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Mother Who Had To Choose Between Saving Herself And Her Baby Passes Away At 33
Mother Who Had To Choose Between Saving Herself And Her Baby Passes Away At 33
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Mother Who Had To Choose Between Saving Herself And Her Baby Passes Away At 33

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A woman named Azzurra Carnelos passed away after deciding to stop the chemotherapy for her breast cancer treatment to give birth to her son. 

In 2019, Azzurra received the devastating news that she had breast cancer after a “premonitory” dream had prompted her to get a check-up. In her dream, her grandmother, Nori, who died from this form of cancer, suggested she go to the doctor for a mammogram.

Highlights
  • Azzurra Carnelos passed away at 33 after stopping chemotherapy to protect her baby's health.
  • Azzurra was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2019 after a "premonitory dream" prompted her to get a check-up.
  • Despite medical efforts, Azzurra's cancer advanced too far, leading to her passing in April.

Following her diagnosis, the Italian woman started undergoing chemotherapy.

At the time, the treatment proved successful, and Azzurra was put in remission.

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    She and her husband, Francesco Favero, shared the dream of forming a family. Their wish came true in 2022 when Azzurra learned she was expecting a baby.

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    Sadly, after another medical examination, the senior financial analyst discovered, the following year, that the cancer had returned, this time with a more aggressive nature.

    She was then faced with a heartbreaking decision: continue with the treatment that would put her baby’s health at risk or stop it and risk her own life. Azzurra decided on the latter option and suspended her chemotherapy at her 32nd week of pregnancy.

    “She was only given drugs that did not harm the fetus, but then she had to stop those too,” Francesco, who gave up his job to be alongside his wife during her last days at the hospital, told La Repubblica.

    After successfully undergoing chemotherapy in 2019, Azzurra faced the devastating news of her cancer coming back four years later during her pregnancy

    Image credits: Azzurra Carnelos/LinkedIn

    She had to choose between continuing the treatment that would put her baby’s health at risk or stop it and risk her own life

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    Image credits: Fabrizio Carnelos

    Doctors from the neonatology service of the Ca’ Foncello hospital in Treviso had advised her to bring the birth of her baby forward so she could resume treatment as soon as possible.

    According to CancerResearchUK, chemotherapy should stop 3-4 weeks before delivery. This is because the treatment can lower a patient’s white blood cell counts, which can increase the risk of infection in both the mother and the baby around the time of delivery.

    “She was happy like this, despite everything. With her sacrifice, she gave us life,” Azzurra’s husband, Francesco Favero, said

    Image credits: Fabrizio Carnelos

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    Azzurra gave birth to Antonio in August 2023. 

    Unfortunately, despite the medical efforts, her cancer had progressed too far for the treatment to be effective.

    On Saturday (April 13), she passed away in her home in Oderzo, Italy, at 33 years old. Her funeral was held on Thursday (April 18) at Oderzo Cathedral. 

    “She faced every moment with courage and conviction. I still remember her smile when our baby started saying ‘mommy.’ She was happy like this, despite everything. With her sacrifice, she gave us life,” Azzurra’s husband said.

    People commented on Azzurra’s “beautiful and selfless” act

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    Marina Urman

    Writer, Entertainment News Writer

    With a degree in social science and a love for culture, I approach entertainment journalism at Bored Panda with a research-driven mindset. I write about celebrity news, Hollywood highlights, and viral stories that spark curiosity worldwide. My work has reached millions of readers and is recognized for balancing accuracy with an engaging voice. I believe that pop culture isn’t just entertainment, it reflects the social conversations shaping our time.

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    Limey
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don’t think this is heartwarming at all. Nor (I will get downvoted for this I am sure) do I think it is sensible.

    Alro
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Everybody weighs risks and consequences differently.... My weighing system seems to go in the same direction as yours. Wishing no "your mum died for you"- effect to the child.

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    Marla
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This doesn't feel heartwarming

    Kare Deter
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Let's all take a moment to let the realization dawn that in many states in the USA the mother wouldn't even have a choice. Fetus > mother. Otherwise, although this is a sad story, I don't really see that a choice was made. The woman was going to perish regardless, she was on chemo till 32 weeks.

    The Original Bruno
    Community Member
    1 year ago

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    I'll get downvoted like mad because BP hates a two-sided political discussion, but In no state, and in no time in U.S. history, and not in the Catholic Church nor any other Church is the life of the fetus held ABOVE the life of the mother. There have, however, been cases where Catholic health professionals have refused to be involved in abortions that the media hysterically and deceitfully reported were "to save the mother's life," such as hypertension (high blood pressure), etc. Compare to Europe where legal exceptions "to save the mother's life" have resulted in people regarding abortion as being simply legal. (Most European nations until the last several years prohibited abortion, but had health exceptions which were so broad as to make the restrictions de facto nonexistent,

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    Emie N.
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Now the poor kid will grow up without a mom. This is FAR from heartwarming.

