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No one’s immune to annoying habits; and by that, I mean both having them or finding them frustrating when others exhibit theirs. That’s likely one of the reasons people find weaponized incompetence so bothersome. It might not be a habit per se, but it does often entail people leaving empty cartons of milk in the fridge or failing to clean up after themselves, for instance.

These are just a couple of examples of such incompetence, often also referred to as strategic, when people pretend they are unable to perform a certain task—not well enough, at least—in order to avoid unwanted responsibility. Seeking to paint a clearer picture of what that is, we have gathered more examples on the list below, this time depicting boyfriends and husbands engaging in weaponized incompetence. Scroll down to view the images, but beware, some of them might make you quite annoyed just by looking at them.

#1

My Boyfriend's Job Title Is Actually "Solutions Engineer." This Was His Solution

My Boyfriend's Job Title Is Actually "Solutions Engineer." This Was His Solution

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Iampenny
Community Member
2 years ago

Well it IS a solution (maybe not a good one, but it's a solution)

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    #2

    My Boyfriend : *Does The Dishes* The Sink :

    My Boyfriend : *Does The Dishes* The Sink :

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    Kylie
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    Ugh. My pet hate apart from a sink piled high with dishes is people leaving actual FOOD on them.

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    #3

    Husband’s Bedside Table That I Am Making A Point Of Not Doing For Him

    Husband’s Bedside Table That I Am Making A Point Of Not Doing For Him

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    JammaCoast2Coast
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    This is how you get ants

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    #4

    How My Boyfriend Packed Up A Moving Box With Kitchen Stuff While I Was At Work

    How My Boyfriend Packed Up A Moving Box With Kitchen Stuff While I Was At Work

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    Undercover
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    Throwing knifes in between random stuff is dangerous af, I'd be PISSED!

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    #5

    When My Husband Puts The Dishes Away

    When My Husband Puts The Dishes Away

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    Sunshine Lady
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    This can't be my husband, I wouldn't be able to live with that.

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    #6

    Husband Put His Pants Right Beside The Laundry Basket Instead Of Just In It

    Husband Put His Pants Right Beside The Laundry Basket Instead Of Just In It

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    JuniorCJ82
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    And that is where they will stay until he puts them either in the basket or washing machine.

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    #7

    My Husband Carries Doughnuts Vertically

    My Husband Carries Doughnuts Vertically

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    Iampenny
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    MONSTER!

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    #8

    This Is How My Husband Opens The Bread If I Don’t Get To It First. Just Rips A Hole In The Bag And Leaves It Open Like This Too

    This Is How My Husband Opens The Bread If I Don’t Get To It First. Just Rips A Hole In The Bag And Leaves It Open Like This Too

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    Lunar Rat
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    Grounds for divorce!

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    #9

    My Adult Boyfriend Thinks This Counts As Clean (No That's Not Rust)

    My Adult Boyfriend Thinks This Counts As Clean (No That's Not Rust)

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    ORSOrama
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    These totally look like when my husband washes dishes and pans. So I wash them all again, every time

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    #10

    Came To The Kitchen To Find Out That My Boyfriend Hung The Towel Like This

    Came To The Kitchen To Find Out That My Boyfriend Hung The Towel Like This

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    Kylie
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    At least it's the tag and not the towel.

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    #11

    Found My Husband's Stash Of Empty Wrappers

    Found My Husband's Stash Of Empty Wrappers

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    Deborah B
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    Put them in his car.

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    #12

    My Husband Put This Much Milk Back In The Fridge

    My Husband Put This Much Milk Back In The Fridge

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    Kylie
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited)

    As a mother of 2 sons, I believe that's a male thing. Along with holding the fridge door open while staring deeply into it.

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    #13

    How My Husband Wrote The Date That He Opened This Orange Juice

    How My Husband Wrote The Date That He Opened This Orange Juice

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    Kylie
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    He's not wrong lol

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    #14

    When Your Husband Does The Laundry

    When Your Husband Does The Laundry

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    Kylie
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    Oh come on. No-one is THAT stupid surely?

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    #15

    My Husband Bought Memory Foam For “His Side Of The Bed”

    My Husband Bought Memory Foam For “His Side Of The Bed”

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    Kylie
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    Like that's going to work? But really, I think there might be a deeper issue here.

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    #16

    The Way My Husband Unpacked The Book Boxes

    The Way My Husband Unpacked The Book Boxes

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    SCamp
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    Oh that’s just wrong

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    #17

    How My Husband Stacks Plates And Platters

    How My Husband Stacks Plates And Platters

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    Winnie the Moo
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    I really could not live with someone like this…

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    #18

    The Way My Husband Wraps Gifts

    The Way My Husband Wraps Gifts

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    Phoenix
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    This is hilarious! A for effort

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    #19

    The Only Thing I Asked For Was Hamburger Buns. Husband Comes Back With This And This Only

    The Only Thing I Asked For Was Hamburger Buns. Husband Comes Back With This And This Only

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    Kylie
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    Technically you can cut it into bun sizes?

