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Influencer’s Daughter Passes Away At Christmas Just One Year After Other Daughter Lost Her Life
An influencer’s daughter passed away on Christmas day, just one year after the mom lost another daughter.
Melissa Mae Carlton and her husband, Tom Carlton, are grieving the sudden loss of their youngest daughter, Molly.
In April 2024, the couple shared that their 9-year-old daughter, Abigail, had “unexpectedly passed over to the other side” after battling sepsis.
Highlights
- Melissa Mae Carlton lost her youngest daughter Molly suddenly on Christmas, just one year after losing her older daughter Abigail.
- Molly would often when Abigail would "come down" to be with her, Melissa shared.
- The influencer expressed that the family is "confused and shocked," adding that the two passings may be connected.
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Influencer Melissa Mae Carlton announced that her youngest daughter, Molly, passed away suddenly on Christmas
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“There are no words to express how heartbroken and devastated we are,” Melissa wrote on social media at the time, describing Abigail as “the sweetest most loving, generous, funny girl.”
This month, Melissa shared the devastating news that her youngest daughter had also passed away.
“On Christmas morning, our sweet Molly girl, and her big sister Abi were reunited,” the mother wrote on Instagram on Friday (December 26).
Image credits: melissamaecarlton
“This is the only thing giving me even a small sense of comfort. Molly missed her sister so deeply. She would often ask me, ‘Mummy, when is Jesus coming back so Abi can come down?'” she added.
The family has not revealed Molly’s age at the time of the tragedy.
Melissa, who is also a mother to Harry and Lily, shared that the family is in a profound state of “confusion and shock” following Molly’s sudden passing.
The tragedy follows the April 2024 passing of Melissa and Tom’s daughter, Abigail
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Hours after the announcement, she shared another post in which she gave further details about the tragedy.
She stated that, while the family had not been given an official diagnosis for Molly, experts hypothesized that the passing of the two sisters may be connected.
“The doctors believe Molly had a genetic heart condition and suspect this may have been the case with Abi as well,” she wrote.
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Melissa explained that Molly was monitored in the hospital before she lost her life, which provided answers the family was never able to get when Abigail became sick.
“I’ve never felt satisfied with the answers we were given for her,” she said of Abigail’s loss, which at the time was attributed to sepsis, a widespread inflammation throughout the body triggered by an infection.
She explained that if Abigail also had the genetic condition, any “minor illness could potentially trigger a sudden cardiac event.”
Melissa shared that doctors now suspect both girls’ passings may be linked to a genetic heart condition
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The mother, who is originally from the UK, said doctors did everything they could to save Molly’s life.
“Paramedics were stationed just three minutes away and arrived quickly. The pediatric trauma center was only fifteen minutes from where we were.
“We were in the best possible place, with everything aligned for the best conditions and the best outcome.”
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She added that Molly’s body “fought so hard,” but doctors informed the family that her cardiac condition “is, in most cases, not survivable.”
Melissa hopes her daughters’ cases will help other families who have experienced SUDC (sudden unexpected d*ath in children), a term used to describe the passing of a child aged 12 months or older that remains unexplained after a thorough investigation.
“I hope we will get more answers soon and will be doing more genetic investigation for our family now we have possibly a clearer avenue to explore,” Melissa concluded. “We are grateful for every single one of you.”
“When we lose someone, we are constantly losing them in many different ways,” the mom expressed
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On December 2, Melissa had shared a post reflecting on the grieving process following the loss of her 9-year-old, Abigail.
“I’m in [a] hard and confusing place in my grief. I’m happy but also very sad,” she wrote on Instagram.
“I heard someone say as grievers, we don’t get much. We get a funeral … and then life moves on the same as normal. But when we lose someone, we are constantly losing them in many different ways.”
Image credits: melissamaecarlton
She explained that grief doesn’t have a clear beginning or end; instead, it’s a process that leaves its mark on a person’s life. For parents who have lost their children, she said, it can feel like “burying them over and over again.”
“Some days I don’t want to wake up in this body and feel this pain again,” she said.
Melissa had shared a post about grieving Abigail’s loss days before the second tragedy
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Melissa added that her family feels incomplete without Abigail and that she wanted her Christmas celebrations to feel cozy rather than aesthetic.
“One thing child loss has taught me is that I’m done wanting my house to feel like a show home,” she captioned a since-deleted Instagram post on December 11.
“I want it cozy. Lived in. With clear evidence that children live here. I regret ever having two Christmas trees. One for us and one for the kids. From now on, the tree is the kids’ tree.”
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She shared that the family had made “Abi angels” for the Christmas tree in honor of their late sister and daughter.
After losing her second daughter on December 25, Melissa shared on Instagram, “We are devastated. In disbelief. Confused and in shock. We are exhausted and shaken after a day filled with trauma and heartbreak.
“I feel numb. I cannot yet accept that this is real.”
Abigail was 9 years old, while Molly’s age at the time of the tragedy has not been revealed
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According to the SUDC Foundation, approximately 500 children in the US pass away from SUDC each year.
A 2014 study published in the National Library of Medicine suggested that febrile seizures and a family history of febrile seizures may be markers of a process that leads to SUDC.