    Debby Keir
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a nurse I have known this situation, but unfortunately she didn't last long enough to go to term, so both were lost.

    Scotira
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a radiation therapist I've seen this as well. I have treated pregnant women and tried everything to spare the baby. I've had women who ended pregnancies in order to get the best treatment. And lastly I have treated children who got cancer as a result of the mother having undergone chemo and/ or radiation therapy while pregnant. Any way you go you loose. To me this situation ist just sad 😢

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    Laura Lou
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a friend where something similar happened, and I remember how it tore them up. They truly believed they killed their mother, and it weighed heavily on them.

    Becca not Becky
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wonder what her prognosis was before she stopped the chemo, since the recurrence was a more aggressive form. If it was just a palliative measure or she was looking at a poor outcome even with the chemo, then it would make sense that she would want to use what was left of her life to do something she always wanted to do. Chemo is not always a cure, and often just buys someone an extra year (if that). Either way, it was her choice and she was at peace with it.

    Sunshine Lady
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was thinking the same. Only she knew what were the prognosis and risks. Let her RIP.

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    FreeTheUnicorn
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Throwing away a person for a possible person sounds like just the sort of logic suicidal brain comes up with. Why there are others enabling and even celebrating this is beyond me.

    CanadianDimes
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep. Let’s stop romanticizing women dying, period.

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    Asexual aromantic sea sponge
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I grew up in the southern US and took care of a lot of animals. I was raised to believe that the mother's life was more important than a baby that might not even make it. I do not find this story to be sweet or heartwarming. It was her choice of course, but not one that I would have made.

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    Limey
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don’t think this is heartwarming at all. Nor (I will get downvoted for this I am sure) do I think it is sensible.

    Alro
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Everybody weighs risks and consequences differently.... My weighing system seems to go in the same direction as yours. Wishing no "your mum died for you"- effect to the child.

    Load More Replies...
    Marla
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This doesn't feel heartwarming

    Kare Deter
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Let's all take a moment to let the realization dawn that in many states in the USA the mother wouldn't even have a choice. Fetus > mother. Otherwise, although this is a sad story, I don't really see that a choice was made. The woman was going to perish regardless, she was on chemo till 32 weeks.

    The Original Bruno
    Community Member
    1 year ago

    This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

    I'll get downvoted like mad because BP hates a two-sided political discussion, but In no state, and in no time in U.S. history, and not in the Catholic Church nor any other Church is the life of the fetus held ABOVE the life of the mother. There have, however, been cases where Catholic health professionals have refused to be involved in abortions that the media hysterically and deceitfully reported were "to save the mother's life," such as hypertension (high blood pressure), etc. Compare to Europe where legal exceptions "to save the mother's life" have resulted in people regarding abortion as being simply legal. (Most European nations until the last several years prohibited abortion, but had health exceptions which were so broad as to make the restrictions de facto nonexistent,

    Load More Replies...
    Emie N.
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Now the poor kid will grow up without a mom. This is FAR from heartwarming.

    Debby Keir
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a nurse I have known this situation, but unfortunately she didn't last long enough to go to term, so both were lost.

    Scotira
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a radiation therapist I've seen this as well. I have treated pregnant women and tried everything to spare the baby. I've had women who ended pregnancies in order to get the best treatment. And lastly I have treated children who got cancer as a result of the mother having undergone chemo and/ or radiation therapy while pregnant. Any way you go you loose. To me this situation ist just sad 😢

    Load More Replies...
    Laura Lou
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a friend where something similar happened, and I remember how it tore them up. They truly believed they killed their mother, and it weighed heavily on them.

    Becca not Becky
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wonder what her prognosis was before she stopped the chemo, since the recurrence was a more aggressive form. If it was just a palliative measure or she was looking at a poor outcome even with the chemo, then it would make sense that she would want to use what was left of her life to do something she always wanted to do. Chemo is not always a cure, and often just buys someone an extra year (if that). Either way, it was her choice and she was at peace with it.

    Sunshine Lady
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was thinking the same. Only she knew what were the prognosis and risks. Let her RIP.

    Load More Replies...
    FreeTheUnicorn
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Throwing away a person for a possible person sounds like just the sort of logic suicidal brain comes up with. Why there are others enabling and even celebrating this is beyond me.

    CanadianDimes
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep. Let’s stop romanticizing women dying, period.

    Load More Replies...
    Asexual aromantic sea sponge
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I grew up in the southern US and took care of a lot of animals. I was raised to believe that the mother's life was more important than a baby that might not even make it. I do not find this story to be sweet or heartwarming. It was her choice of course, but not one that I would have made.

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