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    #20

    My Husband Puts This Much Food Back In The Fridge To Avoid Doing The Dish

    My Husband Puts This Much Food Back In The Fridge To Avoid Doing The Dish

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    Nurichwersonst
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    Had one of them, too... I'm so glad, that i'm single again... 😉

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    #21

    The Way My Husband Stacks Up His Used Coffee Spoons In Our Spoon Rest, And Won’t Put Them In The Dishwasher!

    The Way My Husband Stacks Up His Used Coffee Spoons In Our Spoon Rest, And Won’t Put Them In The Dishwasher!

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    PrettyJoyBird
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    Absolutely not

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    #22

    How My Boyfriend Uses Cheese... I-

    How My Boyfriend Uses Cheese... I-

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    Dan
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    Abuses cheese 😂

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    #23

    I Tore My Rotator Cuff So My Husband Told Me He’d Finish The Interior Painting On Our Downstairs. He Says He’s Done

    I Tore My Rotator Cuff So My Husband Told Me He’d Finish The Interior Painting On Our Downstairs. He Says He’s Done

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    Phoenix
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    I hope he's joking...

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    #24

    Husband Put Up The Groceries Today…

    Husband Put Up The Groceries Today…

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    Charlie the Cat
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    What's the bet that Paul lives in his mums basement. He is currently jacking off to all his amusing comments on here.🤡

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    #25

    Recently Moved In With My Boyfriend Who Has A Habit Of Leaving His Clothes On The Floor, I Asked Him To Put His Jeans Away In His Closet And This Is What I Found Later

    Recently Moved In With My Boyfriend Who Has A Habit Of Leaving His Clothes On The Floor, I Asked Him To Put His Jeans Away In His Closet And This Is What I Found Later

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    Ziggyc
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    His closet,his jeans..who cares

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    #26

    My Husband Leaving Car Like That Every Single Time I'm About To Use It

    My Husband Leaving Car Like That Every Single Time I'm About To Use It

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    Phoenix
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    This is really inconsiderate

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    #27

    My Husband Keeps Opening New Jars Of Jam Before He's Even Finished The Last One

    My Husband Keeps Opening New Jars Of Jam Before He's Even Finished The Last One

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    Emerald Joanna
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    But, why do you have that many jars of jam? 🤔

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    #28

    My Husband Throws Away Trash Directly Into The Pantry

    My Husband Throws Away Trash Directly Into The Pantry

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    Phoenix
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    Time to take out the trash, and I don't mean clean out the pantry.

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    #29

    Husband Attempted To Put The Silverware Away

    Husband Attempted To Put The Silverware Away

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    Phoenix
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    I'm not sure I'd even call that an attempt.

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    #30

    The Way My Boyfriend Sliced This Avocado

    The Way My Boyfriend Sliced This Avocado

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    Phoenix
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    Looking at the slice on the far right, it appears he does intend to remove the pit.

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    #31

    My Husband Leaves A Tiny Bit In The Bottom Of Snack Bags And Puts Them Back In The Cabinet

    My Husband Leaves A Tiny Bit In The Bottom Of Snack Bags And Puts Them Back In The Cabinet

    He says he’s “saving it for later.” there are now ten bags with little or next to nothing in them. The problem is he never eats them, buys new ones, and after a few weeks I have to throw them away

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    JuniorCJ82
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    Make him a zombie bag and force him to eat it.

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    #32

    Instead Of Putting A Bag In The Trash My Husband Puts It On The Counter For Me

    Instead Of Putting A Bag In The Trash My Husband Puts It On The Counter For Me

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    Giraffy Window
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited)

    Gross. Tell him to stop, that's disgusting. If he won't then move it to his computer desk or favorite spot on the couch.

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    #33

    How My Boyfriend Folds Socks Versus How They Should Be Folded

    How My Boyfriend Folds Socks Versus How They Should Be Folded

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    Ziggyc
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    Yip as long I as I don't have to wear them,I couldn't care less how my husband would fold his socks

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    #34

    My Husband Leaves The Dead Bodies Of Bugs Wherever He [Smashes] Them Because He Thinks It Will Keep The Other Bugs Away

    My Husband Leaves The Dead Bodies Of Bugs Wherever He [Smashes] Them Because He Thinks It Will Keep The Other Bugs Away

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    Phoenix
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    Let this be a warning to those who dare enter

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    #35

    Mom’s Boyfriend Leaves Snotty Tissues Under A Table In The Living Room

    Mom’s Boyfriend Leaves Snotty Tissues Under A Table In The Living Room

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    Iampenny
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    This is just plain disgusting.

