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So I'm Bisexual, Fictosexual, and possibly Pansexual
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#1
Asexual and Aromantic, and aesthetic attraction is really annoying because I can’t just go up to someone and say that they’re attractive but like in a platonic way.
Final score:
6points
A Wild Bean (they/them/any) 2 years ago
THIS! I'm ace and aro-spec, and I've gotten so many platonic crushes lol... some people are just so cool and pretty and (platonically/aesthetically) attractive :)
Lex <3 (they/them) 2 years ago
Same tbh. It's like, I kind of like the person because they're attractive or cool or whatever, but at the same time I'm not romantically/sexually attracted to them? It's confusing af lmao
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#3
Old boring homo.
Final score:
4points
Bored Retsuko (Submission author) 2 years ago (edited)
Nope but compared to all the things listed by the youngsters in this post, it might seem so ;-)
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Bisexual with a touch of gay.
Final score:
4points
#5
aroace. - no attraction to anybody, romantically or sexually. i can only experience platonic effection(the type of love you feel towards friends and family) :DDD
Final score:
4points
#7
sapphic/lesbian oriented aroace (subtiliasexual and subtiliaromantic) :) i'm also loveless, lovequeer, non-partnering and sex-repulsed.
Final score:
3points
A Wild Bean (they/them/any) 2 years ago
What does subtiliasexual/subtiliaromantic mean? (I tried to google it, there are no results)
never-wake-up (fae/faer) (Submission author) 2 years ago
It’s 0 attraction as opposed to grey or demi for example ^^ like a way to signify 0 attraction without it sounding like people who feel attraction on the aspec spectrum are lesser or not aspec (explaining why because i’ve got people ask why they existed when there’s ace and aro already)
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#9
I would say that I am attracted to girls and enbys but I had a crush on a trans boy in my class, he actually looks sort of masculine but I still have a crush on him, maybe I am attracted to all genders at varying levels but boys don't often fit my taste (cool looking hair and cool fashion sense especially glasses)
Final score:
3points
Lex <3 (they/them) 2 years ago (edited)
Enbys are lowkey attractive ngl (For me, not in THAT way though, it's hard to explain haha)
Mermeow Overlord (they/them) (Submission author) 2 years ago (edited)
Also, about my crush, I have accepted that nothing will happen and I have gotten over having a crush on him just fine. I still look up to them, they are the coolest person I know (in my definition of cool).
Lex <3 (they/them) 2 years ago
hey mermeow, the trolls are taking over my truth or dare post. So far I've got 10+ spam posts from them in the past few hours.
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The issue is I'm in the middle of an identity crisis and might be pan, but I've gotten myself in the sticky situation of having all my accounts being based on being bi (don't judge me I was a dumbass tween) and I either can't change the names or it would take too much effort
Final score:
3points
CascadedFalls 2 years ago
Remember, It's completely okay if you're going through a identity exploration. Is it possible to create a new account or modify account names with minimal effort, as you mentioned earlier? Even if it takes some work, it could be worthwhile once you find what makes you most comfortable.
#11
I'm not entirely certain about my sexual orientation, but I do recognize that I have an attraction to the same gender.
Final score:
2points
#12
I am definitely heteroromantic, but seks is just plain disgusting so i think i might be asexual... I do very much have a crush who is opposite in the gender binary, so i definitely ain't gay
Final score:
2points
Mermeow Overlord (they/them) 2 years ago
I experience sexual attraction and I can confirm that it is the grossest form of attraction.
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#14
I've always thought I was straight before at the age of 29 I found myself having a huge crush on a woman. Now I dont know what I am but I think i may be somewhere between Heterosexual/Bisexual and gray asexual. So to all you young people/teens its OK not to know and its ok no to always identify the same way
Final score:
1point
#15
I’m pretty sure I’m lesbian but I also think I might be somewhere on the aroace spectrum because I rarely get crushes (especially on ppl I don’t know). I would like to be in a relationship (not yet though) so I’m definitely not aroace but it’s just hard to figure out.
Final score:
1point
A Wild Bean (they/them/any) 2 years ago
Ooh I just remembered I found this guide to help you figure out where on the aroace spectrum you are (obviously it's not always 100% accurate, but it might help a little!) arospec-fl...5-jpeg.jpg 
#16
I'm Neptunic, ace, and abroromantic.
Final score:
1point
Fly_Agaric_Frog (They/Them) (Submission author) 2 years ago
I hope I said that right? Abroromantic is kind of like being aromantic and then maybe demiromantic the next day right? Idk lol
A Wild Bean (they/them/any) 2 years ago
iirc it's a "romantic orientation that changes over time", so yeah that sounds right :)
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#19
I don’t really know. I’ve not been in love with anyone yet, like really, really in love but I’ve had some crushes on boys. (kind of? idk)
Final score:
0points
#21
Technically abrosexual, but I’m mainly a lesbian so o just call myself a lesbian for simplicity’s sake
Final score:
0points
#23
Achillean, demiromantic (maybe?) and a subset of asexual
Final score:
-1point
What do you think ?
Mermeow Overlord (they/them) 2 years ago
What does /gen mean? This is a very fitting place to ask this question.
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What does /gen mean? This is a very fitting place to ask this question.
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