65 Times Parents Vented On Social Media But Instead Amused People Online (August Edition)
Kids move according to their own logic. They believe Mom and Dad have supernatural abilities to fix anything and know where everything in the house is. They can burst into tears because of the uncut bread crusts on their PB&J. They may even ask a brutally honest question that may leave all the adults in the room flabbergasted.
And as a result, moments of comedy gold may ensue. Here are some examples, as shared by the parents themselves. You may sense a bit of exhaustion and frustration in their posts, but you can also sense the fulfillment they have in raising a child.
If you’re planning to have kids, these posts should clue you in on what to expect.
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Many parents may struggle to understand their young kids, especially when they act out. As a result, they may lose their patience trying to deal with these “annoying behaviors.”
However, experts say that these “bad things” that kids do are actually signs of good parenting. One of them, believe it or not, is when a child says they “hate” you or that you’re the “worst parent.”
In the d**d of winter, in Fairbanks Alaska. We'll be home soon honey!
As clinical psychologist Dr. Becky Kennedy tells Good Housekeeping, when a child vocalizes strong emotions instead of internalizing them, they believe their parents can handle their big feelings.
“Kids say this when they're flooded and can't access their words for the real feeling underneath, usually hurt, disappointment, or feeling unheard,” Dr. Kennedy said. “A kid who's terrified of their parent's reaction doesn't risk saying this.”
A child arguing against limits set by their parents may seem like spoiled-brat behavior. However, Dr. Kennedy says it can also show trust and even a belief that the relationship survives their worst moments.
“If your child calmly accepted it and walked away? That might mean they're complying from fear, not learning to tolerate disappointment,” she explained.
Mom and my uncle got into a fight on Thanksgiving. That Christmas, my brothers and I got tin drums from him.
I feel for you. My twins used to sit right outside the door when I went to the bathroom.
Many people who post their child-rearing anecdotes in a humorous way fit the definition of “fun parents.” They’re the ones who embrace their playful sides and would likely let go of rigid rules to enjoy the moment with their kids.
While being the fun parent may seem like a good idea, experts say it also has some downsides. According to clinical psychologist Dr. Tamar Kahane, the problem may arise between the couple.
My sleep schedule has changed to where I''m asleep when they're at school and awake all night while they sleep. I think my chemo meds messed me up. Anyway, I don't know whether to be grateful or feel bad. I mean, we interact in the morning before school and in the evening. They're teenagers though. I think my presence annoys them anyway.
Speaking with Parents.com, Dr. Kahane says the failure to establish and maintain boundaries may lead to friction.
“When one parent struggles to maintain boundaries, it leaves the other parent feeling like the police officer, frustrated and alone in their parental role,” she said.
I mean... all A's and one very logical comment? That is an absolute win in my book.
There are many ways to be a fun-loving parent without straining the relationship. Dr. Kahane says it can be as simple as bonding with the child through an activity like baking, reading silly books, or listening to music.
But her biggest piece of advice is to let the child lead playtime and immerse yourself in their world.
“Take a moment to carefully listen and observe as you enter their world of play. Ask them to assign you a role or just narrate their play rather than directing it,” Dr. Kahane said.
If you think that's bad... when my kids were young, I had them convinced that they didn't like dark chocolate so I could pilfer it out of their Halloween bags. (Yes, I'm ashamed of myself and have been in therapy; but in my defense, DARK CHOCOLATE!)
The second of my babies just entered her 30s. You will miss these days. I promise you
This is how I found out i've been accidentally referring to my mum in korean. i'm not even remotely asian, i just called her eomma because it felt natural, didnt even know it was a word in any language. (I know amma is tamil but they're pronounced similarly and I did a bit of googling lol)
Has he at least been told about the Bermuda Triangle, and piranhas?
I’m sorry. WHAT?!!! Who TF expects a person to eat lunch at 9:30 and then go the rest of the day? This is insane!
Oldest started kindergarten, youngest stated "I'm going too". We were worried as she was a bit headstrong as 3 yr olds are apt to be. First day, she goes off to play with the kitchen set while we got oldest settled. "Time to go".."Ok". thinking well, THAT went well. She got out near the car and realized she'd been scammed and began a classic meltdown. I was heading to work and my wife was attempting to put her in the car while she was hanging onto the rain gutter resisting. The local cop drives by...stops, wife holds out the screaming snarling 3 yr old.."YOU WANT HER?". He slowly drives off.
I’m not sad. It’s like I gave birth to my three best friends. We talk about everything and the two that have moved out still call/text me daily
My oldest was 4 before she decided hotdogs were food and still puts ketchup on everything. Kids are weird
My son has memorised how many points each letter is worth in scrabble so now just tells me how much in scrabble random words are. For example Pneumonoultramicroscopicsilicovolcanoconiosis scores 68. He memorised that word by repeatedly watching Sonic 3. Autism does bring some truly unexpected skills.
I don't have children but I like to read about the problems parents have because it reminds me of the reason why I decided not to have any. But I did teach other people's children when I was a teacher and loved doing it . But was happy they went home at the end of the day. I admire any parent's that cope well with parenting
My son has memorised how many points each letter is worth in scrabble so now just tells me how much in scrabble random words are. For example Pneumonoultramicroscopicsilicovolcanoconiosis scores 68. He memorised that word by repeatedly watching Sonic 3. Autism does bring some truly unexpected skills.
I don't have children but I like to read about the problems parents have because it reminds me of the reason why I decided not to have any. But I did teach other people's children when I was a teacher and loved doing it . But was happy they went home at the end of the day. I admire any parent's that cope well with parenting
