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Mom Wants A Whole Year To Celebrate Her Birthday, Tells Daughter Her Wedding Can Wait
A mother comforts her daughter, who looks upset. This image shows the challenges of family wedding planning and birthdays.

Mom Wants A Whole Year To Celebrate Her Birthday, Tells Daughter Her Wedding Can Wait

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Postponing a wedding is quite common nowadays. Planning takes a long time, and sometimes the unexpected happens, so, rather than have an imperfect wedding, many couples choose to reschedule. In fact, about 20% of couples call off their weddings, but usually the reasons are inside the relationship itself: infidelity, irreconcilable differences, or changed priorities.

Seldom does a couple postpone or call off their wedding because their in-laws request it. Yet, that’s exactly what this mother asked of her daughter. She requested that she not get married the year she turns 50, as that would take the spotlight off her. Unsure of whether this was a reasonable request, the bride decided to seek advice online.

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    Since it was the year of her mother’s 50th, she believed the wedding would take the spotlight off her and demanded the wedding be postponed to the next year

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    “Her birthday is in February and the wedding is planned for August, so many months apart,” the bride clarified in the comments

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    Commenters speculated why this was so important to the mother: “Your mom must be the star of the show, huh?”

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    After talking to her mother one-on-one, the bride came back with an update

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    Most commenters sided with the bride: “Elope and don’t invite her”

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    Kornelija Viečaitė

    Kornelija Viečaitė

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    Hi there, fellow pandas! As a person (over)educated both in social sciences and literature, I'm most interested in how we connect and behave online (and sometimes in real life too.) The human experience is weird, so I try my best to put its peculiarities in writing. As a person who grew up chronically online, I now try to marry two sides of myself: the one who knows too much about MySpace, and the one who can't settle and needs to see every corner of the world.

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    Kornelija Viečaitė

    Kornelija Viečaitė

    Writer, BoredPanda staff

    Hi there, fellow pandas! As a person (over)educated both in social sciences and literature, I'm most interested in how we connect and behave online (and sometimes in real life too.) The human experience is weird, so I try my best to put its peculiarities in writing. As a person who grew up chronically online, I now try to marry two sides of myself: the one who knows too much about MySpace, and the one who can't settle and needs to see every corner of the world.

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    Upstaged75
    Community Member
    8 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh come on. Have the wedding whenever you want to. F.uck the mom and her "birthday year". 🙄 I turned 50 last year and didn't even celebrate for an entire day! I wouldn't want her involved in the wedding planning anyway - she's a selfish idiot.

    moggiemoo
    Community Member
    4 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't know what planet you live on if you think 80 people is 'small as hell'. My wedding was small as hell. Me, wife, priest and two witnesses.

    FluffyDreg
    Community Member
    4 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah. I'm hoping to have a small "wedding." My wife, I, and immediate family. 10 max. 80???? Thats moderate atleast.

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    Kate Johnson
    Community Member
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    7 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I absolutely would NOT marry a woman this enmeshed with her nasty psycho family. You're looking at your future dude, run away!

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    Upstaged75
    Community Member
    8 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh come on. Have the wedding whenever you want to. F.uck the mom and her "birthday year". 🙄 I turned 50 last year and didn't even celebrate for an entire day! I wouldn't want her involved in the wedding planning anyway - she's a selfish idiot.

    moggiemoo
    Community Member
    4 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't know what planet you live on if you think 80 people is 'small as hell'. My wedding was small as hell. Me, wife, priest and two witnesses.

    FluffyDreg
    Community Member
    4 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah. I'm hoping to have a small "wedding." My wife, I, and immediate family. 10 max. 80???? Thats moderate atleast.

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    Kate Johnson
    Community Member
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    7 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I absolutely would NOT marry a woman this enmeshed with her nasty psycho family. You're looking at your future dude, run away!

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