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It’s not necessary to be best friends with your neighbors, but it will probably make your life much easier if you can at least be cordial. Bring them brownies when they first move in, keep an eye on their home when they’re on vacation for a few weeks and don’t hesitate to share a cup of sugar when they run out. However, one of the cardinal rules of staying on good terms with your neighbors is to never mess with their parking spots. Because if you do, you’re just asking for trouble.

One man recently posted on Reddit detailing how some parking drama with his parents’ neighbors resulted in the police being called. Below, you’ll find the full story, as well as some of the replies readers shared.

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    This man was confused when he noticed that one of his parents’ neighbors kept parking in their driveway

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    But when they refused to stop, even after being asked nicely, he didn’t hesitate to escalate the situation

    Text about a mom with dementia allowing neighbors to park in her driveway without permission.

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    Text discussing neighbors parking in a driveway unexpectedly, related to a mom with dementia.

    Text discussing a mom with dementia leading to driveway misunderstanding with neighbors.

    Text excerpt discussing understanding and giving neighbors the benefit of the doubt in a driveway issue.

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    Text about a mother with dementia and chocolates to appease uncooperative neighbors.

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    Elderly woman with dementia sitting in a softly lit room, wearing a striped shirt, near a vintage TV.

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    Text excerpt about someone getting frustrated while knocking on a door, related to a mom with dementia.

    Text describing an encounter about a driveway dispute with a couple and police involvement.

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    Text exchange about car parked in mom with dementia's driveway.

    Text from a mom with dementia's story about parking issues and communication with a couple.

    Text discussing issues with a couple using a driveway without permission, and difficulties in contacting them.

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    Man on phone near window; concerned expression discussing driveway issue involving mom with dementia.

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    Text exchange about a mom with dementia, a couple using her driveway, and unresolved tension.

    Text image about a mom with dementia dealing with neighbors parking in her driveway until police intervene.

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    Text discussing a police officer confronting residents, related to a dementia patient's driveway issue.

    Text image about a neighbor dispute with police involving a mom with dementia and a couple using her driveway.

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    Text about a guy claiming he has a "verbal contract" with a mom with dementia about parking.

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    Police officer speaking to a driver in a driveway dispute involving a mom with dementia.

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    Police advise neighbors to move the car from mom's driveway or face towing.

    Text discussing police involvement over parking in a driveway.

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    Text screenshot about police warning neighbors on driveway trespassing.

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    Text discussing a couple's alleged actions with a neighborhood related to a mom with dementia.

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    Almost half of the drivers in the UK have had a parking dispute with a neighbor

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    When you finally get home after a long day in the office, the last thing you want to do is circle your block a dozen times desperately hoping that a parking spot opens up somewhere. In fact, 46% of drivers in the UK consider parking to be the most stressful part of driving, so it’s even more painful when the only thing standing between you and laying on your couch is a lack of space on the street. 

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    Everyone should have a designated spot for their car where they live, and everyone should be respectful of those living around them. But unfortunately, parking drama is one of the easiest ways to turn your neighbors into enemies.

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    The Independent reports that nearly half of UK drivers have had an issue with a neighbor when it comes to parking their cars. This includes neighbors blocking driveways, stealing parking spots and blocking access to garages.

    And over a third of drivers in the UK admit that they often feel like they have to compete with neighbors for parking spots.

    So how can homeowners go about resolving these issues before they escalate into full-on wars between residents? Super Lawyers has an article on their site breaking down how these conflicts can be fixed while keeping the law in mind. First, they recommend looking into the laws that govern parking in your area.

    When parking issues can’t be resolved peacefully, calling in law enforcement might be necessary

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    Your city might have local ordinances that address parking issues, and your local government might be responsible for enforcing parking regulations. Or, if you live in a neighborhood with an HOA, they might be the best people to talk to about resolving a parking dispute.

    When you’re ready to take action, try to first have a calm and respectful conversation with your neighbor. Give them the benefit of the doubt, as they might not have even realized how much they were inconveniencing you. 

    If you have a landlord, it’s probably best to loop them into the situation as well. And if you can’t manage to track down your neighbor to have a conversation face to face, you can write them a letter expressing your concerns.

    When none of that gets you anywhere, it might be time to file a complaint with your local law enforcement. The police should be able to help you, especially if a neighbor is guilty of trespassing or harassing you. And if it escalates to that point, you might even want to pursue legal action against the neighbor.

    We all want to live in harmony with the people around us, but sometimes, it’s important to set boundaries and defend what’s rightfully yours. (In this case, a driveway.) Feel free to share your thoughts on this situation in the comments below, pandas. Then, if you’re interested in checking out another Bored Panda article discussing parking disputes between neighbors, we recommend reading this one next!

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    Many amused readers applauded the author for standing up for himself, and he joined in on the conversation in the comments

    Reddit comments on a police intervention about a driveway dispute with a mom with dementia.

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    Reddit comments discuss a mom with dementia whose driveway was misused by a couple until police intervened.

    Reddit discussion about a mom with dementia and driveway issues, suggesting no trespassing signs and towing cars.

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    Comments discussing a couple using a mom's driveway without permission, praising a person for standing up to them.

    Conversation about mom with dementia, expressing empathy and gratitude for support.