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    #36

    Husband Put This Butter Container Back In The Refrigerator

    Husband Put This Butter Container Back In The Refrigerator

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    Omayya Vohra
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    Genuinely never seen a butter dish cleaned out this well, kudos where kudos is due 😁

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    #37

    Where My Husband Put His Socks

    Where My Husband Put His Socks

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    Vinay Pai
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    Yeah, can't fit them through those holes.

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    #38

    How My Husband Puts Back Cereal

    How My Husband Puts Back Cereal

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    Nurichwersonst
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    I guess, Paul feels personally attacked?

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    #39

    Husband Changed The Bathroom Light Bulbs... I Am Annoyed

    Husband Changed The Bathroom Light Bulbs... I Am Annoyed

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    Domi Lee Bjelka
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    Warm-cold-warm-cold-warm. Problem solved 😁

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    #40

    This Can Has Been Directly In Front Of My Boyfriend's Sink Side For Two Weeks And I've Chosen Not To Toss It Just To See If He Would. He Still Hasn't

    This Can Has Been Directly In Front Of My Boyfriend's Sink Side For Two Weeks And I've Chosen Not To Toss It Just To See If He Would. He Still Hasn't

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    PrettyJoyBird
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    Uh oh that is Paul's ↕️

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    #41

    When My Husband Loads The Dishwasher

    When My Husband Loads The Dishwasher

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    Cathelijne Van
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    If it's a good brand dishwasher this could be okay

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    #42

    My Husband Leaves His Takeaway Containers In The Microwave After He Finishes Eating Instead Of Throwing It In The Trash

    My Husband Leaves His Takeaway Containers In The Microwave After He Finishes Eating Instead Of Throwing It In The Trash

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    Phoenix
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    Wait, what? Why?!

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    #43

    Husband Keeps Putting His Shoes On Top Of My Shoes

    Husband Keeps Putting His Shoes On Top Of My Shoes

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    Phoenix
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    No, just no.

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    #44

    My Husband Left Only One M&m In The Dish

    My Husband Left Only One M&m In The Dish

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    Gustav Gallifrey
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    Voice from the next room: "Did you eat all of those M&Ms?" Me: "Certainly not."

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    #45

    My Husband Always Puts The Empty Nasty Egg Shells Back In The Egg Holder Instead Of In The Garbage. 🤢

    My Husband Always Puts The Empty Nasty Egg Shells Back In The Egg Holder Instead Of In The Garbage. 🤢

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    Gustav Gallifrey
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    OK, that really is just stupid.

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    #46

    Husband Ate All The Chips And Left Me One

    Husband Ate All The Chips And Left Me One

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    Nurichwersonst
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    My ghosh... Paul clearly has a problem. 😅

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    #47

    Husband Puts His Coffee Mug Next To 2 Empty Coasters

    Husband Puts His Coffee Mug Next To 2 Empty Coasters

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    Huddo's sister
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    I always forget to use the coasters. Even the one I made with my name on it. I don't really care that much, I'm the one who owns and cleans the coffee table.

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    #48

    The Way My Husband Changes The Tp Roll

    The Way My Husband Changes The Tp Roll

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    CF
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    So so many reasons on this page why I'm staying single

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    #49

    My Boyfriend’s Solution To Me Being Mad That He Finishes Everything In The House Without Buying A Replacement

    My Boyfriend’s Solution To Me Being Mad That He Finishes Everything In The House Without Buying A Replacement

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    Ross “Sarcastic Dad”
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    Paul, I made it through this entire list just so I could downvote all your terrible comments. I get to the last one and you didn't say "F**k off"!?! It's your catchphrase, my dude. You let me down.

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    #50

    My Boyfriend Grabs A New Roll Before Finishing The Last One

    My Boyfriend Grabs A New Roll Before Finishing The Last One

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    LadyRougarou
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    Mine does this too! It drives me insane 🙄

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    #51

    My Husband Thinks This Pizza Isn't Burnt

    My Husband Thinks This Pizza Isn't Burnt

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    Sunshine Lady
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    He probably just likes it like that.

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    #52

    My Boyfriend Always Takes Off His Socks When He Sits Down On The Couch And Leaves Them There

    My Boyfriend Always Takes Off His Socks When He Sits Down On The Couch And Leaves Them There

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    Gustav Gallifrey
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    So, you pick up his socks, get them wet under the tap, put them in a freezer bag, and then put them in the freezer. When he asks 'where are all my socks?', you can tell him.

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    #53

    The Way My Husband Puts Away The Ketchup

    The Way My Husband Puts Away The Ketchup

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    Phoenix
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    Compared to the rest of this list I'd say this one's a keeper.

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    #54

    Asked My Boyfriend To Cut My Sandwich In Half

    Asked My Boyfriend To Cut My Sandwich In Half

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    Gustav Gallifrey
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    Not his fault! You did not specify EQUAL halves.

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