'll have every other size around it, but stores refuse to stock quantity that represents the actual demographic, they just order the same number of everything, and end up having to put a bunch of stuff on sale in the end. I think I maybe own three items of clothing that are actually in my size. Everything else is too long or too baggy, but I just have to deal with it unless I want to spend hours tailoring it to fit.

    butt soup
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    you're SO right!! this woman's size isn't stocked because it's something crazy like 6xl, which most shirts don't extend to. when i get to the store to buy a shirt, small & medium are gone, but large through to 3xl have plenty of options. stores DO carry very large clothes. it's the standard sizes that are hard to find.

    Load More Replies...
    Hey!
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unless you pay 3 times the regular price.

    Carrie Lewis
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This should be a very loud wake up call.

    View more comments
    #4

    22 "Plus-Size Travel Struggles" Skinny People Don't Have To Worry About When Traveling Chairs with armrests.

    jaebaeofficial , Christopher Woo Report

    Taibhse Sealgair
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Let's be explicitly clear: @jaebaeofficial you are not the victim here.

    Sandra Givens
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She isn't playing victim, just pointing out that a lack of universal design in public places can be a problem for those who are not model thin or have a disability.

    Load More Replies...
    Hassel Davidhoff
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So, I support LGBTQI folks, Black Lives Matter, Labor Unions, etc. I'm "liberal". However, unless the vast majority of the 7.9 billion people on the planet reach a similar size these demands will not be the norm. Expecting it to be so is delusional and honestly quite entitled. I get that in America there is an effort to normalize this, Ron Swanson said it best: “The whole point of this country is if you want to eat garbage, balloon up to 600 pounds and die of a heart attack at 43, you can! You are free to do so.” That is obviously hilarious, however, should you choose to actually do this you'll likely find an early grave. Most people don't want to die young so it won't catch on in any widespread sense. This woman is not oppressed. The seating on the plane, the chairs with their armrests, the turnstiles, not being able to find clothes that fit, worrying about breaking the toilet, all of this, it isn't oppression. She is abnormal. I'm going to catch heat for this, but it needs to be said.

    Rob Steenvoorde
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, I agree. I am quite tall and I also don't fit in most of the airplane seats. I have to pay extra too, in my case to get seating with more leg room. I can't helpt it I am this tall (my country has the tallest people in the world) still I don't feel oppressed. And neither is this women, we are both abnormal. A buddy of mine was born with a muscle decease and is in a harnas and wheelchair. He needs assistance with basically everything, getting in and out of bed, taking a shower, cooking, (un)dressing, he even needs someone to wipe his *ss. He will never be able to travel in an airplane, he also doesn't complain about it. I have mixed feelings about this topic...

    Load More Replies...
    Voit
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Many older people need the arms to help themselves in and out of the seat safely

    Jiminy
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People with knee problems are thankful for armrests too.

    Load More Replies...
    Lisa Bennett
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't understand people that come on here just to basically defend her right to NOT be able to travel or exist within the same comfort and style as anyone else because of her size. If you can't give her, her platform to speak ,move on. There's other topics of your interest. Kindness and compassion go a long way, where as ugly words show how unkind people really are behind the safety net of their computer.

    Taibhse Sealgair
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nobody's saying she can't travel in comfort. Just buy two seats? If not, then you're saying the person next to her doesn't get to travel in comfort.

    Load More Replies...
    AustrianGirl
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I have a bad day I totally need the armrests to get up! Plus most places have chairs without armrests too, maybe not in the exact spot you want to sit, but I have never been in a place where there weren't normal chairs available.

    Albert Finney
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    This comment has been deleted.

    Noah
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My arms would not fit that chair well. The arms of the chair are too low.

    Headless Roach
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tall people have yet another set of inconveniences. I confirm

    Load More Replies...
    Christina Natividad
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like chairs with arm rests. I don't get upset when they don't though.🤷🏻‍♀️

    irizjoi
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I came across her on yt before and I found it disturbing that she seemed proud while trying to normalize obesity. She even needs to use oxygen tube thing (I don't know what they call it) to help her breathe properly. I am overweight and also have asthma but I recognize that I need to exercise and eat healthy food. Meanwhile, it doesn't seem like she wants her health to improve at all. Well, at least she seems happy.

    Brandy P
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm morbidly obese. I can tell you, as a 45-year-old American woman, no amount of shame has EVER made me lose weight. Ever. It's only made me feel terrible on top of having an eating disorder. Yes, I believe all morbidly obese people have eating disorders. We certainly don't deserve to be shamed.

    View more comments
    ADVERTISEMENT
    ADVERTISEMENT

    Being the creator of the research-led Flying While Fat documentary animation, she helps travelers make their voices heard by allowing them to share their experiences. And she was more than happy to chat about the infuriating, annoying, and stressful challenges plus-size people face.

    According to Bias, anticipatory anxiety is a huge factor that affects folks' emotional well-being when flying — or even considering it. "What individuals anxiously anticipate does vary, but common themes are 'not fitting' and/or being re-seated or asked to deplane, needing to ask for a seatbelt extender and fearing potential humiliation at the hands of a potentially insensitive flight crew, or not having an extender available, rendering them unsafe."

    Bias continued that needing to use the airline toilet can also cause dread: "Being afraid of not fitting through the narrow doors or having insufficient space to adequately engage in hygiene practices once inside." Moreover, fellow passengers seems to also be a source of anxiety as travelers may fear bumping or disrupting them "when traversing the aisles, or being seated next to someone who is hostile."

    #5

    22 "Plus-Size Travel Struggles" Skinny People Don't Have To Worry About When Traveling Getting ridiculous comments about being a fat traveler.

    jaebaeofficial Report

    Lisa Owen
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not a ridiculous comment when said obese person is literally spilling over into half of my seat .

    YaMaOnToast
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you are morbidly obese then dont buy a ticket for a plane seat you know you wont fit in. Its selfish.

    Load More Replies...
    Francesca Annoni
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you want more luggage you pay for it..the airplane company make you pay for the weight they transport on the plane, if you weight as two people and use the space of two people you must pay double..the same if I want to transport 2 suitcase instead of one..in the end the airplane company are transporting weight...

