Homeschooling Mom Doesn’t Teach Her Kids Anything They Don’t Want, Happy To See 6YO Write “Egg”
Opinions vary wildly on what constitutes a proper approach to learning. Even politicians weigh in on what should and shouldn’t be taught in schools. But what about parents who want to avoid traditional education? Well, for that, there’s homeschooling, and there’s no shortage of literature on what is at times a controversial topic.
Of course, if you do choose to go that route, it may make sense to have a solid curriculum and predefined school hours to teach your kids the value of discipline and routine. For one TikTok mom, though, she’s decided to fly in the face of these concepts and released a video explaining her unorthodox approach to homeschooling, leaving netizens stunned.
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“So we don’t teach our children anything. Everything that they learn is in response to either their interests or their questions”
Image credits: mami.onami
Homeschooling mom wows netizens with her laid-back approach to her kids’ education
Image credits: mami.onami
Image credits: RDNE Stock project (not the actual photo)
The mom went on to brag about her 6YO son’s progress, taking viewers through the scrawled words in his notebook
Meet @mami.onami, a mom who turned to TikTok to spill the tea about how she homeschools her kids. In her one-and-a-half minute long post, she explains, “So we don’t teach our children anything. Everything that they learn is in response to either their interests or their questions.”
In the clip that has since gone viral, the woman boasts that they have no curriculum and no school hours. According to her, “We really just respond whenever they want to know something and do our best to make sure they really get it.”
The woman goes on to say that her biggest fear about free schooling was that if her kids only went towards what they were interested in, would they still be interested in things like reading, writing and math? According to the mom of two, “It will come at the right time.”
She added that if parents don’t like this idea of sending their kids away for 40 hours a week and then wondering why they have no energy to do anything else, if they’re not into their kids conforming, they should trust that they can follow their interests and their kids will learn everything they need to learn, not what other people need them to learn. She ends the video with a pithy, “You’re welcome.”
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Watch the full video here
@mami.onami The best part is that my son LOVES learning, LOVES beginning something new, and is experienced with practicing things until he improves. They do this school because they want to, and when you want to know something; your retention is 💯. Learn more about what we teach our kids at the story highlight “we teach them” #freeschool#unschool @Your Natural Learner ♬ original sound – Mami Onami
The mom says her kids will learn everything they need to learn, not what other people need them to learn
According to a post on CalvertEducation.com, homeschooling in the United States has been growing at a fast rate over the last decade. Some estimates have the number of homeschoolers at over 2 million.
It’s not a system that’s confined to the USA, either; in Europe, virtually every country, except for Germany, allows homeschooling, with the United Kingdom and France very popular for homeschoolers.
Research tells us that homeschooling is also exploding in the Middle East, UAE, Saudi Arabia, Egypt, South Africa, Kenya, Ghana, and even India, Brazil, and China.
According to an article on EvolveOnline.co.za, homeschooling can be an attractive option for many parents for a variety of reasons. For example, homeschooling provides a more flexible schedule, which can be especially helpful for families with busy schedules or unique circumstances.
Additionally, homeschooling allows for a more controlled learning environment, free from negative peer pressure or distractions. However, homeschooling does have its downsides.
Image credits: Sarah Dietz (not the actual photo)
One major disadvantage is the lack of socialization opportunities for children. Homeschooled children may miss out on the social interactions and experiences that public school provides, which can be important for their development.
Besides the obvious harms of homeschooling, there are somewhat more insidious aspects of choosing this path, as detailed by some Redditors.
One commented, “Lack of guidance when planning options after high school. My parents both dropped out of high school and they had no idea how to help me figure out college. I scheduled my own SATs and my parents didn’t even know they were a thing. If I’d been enrolled in public school I would have had more support for sure.”
Another Redditor added that while she got a pretty good history/English/literature education due to her mother’s education and passion, her math and science education was pretty much self-taught after 8th grade, which definitely limited her options after graduation.
Viewers of the video didn’t hold back, with many saying her 6YO son was obviously well behind where he should be, and that his future was in jeopardy unless some things changed, parenting-wise.
What do you think of this mom’s approach to her children’s education? Let us know your opinion in the comments!
Reactions to the viral video followed a common theme – this is a disservice to the kids
This is exactly what I did with my children *OUTSIDE OF SCHOOL TIMES*. We talked about many things, made many things, learned many things, etc. But it was in 'addition to', not 'instead of'.
