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Man Gets Poisoned By Family Again, Does A Test And Finds Traces Of Cyanide
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Man Gets Poisoned By Family Again, Does A Test And Finds Traces Of Cyanide

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There’s nothing like a home-cooked meal made by Mom. Not only is it filled with wholesome, comforting ingredients, but it’s also been made with love. Unless, of course, you do something to anger your mom, and she decides to retaliate in a way that could get her locked up.

One man reached out to Reddit for advice after he realized that becoming ill after eating ramen noodles from his mother was no accident. Below, you’ll find the full story, as well as some of the replies concerned readers shared.

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    This man’s mother never wanted him to move away

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    So when he finally did, she decided to make sure that he immediately became ill

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    Family conflict over career choice with mother opposed, expressing concerns about job sustainability and work dislike.

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    Text describing feeling weak and light headed while recalling repeated calls from mother reminding to eat ramen noodles.

    Text excerpt describing suspicion of being poisoned, with mention of cyanide after online research.

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    Readers were extremely concerned, and the author joined in on the conversation to share more details

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    Later, the man shared an update on his situation

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    Watching a child leave the nest can be difficult for parents to handle

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    No matter how old you are, your parents will always see you as their baby. Even if you’re married, in medical school or have kids of your own, it’s only natural for parents to want to take care of their children. But there comes a time in most of our lives when we have to leave the nest, and it’s a lot easier to do so when you have the support of Mom and Dad.

    According to Urban Institute, the average age for young Americans to move out of their parents’ house during the 2010s was 26. Today, however, more adults are delaying the move to live independently due to high costs of living and low salaries.

    But regardless of when someone decides it’s time to fly the coop, parents should be proud that they’ve raised an adult who feels confident going off on their own. After all, having your children live with you forever might become exhausting, and it can really limit your freedom.

    When dealing with empty nest syndrome, Dr. Rachel Glik recommends that parents focus on the positives. This can be an extremely emotional time, but it’s also an opportunity to rediscover yourself. So don’t be scared to take up new hobbies, travel or make an effort to make new friends.

    You might also be able to build a better relationship with your children when you don’t see them every day. Plus, you’ve now eliminated the conflicts that arise from living together, so your relationship might be even healthier and happier. Meanwhile, you can focus on your marriage and get back to what it was like when it was just the two of you, before having kids.

    Clearly, the mother in this story had no idea how to deal with her son moving out and building his own life, so she decided to sabotage him. There was also some discussion in the comments about whether or not the mother had taken out a life insurance policy for her son, which might give her motive to poison him.

    Cyanide poisoning is extremely dangerous

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    But Money.com notes that if you want to take out a life insurance policy on another adult, you must have their consent. So unless the mother created this policy about a decade ago or the author agreed to it and simply forgot, it’s not likely that it exists. Unfortunately, it’s possible that the mother in this story simply tried to poison her son to punish him for moving out. 

    Medical News Today reports that cyanide poisoning is very dangerous, as it can cause vomiting, dizziness, headache, rapid heart rate, confusion, seizures, cardiac arrest, loss of consciousness, hypotension, lung injuries and respiratory failure. In extreme cases, it can even be fatal. 

    As far as what can cause cyanide poisoning, common sources include fire smoke from residential fires, as well as the burning of wool, silk, rubber, resins or polyurethane. Some people are also exposed to cyanide at work, if they work in gold and silver extraction, plastics and rubber processing, metallurgy, photography, tanning or fumigation.

    Cyanide is even found naturally in certain foods, such as cassava root, almonds, apples, flax and lima beans. But the quantities are low enough that we don’t have to worry when consuming them. 

    Sadly, the author noted that this experience has led to him decide that he won’t be speaking to his family again. But it’s better to lose them than to lose his life. Feel free to share your thoughts on this situation in the comments below, pandas. Then, if you’d like to check out another Bored Panda article featuring similar family drama, look no further than right here.

    Once again, the author clarified some details about his situation

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    Meanwhile, concerned readers shared advice and support

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    Howdy, I'm Adelaide! I'm originally from Texas, but after graduating from university with an acting degree, I relocated to sunny Los Angeles for a while. I then got a serious bite from the travel bug and found myself moving to Sweden and England before settling in Lithuania about three years ago. I'm passionate about animal welfare, sustainability and eating delicious food. But as you can see, I cover a wide range of topics including drama, internet trends and hilarious memes. I can easily be won over with a Seinfeld reference, vegan pastry or glass of fresh cold brew. And during my free time, I can usually be seen strolling through a park, playing tennis or baking something tasty.