    Alex Martin
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm a big guy in all dimensions. Long legs, very wide shoulders, and overweight. I travel first class because traveling in economy is a nightmare for me and the person next to me. I can only tuck my shoulders in so much. Even in first class my shoulders are much wider than the seat. I'm sorry but if you a really big person for whatever reasons you need to have consideration for the people around you. They don't deserve to be punished because genetics, medical condition, or a love or Oreos and a hatred of exercise made you a big person. The world is designed for average-sized people when you aren't average be prepared to be uncomfortable and pay more.

    B. S.
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I appreciate your consideration. Shouldn't there be a less expensive option?

    Load More Replies...
    kitteh floof lover
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    if you are in my space, that i paid for, then you should buy 2 seats.

    Joann Boyd
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Look at the picture. She obviously did.

    Load More Replies...
    Mabelbabel
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A lot of comments about buying two seats to accommodate a larger person-that only works if the airline doesn't play silly beggars. I 'm not obese, but I don't travel a lot because I have medical equipment that has to come with me. If I have to fly, I book two seats, partly to accommodate the equipment, and partly for privacy (you wouldn't believe the number of people who think it's entirely acceptable to pick up the equipment, or attempt to push buttons, or start asking intrusive personal questions).I make it very clear to the airline I need two adjoining seats. Of my last 5 flights, only one of them went without a hitch. For the rest, I'd been booked into 2 seats several rows apart, or booked into an aisle and window with a person in the middle, or I've got settled but then been told the flight is overbooked and they have to use my "empty" seat, or the person in the aisle seat attempts to put their own s**t on the seat, despite it being mine. I'm sure larger people have similar issue

    James Baker
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sorry Mabel, I'm gonna have to call B.S. on your story.

    Load More Replies...
    Anyone-for-tea?
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Let’s give her the benefit of the doubt and she paid for the middle seat too. As you can see in the other photo her shoulder comes over to the middle seat nearly halfway, and it looks like she has something on the middle seat too.

    idrow1
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you're as big as two people, then you should buy two seats. This way, you're not smushing anyone. I had the window seat one time and the two seats next to me were occupied by two enormous men. I was smashed against the wall for the entire flight, it was awful. And the smell...In over 50 years, it's the worst flight I've ever taken.

    Brazen
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She is talking about the ridiculous comments she gets, it's not about how many seats she bought, although I'm pretty sure she did buy two. Still doesn't give anyone the right to make comments to her about it.

    Load More Replies...
    Courtney Christelle
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Those seats are not built for a person to actually fit, just to sit. More leg room!

    Holly Smethurst
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unless she has a medical condition that makes her this big, (which is true for less than 3% of obese people) she has made a conscious decision to be too big to fit in the space she has bought. The person next to her will have also paid for the space of 1 seat and should not have to give up 6 inches of it for free and have someone’s else’s flesh constantly pushed as haunt them the whole flight. She should also have made the conscious decision to buy enough space for the size she is. BUY ANOTHER SEAT, you’re extremely entitled and selfish if you don’t

    Carrie Lewis
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is a level of personal responsibility each human must exercise. If you have made choices that require you to alternative comforts you have to be responsible and understanding enough to pay for those. Complex question: Should we as a society make everything adaptable to large format risking more of the population becoming unhealthily large or do we try to maintain normal standards to remind ourselves what a healthy body weight actually is? America suffers from an insanely large population - and we are normalizing that while sacrificing our overall health. Also - other countries simply don’t have the obesity issues we have therefore don’t need to adapt their surroundings to larger standards.

    View more comments
    ADVERTISEMENT
    #6

    22 "Plus-Size Travel Struggles" Skinny People Don't Have To Worry About When Traveling Always wondering if you're going to "fit" (airplane seats, public transportation, etc).

    jaebaeofficial , SuperJet International Report

    Susan S
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who thought this would be a good topic?? Non-obese people will be afraid of down votes, while obese people are ether in denial (I'm not fat, I'm just thick), or don't want to come out admitting they don't like having to buy 2 airline seat tickets for their un-accommodated booties? In case I get downvoted to death, it was fun while it lasted (leaving snarky comments). Btw, my profile pic was from before Covid. From the pandemic comfort foods, menopause, my rheumatoid arthritis, and my lower back now needing multi-level vertabrae fusion, I gained 30 lbs, but am looking to get more active once I am allowed to after my fusion surgery. So, I am not sure if I would classify myself as in denial or plus sized yet

    Well-Dressed Wolf
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I see at least two comments so far that are actual facts are already negative/downvoted. It's making me sad-laugh. I have many obese relatives, some of whom have died in their 20s due to obesity-related health issues, and it's not like they were born obese or with a medical condition that made them obese regardless of their caloric intake. Most obesity is caused by food addiction. Addiction is brutal and is a struggle. But pretending like obese people mysteriously have no fault in WHY they're obese is just people lying to themselves. I've commented a few times on some of these posts myself and I'm sure I'm going to get multiple -10 downvoted comments, so... this is probably my last comment on BP as I'll be permabanned XD

    Load More Replies...
    Kris
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is also tricky for tall people with long legs.

    LillieMean
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know! I have long legs and I often have to apologize to the person sitting in front of me. In public transport or even in a cinema. Sometimes I have to sit a little sideways and my back hurts. Small passenger cars are a small nightmare.

    Load More Replies...
    J Smythe
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm considered 'morbidly obese' but I am no where near that lady's size. You get that big from over eating [I'm guilty of this] so expecting an airline to make accommodations for a minority of overly large people isn't fair to the business.

    Taibhse Sealgair
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited)

    This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

    To be clear, it's not expecting the airlines to accept it, it's the other passengers. Zero tolerance.

    Load More Replies...
    Voit
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am professional interior designer/architect. Airplane seating should be required to match the same seat/space standers as ibc (international building code) auditorium seating, such as movie theaters, churches, auditoriums etc. Large numbers of people need to be able to evacuate quickly and safely. PERIOD. Also, people get larger each generation, this needs to be accounted for. I worked on a historical theater in Chicago, by today's standards it looked like child seating, even though the building had historical protection we had to change the seating to meet these safety codes. We were able to reuse the decorative end caps.

