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“He Turned Red, He Spit, He Coughed”: Entitled Son Learns The Hard Way Not To Cross Mom
Young people are moving back with their parents in greater numbers than ever before. The stigma that once surrounded such living situations has lifted, and more adults are returning home to cut costs, pay off debt, or save toward their goals. However, for many, this transition feels like a big step backward, which can make getting along with parents more difficult.
This family had a hard time getting used to their 27-year-old son moving back home too, as he couldn’t stop criticizing his mom’s cooking. Luckily, they found a solution, which led to him packing his bags again.
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In this family, the cause of the issue was the son, who couldn’t stop criticizing mom’s cooking
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26 million Americans between the ages of 18 and 29 live with one or both parents
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More than 26 million Americans between the ages of 18 and 29 reported living with one or both parents in 2022. This is happening mainly due to the economy and the pandemic, which made it harder for young people to establish their careers, gain independence and live on their own.
However, it’s not something that young adults should be ashamed or embarrassed of. A person’s 20s is the time to find footing in the world and if it takes a little bit longer, it’s no big deal. Returning to live with parents can help save money, which can be used to pay off student debts or put some finances aside for a house downpayment. It also relieves some worries about accommodation if a person is between jobs. Not to mention, the family gets the opportunity to spend some quality time together that shouldn’t be taken for granted.
Despite all the positives, the new dynamic might take some time getting used to, which means that disagreements about boundaries and house rules may become more frequent. Indeed, losing privacy and a sense of freedom can be frustrating. However, these emotions shouldn’t translate into family conflicts.
Living at home might also hinder adult’s motivation levels, as having fewer responsibilities that are now also shared can make them too comfortable if they’re not careful. This additionally may discourage them from finding a job or moving out when the time is right.
Both parties should be tolerant and respect each other’s boundaries so they can enjoy living together
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So to make this arrangement work, it’s important to keep in mind that this time around everyone is now an adult. What this means is that children shouldn’t fall back to their childhood ways and expect parents to do most things for them. Instead, they should help out with cooking and other household chores and offer to pay for groceries and utility bills.
All of this, of course, should be discussed prior to a child moving in, along with some other boundaries that would make living together easier for both parties. This will vary from situation to situation, but for instance, the family could talk about when guests visits are welcome, if knocking on the door before entering is required and when is quiet time for resting.
For children specifically, it could also be beneficial to have a financial plan and a date for moving out. They should try to figure out what they’ll do with the money they saved and when they should start living on their own again. It will give structure and something to look forward to people who may feel guilty or embarrassed to return home.
Additionally, they shouldn’t forget to take care of themselves and their mental health by getting outside, meeting friends, moving in the gym or going on dates. Living with parents doesn’t mean that a person needs to lock themselves in their home. Besides, parents too want some free time so try to give them their space to live the way they want or are used to.
Moving back with parents can be a real financial saver if a person has a meticulous plan and sticks to it. In the meantime, both parties should be tolerant and respect each other’s boundaries so they can enjoy living together and avoid any frustrations or arguments.
Readers were questioning how the parents ever allowed such son’s behavior
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Ace 10 months ago
Not really, TBH. Needed more suspense, more drama. An AI would probably have done it better than this.
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Thanos'Fingers 10 months ago
I find it absolutely hilarious that the dude these guys hold up as the epitome of masculinity is some annoying British nerd who was raised by a chess champion... He's the sort of dude I flick my gum into the open back windows of his car at stop lights because he's blasting dubstep and wearing sunglasses at 9pm. He's the sort of dude you want to run up and kick in the shin from across the mall, even as a small child. He's the sort of dude who walks into a gas station and the tenant has to yell "you know it's illegal to buy beer for minors, right?!" He's a loser, with a band of losers.
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Libstak 10 months ago (edited)
Where is the poll option of completely unreasonable? Come on, that is more than an "overreaction"...it is utterly uncalled for. His go to is to move to his brothers rather than cook his own meals, is his brother married or in a relationship? They need to be warned and not let him in.
Ace 10 months ago
Not really, TBH. Needed more suspense, more drama. An AI would probably have done it better than this.
Load More Replies... Thanos'Fingers 10 months ago
I find it absolutely hilarious that the dude these guys hold up as the epitome of masculinity is some annoying British nerd who was raised by a chess champion... He's the sort of dude I flick my gum into the open back windows of his car at stop lights because he's blasting dubstep and wearing sunglasses at 9pm. He's the sort of dude you want to run up and kick in the shin from across the mall, even as a small child. He's the sort of dude who walks into a gas station and the tenant has to yell "you know it's illegal to buy beer for minors, right?!" He's a loser, with a band of losers.
Load More Replies... Libstak 10 months ago (edited)
Where is the poll option of completely unreasonable? Come on, that is more than an "overreaction"...it is utterly uncalled for. His go to is to move to his brothers rather than cook his own meals, is his brother married or in a relationship? They need to be warned and not let him in.
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