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    Text conversation about parking permission related to mom with dementia and property ownership.

    Discussion about dementia affecting a mom's decisions with neighbors, leading to police involvement.

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    Comments about dementia, property rights, and neighbor disputes.

    Text exchange about dealing with unauthorized driveway use; mentions police report and installing a camera.

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    Comment discussing parking issues and refusal to move in a neighborhood with limited street parking.

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    Comment about officers handling a situation related to dementia and driveway usage.

    Comment about a parking dispute on a mom's property, mentioning issues with neighbors.

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    Comment advises security cameras for a mom with dementia dealing with persistent neighbors using her driveway.

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    Comment discussing trust issues related to a mom with dementia and a couple using her driveway.

    Comment on a post about a mom with dementia asking how others can be so foolish.

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    Adelaide May Ross

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    Howdy, I'm Adelaide! I'm originally from Texas, but after graduating from university with an acting degree, I relocated to sunny Los Angeles for a while. I then got a serious bite from the travel bug and found myself moving to Sweden and England before settling in Lithuania about three years ago. I'm passionate about animal welfare, sustainability and eating delicious food. But as you can see, I cover a wide range of topics including drama, internet trends and hilarious memes. I can easily be won over with a Seinfeld reference, vegan pastry or glass of fresh cold brew. And during my free time, I can usually be seen strolling through a park, playing tennis or baking something tasty.

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    In my spare time, I enjoy creating art - both in traditional and digital form, mainly in the form of painting and animation. Other interests include gaming and music. Favorite bands include Swans, The Strokes, The Beatles.

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    In my spare time, I enjoy creating art - both in traditional and digital form, mainly in the form of painting and animation. Other interests include gaming and music. Favorite bands include Swans, The Strokes, The Beatles.

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    Mike F
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Apparently the neighbors don't need 2 cars if the wife doesn't come out of the house, amirite?

    LakotaWolf (she/her)
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mom owns three houses in a row. One is my childhood home, where my mom and sister still live, then the house where I currently live. My mom rents out the third house to tenants. They have 3 cars, and one of their kids set up a drumkit in their garage, so they all park their cars on the street, in front of my house. Annoying, but legal. Until a few weeks ago, when their daughter parked partially blocking my driveway. Nope! I noticed it at 3am and called the police non-emergency number, because one of my cats had an early surgery that day and I needed to be able to leave. The officer wrote a citation (decided no tow was needed.) Tenants got p!ssed off and texted my sister ranting that I should have "knocked on their door" to let them know to move their car. At 3am? That would have gone over well, I'm sure XD The worst part is that the entire opposite side of the street is a wall (no houses) and usually has wide-open parking. They just don't want to have to walk across the street.

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    Chris the Bobcat
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a neighbor in Colorado who had a similar problem with neighbors parking in his driveway. Neighbors wouldn't move their dualie pickup and told my friend off. My friend decided that if they wanted to park there so badly, they could stay there. Next morning they came out to find their truck on blocks and all six tires sitting outside their front door. The lug nuts were all tightened back on the studs too. Neighbors came over and threatened him, so he called and had the truck towed (driver brought wheels? I don't know how). Last bit of fun was that the neighbors apparently had to take their wheels to put on the truck to drive it off the lot.

    Danny Sauer
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are a few kinds of rolling dollies specifically useful for moving vehicles which have flat tires or damaged wheels - or sometimes for rolling sideways out of tough spots. Drag it up onto a flatbed using some of those, and poof. :)

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    Mike F
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Apparently the neighbors don't need 2 cars if the wife doesn't come out of the house, amirite?

    LakotaWolf (she/her)
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mom owns three houses in a row. One is my childhood home, where my mom and sister still live, then the house where I currently live. My mom rents out the third house to tenants. They have 3 cars, and one of their kids set up a drumkit in their garage, so they all park their cars on the street, in front of my house. Annoying, but legal. Until a few weeks ago, when their daughter parked partially blocking my driveway. Nope! I noticed it at 3am and called the police non-emergency number, because one of my cats had an early surgery that day and I needed to be able to leave. The officer wrote a citation (decided no tow was needed.) Tenants got p!ssed off and texted my sister ranting that I should have "knocked on their door" to let them know to move their car. At 3am? That would have gone over well, I'm sure XD The worst part is that the entire opposite side of the street is a wall (no houses) and usually has wide-open parking. They just don't want to have to walk across the street.

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    Chris the Bobcat
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a neighbor in Colorado who had a similar problem with neighbors parking in his driveway. Neighbors wouldn't move their dualie pickup and told my friend off. My friend decided that if they wanted to park there so badly, they could stay there. Next morning they came out to find their truck on blocks and all six tires sitting outside their front door. The lug nuts were all tightened back on the studs too. Neighbors came over and threatened him, so he called and had the truck towed (driver brought wheels? I don't know how). Last bit of fun was that the neighbors apparently had to take their wheels to put on the truck to drive it off the lot.

    Danny Sauer
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are a few kinds of rolling dollies specifically useful for moving vehicles which have flat tires or damaged wheels - or sometimes for rolling sideways out of tough spots. Drag it up onto a flatbed using some of those, and poof. :)

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