    Mama Penguin
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Flew on a long a*s flight to SE Asia with the first leg of the journey to Vancouver. The lady next to me was larger and tall. She kind of hunched over her tray table as she was barely able to get it flat down. She squashed my left shoulder for a few hours from NY to Vancouver. Was I relieved it happened on the shorter leg of the journey? Yes. Did I feel bad for her as she was clearly uncomfortable? Also yes.

    BirFromHH
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did you ASK her why she had not booked a seat with more legroom? I still think that people who do not have average sizes usually KNOW this. And while I"m not sure a theatre has the right seats: airplanes have them! They cost more, that's all. For someone like OP, who claims that everybody should travel comfortably, money obviously ist no issue.

    Load More Replies...
    Walter Brameld
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was 65 pounds overweight when I booked a flight for the end of the year, four months in advance. I don't want to be uncomfortable on the 8+ hour flight, so I started dieting and exercising right after I booked the ticket. With 2.5 months to go, I've lost 25 pounds so far! It's empowering to realize that, as the only one who decides what your hands do, *you* are the one who controls what goes into your mouth! Take responsibility for yourself and, for Pete's sake, stop whining about the condition you put yourself in!

    Em
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well I'm pretty skinny but I wouldn't complain if they started making airplane seats wider to accommodate many of today's population, that's more rom for the rest of us too

    Michael Sanders
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not one comment on a single post? Scared aren’t you?

    Peign Gaming
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, people don't want the downvote warriors to come out and cancel them.

    Load More Replies...
    lafayette
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I was younger I never wanted someone to sit next to me on the bus because of that reason

    Katiekat
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lost 160 lbs, wear a basic XL, and STILL wonder this. I'll always have the ghost of my former fat girl self making me second-guess myself at times.

    View more comments
    #7

    22 "Plus-Size Travel Struggles" Skinny People Don't Have To Worry About When Traveling Tiny airplane bathrooms.

    jaebaeofficial , Kārlis Dambrāns Report

    Miria Isah
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel like half of these complaints completely overlook the fact that there is limited space on a plane to begin with.

    Misty Gordon
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There’s limited space because the airlines are maximizing space for profit. NO ONE is comfortable in plane seats. Plus sized people are just made to suffer and be embarrassed because they are unable to fit comfortably in a space that underweight people cannot fit comfortably either.

    Load More Replies...
    Sarah Kathrin Matsoukis
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Okay but in airplanes you have really limited space for bathrooms...

    Midnightoil
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My master bathroom is about that size...😞

    Francesca Annoni
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My bathroom too... for me, my husband and two kids 😅

    Load More Replies...
    AustrianGirl
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Does anyone like them? They are usually ugly and not really clean.

    Green One
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited)

    This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

    What, fat people? Sweaty and covered in gravy spills and cake crumbs..

    Load More Replies...
    Adrienne Doyle
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To be honest, there isn't much room on an airplane for the bathrooms. It's why whenever I can, I use the bathroom before getting on the plane, especially if it's a relatively short flight.

    Jennifer Johnson
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm a plus size woman, too. These are the WORST!!!

    BirFromHH
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    These are inconvenient for everybody in Economy class. If you really do not fit, you will be allowed - If asking and proofing - to use the bathroom of business class, which ist slightly wider (at least the door). The airline HAS to permit this. But as long as they can help you into the Economy cubicle - the'll do that. Of course.

    Bubbles and sparks
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's the same overal, weather in a train or a plain or a tourbus.... They are not made for comfort, but for necessary use... Pee before you board, don't drink tea, and then pee after landing if that's possible. If not, well, those toilets are crammy for everyone.

    Wendy Frances
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They're ridiculously small for average sized people - I cannot imagine being plus sized and trying to use one.

    View more comments
    ADVERTISEMENT

    "For some at the smaller end of the size spectrum (within fat activism, the relevant categories are 'small fats' or 'medium fats'), these fears sometimes or even often prove unfounded," Bias continued. "For those at the higher end of the size spectrum ('large', 'super' or 'infini' fats), those anxieties are more often realized and are accompanied by physical barriers to access and safety as well."

    The fear of "not fitting" causes a great deal of stress for plus-size people, as they often feel pressured to make decisions that would ensure a smooth experience. But sadly, they don’t come without a cost, whether it be financial, social, or wellness-related.

    ADVERTISEMENT

    "Some are forced to purchase two seats or to navigate uncertainty in using inconsistently applied Customer of Size policies. And some, in fact, 25% of my research participants, intentionally dehydrate themselves before getting on planes to avoid having to use the restroom and/or stand up and disrupt seatmates or other passengers in the aisle, and both dehydration and lack of movement are risk factors in developing DVT [deep vein thrombosis]," Bias explained.

    #8

    22 "Plus-Size Travel Struggles" Skinny People Don't Have To Worry About When Traveling Worrying you're going to break the toilet.

    jaebaeofficial , Eric Lumsden Report

    Alison Rafter Sorensen
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The amount of fat-shaming comments on this are staggeringly disappointing. I foolishly thought humans on BP were better than this.

    Hypoxia Smurf
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Obesity is usually self-imposed, not inherited. Outsiders cannot be blamed.

    Load More Replies...
    Hello it Smee
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I swear this list is made by a skinny person, I have worked in health care for 20 years and had 600lb plus patients and never had someone break a toilet.

    zeros500
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do they come out of the wall like that or are they a normal toilet that rests on the ground? Completely different.

    Load More Replies...
    Sara Khan
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If that's something you worry about, perhaps it's time to make a change? When something as normal as peeing is a problem, you're the problem.

    Kris
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Then its a shitty toilet 💩

    *Laws*Of*Anarchy*
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's a really strange toilet. I like it.

    RadiatorAnkleSpider
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’ve seen people on my 600 lbs life sit on toilets just fine.

    Ryan Frundles
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To some extent, I can sympathize with the obese. There's some people who actively keep track of their intake and exercise, but seem to keep gaining weight and size. But the average person who does get obese doesn't try, and have no regard for the people around them. Again, I often sympathize with the problems they deal with. But if you have to worry about breaking the toilet you sit on, you should consider skipping part of your meals, going on a few extra walks. If I walked into an airplane toilet and saw the last person had actually broken the seat, and I had to use it sitting down, I would be beyond pissed

    René Sauer
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow, that toilet looks uncomfortable...