This is part I really hate parents who say they teach the kids anything they ask for. They are not parents, they just don't wanna put any effort into it at all. Did't read to most part so could get things wrong about this, but statement still stands for it self.
Load More Replies...How is it even legal to 'home school' your kids without any need to satisfy the most basic requirements?
In many states in the US homeschooling has no oversight and/or required benchmarks. There'a also efforts in spme states to divert money from public schools to give grants to people who homeschool. It's bonkers.
Load More Replies...I think I'll pass on the child rearing tips from the gal with a forehead tattoo.
Agree. Look what stupid c**p mom did to her own body- which won't look "cute" when gravity takes it's toll. And it will badly when she literally has to do EVERYTHING for this kid she intentionally crippled academically. She screams "I'm an idiot!" from a mile away!
Load More Replies...Can confirm. My mom forced me into homeschooling after 7th grade (I was im public school up until then.) Luckily my dad taught me the curriculum, and he was a smart dude, but my mom forced me to take the GED (high school equivalency) when I was 14 and made me start college that year as well. I was 14. In college. I had NO friends. I am still socially effed up from being homeschooled. All because my mom wanted to be able to brag that she had a "genius child" who started college at 14. Spoiler: I'm not a genius, never have been, and I never finished college.
Load More Replies...Former teacher here, who homeschooled my son: My son had severe ADHD and couldn't sit still/maintain focus long enough to read the fiction books dictated by his school. It was a daily struggle. I pulled him from school at 10 years old. I didn't create a higly-regimented curriculum for him, and instead let him jump around from subject to subject based on his interest the time. He is now a voracious non-fiction reader, and completed two degrees with honors. Homeschooling done properly is very labor-intensive. I'm not sure that I could have properly created and administered a curriculum without my teaching background.
But at least you let him stay in public school long enough to build a FOUNDATION first of basic reading, writing, and math skills. This kid won't even have that as a starting point to base a curriculum off of since he can't learn those skills by osmosis!
Load More Replies...So many of the absolute WRONG people have gravitated toward homeschooling in recent years. People who barely graduated high school, or even some who didn’t, yet they think they’re qualified to replace trained and educated professionals when it comes to educating their children. I really have pity on the kids, especially when they’re older and competing for jobs with people who went to school and were taught by professionals who actually knew what they were doing. Now, having your child tutored, basically the tutor being a private teacher, would be a viable substitute. Educated parents who are capable of teaching, and parents who pool resources and have their kids be a kind of small class that’s taught by the most qualified parent or a tutor (all the parents contributing to the tutor’s salary, etc), would also work. But the others, including this woman, are nothing but the blind leading the blind, or the stupid leading the stupid—-right to the welfare rolls, along with the other functional illiterates who were “homeschooled”, or this brand of “unschooled”, by unqualified parents.
Yeah, there's no way that "No GED" mommy is gonna replace having that master's degree in teaching, lol!
Load More Replies...Possibly unpopular opinion, but this isn't a bad approach for very young kids. However, with her son being six I think she should be engaging him in more rigorous activities, preferably also spending time with children from outside their family. She's doing him a disservice by not laying the foundation for his future education. I'm not saying following kids' interests is bad, but he needs to know basic maths, reading and writing first.
I don't understand how this can be legal. And perhaps off topic, bit she seems manic.
in the comments in the original post, one commenter stated that he stayed at the Air BnB she ran, and while he was a guest there, he microdosed acid (LSD) with her.
Load More Replies..." in Europe, virtually every country, except for Germany, allows homeschooling, with the United Kingdom and France very popular for homeschoolers." What a load of tosh. Implication is that it's common and easy, whereas in fact it's very rare and very difficult to achieve, effectively requiring that you do as much work and cover broadly the same subjects, to the same level, as you would in school. And you need to prove, in advance and ongoing, that you can and do achieve this. It's very few parents that have the skill and knowledge, let alone the time, to do so, and even fewer that would want to.
In my country homeschooling is only allowed in 3 specific circumstances: the parents are itinerant, your child is either mentally or physically not able to attend a normal school and there is no school within a reasonable distance that has your particular religious signature. And mark that schools with a religious signature still have to adhere to the national curriculum.
