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Husband Sulks Through His Birthday, Blames Wife For Not Making It “Special” Enough
Interview With Expert
Some people celebrate their birthdays like any other day—nothing too big, nothing too small. Then, there are those on opposite ends of the spectrum—the ones who count down the days like it’s a national holiday and those who’d rather pretend the day doesn’t exist at all.
Speaking of which, a woman shared how her husband’s birthday went completely off the rails. Despite her planning a thoughtful celebration, he found something to complain about at every turn—whining about breakfast, dismissing his gifts, and even sulking over not getting a second party. As his moodiness dragged on, their kids called him out for being ungrateful. Keep reading to find out how this birthday meltdown played out!
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Deciding to host a grand celebration for a loved one is a personal choice that should come from the heart
These days, many people turn to event planners to make birthdays extra special for their kids, partners, or parents. Whether it’s a cozy family gathering or an extravagant themed celebration like Kylie Jenner’s Hello Kitty-themed party for Stormi, birthday events have taken on a whole new level of creativity. From luxurious décor to over-the-top experiences, people are going all out to celebrate their loved ones.
To understand what people really look for in birthday celebrations, we spoke with event planner Riddhi Doshi, who has over a decade of experience in the industry. Based in Mumbai, she specializes in creating unforgettable events, both indoors and at outdoor locations. She shared her insights on how birthday parties have evolved over the years and why people are now willing to spend big on them.
“The event industry has always been big, especially when it comes to weddings,” Riddhi explained. “But birthday celebrations have grown significantly over time. What used to be simple home gatherings with balloons and cake has now turned into grand, themed affairs that require careful planning and execution.”
She reminisced about how birthdays were celebrated during her own childhood. “When I was a kid, my parents would decorate the house with streamers, organize a few games, and serve some snacks. It was simple but fun,” she said. “Back then, the excitement came from being with friends and eating cake.”
As she grew older, she started noticing a shift in how birthdays were celebrated. “I remember my sister’s birthday party at a gaming zone when she was a teenager. At the time, that felt like such a big deal,” she shared. “It was something different, something that made the day extra special.”
The party planning industry has expanded significantly as parents and partners look for special ways to celebrate
When Riddhi started her career in event planning, she initially focused on weddings. However, she quickly realized that birthdays were becoming just as significant. “We started getting more and more requests for birthday parties,” she said. “People wanted to create unique experiences that would be memorable for their loved ones.”
From picture-perfect themes to extravagant décor, birthday parties today are all about making a statement. “People want to go beyond just cake and balloons,” Riddhi explained. “They’re looking for personalized touches, whether it’s a specially curated menu, stunning backdrops, or custom invitations. They want their celebrations to be one-of-a-kind.”
She recalled one of the most extravagant birthday requests she had received. “We had a client who wanted to surprise his girlfriend with a Paris-themed birthday party. We even built a replica of the Eiffel Tower to make the event feel authentic,” she shared. “It’s these unique details that make events so special.”
Even those who prefer smaller gatherings still find ways to make birthdays feel grand. “Some clients add personal touches like custom tableware, themed photo booths, or even curated playlists to enhance the experience,” she said. “It’s all about making the person feel special, no matter how big or small the party.”
At the end of the day, Riddhi believes that birthday celebrations are about creating happiness. “Whether it’s an intimate dinner or a grand celebration, the goal is to make memories,” she said. “And we love being part of those moments, making dreams come true with each event we plan.”
In this particular case, it seemed like the main issue wasn’t the celebration itself but how much effort was (or wasn’t) appreciated. What are your thoughts? Do you prefer extravagant birthday parties or simple, heartfelt gatherings? Let us know!
People online criticized the husband for acting like a spoiled child instead of appreciating the effort put into his special day
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Lyoness 9 months ago
Another one I sincerely hope is rage bait, because this is insane. He behaved like a spoiled toddler with a personality disorder. No trauma justifies treating your partner like this. I agree with the comments that say not to do anything next year but I also wonder, is he picking fights to distance himself emotionally because he's cheating? Regardless, he's an AH.
Broccoli 9 months ago
I don’t think he remembers or knows his wife’s birthday
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Broccoli 9 months ago
This man is a walking red flag the size of Africa. Even though it would be helpful to have more context, this man is absolutely behaving like a spoiled-a*s toddler
Stannous Flouride 9 months ago
I say, "More red flags than a Beijing May Day parade."
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Lyoness 9 months ago
Another one I sincerely hope is rage bait, because this is insane. He behaved like a spoiled toddler with a personality disorder. No trauma justifies treating your partner like this. I agree with the comments that say not to do anything next year but I also wonder, is he picking fights to distance himself emotionally because he's cheating? Regardless, he's an AH.
Broccoli 9 months ago
I don’t think he remembers or knows his wife’s birthday
Load More Replies... Broccoli 9 months ago
This man is a walking red flag the size of Africa. Even though it would be helpful to have more context, this man is absolutely behaving like a spoiled-a*s toddler
Stannous Flouride 9 months ago
I say, "More red flags than a Beijing May Day parade."
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