    Anna Nilsson
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh! I hate these wall hanged toilets! The landlord installed one in my old apartment and I moved out right after - I heard cracking sound when I sat down every time - and I weighed 95 kg! Can't sit down completely, had to do a "wall sit exercise" every time.

    View more comments
    #9

    22 "Plus-Size Travel Struggles" Skinny People Don't Have To Worry About When Traveling Worrying about asking for a seatbelt extender.

    jaebaeofficial Report

    C L
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Buy your own and take it with you!

    Joshua
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly! $20 on Amazon gets you a seat extender that fits all airlines except Southwest. Another $20 will get you one for Southwest.

    Load More Replies...
    Clare Smith
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’d be more concerned about the fact her oxygen tube seems to be under the belt!

    Albert Finney
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So worrying is the problem here? Guess who else worries: everyone. I can see how some of these would make those unaware of how an obese person's life can be more difficult. This one seems a bit "thin" as far as content relative to the subject goes.

    BirFromHH
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What ist worrying about that? Rest assured: the airline WILL provide ist.

    Jeremy Fisher
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Okay now you're complaining about accommodation?

    Pam Hobbs
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just smile and askwhen boarding.

    Bubbles and sparks
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't worry, you can buy one and take it with you wherever you go.... Having more waist sometimes dares you too think creative.

    View more comments
    ADVERTISEMENT
    #10

    22 "Plus-Size Travel Struggles" Skinny People Don't Have To Worry About When Traveling When the tray table can't come down.

    jaebaeofficial Report

    Jo Cooper
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This used to bother me, the little fold down desks on the uni seats too. Then I lost weight…

    Freddie Le Brun
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You make it sound like losing weight is easy. My mum had a glandular condition. It didn’t matter what she ate or what exercise she did. She couldn’t lose the weight. It wasn’t an issue with calories.

    Load More Replies...
    Almarako94
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ... then you should eat less. Oh sorry the way these posts are made feel like you want us to complete the sentences.

    Not sure
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A gym membership is cheaper than a plane ticket

    Brazen
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Plenty of overweight people try gyms only to get laughed at and fat shamed there. It's horrible really.

    Load More Replies...
    Maul!
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel airlines have been greedy trying to fit too many people in one cabin ignoring the comfort of any sized people. Like someone said here in the comments- you’re uncomfortable in flights even if you’re skinny. There are many many plane related points in this post.

    Midnightoil
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

    That person should really skip several meals. As a nurse I would be more concern how to get that person out of the row of seats if they needed CPR...

    Mlr
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Skipping meals doesn't help anyone's health

    Load More Replies...
    Isabel Care
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wasn't fat the last time I flew, but the tray table wouldn't come down until I asked the guy behind if I could tilt the chair back for a moment. Big boobs. Then it sat at my waistline with no space to use it because it was full of boobs. Reclined seat again and put my drink on mum's tray across the aisle and used my lap

    View more comments
    ADVERTISEMENT

    The idea that larger-bodied people should be granted the same respect and opportunities as anyone else isn’t new. But the overwhelming response to Jae’s video series makes you wonder why this important conversation is so rarely touched upon. When we asked Bias to share her opinion on the matter, she told us this topic pops its head up once every now and then with a new person going viral with their experiences.

    But unfortunately, "the cultural conversation around whose suffering is legitimate and what space people are entitled to when that space is highly commodified is once again held on the backs of fat people with no meaningful change at the end."

    "It tends to bring on haranguing abuse from one side and supportive comments from the other, but on balance, there's been no measurable movement in creating safer and more equitable travel for passengers of all sizes and abilities," the activist added.

    ADVERTISEMENT
    #11

    22 "Plus-Size Travel Struggles" Skinny People Don't Have To Worry About When Traveling Restaurants that don’t have seating options for plus-size people.

    jaebaeofficial , Hotel du Vin & Bistro Report

    Well-Dressed Wolf
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Downvote me into oblivion, but I will die on this hill: most of the time, obesity isn't a disability in the same way that cerebral palsy is. Or being paralyzed, needing a wheelchair due to spinal/brain damage, only having one leg (or none), birth defects, having had a stroke or injury that results in brain damage, being blind, etc. Many of my family members are morbidly obese, and none were born that way. All of them became obese due to over-eating. While it's not always their FAULT that they became addicted to food, it's their responsibility to lose weight. It is not the world's responsibility to make everything accommodating for obese people. I've struggled with drug addiction, so I KNOW what addiction is like and how hard it is to change and get healthy. But saying it's a "disability" that you can't help or change is absolutely untrue. (Final disclaimer: yes, there are medical conditions that cause obesity without massive caloric intake. Most obese people are not obese due to that.)

    Clare Smith
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Upvote for some logic instead of pandering to pressure.

    Load More Replies...
    Kimberly Alison
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The lack of compassion I’m witnessing in these comments is staggering.

    Argle Bargle
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't believe this is the BP community... I am shocked 😞 Surely, we are better than this?

    Load More Replies...
    Nizumi
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    weird how the seats will fit 98% of the restaurant’s clientele, but as soon as a couple show up who don’t fit, ALL the chairs become a problem. Does anyone complain about how restaurant chairs don’t fit little people? No.

    Voit
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    General FYI: commercial and hospitality spaces (including restaurants) are required to have contract grade furniture. Contract grade furniture must be able to hold 300 pounds.

    Brazen
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm inclined to think it's more about fitting into the space than it is about weight limit.

    Load More Replies...
    DrMonika LoveWillwin
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Obesity is a medical condition with complex factors, including genetic predisposition. Lifestyle is a component, just as it is for cancer, heart disease, and many other conditions that we rarely, if ever, hear/see shaming and blaming the way we do with regards to obesity. End the stigma. An inclusive world works for everyone!

    smoke8212
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    my god are you really comparing cancer/genetic diseases with obesity you are delusional at this point ,comparing something completely outside of your control with good eating habits is madness, you cant be inclusive when people are harming themselves and destroying their bodies you cant tell them its a good job , what you need is encourage them to be better and actually put effort into keeping themselves alive and well, what father see a child eating themselves to the point it take effort to breathe and say great you are the best.....

