Woman Is Disgusted By Her 25 Y.O. Brother Dating A 16 Y.O., Decides To Uncover Their Secret
Some might say that you have to stand up to your family members no matter what. At the same time, some might highly disagree with such a statement — what if your family member is doing something so wrong you just can’t stay silent? Like this woman who found out that her brother’s new girlfriend is their 16-year-old neighbor. And since the brother is 25 years old, the woman just couldn’t stay silent.
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What should you do when you learn that one of your family members is doing something illegal, like dating a minor?
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The woman found out her 25-year-old brother was dating their next-door neighbor, who is 16-year-old, and hid the relationship
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She told the girl’s parents about the relationship, they called the cops, and many people in the woman’s life accused her of ruining her brother’s life
During one of the family dinners on Sunday, the OP’s 25-year-old brother told everyone he has a new girlfriend named Ann, whom he met on campus. The next morning, the post’s author noticed her brother talking to a next-door neighbors’ 16-year-old daughter named Mary Ann. When they kissed, the OP understood that her sibling’s new girlfriend was a teenage girl she used to babysit years ago.
So, she let her parents know about it, but they dismissed it as a harmless crush. That didn’t satisfy the OP, so she went to the girl’s parents and told them the truth. Contrary to the post’s author’s parents, the girl’s folks had quite a reaction — they called the cops.
It seemed that everyone in the post author’s life heard about this situation. And interestingly, not many were on the OP’s side, and they accused her of ruining her brother’s life and/or being jealous (even though she’s in a committed relationship). In fact, the only ones on her side were a few of her friends and her aunt with a husband. So, the woman came to Reddit to ask whether she was wrong to tell everyone about her brother’s illegal relationship.
Well, quite a lot of people on Reddit took her side, just as a few of the woman’s friends and her aunt had. They praised her for being the only adult in the situation who understood how problematic the relationship was. In their words — the OP saved the girl from immense trauma in the future, which would surface once she understood how inappropriate the relationship was.
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The netizens weren’t off when they expressed such a thought. Minors dating older people isn’t a new thing, sadly. And what is more sad is the effect these kinds of relationships have on these minors.
Minors and adults not only have a gap between their ages number-wise but with regards to their experience and maturity as well. Even if it’s said that the minor is “mature for their age,” it either means that they had to grow up too fast, which can be damaging for their mental health, or it’s simply a manipulation tactic to justify an illegal relationship.
These relationships usually end in a minor getting traumatized in one way or another. For instance, getting pressured into doing something they don’t want to, being manipulated, getting taken advantage of, and so on. And so, it tends to haunt them for many years to come.
So, we can agree with the folks online who stated that the woman speaking out about her brother’s wrongdoing possibly saved the neighbor’s daughter from years of trauma. Just as the OP said in her post — what would have happened if the girl had gotten pregnant? So, the post’s author isn’t the one to blame, but her brother is. At the end of the day, he is a full-blown adult and should have known better than to get involved with such a young girl.
People online didn’t take the path that many people in the woman’s life took, and they praised her for protecting the girl from an immoral and illegal relationship
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When I was 17 I got my first bf. He was 27. The relationship was so awful. Like... SA and he tried to make me feel bad for not loving him enough to sacrifice such a "little" thing for him. He even had this ongoing joke with his coworkers about how we'd probably marry some day. He was so gross in so many ways and so f***ing immature! Also, that relationship has ruined so much for me in so many ways. I ended up moving away from Copenhagen partly because I was scared to meet him on the street.... I wasn't sure if I'd end up in a grave or in a prison cell if I did. It was 18 months down the drain for me. He was such an a-hole and he was just a very very bad choice for me. Probably my worst, actually. So if anyone is in doubt: no teenager should be with a person 10 years older than them. In my opinion and personal experience.
I was 16, he was 26. We dated for a year, then stayed in touch until we got back together when I was 22. I married him at 27 and we had 2 children in 5 years before I found out about his cheating and got divorced. I'm 42 and a single mom of 10 and 13 yr olds. I have struggled my whole life with the grooming he did to me. unhealthy obsession with being a pick me girl that revolves around s3x. Again, I am now 42 and happily divorced from that man but stuck co parenting (or lack thereof) for the next 10 years. YOU DID THE RIGHT THING, YOU SAVED HER AND HOPEFULLY THE OTHERS. IT IS NOT APPROPRIATE. good job!!
I'd keep an eye on your own daughters around him!! 🤗
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"trying to ruin my brothers chance at love" - because a 16-year-old was his only chance??
For most of those predatory clowns who pull that bs, yes. You'd be surprised how much pitty and support/enabling immature gross dudes get.
Load More Replies... When I was 17 I got my first bf. He was 27. The relationship was so awful. Like... SA and he tried to make me feel bad for not loving him enough to sacrifice such a "little" thing for him. He even had this ongoing joke with his coworkers about how we'd probably marry some day. He was so gross in so many ways and so f***ing immature! Also, that relationship has ruined so much for me in so many ways. I ended up moving away from Copenhagen partly because I was scared to meet him on the street.... I wasn't sure if I'd end up in a grave or in a prison cell if I did. It was 18 months down the drain for me. He was such an a-hole and he was just a very very bad choice for me. Probably my worst, actually. So if anyone is in doubt: no teenager should be with a person 10 years older than them. In my opinion and personal experience.
I was 16, he was 26. We dated for a year, then stayed in touch until we got back together when I was 22. I married him at 27 and we had 2 children in 5 years before I found out about his cheating and got divorced. I'm 42 and a single mom of 10 and 13 yr olds. I have struggled my whole life with the grooming he did to me. unhealthy obsession with being a pick me girl that revolves around s3x. Again, I am now 42 and happily divorced from that man but stuck co parenting (or lack thereof) for the next 10 years. YOU DID THE RIGHT THING, YOU SAVED HER AND HOPEFULLY THE OTHERS. IT IS NOT APPROPRIATE. good job!!
I'd keep an eye on your own daughters around him!! 🤗
Load More Replies... "trying to ruin my brothers chance at love" - because a 16-year-old was his only chance??
For most of those predatory clowns who pull that bs, yes. You'd be surprised how much pitty and support/enabling immature gross dudes get.
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