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    Zoe Vokes
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It’s weird that OP very briefly mentioned that his sister had poisoned him with cyanide years ago and gave no further explanation. Why would he ever live with her again, let alone eat or drink food that isn’t sealed?

    LJS
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In the post he says that he put it down to an illness he had. So basically he only just realised when he got the same symptoms again.

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    Gen X Feral
    Community Member
    2 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    SHE'S A PSYCHIATRIC NURSE!!!! Oh lordt! This homicidal nutbag is a psychiatric nurse that despises white women according to OPs comments. That is so F'd up, I am so sorry for the patients that have to be in her care.

    Lee Gilliland
    Community Member
    Premium
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nurses, doctors, cops,politicians and teachers are all overrun with narcs. They looove positions of authority.

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    Nina
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What a weird and scary story. Why would they not want him to work at all? Why would they want to keep him at home, not just his mom but his sister as well?

    Nina
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    According to OP's last comment on his account he has moved out of state since his last post. He's doing very well with a nice job, and is in better health.

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    Sophie
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It was 11 years ago! How did it end??? Is he safe?? Did he moved??

    Marnie
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Someone above commented, "According to OP's last comment on his account he has moved out of state since his last post. He's doing very well with a nice job, and is in better health."

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    Southie
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    why would bored panda post a story from 12 years ago?

    Lee Gilliland
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Because the reporter had a deadline. BP editors don't check the Reddit posts closely because the topics are clean and it's easier to edit and repost than come up with a new article.

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    Tabitha
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Relocate, make sure you explain to hotels, roommates, employers, and friends about your situation, change your cellphone number, if you get a land line have it be unlisted, change your name if you have to, wear a GoPro everywhere like it’s a body cam so you can get video of any encounter with family or paid stalkers, do not use social media. Just disappear off the face of the Earth—-at least to your family. Move out of the country of you can transfer within your company or find a good job elsewhere. Protect yourself.

    VickyG
    Community Member
    2 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is by far the most toxic family relationship I read recently. Please DO take care. DO NOT interact with your family anymore, in whatever way. File police reports. Sue them. Take self defense classes. Get help from real friends. And lastly, as soon as possible, move out and get employment elsewhere. This time do not announce even the state (or country, I'm not kidding) where you'll take up residency. I'm so scared for you, but also hopeful, as you've already survived several attempts on your life. 👌 God bless! ᜊᜐ᜔ᜊᜐ᜔ ᜈᜒ ᜊᜆ᜔ᜑᜎ᜶ 🙏 EDIT: Oh, the fine prints!!! I just read that this happened 11 YEARS ago! I wonder how is he today? 🤔

    Lee Gilliland
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Last post was several years ago, I imagine you could pick his real name out if you tried but I have a life.

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    Nils Skirnir
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    2 months ago

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    ONE piece of bs here is that police won’t investigate an opened container for poison. Bull pucky. Horse manure. Cow s**t. Rat turds. They do it all the f*****g time. Even in Kansas. Hell they’d even do it in Missouri or Arkansas.

    LakotaWolf (she/her)
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OP said that the police said that they couldn't do anything about it, not that they wouldn't "investigate" the container. The police wouldn't be able to prove who contaminated the noodles. For all the police knew, OP contaminated it himself and then claimed his mom gave him the noodles. Investigating it is a long cry from being able to do anything about it/prove anything/prosecute anyone for it. Even dusting the noodle container for fingerprints wouldn't really help. I'm not saying OP is making this up (because I can see my mother/sister doing this to me, if I ever tried to actually escape their gravitational pull) but that he's correct that the police can't do anything about it.

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    Anony Mouse
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    2 months ago

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    Cool how he was able to order a test that doesn’t exist. This story is totally true and well written.

    Anthony Elmore
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    https://www.chemsee.com/product/cyanide-detector/ Er, it literally does exist and it's the first result if you look up Chemsee CN-30. Think you missed a result. Product was designed as a low-cost detection method. It also used to belong to the domain CyanideTest.com which still redirects there, meaning if the OP had literally just typed what he wanted as a URL, this would have been the one he'd have been taken to.