    Load More Replies...
    Olya Fedchenko
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If we are talking about countries that don't have a problem with the obesity epidemic - why should they add some special seating if there's barely a demand for it

    Mrs S
    Community Member
    Premium
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And if all they had were those white resin chairs, we had to leave.

    Tracy
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Plus size includes tall people too. My parents are 6’+, in there 80’s. So very difficult to find appropriate seating everywhere.

    James Baker
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Simple fix, I bet they got a bucket you can plop your a*s down on while you eat you 5th meal of the day. Is "plus-size people" what we are calling them now? If they are plus sized they should have to pay plus sized prices.

    View more comments
    #12

    22 "Plus-Size Travel Struggles" Skinny People Don't Have To Worry About When Traveling Bunk beds.

    jaebaeofficial , Taber Andrew Bain Report

    Susan S
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Are bunk beds in the list because plus sized people are complaining about not being able to use the top bunk??

    Lou Cam
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm just a regular sized adult (OK maybe a tiny bit chubbs) and I can't go up the top bunk to change my kids' sheets anymore without threat of.it collapsing I don't think they're meant for adults in general.

    Load More Replies...
    Catpawsarethebest
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do you want to sleep on bunk beds? No matter the size I dont think anybody wants to sleep on bunk beds unless youre a kid. Also I have never travlhed anywhere where the only option was a bunk bed. I never slept on a bunkbed after the age of 10...

    Owen Jarvis
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not really sure of the issue here.

    DeoManus Argentem
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you had a 400-pounder on the top bunk meant for 60-pound kids... Would you want to be on the bottom? I'm not one to body-shame, but there's "curvy" and then there's "very unhealthy".

    CD King
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Holy. Just like quicksand, when are bunk bed a real life problem? I have never, in my 50+ years roaming this planet, ever run into a bunk bed.... whether fat or slim....

    Javier loh
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The first time I slept on these there was a 6 magnitude earthquake

    Eydís Leviatiem
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They do make bunks and Loft beds out of sturdy materials..they're usually for colleges but you can buy them. They're as expensive as a Murphy bed/nice bedframe.

    manychickens77
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think the largest people should avoid using the top bunk just in case..!

    Diemond Star
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why would you purchase a bunk bed?

    Merilyn Horton
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m old and arthritic and would just pull the mattress onto the floor

    View more comments
    #13

    22 "Plus-Size Travel Struggles" Skinny People Don't Have To Worry About When Traveling Getting stuck with two twin mattresses instead of a king.

    jaebaeofficial , Kim Report

    Well-Dressed Wolf
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Book a queen/king room at the time of booking. If the hotel tries to force you into a room with two twin mattresses instead, demand the room you paid for (king/queen bed). You paid for the king/queen bed, you should GET the king/queen bed!

    Janet C
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh b******t. Hotels need to accommodate the greatest number of travelers. Two twins pushed together makes a reasonably functional king bed unless you are fat.

    Load More Replies...
    BeardedVulture
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This feels like North American privilege more than anything.

    Caro Caro
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Then you didn't book properly. When contacting a hotel you can specifically ask for a king. !

    Brazen
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes hotels do this even when asking for a king. It's unfortunate and I'm not sure why they do it.

    Load More Replies...
    2x4b523p
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In my country (Czech Republic) king/queen beds were unheard of when I was growing up. Married couples just slept in twin beds pushed together. Big beds with one wide mattress and one large duvet were something we only knew from movies. My mother bought queen bed some 20 years ago when they made their way in and had to make her own sheets for a few years before shops caught up. Sleeping in a hotel outside big cities you still have about 90% chance of getting twin beds pushed together even if you booked king/queen. I found it is similar in hotels in Japan.

    Sunshine Daydream
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Off Topic, this is a great solution re: restless leg stuff and not waking my partner

    Fraxinus excelsior
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Most hotels do this , never had a double or bigger mattress in any of the hotels I've stayed in, especially mainland Europe. You book a double room, you still get 2 beds pushed together.

    erinmophila_gibsonii
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just don't understand why hotels push two smaller mattresses together to make a 'king' 🤷‍♀️ The ridge down the middle makes for a pretty average night's sleep 😪

    Load More Replies...
    BirFromHH
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, the opposte can happen as well: getting a King - or only Queen - size instead ofthe two requested beds. That would bei a no-go for me, but with more and more American influence in Europe it happens sometimes. Guess what: I now only book where two beds will be guaranteed. Simply letztem guaranteed your favorite form aß well, instead of complaining!

    Leo Domitrix
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unrelated to weight: In some places I've traveled two, their idea of a king IS two twins stuck together. Welcome to Not Your Comfort Zone, and enough with the hate, folks. YOu're all one bad day away from what you assume will never happen to you.

    Grace and Lucy
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Technically two twins pushed together is a king

    View more comments
    ADVERTISEMENT
    See Also on Bored Panda

    When asked about what kind of change is needed in the travel industry to make it more supportive of bodies of all sizes, Bias said, "I think the FAA [Federal Aviation Administration] needs to mandate an increase in minimum seat width and pitch and require that airplane safety testing and cabin design include a realistic distribution of body sizes, ages, and abilities."

    ADVERTISEMENT
    #14

    22 "Plus-Size Travel Struggles" Skinny People Don't Have To Worry About When Traveling Towels that don't fit.

    jaebaeofficial Report

    Well-Dressed Wolf
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Using double or triple the material to create a towel that would "fit" an obese person costs double or triple the materials cost to the company making it. Either companies are going to have to charge more for larger towels as they literally use way more material to make them, or the cost of everyone's towels, including normal-sized ones, are going to have to go up in order to cover the costs of manufacturing large-enough towels for obese people.

    Barbara Kayton
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is so much textile pollution out there that this is not the problem. Making textile recycling bins part of home recycling would take an enormous load out of landfill and reduce costs of landfill. The fashion industry is an evil culprit in so many areas of resources.

