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Dad Raises Daughter For 10 Years, One Conversation Makes Him Question Everything
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Dad Raises Daughter For 10 Years, One Conversation Makes Him Question Everything

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For some parents, children are their whole world — like an extension of themselves. That’s why finding out that a child you thought was yours is biologically someone else’s can be devastating news. Such occurrences are rare, as only about 1-3% of dads unknowingly may not be their children’s biological fathers, but it doesn’t make finding out the truth any less heartbreaking.

This man had to find out the news from a mutual friend of his and his wife’s. After he came back from a road trip with his son, he immediately confronted his wife. In an online post, the man detailed how things went and came back with an update about a paternity test two weeks later.

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    When he came back home, he confronted his wife about it, and she confirmed it was true

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    Commenters urged the guy to take a paternity test before taking any action

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    Two weeks later, he came back with an update about the results of the paternity test

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    “No coming back from this,” the commenters concluded sadly

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    Other commenters shared similar stories, demonstrating that false paternity is more common than we might think

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    Ace
    Community Member
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    1 hour ago

    Did the "friend" think he was doing dad a favour by telling him this? I can;t help but wonder if they wouldn't all be a lot happier had this never come to light. Obivously, 'never' is hard to guarantee, but..

    FreeTheUnicorn
    Community Member
    1 hour ago

    Why would a DNA test matter? You know she cheated and you're either ok to get past it or not. If OP really means he's going to stand by his daughter, there is no point in blowing up the kid's life about who the s***m donor is.

    Jonas Fisher
    Community Member
    41 minutes ago

    It would change what needs to be told to the kid.

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    Ace
    Community Member
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    1 hour ago

    Did the "friend" think he was doing dad a favour by telling him this? I can;t help but wonder if they wouldn't all be a lot happier had this never come to light. Obivously, 'never' is hard to guarantee, but..

    FreeTheUnicorn
    Community Member
    1 hour ago

    Why would a DNA test matter? You know she cheated and you're either ok to get past it or not. If OP really means he's going to stand by his daughter, there is no point in blowing up the kid's life about who the s***m donor is.

    Jonas Fisher
    Community Member
    41 minutes ago

    It would change what needs to be told to the kid.

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