Load More Replies...This is exactly what I did with my children *OUTSIDE OF SCHOOL TIMES*. We talked about many things, made many things, learned many things, etc. But it was in 'addition to', not 'instead of'.
This is part I really hate parents who say they teach the kids anything they ask for. They are not parents, they just don't wanna put any effort into it at all. Did't read to most part so could get things wrong about this, but statement still stands for it self.
Load More Replies...How is it even legal to 'home school' your kids without any need to satisfy the most basic requirements?
In many states in the US homeschooling has no oversight and/or required benchmarks. There'a also efforts in spme states to divert money from public schools to give grants to people who homeschool. It's bonkers.
Load More Replies...I think I'll pass on the child rearing tips from the gal with a forehead tattoo.
Agree. Look what stupid c**p mom did to her own body- which won't look "cute" when gravity takes it's toll. And it will badly when she literally has to do EVERYTHING for this kid she intentionally crippled academically. She screams "I'm an idiot!" from a mile away!
Load More Replies...Can confirm. My mom forced me into homeschooling after 7th grade (I was im public school up until then.) Luckily my dad taught me the curriculum, and he was a smart dude, but my mom forced me to take the GED (high school equivalency) when I was 14 and made me start college that year as well. I was 14. In college. I had NO friends. I am still socially effed up from being homeschooled. All because my mom wanted to be able to brag that she had a "genius child" who started college at 14. Spoiler: I'm not a genius, never have been, and I never finished college.
Load More Replies...Former teacher here, who homeschooled my son: My son had severe ADHD and couldn't sit still/maintain focus long enough to read the fiction books dictated by his school. It was a daily struggle. I pulled him from school at 10 years old. I didn't create a higly-regimented curriculum for him, and instead let him jump around from subject to subject based on his interest the time. He is now a voracious non-fiction reader, and completed two degrees with honors. Homeschooling done properly is very labor-intensive. I'm not sure that I could have properly created and administered a curriculum without my teaching background.
But at least you let him stay in public school long enough to build a FOUNDATION first of basic reading, writing, and math skills. This kid won't even have that as a starting point to base a curriculum off of since he can't learn those skills by osmosis!
Load More Replies...So many of the absolute WRONG people have gravitated toward homeschooling in recent years. People who barely graduated high school, or even some who didn’t, yet they think they’re qualified to replace trained and educated professionals when it comes to educating their children. I really have pity on the kids, especially when they’re older and competing for jobs with people who went to school and were taught by professionals who actually knew what they were doing. Now, having your child tutored, basically the tutor being a private teacher, would be a viable substitute. Educated parents who are capable of teaching, and parents who pool resources and have their kids be a kind of small class that’s taught by the most qualified parent or a tutor (all the parents contributing to the tutor’s salary, etc), would also work. But the others, including this woman, are nothing but the blind leading the blind, or the stupid leading the stupid—-right to the welfare rolls, along with the other functional illiterates who were “homeschooled”, or this brand of “unschooled”, by unqualified parents.
Yeah, there's no way that "No GED" mommy is gonna replace having that master's degree in teaching, lol!
Load More Replies...Possibly unpopular opinion, but this isn't a bad approach for very young kids. However, with her son being six I think she should be engaging him in more rigorous activities, preferably also spending time with children from outside their family. She's doing him a disservice by not laying the foundation for his future education. I'm not saying following kids' interests is bad, but he needs to know basic maths, reading and writing first.
I don't understand how this can be legal. And perhaps off topic, bit she seems manic.
in the comments in the original post, one commenter stated that he stayed at the Air BnB she ran, and while he was a guest there, he microdosed acid (LSD) with her.
Load More Replies..." in Europe, virtually every country, except for Germany, allows homeschooling, with the United Kingdom and France very popular for homeschoolers." What a load of tosh. Implication is that it's common and easy, whereas in fact it's very rare and very difficult to achieve, effectively requiring that you do as much work and cover broadly the same subjects, to the same level, as you would in school. And you need to prove, in advance and ongoing, that you can and do achieve this. It's very few parents that have the skill and knowledge, let alone the time, to do so, and even fewer that would want to.
In my country homeschooling is only allowed in 3 specific circumstances: the parents are itinerant, your child is either mentally or physically not able to attend a normal school and there is no school within a reasonable distance that has your particular religious signature. And mark that schools with a religious signature still have to adhere to the national curriculum.
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