    Load More Replies...
    Alaina Bleakley
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's extra large towels, even saw some at wall mart the other day for a decent price

    Lauren S
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We have them in my house, they’re called bath sheets. Want to know who loves them the most? My healthy bmi 6 yo, will wrap himself like 3+ times then waddle barely able to move. And I don’t mind paying for something that’s usable.

    Load More Replies...
    Frank Ropen
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That like complain the shoe doesn't fit if you buy them in to small size. Buy bigger towels

    Leesquee
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

    From the HOTEL? This is about TRAVEL. Do YOU pack towels when you fly?

    Load More Replies...
    mm65851
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't think a towel is something that's engineered to 'fit'. It's just an absorbent piece of cloth to soak up water.

    Mama Penguin
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Extra large towels. Soo cozy after a long hot shower.

    Fraxinus excelsior
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm a size 14 , I find bath towels only fit kids and dogs, I always buy bath sheets, I can tuck in everything then.

    JM
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We’ve used bath sheets for years for the same reason.

    Load More Replies...
    BirFromHH
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Fit" as in "ist too small to dry the whole body" or what exactly should the towel fit for? The Photo implies that ist should geht around the Body. But why ist that necessary? And why is this travel- related poblem?

    Öz Deniz Boro
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Buy 2 towels instead of one and sew them together.

    View more comments
    #15

    22 "Plus-Size Travel Struggles" Skinny People Don't Have To Worry About When Traveling Boat ladders, pool ladders, all ladders.

    jaebaeofficial , Wonderlane Report

    Serial pacifist
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Really, why do they do this, it’s not like they run out of metal or something.

    Frank Ropen
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If they made them wider, smaller people and children can't grab the handles on both sides

    Load More Replies...
    M Kawai
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm sorry, this one is ridiculous. Even by widening the ladder, it would be physically impossible for a very obese person to use it.

    Carrie Be Patient!
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm pretty average weight and I have always found these ladders awkward and uncomfortable to use and they are not great for lots of people with movement/strength issues.

    Merilyn Horton
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My shoulders are damaged and I find it so painful to use these pool ladders.

    Bubbles and sparks
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is just a cheap design problem, those ladders are hell on all feet.

    Owen Jarvis
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't understand how ladders are a problem?

    A. K. Andersson
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    too short for me, hard to get out f the water with your knees right under your chin

    Load More Replies...
    Isabel Care
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Was on a friend's boat, came in to the dock, ladders had been removed for repair. People were hauling others up the wall. A guy reached out his hand to me and I said "Two people please, unless you just want to be dragged down here" That was when I was 15 stone of muscle with curves. Now I am 19 stone of mostly blubber (mobility issues for decades, lucky I am not a 32 stone duvet monster)

    James Baker
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Get out of the pool on the shallow end duh....

    Germán Martinez
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    the ladder is not the problem. The problem is their poor movility range

    View more comments
    #16

    22 "Plus-Size Travel Struggles" Skinny People Don't Have To Worry About When Traveling Having little to no room to move.

    jaebaeofficial Report

    Midnightoil
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You don't have room to move even if you are skinny scrawny!

    Leslie Donsen
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You are literally half way into someone else's seat. Where are they supposed to sit?

    Mama Penguin
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Looks like she bought two seats, because her oxygen machine is on the seat next to her.

    Load More Replies...
    Lisa Owen
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Buy two seats as you are obviously taking up 50% of the seat next to you anyway. I feel bad for whoever has to sit there squashed due to no fault of their own.

    Mama Penguin
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pretty sure she did since her oxygen machine is on the seat next to her.

    Load More Replies...
    Elaine Morinelli
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But this is a problem we all share. Planes are too small to be comfortable in.

    Almarako94
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Then maybe you take up too much room in the first place.

    Grace and Lucy
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is a senseless response. Seats are much more narrow than they were 20-30 years ago. More butts in seats = more profits

    Load More Replies...
    Bubbles and sparks
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Public transportation is too small for everyone....

    Danny Swaanenburg
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is plenty of room, but you are filling it all up. Sounds like a you problem. Stop blanking and shaming everybody else.

    G'ma B
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's almost worth mortgaging your house & family for the extra room you get in most first class seats! (well, not really!)

    Isabel Care
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Even average people have to ask their neighbours to compromise during the meals. "If I lean all the way over here, you can cut up your meal, then if you curl over your friend, I can cut mine. Almost like sharing a 4 berth camper van, please move your foot, I need to sneeze

    CursedWith Migraines
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Here's the solution. All you people who refuse to lose the weight, get together and make a Fat Airline company. You'll quickly see how fast that won't work out.

    View more comments

    But it’s important to note that people can also seek change. "The FAA is currently accepting public comment on setting minimum seat widths and I would highly encourage people to voice their opinions."

    ADVERTISEMENT
    ADVERTISEMENT

    Bias knows the FAA is not interested in the comfort of people in larger bodies, but they must pay attention to concerns regarding safety. "If a body does not have sufficient space or leverage to rise quickly, if a body has insufficient space to adopt a brace for impact position, if a body has insufficient space to overstep a neighbor or travel an aisle that may not be cleared of debris, then the plane is not safe for anyone," she said. "Current airplane configurations present a risk to wellness for all passengers and this must be rectified."

    #17

    22 "Plus-Size Travel Struggles" Skinny People Don't Have To Worry About When Traveling Very limited poolside seating/lounging options for plus-size people.

    jaebaeofficial Report

    Alexandra Davis
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Try 'can't even get into the pool because it has no wheelchair hoist' that's the case for like 95% of hotel pools, even ones with accessible rooms! Least obese people can sit on the floor/ still access the pool!

    Freddie Le Brun
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

    That’s a presumption. How many wheelchair users are also obese? There’s a number out there.

    Load More Replies...
    Sara Khan
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you want VIP treatment, you gotta pay for it.

    Almarako94
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Change your eating habbits, problem solved

    Potterhead 0-0
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Losing weight is much more than just changing your eating habits. It can be rly difficult for some people

    Load More Replies...
    My O My
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But here you even say. There are options!

    Janet Weston
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can’t get down low enough to sit on a lounger cos of disability .

