Woman Stops Doing Chores, Sees How Long Her Family Will Last Until They Do It Themselves
Chores are a sore subject at home even at the best of times. But during the pandemic… well, it can be a real source of tension when you’re seemingly doing everything all by yourself. From working from home while helping the kids study via Zoom and then tidying up the entire home while making dinner. It’s exhausting.
So it’s no wonder that some moms have had enough. One of them is Twitter user Miss Potkin who conducted a fun little experiment at home. She decided that enough is enough and stopped doing chores, hoping to see how long it would be before someone picked up the slack.
It’s fun, it’s educational, and we’d love to get David Attenborough to narrate the entire story below. Have a look, dear Pandas, and be sure to let us know if you plan to do anything similar at your home. Oh, and we’d love to hear which chores you hate and love to do the most (I adore doing the dishes but loathe vacuuming myself).
A mom documented how her family reacted after she secretly stopped doing all of the chores at home
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Her tweets are absolutely hilarious and read like a mini-documentary
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Her family have resorted to using whatever clean utensils are around
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Progress, however, was inevitable sooner or later
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However, there are plenty of other areas where everyone could stand to pitch in a bit more
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We feel you, Miss Potkin. Empty containers make us anxious, too
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The sausage of death. pic.twitter.com/a8DcDulfFT
— Miss Potkin (@MissPotkin) March 18, 2021
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Unwashed plates being left behind everywhere is a pet peeve of ours, as well as the Twitter user’s
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God give me strength. pic.twitter.com/Sp5870VmcV
— Miss Potkin (@MissPotkin) March 18, 2021
Someone just discovered the joy of scraping rock hard old cereal off a bowl. Big day, BIG, huge. pic.twitter.com/gitNEI55xz
— Miss Potkin (@MissPotkin) March 18, 2021
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It’s taken a while, but it looks like Miss Potkin’s family members have gotten the clue
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There’s even been some progress in the toilet paper department at home
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The changes at home have been magnificent. It just took a bit of time
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Hurray! A wholesome ending to the story!
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Bored Panda spoke about how to stop arguments over chores from spinning out of control with relationship expert Dan Bacon, the founder of The Modern Man. Dan was upfront that we all need to adjust to the unique situation (i.e. the Covid-19 pandemic that’s been going on for over a year) we’re in.
Dan approached the topic by pointing out that some guys believe it’s ‘unmanly’ to do chores. However, he put their worries at rest. “If a man isn’t normally at home during the day and his girlfriend or wife does most of the cleaning and chores, but he is now working from home all day and is at home all weekend, it’s not unmanly for him to help out here and there around the house.”
The relationship expert even opened up about his own living situation. “Personally speaking, I work full-time hours from home every day and my wife does the cooking, cleaning, and takes care of our twin baby girls. Yet, due to the fact that we can’t go out on weekends or catch up with friends during the week due to the Covid-19 lockdown, we are housebound the entire week.”
He continued: “This means I have a lot more spare time on weekends than usual. As a result, I have done some of the chores when I’ve felt that I had some additional spare time (e.g. occasionally cleaning up the kitchen and lounge room) as well as doing my normal chores of taking out the garbage and feeding our cats.”
In Dan’s particular situation, his wife never had to ask him to do the extra chores. He’s been chipping in on his own accord because “it doesn’t feel right to be spending all my extra time watching TV, playing video games, or talking to friends on the phone while she works all weekend.”
The relationship expert said that couples need to adapt to the pandemic and do their best to solve any chore-related issues in a friendly way instead of attacking or blaming one another for not doing enough.
“If you get into the habit of coming from a place of attacking the other person, the relationship and the love that binds you together will weaken over time,” he said. “Eventually, after many months or years of unhappiness and built-up resentment, the slightest thing can set off a huge argument that leads to a break-up.”
Here’s how some people reacted to the mom’s thread on Twitter. Not everyone enjoyed the social experiment
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Meanwhile, in an earlier interview with Bored Panda, Eddy Ng, the James and Elizabeth Freeman Professor of Management at Bucknell University, told us how the pandemic has unfairly affected working women.
“Women, even those in professional and managerial jobs, continue to take on a second shift (caring for family) after the first shift at the office. We continue to subscribe to gender roles, even in many egalitarian societies,” he explained.
Professor Ng said that this explains the “persistent pay gap and an underrepresentation of women in senior management and higher-paying jobs.” He added that during the lockdowns, men’s higher-paying careers have been prioritized over women’s which are seen as “supplemental income” even in Western countries.
“Women reorganize their work around family demands, men often do not. Unequal division of labor is exacerbated when a family could no longer access paid help (COVID restrictions), and women will have to pick up the slack.”
Some people criticized that she should communicate her needs instead of being passive-agressive. From what she writes, she communicated her needs over and over and her family didn't change their behavior. So what she did was totally justified and also hilarious. Also it should not be her responsibility to carry all the mental load. If there are dishes to be cleaned, she should not have to remind people to load the dishwater and also actually start it!
Yea and wtf is up with her having to ask him for "help"? When tf did chores become her sole responsibility? He can do chores, she doesn't need to ask him
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For those of you saying she should've just asked the husband instead of doing this. She has probably been asking him for too long and got tired of having to remind him to do these chores all the time. Some moms just want contribution from others in the house without having to remind someone every day.
We shouldn't need to remind them. it's EVERYONE's home, ergo everyone chips in ----- my mom taught me that. Never worked on my dad, but she did teach me, at least!
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"hey, babe, I'm tired, can you help with the dishes?" are you f*****g kidding me? hell no he can't "help with the *whatever*"... it's HIS dishes too, he's supposed to DO them, not HELP with them... that's the same bullshit as "babysitting your own kids" all over again
Some people criticized that she should communicate her needs instead of being passive-agressive. From what she writes, she communicated her needs over and over and her family didn't change their behavior. So what she did was totally justified and also hilarious. Also it should not be her responsibility to carry all the mental load. If there are dishes to be cleaned, she should not have to remind people to load the dishwater and also actually start it!
Yea and wtf is up with her having to ask him for "help"? When tf did chores become her sole responsibility? He can do chores, she doesn't need to ask him
Load More Replies... For those of you saying she should've just asked the husband instead of doing this. She has probably been asking him for too long and got tired of having to remind him to do these chores all the time. Some moms just want contribution from others in the house without having to remind someone every day.
We shouldn't need to remind them. it's EVERYONE's home, ergo everyone chips in ----- my mom taught me that. Never worked on my dad, but she did teach me, at least!
Load More Replies... "hey, babe, I'm tired, can you help with the dishes?" are you f*****g kidding me? hell no he can't "help with the *whatever*"... it's HIS dishes too, he's supposed to DO them, not HELP with them... that's the same bullshit as "babysitting your own kids" all over again
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