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    Zoe Vokes
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It’s weird that OP very briefly mentioned that his sister had poisoned him with cyanide years ago and gave no further explanation. Why would he ever live with her again, let alone eat or drink food that isn’t sealed?

    LJS
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In the post he says that he put it down to an illness he had. So basically he only just realised when he got the same symptoms again.

    Load More Replies...
    Gen X Feral
    Community Member
    2 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    SHE'S A PSYCHIATRIC NURSE!!!! Oh lordt! This homicidal nutbag is a psychiatric nurse that despises white women according to OPs comments. That is so F'd up, I am so sorry for the patients that have to be in her care.

    Lee Gilliland
    Community Member
    Premium
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nurses, doctors, cops,politicians and teachers are all overrun with narcs. They looove positions of authority.

    Load More Replies...
    Nina
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What a weird and scary story. Why would they not want him to work at all? Why would they want to keep him at home, not just his mom but his sister as well?

    Nina
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    According to OP's last comment on his account he has moved out of state since his last post. He's doing very well with a nice job, and is in better health.

    Load More Replies...
    Sophie
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It was 11 years ago! How did it end??? Is he safe?? Did he moved??

    Marnie
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Someone above commented, "According to OP's last comment on his account he has moved out of state since his last post. He's doing very well with a nice job, and is in better health."

    Load More Replies...
    Southie
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    why would bored panda post a story from 12 years ago?

    Lee Gilliland
    Community Member
    Premium
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Because the reporter had a deadline. BP editors don't check the Reddit posts closely because the topics are clean and it's easier to edit and repost than come up with a new article.

    Load More Replies...
    Tabitha
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Relocate, make sure you explain to hotels, roommates, employers, and friends about your situation, change your cellphone number, if you get a land line have it be unlisted, change your name if you have to, wear a GoPro everywhere like it’s a body cam so you can get video of any encounter with family or paid stalkers, do not use social media. Just disappear off the face of the Earth—-at least to your family. Move out of the country of you can transfer within your company or find a good job elsewhere. Protect yourself.

    VickyG
    Community Member
    2 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is by far the most toxic family relationship I read recently. Please DO take care. DO NOT interact with your family anymore, in whatever way. File police reports. Sue them. Take self defense classes. Get help from real friends. And lastly, as soon as possible, move out and get employment elsewhere. This time do not announce even the state (or country, I'm not kidding) where you'll take up residency. I'm so scared for you, but also hopeful, as you've already survived several attempts on your life. 👌 God bless! ᜊᜐ᜔ᜊᜐ᜔ ᜈᜒ ᜊᜆ᜔ᜑᜎ᜶ 🙏 EDIT: Oh, the fine prints!!! I just read that this happened 11 YEARS ago! I wonder how is he today? 🤔

    Lee Gilliland
    Community Member
    Premium
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Last post was several years ago, I imagine you could pick his real name out if you tried but I have a life.

    Load More Replies...
    Nils Skirnir
    Community Member
    2 months ago

    This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

    ONE piece of bs here is that police won’t investigate an opened container for poison. Bull pucky. Horse manure. Cow s**t. Rat turds. They do it all the f*****g time. Even in Kansas. Hell they’d even do it in Missouri or Arkansas.

    LakotaWolf (she/her)
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OP said that the police said that they couldn't do anything about it, not that they wouldn't "investigate" the container. The police wouldn't be able to prove who contaminated the noodles. For all the police knew, OP contaminated it himself and then claimed his mom gave him the noodles. Investigating it is a long cry from being able to do anything about it/prove anything/prosecute anyone for it. Even dusting the noodle container for fingerprints wouldn't really help. I'm not saying OP is making this up (because I can see my mother/sister doing this to me, if I ever tried to actually escape their gravitational pull) but that he's correct that the police can't do anything about it.

    Load More Replies...
    Anony Mouse
    Community Member
    2 months ago

    This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

    Cool how he was able to order a test that doesn’t exist. This story is totally true and well written.

    Anthony Elmore
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    https://www.chemsee.com/product/cyanide-detector/ Er, it literally does exist and it's the first result if you look up Chemsee CN-30. Think you missed a result. Product was designed as a low-cost detection method. It also used to belong to the domain CyanideTest.com which still redirects there, meaning if the OP had literally just typed what he wanted as a URL, this would have been the one he'd have been taken to.

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