    Isabel Care
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And all so low that there is no way for me to use them and get up afterwards

    Willem Adriaans
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

    Wat wat eat eat sleep wat eat eat eat eat sleep sleep wat repEAT

    View more comments
    #18

    22 "Plus-Size Travel Struggles" Skinny People Don't Have To Worry About When Traveling Getting pat down because you're fat.

    jaebaeofficial , Oregon Department of Transportation Report

    Ivanh
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It just happens to lots of people being overweight has nothing to do with it. I'm skinny and every flight I get pulled aside by airport security for additional screening, apparently I must look dodgy

    Well-Dressed Wolf
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The vast majority of my family members are obese/morbidly obese. I've traveled with them many, many times (even in modern times) and not once have any of them gotten patted down.

    alwaysMispelled
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm right on the line between average-fat and plus size and I just flew and got patted down on both flights. Once for my L ankle ???? And the other was for my Back, I believe. It was because of shadows or something on the scan

    Load More Replies...
    Susan S
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have 8 steel screws in my right foot, and I have to always go through the TSA body scanning machine at the airport. Why would a plus sized person need to get patted down when they can just go through the same humiliation as me?

    Lauren S
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We do. When you go through those body scanners you remember how you wait for a moment on the other side before they wave you through? Well, I often have to get patted down because of something they see on their screens. The only time I got patted down instead of going through the scanners was when I was pregnant and was flying multiple times across the country. More radiation from flying than those scanners but I was just trying to minimize what I could.

    Load More Replies...
    KittyGotClaws
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Getting patted down doesn't just happen to obese people. I get patted down because of metal in my neck, my back, and my knee. I get wanded, too. Every. Single. Time. And no, having a letter from your surgeon doesn't help. One lady agent was so vigorous that I told her if she kept it up I would have to marry her.

    Lauren S
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lots of people are patted down for lots of reasons. I am plus size and have been patted down many times, usually somewhere around my bra which frankly I could absolutely fit a grenade and a couple knives under their so I never really questioned it. Doesn’t bother me. But I’ve also gotten my hands and bag zippers swiped several times, I think they’re looking for bomb residue? Maybe I look shady in some way like @Ivanh.

    Alexandra Davis
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Try getting a full body pat down in wheelchair because you can't go through the scanner! Especially when you're in pain and moving around whilst sat down is hard and painful- yet you can't do a single thing to stop being disabled when many many obese people can take steps to lose weight!

    RandomHumanBean
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i got a pat down cuz i was wearing a oversized sweatshirt (im skinny btw). lots of people have to get pat downs.

    BirFromHH
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, Not because you are fat but because the automatic systems are not good enough for your size. As an hapephobian, I really have issues with being pat down. I understand you do not like it. But you know IT will happen, and saying IT does Not happen to skinny people ist simply wrong: for them it does not happen every time, but it happens. Just look around you there!

    Crissie Laugesen
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's because your visible size may be due to padding concealing weapons, drugs, etc. Security is paramount.

    Janet Weston
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I get the pat down and the swab cos I’m in a wheelchair

    View more comments
    ADVERTISEMENT
    See Also on Bored Panda
    #19

    22 "Plus-Size Travel Struggles" Skinny People Don't Have To Worry About When Traveling Narrow aisles and bulkhead seats.

    jaebaeofficial , Matthew Hurst Report

    laka puka
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's a plane they ain't gonna make em wider because you are fat.

    Brazen
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Seats used to have more room before the companies put money over comfort. Even my tall friends complain about the lack of leg room now, vs "way back then."

    Load More Replies...
    iseefractals
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's a plane, flying 25,000 feet in the air, 600 miles per hour, and consuming a $hit load of planet destroying fossil fuel in the process. The more people you can fit on the plane, the less overall environmental impact per person, and the cheaper the tickets are. What are they supposed to do? Make the whole plane "first class"? Yeah, lets lose one third the capacity, tickets will go from hundreds to thousands, and thousands to TENS of thousands, more flights will have to be added to move the same amount of people, the planet will die a little bit faster, but oh well right?

    SewingStaffy
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So you want bigger seats, but also wider aisles. This entire post is confusing

    Brazen
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If it was like it used to be there were a lot of airplanes with two seats on either side of the aisle, which had bigger seats and more room for the aisle. Not saying they should do this, but it was like this at one point.

    Load More Replies...
    Merilyn Horton
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Men have broad shoulders and stick out into the aisles.

    roz
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And some women have large breasts that make their arms stick out into the aisles.

    Load More Replies...
    Mama Penguin
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Flew on a Bombardier CRJ900 for the first time a few weeks ago. Jeebus Christ, I'm 5'2" and it felt cramped to me.

    Jon Clingenpeel
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I flew in one similar and I’m 5’7” and I felt like giant. I had to lean forward or on my wife so I wouldn’t encroach on the young woman next to me and she was tiny too

    Load More Replies...
    G'ma B
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not fat and they're narrow for me!

    Alisa LaVine
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Seriously though. I'm only 5'2" and not obese and even I struggle fitting down airplane aisles.

    Paul Richards
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You are too fat, the aisle width is fine

    Danny Swaanenburg
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It’s you, you have a problem, you are the problem.

    View more comments

    To anyone struggling with travel anxiety and fearing the industry will fail to cater to their needs, Bias offered some words of encouragement. "Find community. Ask questions. And don't put yourself in harm's way to avoid inconveniencing others."

    ADVERTISEMENT

    "Understand that capitalism is the driving force in creating the medians upon which built space is constructed, and that very fat, very tall, very short, and disabled bodies are excluded from the processes of determining those medians. Bodies have always been and will always be diverse, and for a diversity of reasons. You are worth accommodation," Bias concluded.

    #20

    22 "Plus-Size Travel Struggles" Skinny People Don't Have To Worry About When Traveling Chub rub

    jaebaeofficial , Su Casa Panamá Report

    Deborah B
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Try a product like Megababe Thigh Rescue. There are also anti-chaffing fabric thigh bands. How do I know? /used to be obese. Practically speaking, it's hard work, and psychologically there's constant body disphoria.