Social media users expressed grief over the devastating passing of the two sisters
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Norfolk and good 3 hours ago (edited)
It absolutely is possible and sadly not all that uncommon for a couple to have more than one child die from the same thing. People shouldn't speculate and jump to conclusions with zero evidence. Some people have been wrongly imprisoned for k*****g their children because people put two and two together and came up with five. In the UK, there was Sally Clark who spent three years in prison for the m****r of her two sons until it was found that both children had died from natural causes. She was so traumatised that she drank herself to death four years after being released.
Emilu 3 hours ago
Kathleen Folbigg in Australia. She was convicted of murdering her four infant children and imprisoned for over twenty years; her conviction was overturned due to medical evidence. Her two daughters had tested positive for a one in 35-million heart condition that could essentially cause them to drop dead suddenly, and her two sons had tested positive for a condition I don't know much about, but essentially a death sentence.
Load More Replies... Beth Wheeler 5 hours ago
Nobody knows what happened except them and the doctors. If they think that both kids had a genetic heart defect there should be autopsies on both of them. There would have to be an exhumation on Abi. They need to do DNA testing on the other kids and the parents ASAP. I've worked in hospitals for almost 30 years and have seen families with more than 1 kid with the sane problems. When I worked in Nuclear Medicine we had a little boy with cancer, his older sister had died almost 3 years before he got sick. The parents were talking about having another baby. The little boy died and they split up the next year. Anytime we found out 1 of the kids died we would cry either during a break or on the way home. Heartbreaking to lose 1 of your kids but to lose another 1 the next year at Christmas. The only way I wouldn't be completely destroyed is having my other kids & husband. Hopefully they will start testing soon.
Faye Bosworth 5 hours ago
As a health professional, i completely agree with your thoughts, but i also wanted to say im so sorry you had to go through those experiences.. it never gets any easier 💔
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FranSinclair 3 hours ago (edited)
Some of yinz folks shouldn't be doing that stuff! That's the stuff that comes back to you when you're down. I think there's certain things in life we need to take for truth until shown proof otherwise. (S****l assult for example) You don't point at a grieving parent and say munchausen without certainty. Put yourself in that position! I'd rather be kind and wrong than to kick someone at their lowest point, undeserved. It won't take you long to find the names of mothers who sat in jail, alone, mourning a baby they just held in their arms without a person to turn to for something they had no control over. Or the number of times a genetic disorder was discovered bc the death of a second child.The times in middle school kids joked "a dingo ate my baby!" While a real woman longed for answers while longing for their child. We gotta stop pointing fingers and start throwing up ✌️ 🫶 👍
Norfolk and good 3 hours ago (edited)
It absolutely is possible and sadly not all that uncommon for a couple to have more than one child die from the same thing. People shouldn't speculate and jump to conclusions with zero evidence. Some people have been wrongly imprisoned for k*****g their children because people put two and two together and came up with five. In the UK, there was Sally Clark who spent three years in prison for the m****r of her two sons until it was found that both children had died from natural causes. She was so traumatised that she drank herself to death four years after being released.
Emilu 3 hours ago
Kathleen Folbigg in Australia. She was convicted of murdering her four infant children and imprisoned for over twenty years; her conviction was overturned due to medical evidence. Her two daughters had tested positive for a one in 35-million heart condition that could essentially cause them to drop dead suddenly, and her two sons had tested positive for a condition I don't know much about, but essentially a death sentence.
Load More Replies... Beth Wheeler 5 hours ago
Nobody knows what happened except them and the doctors. If they think that both kids had a genetic heart defect there should be autopsies on both of them. There would have to be an exhumation on Abi. They need to do DNA testing on the other kids and the parents ASAP. I've worked in hospitals for almost 30 years and have seen families with more than 1 kid with the sane problems. When I worked in Nuclear Medicine we had a little boy with cancer, his older sister had died almost 3 years before he got sick. The parents were talking about having another baby. The little boy died and they split up the next year. Anytime we found out 1 of the kids died we would cry either during a break or on the way home. Heartbreaking to lose 1 of your kids but to lose another 1 the next year at Christmas. The only way I wouldn't be completely destroyed is having my other kids & husband. Hopefully they will start testing soon.
Faye Bosworth 5 hours ago
As a health professional, i completely agree with your thoughts, but i also wanted to say im so sorry you had to go through those experiences.. it never gets any easier 💔
Load More Replies... FranSinclair 3 hours ago (edited)
Some of yinz folks shouldn't be doing that stuff! That's the stuff that comes back to you when you're down. I think there's certain things in life we need to take for truth until shown proof otherwise. (S****l assult for example) You don't point at a grieving parent and say munchausen without certainty. Put yourself in that position! I'd rather be kind and wrong than to kick someone at their lowest point, undeserved. It won't take you long to find the names of mothers who sat in jail, alone, mourning a baby they just held in their arms without a person to turn to for something they had no control over. Or the number of times a genetic disorder was discovered bc the death of a second child.The times in middle school kids joked "a dingo ate my baby!" While a real woman longed for answers while longing for their child. We gotta stop pointing fingers and start throwing up ✌️ 🫶 👍
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