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Wife Asks Husband To Take A Day Off Work For Her Surgery, He Refuses, Saying It’s Not An Emergency
Young woman lying in hospital bed looking worried before surgery, illustrating refusal to take day off work for surgery

Wife Asks Husband To Take A Day Off Work For Her Surgery, He Refuses, Saying It’s Not An Emergency

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Medical procedures can be scary. While some of us shake in fear even at the thought of having our blood drawn, surgery makes many people fairly anxious. Research shows that about 60-80% of surgical patients feel preoperative anxiety, and sometimes it doesn’t even matter if you’re having a minor surgery: the nerves of being in a hospital just creep up on you regardless.

This woman was having surgery on her hand and asked her husband to accompany her. She needed the support since she moved to Switzerland from the U.S. and didn’t speak perfect German, but her husband thought she didn’t need him there. Refusing to take a day off work, he basically told her to get over it and go alone.

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    But the husband refused, not taking a day off work because it was not an emergency

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    Some European commenters pointed out that the husband’s reaction might be a cultural thing

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    Others disagreed, questioning the husband’s devotion and adding that the hospital staff will judge him

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    I am a Visual Editor at Bored Panda. While studying at Vilnius Tech University, I learned how to use Photoshop and decided to continue mastering it at Bored Panda. I am interested in learning UI/UX design and creating unique designs for apps, games and websites. On my spare time, I enjoy playing video and board games, watching TV shows and movies and reading funny posts on the internet.

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    Mari
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    1 hour ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think it's a cultural difference. Many Europeans consider doctor's appointments to be a private matter and don't bring their partner along unless it's an emergency. Just talk to your partner about what you want.

    Mari
    Community Member
    1 hour ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think it's a cultural difference. Many Europeans consider doctor's appointments to be a private matter and don't bring their partner along unless it's an emergency. Just talk to your partner about what you want.

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