    Dodo
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thanks for the advice! I am roughly a "normal" size and I still have this problem every summer

    Load More Replies...
    Toothless Feline
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sorry, but chub rub isn't an industry obstacle. It's an individual's own responsibility to deal with it. Speaking as someone with a chub rub problem, I would never think it's another's job to fix my chub rub. I'll buy my Snag Chub Rub Shorts like an adult.

    Mouse
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The company Snag makes the best shorts for under clothes that prevent chub rub. Light, comfortable and in very generous sizing choices. They ship out of Europe and will ship to US as well.

    Deborah B
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Your rolls rub together when you move, and they're a little damp from sweat, and there's chaffing. There are products that you can use to prevent it.

    Load More Replies...
    Esist Nosrep
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

    You get a body you deserve. I overeat and i suffer in summer because of thigh rub. I started working out now to be healthier because of diabetes scare

    Emily Ducat
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    🤨 What a stupid thing to say, there are a lot of reasons a person can be obese, hormones, medications, emotional trauma, other medical conditions. Blaming people for things outside of their control is not helpful.

    Load More Replies...
    Isabel Care
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Snag tights. Chub rub shorts and thigh high thick socks in a size that fits lipoedema legs

    Miss Kat O
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Chub rub is not limited to bigger people...

    Almarako94
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

    What are you even trying to tell us. Maybe you first learn to write whole sentences.

    Albert Finney
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

    Says the Panda that makes one spelling, and two punctuation mistakes in a single six word sentence. Almarako94 Change your eating habbits, problem solved

    Load More Replies...
    View more comments
    ADVERTISEMENT
    See Also on Bored Panda
    #21

    22 "Plus-Size Travel Struggles" Skinny People Don't Have To Worry About When Traveling Souvenir shops that don't have your size.

    jaebaeofficial , Grand Canyon National Park Report

    Ariadna
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    as a former fat woman who struggle this A LOT. Since childhood with awful comments an rejection let me tell you: its your life, that’s no way to live, we both know you want to feel better, i was not happy, ir hurts every day. I learned at the hard way hurting my self worried of what others see. They are not important, probably never see them again, you need to do it for you, not for others opinions. I know how hard it is, even coming from my mom who don’t even want to sit next to me on an airplane because she was ashamed of me. It’s not normal been so beautiful and young and need to use oxygen, if you need to talk I’m here, trust me you are not alone. I’m 35 now and I don’t care if anyone sees my cellulitis, scars, stretch marks, I love them because now I’m feeling better, that’s the only think that matter, the way I look to myself, no by others.

    dof huggle
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You realized your lifestyle was unhealthy and you took the steps to change it. You didn't lose weight because of awful comments or rejection. You did it for yourself, your health and your happiness. Barring health reasons (thyroid issues, etc) there is absolutely no reason for someone to be obese. It's a lifestyle choice. Nobody should have to accept someone because they choose to be unhealthy. Nobody should have to accommodate someone because they choose to be unhealthy. People need to fix themselves and their lifestyle and their health instead of expecting everyone to cater to them because they don't want to take the steps to better themselves. Also I'm proud of you. Not for the whole losing weight thing (although that is awesome. Good for you!) But for taking the steps to better yourself and your life and being happier as a result!

    Load More Replies...
    FakeOptimist
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A friend of mine is 2m15 or 7ft. Has the same problem. We once went to a festival and he didn't buy a t-shirt because his belly-button would be on constant display. They typically only stock what they are SURE they can sell.

    Janet Weston
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bags, one size fits all, so do pens and pencils

    Xenon
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They're not going to stock clothing in sizes for the obese! They're trying to maximize profit vs shelf space.

    Heather Menard
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is because they don't sell them quickly and it isn't profitable to carry larger sizes when they can sell sizes that won't sit in inventory.

    Justme
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m more disturbed by the shop workers who act all nervous and suspicious of me when I go through the racks of clothes. It’s easy to tell right away that I won’t fit anything but I shop for gifts too ya know!

    Bubbles and sparks
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Then buy other souvenirs, not all souvenirs come with a clothing size... It's just what it is.

    CF
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Try shopping the clearance rack when you are small or Xtra small. Nada. All XL, XXL, etc ,(at least in my area). Niwvthat I'm a medium of course the clearance racks are filled with XS and XXL only... Also, souvenir shops have NEVER had my name on a magnet. It was distressing as a child. ;)

    Sandra Givens
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    True. It always frustrates me that theme parks, for example, don't seem to notice that many of their visitors are what Disney fans call "Pooh size," so they may want to buy a tee shirt in 4XL and up. Why turn away their dollars by failing to offer even one design in larger sizes?

    View more comments
    #22

    22 "Plus-Size Travel Struggles" Skinny People Don't Have To Worry About When Traveling Not being able to find accessible path and hiking trails.

    jaebaeofficial Report

    Susan S
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You have to bring your heavy oxygen machine with you, and you're wearing open toe sandels. Why would you want to hike?

    Altea
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe this is an unpopular opinon, but I don't agree with this. Nature should not be modified to accomodate people. I can't climb the Everest which doesn't mean I want an elevator to get to the top.

    BeardedVulture
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I draw the line at paving nature for peoples convenience.

    Miria Isah
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Uhhh why are you wearing flip flops for a hike?!

    Well-Dressed Wolf
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Due to the medical conditions that develop with obesity (no one is "totally healthy even though they're obese"), I think there would be a worry that obese people would not be able to last long on paths/hiking trails and would then have to be medevac/rescued. In the picture above, OP literally has a portable oxygen tank. I would fear that she would not be able to handle a even an "accessible" hiking trail.

    kitteh floof lover
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    seriously, this whole thing is ridiculous, she's nitpicking everything, even those things that someone her size wouldn't be able to do.

    Catpawsarethebest
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Down vote me if you want but do you actually want nature to accomedate to your obese body??? Like NATURE?

    YaMaOnToast
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    With very young children and an elderly dog we often look for such trails and have never struggled to find specific ones or tailor our walks by applying common sense.

    Wayne Sharpe
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If someone needs an oxygen machine with them all the time surely hiking trails, with often difficult terrain and limited access, are not sensible options.

    View more comments

    But in the end, the content creator says the experience makes it totally worth it

    Image credits: jaebaeofficial

    Viewers jumped to the comments to express overwhelming support and chime in with their own experiences